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[QUOTE=BSouthgate;6895529]Thanks for that well-written explanation. I like Chinese women because I am used to them. I have been living among Chinese for about 22 years.[/QUOTE]I've lived my entire life among them and there are a few clear differences. Chinese woman are open and tell you what they're thinking (in both good and bad ways), as opposed to Japanese women who will not tell you anything if they think you wouldn't like hearing it (unless things get really bad). Both women care about money but it's quite different. A Japanese woman is usually not dumb enough to marry a poor man, but as long as that condition is met the relationship going forward is rarely centered on money. Whereas Chinese women can have distorted and unrealistic demands about money (often at the berating of their parents and peers), and relationships can often center around money (love is shown through money in superficial ways with expectations). Chinese women want to brag about your money to their family and friends, which is a bit too vulgar for Japanese women who do it discreetly. And most of all, the biggest difference. Most Chinese women don't hesitate to openly argue or fight over things, whether real or on principle. Japanese women know not to argue and a woman that does is considered a freak and un-womanly. I knew from a very young age I didn't want a Chinese wife. They have many good qualities I haven't listed (cooking, loyalty, love of children) but there are several big deal-breakers I just listed.

If you treat either woman right, they are loyal for life to the very end. I mean, I know plenty of in-laws that weren't treated right at all and were still somehow loyal to the very end. There are exceptions but this is the norm.

[QUOTE=DashingD;6893874]Anyone take the plunge with Nini yet? Real selfies supposedly but it's so hit and miss with these jgirls. Appreciate the help!
What website? Huge boobs are what I'm looking for. May start a Japanese/Chinese BbFS Titty tour soon. I haven't seen a Nini on top or Kgels.

Mostly if her face matches up and if her chest is that big. Noticed breast stats are usually altered[/QUOTE]What website? Huge boobs are what I'm looking for. May start a Japanese / Chinese BBFS Titty tour soon. I haven't seen a Nini on top or Kgels.

[QUOTE=FreeWally;6895493]My reason is not common, I grew up with some of them and they were more compatible as lovers. Chinese, Korea, and Japanese women can all be physically attractive to me, but Japanese women have a better personality. I have experience with all three, as well as white women. More Japanese women are considerate, avoid arguing and fighting, and along with Korean women all of them understand a man's needs. Few play dumb games about sex. That said, if you get married it better be for love because after having kids most want to retire from sex.

Again, my reasons are not common. I am not really interested in Japanese American or Asian American women, and white women mostly suck. The good ones get taken fast and the rest are fat or don't take care of themselves. Japanese women are rarely fat, they tend to take good care of themselves. Even if they aren't naturally cute or beautiful, they put in the work and effort to look good for others. And at least initially, they know how to treat a man. It's only when the relationship is secure that you would see their bad side. But I'd rather that than start bad and get worse.

Americanized women, including Asians, have very distorted attitudes towards men, some toxic and hypocritical. Men are not innocent of this either, but I am not interested in dating men. I choose women from Japan when it comes to romance. My ex girlfriends were Japanese, so naturally I enjoy jgirl providers more. You like what's familiar at that point. I suppose if I grew up with milfs jumping on me for great sex, I'd be into milfs instead. Who knows.

Japanese and Korean women are generally submissive. Very few white woman are submissive, even some that think they are. And that's okay. I'm just not interested.[/QUOTE]I recognize you are generalizing from your own perspective, but I find most of your observations to be true.

Would you or someone care to share what it's like dating long term a Latina? If possible break it down into LatAm countries like Mexico, Colombia, Argentina, Chile, Brazil, etc.

[QUOTE=Korosu;6896594]I recognize you are generalizing from your own perspective, but I find most of your observations to be true.

Would you or someone care to share what it's like dating long term a Latina? If possible break it down into LatAm countries like Mexico, Colombia, Argentina, Chile, Brazil, etc.[/QUOTE]I have some experience and knowledge, having had a Chinese wife for 14 years, made love with scores of Chinese women, pros, and girlfriends, and lived in China for 20 years.

Your assessment of Chinese women is right on. I know next to nothing about Japanese women aside from what you write and one experience with the Japanese tourist I picked up at the train station. That story is recounted in the posts below.

My situation is not the usual one, but it is not unique either. My Chinese wife is an angel. She is loyal, takes care of me, shares my values, and helps me fulfill them. She wants to visit her family but is not pushy or insistent, and I have grown to love her family. She brags to everyone about my professional accomplishments. We travel well together and can be next to each other every day for days and weeks without big arguments.

The only issue is sex. She does not like it.

Other Chinese women whom I have known love sex. My first girlfriend was a Chinese virgin. After I taught her how to make love, she wanted to suck and fuck all day. I have had many other Chinese lovers. They all were super sexual. In China, I made love almost weekly with girlfriends, acquaintances, and pros Lots of pros. They are the best sex partners in the world. I had a married Chinese girlfriend whose husband could not satisfy her. She fucked with me for about a year. Then found another guy and got pregnant by him. She pretended that the child was her husbands. I understand why there are so many Chinese.

