Violet / Melanie from Michelle's escort
The independent provider Violet (TER 225376, deactivated on the end of Nov.) is back with Michelle's.
[URL]https://twitter.com/xFreshViolet[/URL]
[URL]http://www.xfreshviolet.com/[/URL]
[URL]https://www.preferred411.com/P170642[/URL]
[URL]http://www.michellesescorts.com/Melanie.htm[/URL]
There should be no doubt that Violet is Melanie. The point is she charges $400 and then $500 when she is running solo since 2015. Now she is back with her old agency and seems like we can see her by paying $350 to Michelle's.
I haven't met her. Contacted her a while back but I could not find a time that worked for both after a brief inquiry. Then she blocked my hobby twitter (she wasn't aware of the connection between my email, P411, and my twitter), even though her profile is public and I can still see everything so long as I don't use that account to visit her profile. Her attitude in correspondence is consistent to the vibe you can feel from reading her website and tweets. I mean your face is pretty and your tanned body is even like a 9 from Wrigley's bars. But, there are options out there for us too. I wouldn't risk 500 for a session that I may run into some attitude, however respectful I was communicating with you.
At $350/ hr, it's more tempting. I'm glad that market sometimes works toward hobbyists favor. At least in this case.
More about Violet / Melanie
[QUOTE=Asps3;3176446]She mentioned there posts on her Twitter just a bit ago. She obviously is aware of the site and not happy about it.[/QUOTE]Funny thing about Twitter is that, you can use it like Obama or Trump, it's your Twitter. But whether your usage generates the goals and perception you want is another story.
1. When I said tracking for fun, it means I'm interested in seeing for the fun hobby activity. Everyone's life is busy and I always plan ahead. I track the providers I want to see and know their online spaces to find their information and schedule. No need to stalk anyone for adult stuff giving all the free porns out there. Interesting to see she immediately considers this is stalking.
2. I share her pricing change as intel because it's toward our benefit. Violet / Melanie can be tired of handling logistics for the extra $, or she is willing to pay agency the fair share to avoid hassles. Or the market slows down or whatever. It's a good news for those interested in seeing her (myself included). Regardless whatever 'bad' reviews are out there, there are always people would want to see the girl (think Jack Shack). There are always 'heroes' thinking they can do better than the guy who posted. So, my posts could still bring attention or even business to her. Publicity is publicity.
3. I never said what attitude she demonstrates in the first post. And I actually appreciate Violet's attitude to some extent: she hates time-wasters and rude and impolite communication and she only wants to talk business and money. These are not bad things at all. I like that because it won't give hobbyists illusions. Knowing her parameters in advance may help people set the right tone when communicating with her, it worked for me and it's not necessarily a negative criticism on her.
4. When I contacted her, I was verified first because I did want to meet her and conduct business. But the timing did not work out. Then I asked about twitter, she explained the general stalky feeling that hobbyist following rarely turn into business. It's understandable, I don't think I push further to be unblocked and thought I'd ask again when I meet her for real. Being judgmental or Benjamin focused are not really a negative thing in this business, she understandably needs to protect herself and deal with weird dudes.
5. HERE is the IRONY, on the one hand, she doesn't like to be bothered by direct communication via email, PM or text; on the other hand, she doesn't like to be followed passively on Twitter if hobbyists are just following her without intention to meet her. Based on my profession, I'd say, her way of using Twitter is not effective especially if she likes to block people left and right. I followed her because she posted her schedule in the past. Yes, her pics are really nice and can raise my interest more, but I rarely check her updates. I mainly want to have a faster way to know if she is available without having to email her every time I may have a couple hours during the day for fun, which is also against her communication policy listed on her site. You never know whether a follower may turn into business in a day, a week, a month, or a year.
