TOFTT guidelines for dummies
I've been in the hobby for a little more than a year. IDK if I've been surviving off dumb luck some times. I have my own method, but would like some senior knowledge. I used to be able to cross reference w such ease on a previous website, that is now a shadow of what its former self.
When meeting someone new, I usually follow a certain set of guidelines.
First off I ask for an outcall, usually flag a just incall.
2nd, No explicit talk & donations are 4 time only talk.
3rd If no nude pic is offered, start w a strip tease.
4th I say as little as possible until things have progressed.
5th Always trust my first feeling of bailing.
6th Doing an incall, I never bring more cash than I care to lose & never bring my wallet. Always do a room check as well.
These are just guidelines I use.
My hope is that others will help define a list of commandments to help keep us all safer.
As I said before, my old site I used was simple to verify.
With multiple reviews given weekly on this site by trusted members, it makes it easy for alot of us to get lazy. I have bad anxiety myself, so I seldom toftt.
It seems like this should be a bigger topic, don't see much talk about it. I see alot of Backpage chick's that aren't reaching that forum.
Thanks in advance for any contributions.
Burglar.
TOFTT guidelines for dummies Part 2
I knew I'd 4 get some of my no, no's. It was late & the topic was on my mind. That being said, I'd like to add the whole LE check topic. My first massage parlor trip back in the 90's was a West side Washington St place. It was a chicken ranch style brothel where the ladies would form a roster line. This chick simply asked me to kiss the kitty & that was that. At the beginning I placed my donation on the nightstand. (No hand to hand).
The LE check for anyone should be touching? I'm still relatively new to this, but I feel like Ellie's not going to flash her goods before we start our date.
I met one of my ladies recently that was rumored as her uncles favorite niece. She was always 100% pro except for this day. She said she wasn't able to get a room so I opted to meet her some place to talk. After we ran out of things to say, she still just kind of hung out waiting for something. If she was into some car play, she definitely had me, but I became super suspicious & said nothing. I think I might have dodged a bullet by shutting up. There's no need to mention her name because she has disappeared for the moment. I will say she is a red head w nice tits. I don't have proof but we're friends & she hasn't needed any Christmas $ yet? Point is, it's what you don't say.
PM me if you would like the lady s name in question.