Regarding money, my wife is very understanding. We are relatively poor, and she is not demanding or unhappy. She shares her wealth in China with me and my family. Some of the Chinese girlfriends I knew were often gold diggers. Some just liked making love and socializing. The pros had to be paid of course. But, not overly greedy. Once confident that they would be paid, they seemed to make love like any other woman, for pleasure and joy.

[QUOTE=BSouthgate;6896815]The only issue is sex. She does not like it.[/QUOTE]I know the grass is always greener somewhere else, but you have to marry for love and not sex. My ex girlfriends were great at sex but I did not love them. And I have in-laws who left their loyal wives for other women over sex, and literally were miserable the rest of their lives. I mean, they literally regretted it for the rest of their life until they died. I had to look them in the eye and not say anything about their decision because it would be kicking someone who was down. I got their coat after they died. It had a letter with a sum of money they left their mistress, that they thought would take them in after getting kicked out. They didn't.

So luckily I have been inoculated from the idea. There are other solutions for a sexless marriage. Some risky, but none as dumb as regret.

To answer the other person, I don't know much about Latina women other than I cannot make a good husband. I am not a macho man, I cannot fulfill what they want in a way they can show off to their families. I had one Latina SW that was really into me, but there is no point no matter how good the sex is, unless you can be the man she wants to be. So even if she wasn't a SW, it wouldn't be an option even though she had a great personality and was quite good of a person. How could she even show me to her parents, I'm just a mild mannered gentleman. A Clark Kent, not a Superman. A reliable guy, not a passionate guy. She'd leave me for someone else anyways.

Latina women want 100% the exact opposite of a Japanese woman. The ideal Japanese guy is almost effeminate, does not pick fights, is frugal, provides for his wife, is loyal. The ideal Latino guy is macho manly to the point of insecurity, is willing to fight if he has to, shows off, and is attractive to other women too. I won't go on but you get the idea. This is why so many Americans that have made a happy family with a Japanese wife in the US are engineers or otherwise 'non-alpha' guys. Usually very nice people, but not exactly manly people.

[QUOTE=FreeWally;6897463]I know the grass is always greener somewhere else, but you have to marry for love and not sex. My ex girlfriends were great at sex but I did not love them. And I have in-laws who left their loyal wives for other women over sex, and literally were miserable the rest of their lives. I mean, they literally regretted it for the rest of their life until they died. I had to look them in the eye and not say anything about their decision because it would be kicking someone who was down. I got their coat after they died. It had a letter with a sum of money they left their mistress, that they thought would take them in after getting kicked out. They didn't.

So luckily I have been inoculated from the idea. There are other solutions for a sexless marriage. Some risky, but none as dumb as regret.

To answer the other person, I don't know much about Latina women other than I cannot make a good husband. I am not a macho man, I cannot fulfill what they want in a way they can show off to their families. I had one Latina SW that was really into me, but there is no point no matter how good the sex is, unless you can be the man she wants to be. So even if she wasn't a SW, it wouldn't be an option even though she had a great personality and was quite good of a person.

Latina women want 100% the exact opposite of a Japanese woman. The ideal Japanese guy is almost effeminate, does not pick fights, provides for his wife, is loyal. The ideal Latino guy is macho manly to the point of insecurity, is willing to fight if he has to, and is attractive to other women too. I won't go on but you get the idea. This is why so many Americans that have made a happy family with a Japanese wife in the US are engineers or otherwise 'non-alpha' guys. Usually very nice people, but not exactly manly people.[/QUOTE]Totally agree. My partner is perfect. I would never want to change her in any way.

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Beginning financing my JAV Busty BBFS Tour.

So far NY is on the iteniary. Any other cities or places I should look? I'm seeking ultra busty JAVs at AMPs or bookers. Any intel helps. Leaving Cali and have a lot of free time to explore. I don't care the distance, just if they are similar to the pics parameters.

[QUOTE=SukijoSeiwaka;6897489]Beginning financing my JAV Busty BBFS Tour.

So far NY is on the iteniary. Any other cities or places I should look? I'm seeking ultra busty JAVs at AMPs or bookers. Any intel helps. Leaving Cali and have a lot of free time to explore. I don't care the distance, just if they are similar to the pics parameters.[/QUOTE]If distance is no object, then go to Japan.

Come to these forums for the mongering tips; stay here for the deep conversations on relationships and sharing advice and discussions on marriage.

[QUOTE=SukijoSeiwaka;6897489]Beginning financing my JAV Busty BBFS Tour.

So far NY is on the iteniary. Any other cities or places I should look? I'm seeking ultra busty JAVs at AMPs or bookers. Any intel helps. Leaving Cali and have a lot of free time to explore. I don't care the distance, just if they are similar to the pics parameters.[/QUOTE]It's New York or LA for jgirls, but there are not going to be a lot of choices for busty JAV. If the girl you posted is available, best to book her first. 80% of jgirls are A or B cup (which in Japan they consider a B or C cup). So lucky you if you find one.

