"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[QUOTE=CuriousInquir;4180962]I never, ever, ever give my last name to a SB no matter how long I've seen her or how well it seems to be going. If they need more verification to screen me, I move on. I've missed out on many smoking hot sugar babies with this approach, but I'm not willing to take the risk for so long as I have minor children at home. I bumped into a SB at Home Depot one time back when I lived in a different area of Metro Atlanta. She gave a knowing look but said nothing, thank goodness. One of my kids was with me, which probably caused her to pause, or maybe she was just cool. In any event, I learned my lesson and now I don't monger in the area where I live, only near where I work. I work far from where I live, so it works well.[/QUOTE]I would suggest mongering at a distance of no less than 50 miles away from where you live or work. People travel. And its FAR too easy to run into someone you "know" by accident, and then the awkward looks / silence / questions. It may not be ideal and it may limit your options, but far safer if you are married. If you are single, then it's a safety thing, but married people have more issues to be mindful of.

I would also suggest investing in a good fake ID (your look, same first name, but fictitious last name/address) and use that around them (if needed).. Its work, but you want to build up as much of a firewall as you can between yourself and them. (be mindful of the CC's you use around them, and other identifying details such as cell phone content).

Normally I don't post on this SA forum, usually when there's a girl I like I keep her to myself until I'm ready to share, and have a handful of guys here that I trade with, I've been on SA about 2 years ago, and it's been non stop fun, granted there have been some misses, but all in all it's been a very positve experience, until this week.

This week I hit it off with a nice 19 year old (not sure if I should share her username or not) but everything went smoothly and we proceeded to texting. Once we started texting, she asked my age, I replied, laughed and asked hers. I figure our ages are on the site, not sure why she was asking. Anyway her response was that she'll be 17 in April. I was immediately shocked and asked why there was an discrepancy with what she had as her age on the site. She says and I quote "well they require you to say you're 18 to use it".

Honestly, I was hoping at that point she'd say she made a mistake, but her response pretty much clarified that she's 16. I immediately told her I thought she was too young and didn't feel comfortable setting up an arrangement with her or continuing to talk to her. Don't' get me wrong I looked up the age of consent in GA and it's 16, but I consider that a morally gray area that I'm not willing to risk.

Well after my response, radio sillence, no messages from her or anything. Which is good, exactly what I wanted. The weirdness happened last night. I was making final arrangements to hang out with a new prospect, when I decided to look up underage girls profile. It's gone. I searched my messages for it, and there's no record of it. If you guys haven't noticed when a girl deactivates her account, all messages still show up in your mail history with their name. Also, when a girl deletes her account all messsages still show up in your mail, though the username is then switched to the generic "Sugar Baby".

Not in this girls case, when I say gone, I mean there is absolutly zero record of it, like it never happened. I don't know if I'm just being paranoid, but I'm starting to thing LEO is onto SA and are using it to conduct stings. It's the only explanation I have that makes sense as to why a record would be removed as thoroughly as this one was.

Anyway, maybe this is all in my head and there's a reasonable explanation. But I thought I'd warn my fellow mongers. Happy mongering & stay safe out here!

Another possibility is that someone reported her and the site removed all traces due to the situation.

[QUOTE=HardwareGuy;4201611]Normally I don't post on this SA forum, usually when there's a girl I like I keep her to myself until I'm ready to share, and have a handful of guys here that I trade with, I've been on SA about 2 years ago, and it's been non stop fun, granted there have been some misses, but all in all it's been a very positve experience, until this week.

This week I hit it off with a nice 19 year old (not sure if I should share her username or not) but everything went smoothly and we proceeded to texting. Once we started texting, she asked my age, I replied, laughed and asked hers. I figure our ages are on the site, not sure why she was asking. Anyway her response was that she'll be 17 in April. I was immediately shocked and asked why there was an discrepancy with what she had as her age on the site. She says and I quote "well they require you to say you're 18 to use it".

Honestly, I was hoping at that point she'd say she made a mistake, but her response pretty much clarified that she's 16. I immediately told her I thought she was too young and didn't feel comfortable setting up an arrangement with her or continuing to talk to her. Don't' get me wrong I looked up the age of consent in GA and it's 16, but I consider that a morally gray area that I'm not willing to risk.

Well after my response, radio sillence, no messages from her or anything. Which is good, exactly what I wanted. The weirdness happened last night. I was making final arrangements to hang out with a new prospect, when I decided to look up underage girls profile. It's gone. I searched my messages for it, and there's no record of it. If you guys haven't noticed when a girl deactivates her account, all messages still show up in your mail history with their name. Also, when a girl deletes her account all messsages still show up in your mail, though the username is then switched to the generic "Sugar Baby".