6. Yet, Twitter, personal website, review sites, verification sites are all her business tools. Other indy providers tend to advertise on verification sites or TER their schedule regularly if they don't use Twitter. Those (Think Sierra Benjamin) who use Twitter may release their schedule on Twitter and play with follower count and just embrace the nature of Twitter to their advantage and not alienating fans / followers / potential customers / LEOs / weirdoes. After all, you have other means to verify people during scheduling. Follower count is still an indicator of your reach, assuming you already rule out the bots and spammers.
7. I believe my first post was written as neutral as possible, and I apologize to her (or the reader / regular / agent who points this to her) about my second post with a bit more opinion about the way she handles business. My mention about Dallas is to point out that providers have to do a lot more for less given their market even for a total sweetheart. She is hot and sexy and got a little bit of everything that works for every taste and $500/ hr reaches a different clientele than $350/ hr. Obviously she has demands.
8. I repeat: I have no problem with her attitude during communication and our communication was very polite and uneventful. Yet I do find it a bit risky for me to spend $500 after that communication because I don't know if she might boo me out of bed / door if I said or ask for something she dislike or not in the mood for (as the YMMV nature of the hobby). I may read her website and her email wrong and I misinterpret her quick-trigger attitude. But her tweets seem to back up my read to some extent. I consider 'overpriced' only because the risk I felt. I wouldn't feel as bad if the meeting goes bad if I pay $350. Again, this is about different pools of clients with different styles of how they spend money on providers. I repeat: this is not about your pricing, I literally have no issue against your price at all, not then, certainly not now.
9. In any case, I think going back to her agency should work out better for her and the hobbyists who want to meet her. Having a buffer definitely help mitigate the potential issues caused by the attitude that she illustrates on her website and during communication. She may not even know the gentleman she meet sometime in the future is the author of these posts. And everyone has a happy encounter as the hobby business should turn out to be: to help release our daily life stress, not causing either end more stress. In this hobby, both sides have weirdoes, it's a two-way street.
10. Finally, if Violet actually has the time and patience to read this lengthy post, please note that my post addresses more on the nature of this hobby business than on you personally. I share my comment on our very brief interaction because I think it doesn't necessarily work toward your benefits or business goals. At least from my point of view as hobbyists. And in all my posts about you or other providers I met, my language is never nasty or rude. I write my hobby post with a better manner than how I write on Yelp.
Jennifer Candy hotel near water tower
Has anyone dipped there candy in this little sweet box?
She looks like a tasty cherry!
I called her and she mostly does txt, wouldn't answer if she was LE.
Wouldn't meet me outside or in the lobby.
Wouldn't send me a naked pic with the news or weather on to prove the time and date.
Her excuse for that was, I don't send naked pics. WTF? Your add is naked.
I say this was LE, but LE doesn't post naked pics.
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It's fair to ask for all those for service price at the higher level
[QUOTE=Explorer8;3177012]At that price point, for me it's a lot more than just the physical. The attitude, personality, background (can she hold an enjoyable conversation, what hobbies does she like, does she have culture) attention to detail, and other aspects of being attractive comes in to play. But hey, that's just me.[/QUOTE]This is definitely not just you. These are the parameters that separates and those charges $200-$250 or less per hour from those charging $300 or more per hour. At least this is my cutoff point, which is consistent of the BP vs TER, RS-AVS, P411 in Chicago. While the encounter is always YMMV and never really gurantee, people generally expect more and service being more consistent. At all price levels, you can find those excels and those who sucks at it. Like I said, different price levels means different clientele and different expectations.
There is a Chinese idiom which can be loosely translated to "your heart will change your appearance." I believe if you have a kind heart, your appearance will reflect that and make it even better.
Seems like Violet shut down her Twitter and website for now. But many of her tweets are still out there because she did receive good support from Twitter whenever she had an upset tweet about her job / business and client. As you know, digial traces are always there, which is why I try to be as fair and polite and nice as possible when I post any comment with some critique in it.
Thanks for those who read my post and PM me. I'm very glad about the like-minded support, just let me know that we are also just normal people inside and outside of the hobby.