About JAV girls in Japan, it's hard for different reasons. The JAV girls you know probably don't work in soap right now. Maybe they did last year, maybe they'll do it someday, but it is going to be hard to match the schedule if you are visiting a few weeks. But if you aren't picky, there are a decent number of JAV girls that you mostly never heard of, mostly b-tier. But as a bonus, you can watch their porn for reference. Most are ex-JAV stars, but a few will be active JAV stars. Rarely, you have a very popular girl like Aika or Ichika Nagano who is both an A-list girl and active. Ichika did delivery health.

Make sure it is a Japanese run shop, there are a few Chinese run shops catering to foreigners. There are kgirl agencies too but they work differently than the US.

The bonus of soapland is they have posted schedules and accurate photos (compared to us in the US), even if they are often censored face. But a girl you like might work often, or she might work a few days a month. Lastly, maybe 10% of soaplands will allow those with basic Japanese, the rest need better Japanese and either passing as Japanese or the particular girl allows it. I go to Mermaid in Yokohama and they have always taken foreigners without upcharge, but a few girls might not take foreigners (the shop owner will know and show you the girls that are available).

So in summary it would be quite a stretch unless you know enough Japanese and were flexible. There are some big boobed girls in soap but you'd have to look for it since it's not common. If you go to a place like Kabukicho in Shinjuku, there used to be a "directory" shop that showed girls from most of the shops on the walls. Basically an in-person yellow book. Good luck!

[QUOTE=FreeWally;6898169]So in summary it would be quite a stretch unless you know enough Japanese and were flexible. There are some big boobed girls in soap but you'd have to look for it since it's not common. If you go to a place like Kabukicho in Shinjuku, there used to be a "directory" shop that showed girls from most of the shops on the walls. Basically an in-person yellow book. Good luck![/QUOTE]FreeWally is spot on, but I would just add that these "directory" shops tend to take customers to parlors that charge some kind of service fee upcharges for the guide. (That's how they make money.) Better to do some research yourself and book the girl you want to see directly through each parlors website / phone. It's honestly not foreigner friendly, but I hear more places are starting to open up to having foreigners.

I also recommend not getting too fixated on JAV girls. They rarely perform like they do on camera and most of them have GPS. Stick with the pros with good reviews unless this is more of a bucket list item. It was for me and I quickly moved on to better things after banging my first JAV actress.

I saw a Jgirl with a tattoo of a dog on her arm but I forgot her name? Anyone remember her name?

[QUOTE=BobLove;6898431]I saw a Jgirl with a tattoo of a dog on her arm but I forgot her name? Anyone remember her name?[/QUOTE]I think maybe you're thinking of Momo K? Who then changed her name to Momo J. And also rebranded to a Baby name afterwards on LoyalAsians.

[QUOTE=BobLove;6898431]I saw a Jgirl with a tattoo of a dog on her arm but I forgot her name? Anyone remember her name?[/QUOTE]She rebranded as Baby Ayaka.

[QUOTE=FreeWally;6898169]It's New York or LA for jgirls, but there are not going to be a lot of choices for busty JAV. If the girl you posted is available, best to book her first. 80% of jgirls are A or B cup (which in Japan they consider a B or C cup). So lucky you if you find one.

About JAV girls in Japan, it's hard for different reasons. The JAV girls you know probably don't work in soap right now. Maybe they did last year, maybe they'll do it someday, but it is going to be hard to match the schedule if you are visiting a few weeks. But if you aren't picky, there are a decent number of JAV girls that you mostly never heard of, mostly b-tier. But as a bonus, you can watch their porn for reference. Most are ex-JAV stars, but a few will be active JAV stars. Rarely, you have a very popular girl like Aika or Ichika Nagano who is both an A-list girl and active. Ichika did delivery health.

Make sure it is a Japanese run shop, there are a few Chinese run shops catering to foreigners. There are kgirl agencies too but they work differently than the US.

The bonus of soapland is they have posted schedules and accurate photos (compared to us in the US), even if they are often censored face. But a girl you like might work often, or she might work a few days a month. Lastly, maybe 10% of soaplands will allow those with basic Japanese, the rest need better Japanese and either passing as Japanese or the particular girl allows it. I go to Mermaid in Yokohama and they have always taken foreigners without upcharge, but a few girls might not take foreigners (the shop owner will know and show you the girls that are available).

So in summary it would be quite a stretch unless you know enough Japanese and were flexible. There are some big boobed girls in soap but you'd have to look for it since it's not common. If you go to a place like Kabukicho in Shinjuku, there used to be a "directory" shop that showed girls from most of the shops on the walls. Basically an in-person yellow book. Good luck![/QUOTE]I'm fine with lower tier jav girls. The one I posted and the ones escorting are typically lower tier ones vs the full time ones. Example, the stars never have to escort because after their first year, they keep making money doing porn. It's a complex thing but, a few jav docs explain why the lower tier ones escort.

I plan to go to Japan. Will be saving for a passport soon. I probably would never go to a sex shop in Japan. Can't say why but, it would have to be very discreet. Like maybe delivery health but, even still.