Not in this girls case, when I say gone, I mean there is absolutly zero record of it, like it never happened. I don't know if I'm just being paranoid, but I'm starting to thing LEO is onto SA and are using it to conduct stings. It's the only explanation I have that makes sense as to why a record would be removed as thoroughly as this one was.

Anyway, maybe this is all in my head and there's a reasonable explanation. But I thought I'd warn my fellow mongers. Happy mongering & stay safe out here![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=AtlantaJohn;4201768]Another possibility is that someone reported her and the site removed all traces due to the situation.[/QUOTE]Good point, I honestly don't know what happens when someone reports a girl. It's not something I've ever done.

[QUOTE=HardwareGuy;4201611]Normally I don't post on this SA forum, usually when there's a girl I like I keep her to myself until I'm ready to share, and have a handful of guys here that I trade with, I've been on SA about 2 years ago, and it's been non stop fun, granted there have been some misses, but all in all it's been a very positve experience, until this week.

This week I hit it off with a nice 19 year old (not sure if I should share her username or not) but everything went smoothly and we proceeded to texting. Once we started texting, she asked my age, I replied, laughed and asked hers. I figure our ages are on the site, not sure why she was asking. Anyway her response was that she'll be 17 in April. I was immediately shocked and asked why there was an discrepancy with what she had as her age on the site. She says and I quote "well they require you to say you're 18 to use it".

Honestly, I was hoping at that point she'd say she made a mistake, but her response pretty much clarified that she's 16. I immediately told her I thought she was too young and didn't feel comfortable setting up an arrangement with her or continuing to talk to her. Don't' get me wrong I looked up the age of consent in GA and it's 16, but I consider that a morally gray area that I'm not willing to risk.

Well after my response, radio sillence, no messages from her or anything. Which is good, exactly what I wanted. The weirdness happened last night. I was making final arrangements to hang out with a new prospect, when I decided to look up underage girls profile. It's gone. I searched my messages for it, and there's no record of it. If you guys haven't noticed when a girl deactivates her account, all messages still show up in your mail history with their name. Also, when a girl deletes her account all messsages still show up in your mail, though the username is then switched to the generic "Sugar Baby".

Not in this girls case, when I say gone, I mean there is absolutly zero record of it, like it never happened. I don't know if I'm just being paranoid, but I'm starting to thing LEO is onto SA and are using it to conduct stings. It's the only explanation I have that makes sense as to why a record would be removed as thoroughly as this one was.

Anyway, maybe this is all in my head and there's a reasonable explanation. But I thought I'd warn my fellow mongers. Happy mongering & stay safe out here![/QUOTE]We'll, you definitely did the right thing. Legally and morally. As soon as I think someone on any on-line or in-person situation is less than 18, I immediately stop all contact and block their profile and / or phone number. I actually prefer 21 as my minimum. At least I can have a drink with her and not expose myself to some bs charge. So even if your encounter involved LE, you did all you could be expected to do. You encountered a minor who lied about her age on a dating website, and as soon as you found out her age, you stopped all contact. BTW, my last couple of successful SA women were recent college grads in that 22 to 24 range that realized their first job wasn't quite up to meeting their rent, car payment, and college loans. They actually seemed to genuinely appreciate a man who could afford a real restaurant, keep things discrete, and bang the hell out of them for a couple hours. They were tired of boys their own age who were broke and considered sex to be a five minute BJ while stoned followed by playing video games, haha.

[QUOTE=HardwareGuy;4201611]Normally I don't post on this SA forum, usually when there's a girl I like I keep her to myself until I'm ready to share, and have a handful of guys here that I trade with, I've been on SA about 2 years ago, and it's been non stop fun, granted there have been some misses, but all in all it's been a very positve experience, until this week.
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Anyway, maybe this is all in my head and there's a reasonable explanation. But I thought I'd warn my fellow mongers. Happy mongering & stay safe out here![/QUOTE]I'm curious if she blocked you if the old messages still appear, maybe she blocked you to keep from being reported. I think it's a good idea not to share her tag, though you might be able to see if she just blocked you by making another account and looking for her.

[QUOTE=HardwareGuy;4201611]Normally I don't post on this SA forum, usually when there's a girl I like I keep her to myself until I'm ready to share, and have a handful of guys here that I trade with, I've been on SA about 2 years ago, and it's been non stop fun, granted there have been some misses, but all in all it's been a very positve experience, until this week.

