My simple provider strategy
Your bullsh*t detector is the best proactive defense. You manitalways be able to know if a girl is fake, but you should be able to identify if a girl is real.
When I contact a new provider, I always inquire about her consulting services. I am seeking a new consultant. They know what I want. I know what she wants. Sometimes I just take a chance if my preferred service is on her menu. Other times I might ask "I realize that every consulting situation is different, but has there ever been a situation in which you kissed a new friend? (. in which your engagement was interrupted for a trip to Greece, etc.).
The recent Ben's Trailer Park scam
For those of you that read up about "Klair's" little scam around the first of the month. I have much new info for anyone interested. I had a dream with a woman in town per a friend's recommendation. Her and a friend of hers knows this woman running the scam out of Ben's Trailer Park in Clinton. They shook their heads when I told them what had happened. Apparently she just moved there from Knox because her and hubby are having a hard time keeping a place in the ville. They've only been at that location for a short while. My new acquaintances tell me her and hubby have been at this same game for 2 years in our town and she's never once been a good sport. They also tell me that the piece hubby is barging in the room with is in fact a BB gun. They're bad on H but they still praise the lord. They're married and have a child, and they are actually doing this scam out of their home with their personal vehicle parked in their driveway. PM for more info, I have it all. I just want to shut this shady crap down. Hubby is a wigger who has friends that would like for you to hear their mix tape, if you're trying to get a feel for Mr. Badass's mental capacity.
Reviews, Experiences and Opinions
[QUOTE=Mundane;2878037]We all have personal preferences and some of us hit it off better with some ladies than we do with others. Even in the mongering life, there is such a thing as chemistry. You might have a GFE, life changing experience with a girl, while I might struggle to get off. Everyone, both the monger and the lady, are different. If she gets a review saying she was "robotic", you should not question that. You weren't in the room. You can say your time with her was good. But don't act like it's the monger's fault for not being appreciative just to be in her glorious presence. She's the one getting paid, and it doesn't matter if she's hot looking, with nice tits and a tight body. If she doesn't make the guy feel good, what's the point? I've been in those situations (great reviews by some, poor performance for me). I'm certainly no Greek God, and I don't fool myself into thinking that when I walk in the door that her eyes glaze over and her pussy gets wet. But, I'm not just paying for a hole to stick my dick in. She's supposed to at least "pretend" that she is enjoying herself. That's part of the deal.[/QUOTE]I agree with Mundane. I have definitely hit it off with girls that I have read some "blah" reviews about on here. And on the other hand, some reviews are right on the mark. We all look different, with different body types and hygiene habits (hopefully good). That being said, these things factor into the girls experience as well.
And some are not attracted to many of the men they meet, but still may enjoy making a man feel good (or they are the extreme clock watchers). Then there are girls who do have attraction to some of us and actually enjoy every bit of it (these are obviously the best and what we all want). The most important point made by Mundane was, "if she doesn't make the guy feel good, what's the point? They are providing a service and part of that service is part fantasy and being able to escape from the reality of the norm and have.
We all want an extremely hot experience, act out (or say) things we would never imagine asking our girlfriend / wife to do, etc. In my opinion, there is NOTHING worse than meeting up with a girl and having an experience where it's painfully obvious that they would rather be doing anything else but this and it makes the time very uncomfortable and an instant total waste of time (and it becomes a chore to even think of finishing! We pay for an experience and if they don't like doing it, they shouldn't be offering, period. 90% of us are nice guys in reality, respect the girls, what they do and more. The 10% of guys that are nightmares for them to deal with ruin things for the rest of us.
All in all, there are some real gems in this town, mainly UTR, and personally, when I find one, I am extremely loyal and I would rather stick with one great one. I like the hunt, but when I find something special, I realize why I have such an interest for this hobby. Anyway, my point here is that we can only do our best to provide a review of our experience and hope it helps the next guy from avoiding the horrible experiences that we have all encountered. However, if you have a genuine attraction for the girl in the ad pics, the reviews state that the pics match, there are no serious red flags reported (and they aren't a thief), then try it out for yourself!! I can tell you, I have found the "gem" for me from a "so-so" review, when the pics were too hot to pass up trying it out for myself and rolling the dice. And I was glad I did! You never know!!