[QUOTE=LustMonkey007;5531168]So what is safer for a hobbyist? I feel like incall is better for my anonymity (of course there is sting. Avoiding new unknown ladies should take care of that). Plus if I were a provider, I will never do outcall for the fear of sting! But I would like to know the grey beards opinion on this.[/QUOTE]I'd never even think of having STG type girls as outcall or anywhere near my house. However, I've had higher end escorts come to my place without any problems in the past. Usually they're girls who other people have seen and vouched for as legitimate.
But except in the latter case, incall is definitely the way to go. If the girl hosts at her own place and its an apartment in a decent part of town, that's great, if it's in a run down, shady part of town, it's a no go for me. So meeting at a motel (again, only a halfway decent one where most of the rooms aren't drug dens) seems to wind up being the default most of the time.