This week I hit it off with a nice 19 year old (not sure if I should share her username or not) but everything went smoothly and we proceeded to texting. Once we started texting, she asked my age, I replied, laughed and asked hers. I figure our ages are on the site, not sure why she was asking. Anyway her response was that she'll be 17 in April. I was immediately shocked and asked why there was an discrepancy with what she had as her age on the site. She says and I quote "well they require you to say you're 18 to use it".

Honestly, I was hoping at that point she'd say she made a mistake, but her response pretty much clarified that she's 16. I immediately told her I thought she was too young and didn't feel comfortable setting up an arrangement with her or continuing to talk to her. Don't' get me wrong I looked up the age of consent in GA and it's 16, but I consider that a morally gray area that I'm not willing to risk.

Well after my response, radio sillence, no messages from her or anything. Which is good, exactly what I wanted. The weirdness happened last night. I was making final arrangements to hang out with a new prospect, when I decided to look up underage girls profile. It's gone. I searched my messages for it, and there's no record of it. If you guys haven't noticed when a girl deactivates her account, all messages still show up in your mail history with their name. Also, when a girl deletes her account all messsages still show up in your mail, though the username is then switched to the generic "Sugar Baby".

Not in this girls case, when I say gone, I mean there is absolutly zero record of it, like it never happened. I don't know if I'm just being paranoid, but I'm starting to thing LEO is onto SA and are using it to conduct stings. It's the only explanation I have that makes sense as to why a record would be removed as thoroughly as this one was.

Anyway, maybe this is all in my head and there's a reasonable explanation. But I thought I'd warn my fellow mongers. Happy mongering & stay safe out here![/QUOTE]I think most likely SA completely wiped the records. A 16 year old cannot be bound to a contract (terms of use) so SA would have a basis to wipe the account especially in the days of FOSTA. Basically, she should have never been on the site. If it were Uncle Louise trying a dragnet, most likely would just set up an account and it would show as deleted. Unless they were getting cooperation from SA.

Here is one you might want to check, she was asking 1 k,but take it down to $$$ LOL smfh.

[QUOTE=ElPerron;4202511]Here is one you might want to check, she was asking 1 k,but take it down to $$$ LOL smfh.[/QUOTE]What was she smoking!

I highly doubt you could argue age of consent when money is exchanged. I doubt a jury would believe consent is possible when you are paying her. You definitely did the right thing. If she wasnt LEO, I hope she opens her eyes before someone less ethical gets ahold of her.

[QUOTE=HardwareGuy;4201611]Normally I don't post on this SA forum, usually when there's a girl I like I keep her to myself until I'm ready to share, and have a handful of guys here that I trade with, I've been on SA about 2 years ago, and it's been non stop fun, granted there have been some misses, but all in all it's been a very positve experience, until this week.

This week I hit it off with a nice 19 year old (not sure if I should share her username or not) but everything went smoothly and we proceeded to texting. Once we started texting, she asked my age, I replied, laughed and asked hers. I figure our ages are on the site, not sure why she was asking. Anyway her response was that she'll be 17 in April. I was immediately shocked and asked why there was an discrepancy with what she had as her age on the site. She says and I quote "well they require you to say you're 18 to use it".

Honestly, I was hoping at that point she'd say she made a mistake, but her response pretty much clarified that she's 16. I immediately told her I thought she was too young and didn't feel comfortable setting up an arrangement with her or continuing to talk to her. Don't' get me wrong I looked up the age of consent in GA and it's 16, but I consider that a morally gray area that I'm not willing to risk.

Well after my response, radio sillence, no messages from her or anything. Which is good, exactly what I wanted. The weirdness happened last night. I was making final arrangements to hang out with a new prospect, when I decided to look up underage girls profile. It's gone. I searched my messages for it, and there's no record of it. If you guys haven't noticed when a girl deactivates her account, all messages still show up in your mail history with their name. Also, when a girl deletes her account all messsages still show up in your mail, though the username is then switched to the generic "Sugar Baby".

Not in this girls case, when I say gone, I mean there is absolutly zero record of it, like it never happened. I don't know if I'm just being paranoid, but I'm starting to thing LEO is onto SA and are using it to conduct stings. It's the only explanation I have that makes sense as to why a record would be removed as thoroughly as this one was.

Anyway, maybe this is all in my head and there's a reasonable explanation. But I thought I'd warn my fellow mongers. Happy mongering & stay safe out here![/QUOTE]

There is an option in the site for 'delete conversation". It has happened to me many times. I am messaging with a girl and all of a sudden, the whole conversation is gone, but the girl is still active on the site. She may have intentionally or accidentally deleted the conversation. Then I pick up from where I left. I have seen a couple of girls after that happened with them, went to FC etc, all fine. I think in your case, she deleted conversation without blocking you (some girls may not know all the options on the site), then either she deactivated her account or someone reported and SA took out her account. Chances that is was LEO is very slim IMO. But it is always good to be vigilant and do due diligence. Any indication if the girl is under 18, I always bail out.

Stay Safe.

Dr. S.

[QUOTE=HardwareGuy;4201611]Normally I don't post on this SA forum, usually when there's a girl I like I keep her to myself until I'm ready to share, and have a handful of guys here that I trade with, I've been on SA about 2 years ago, and it's been non stop fun, granted there have been some misses, but all in all it's been a very positve experience, until this week.

This week I hit it off with a nice 19 year old (not sure if I should share her username or not) but everything went smoothly and we proceeded to texting. Once we started texting, she asked my age, I replied, laughed and asked hers. I figure our ages are on the site, not sure why she was asking. Anyway her response was that she'll be 17 in April. I was immediately shocked and asked why there was an discrepancy with what she had as her age on the site. She says and I quote "well they require you to say you're 18 to use it".

Honestly, I was hoping at that point she'd say she made a mistake, but her response pretty much clarified that she's 16. I immediately told her I thought she was too young and didn't feel comfortable setting up an arrangement with her or continuing to talk to her. Don't' get me wrong I looked up the age of consent in GA and it's 16, but I consider that a morally gray area that I'm not willing to risk.

Well after my response, radio sillence, no messages from her or anything. Which is good, exactly what I wanted. The weirdness happened last night. I was making final arrangements to hang out with a new prospect, when I decided to look up underage girls profile. It's gone. I searched my messages for it, and there's no record of it. If you guys haven't noticed when a girl deactivates her account, all messages still show up in your mail history with their name. Also, when a girl deletes her account all messsages still show up in your mail, though the username is then switched to the generic "Sugar Baby".

Not in this girls case, when I say gone, I mean there is absolutly zero record of it, like it never happened. I don't know if I'm just being paranoid, but I'm starting to thing LEO is onto SA and are using it to conduct stings. It's the only explanation I have that makes sense as to why a record would be removed as thoroughly as this one was.

Anyway, maybe this is all in my head and there's a reasonable explanation. But I thought I'd warn my fellow mongers. Happy mongering & stay safe out here![/QUOTE]

BangedBangs.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d415dadb-652e-4403-8c63-40540dab47f6[/URL]

I chatter up based upon her Seeking profile as I am not adverse to a slightly overweight woman as long as she is good. Well the reality on this one is different. I set up a date for the next day, and drag my ass over to Norcross. Get there and knock on her door. She texts me to hang on a bit, she is on the phone with her mom. 15 minutes later she texts me back and I head back up to her apartment. She opens the door and yeah its not as advertised. She is not few pounds overweight, but definitely BBW woman. She is also racially mixed. She can not drive and her place is a trash heap. I step back, hit the fake phone call button on my phone. I answer it and play "oh shit that is bad news" line. I tell her, I have to go its a family emergency and make tracks out of the place. Unless you love BBW with bad housekeeping skills, this is not one to pursue.

Pinkp6.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6c9b9b76-fc4c-4208-b64c-4e19ed72491c[/URL]

This one is semi pro. Set up a date with her at my out office. She shows up and the accent and behavior clearly indicates she is "experience". She is not mixed of asian / black. And speaks like she is hispanic so who knows. She shucking her clothes like they are on fire. Unzips my pants and has my cock in her mouth within 3 minutes of arriving. After a lackluster 30 seconds of head, she puts on a slab. She doesn't ask, but goes right to RCG, trying to hop on my half mast staff (uh, lady that is not working). After a few other positions and still no joy (she is dry and tight, even for my average size dick) she starts complaining about having to go to work. So I send her on the way total bill was $ for the half assed job. Definitely not worth what she originally wanted.

Jim.

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Did you lose your mind?

Seriously? I need to know if you suffer from dementia or something.

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[QUOTE=Dawgins;4196908]I love her crazy rants and philosophical discussions about getting railed repeatedly by dick. I bet she's taking a social media break to try to get her head together.[/QUOTE]She is back. Too many edibles. Supposedly lost some contacts, but per per her sls post, is rearing for thurs / Fri. To get filled.

[QUOTE=Dawgins;4196908]I love her crazy rants and philosophical discussions about getting railed repeatedly by dick. I bet she's taking a social media break to try to get her head together.[/QUOTE]Asking for a friend.