Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=Spike77;5011784]Not trying to be captain obvious but never pay for an initial meet and greet. It is most likely a scam. In fact, it is one of the most common scams on the site and talked about here ad nauseum. However, people keep falling for it for some reason. I wouldn't kick yourself over your actions because they probably never planned on having a "full date" anyways. You just gave them a bunch of good excuses. I don't even want to know what the final dinner bill was.[/QUOTE]Yeah I hear that. Lesson learned. Like I said they were super fucking hot. 9/10. I choose the restaurant. I don't really care about the money. Although it was very expensive, LOL.

[QUOTE=HounDog3;5011842]Ditto to what Spike and Joe posted. The only exception I make is reimbursement for an Uber (on her account) if she doesn't drive and a REASONABLE amount for a babysitter if it's a single mom.[/QUOTE]Me too. If they balk at a coffee date m&g, I NEXT them. I've had so many coffee dates lead to hotel dates that I don't need some 23 yr old telling me that it's cheap or whatever. And plenty of girls have said to me that they appreciate a short coffee date; they too don't want to be stuck all dressed up at a nice restaurant with some guy they discover within the first 3 minutes is a jerk, creep, etc.

I will give a small gift for Uber or babysitting if it's clear that they need it; for some, a $15 Uber each way can be rough on the weekly budget. And Uber prices seem way up these days.

Of course the really common scam right now is the "I'm out of town for a week and was hoping we could get better connected by having you pay me for pics and vids before I return home. " I never engage in a long discussion about that any more. I just tell them that I get 3 of those requests every day, and that they need to try that scam on someone else. NEXT.

[QUOTE=KidZoid;5011560]So I met these girls last night. They were real and extremely beautiful. This was just an initial meet and greet and I paid the $100 each (figured if it works out it's well worth it). They mentioned that they have had 2 daddies before and they expect $400+ each for full dates. Dinner was fun and we had a pretty good time.

Then I got home and got a text saying they are very discreet and didn't like that I found out who they were (I told them like an idiot) and that I tried to kiss them in public at the end of the night.

I had a feeling they were just trying to get nice dinners and be "naughty" and it turns out that might be the case. Good luck to anyone trying to crack these nuts.[/QUOTE]Hey Kid, I think it is important to note this distinction that got left out. Did they request the $100 each before the date or did you offer it at the date? Massive difference at least in my opinion.

[QUOTE=KidZoid;5011856]. Like I said they were super fucking hot. 9/10. I choose the restaurant. I don't really care about the money. Although it was very expensive, LOL.[/QUOTE]Here's the thing, if you had a fun time at dinner with 2 smoking hot coeds you have nothing to regret. Never let anyone on the board (luckily it rarely happens on this thread) ever say you paid too much, caused inflation etc. Complete nonsense.

Glad you had a fun date, a few lessons learned, and onto the next adventure.

[QUOTE=PaulRew;5012243]Hey Kid, I think it is important to note this distinction that got left out. Did they request the $100 each before the date or did you offer it at the date? Massive difference at least in my opinion.

Here's the thing, if you had a fun time at dinner with 2 smoking hot coeds you have nothing to regret. Never let anyone on the board (luckily it rarely happens on this thread) ever say you paid too much, caused inflation etc. Complete nonsense.

Glad you had a fun date, a few lessons learned, and onto the next adventure.[/QUOTE]Very good points. So long as the poster got what he expected / was happy with the date, that's really all that matters. My perspective is from that of one being scammed or lead on. . . It's not clear at all that's what happened to him.

I know I am wasting my time I mean she is Asian after all LOL. Any intel?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e97d801a-378c-43f8-805d-2bcffb2c5b36[/URL]

[QUOTE=KidZoid;5011560]So I met these girls last night. They were real and extremely beautiful. This was just an initial meet and greet and I paid the $100 each (figured if it works out it's well worth it). They mentioned that they have had 2 daddies before and they expect $400+ each for full dates. Dinner was fun and we had a pretty good time.

Then I got home and got a text saying they are very discreet and didn't like that I found out who they were (I told them like an idiot) and that I tried to kiss them in public at the end of the night.

I had a feeling they were just trying to get nice dinners and be "naughty" and it turns out that might be the case. Good luck to anyone trying to crack these nuts.[/QUOTE]Yeah these girls sound like "dinner date" hunters. They exist on SA, I've been got by 2 of them (although I never prepay and always consider them asking a red flag), but had a few meet-and-greets where it was obvious the girl had no intention of sex and was just getting free apps and drinks on a Saturday afternoon.

Meet-and-greet style is hit or miss because I have also had a few dates with sexy coeds that do pay off towards getting them for bedroom fun. So the strat does work, its just YMMV and you are gambling.

[QUOTE=PaulRew;5012515]I know I am wasting my time I mean she is Asian after all LOL. Any intel?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e97d801a-378c-43f8-805d-2bcffb2c5b36[/URL][/QUOTE]I blocked her but now can't remember why. I usually do that only for true GPS or 'send me money in advance' issues. But I can't remember.

[QUOTE=Hobbyist420;5012650]Yeah these girls sound like "dinner date" hunters. They exist on SA, I've been got by 2 of them (although I never prepay and always consider them asking a red flag), but had a few meet-and-greets where it was obvious the girl had no intention of sex and was just getting free apps and drinks on a Saturday afternoon.

Meet-and-greet style is hit or miss because I have also had a few dates with sexy coeds that do pay off towards getting them for bedroom fun. So the strat does work, its just YMMV and you are gambling.[/QUOTE]One reason I offer up a 'coffee date. ' Susses out the ones that have no intention of more and are just hunting for a free meal.

Early on in my SA days I did have a dinner date with a woman who DID need the meal. It was a disaster of a data, but it was only a 99 in the far far suburbs. She asked if she could order another meal to go at the end, and I felt bad for her and paid for that too.

[QUOTE=PaulRew;5012515]I know I am wasting my time I mean she is Asian after all LOL. Any intel?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e97d801a-378c-43f8-805d-2bcffb2c5b36[/URL][/QUOTE]She told me she wants a generous gift to meet for coffee. I just blocked and moved on. To many looking for freebies.

She was reported on last year. 500 and no action on first date.

[QUOTE=PaulRew;5012515]I know I am wasting my time I mean she is Asian after all LOL. Any intel?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e97d801a-378c-43f8-805d-2bcffb2c5b36[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Hobbyist420;5012650]Yeah these girls sound like "dinner date" hunters. They exist on SA, I've been got by 2 of them (although I never prepay and always consider them asking a red flag), but had a few meet-and-greets where it was obvious the girl had no intention of sex and was just getting free apps and drinks on a Saturday afternoon.

Meet-and-greet style is hit or miss because I have also had a few dates with sexy coeds that do pay off towards getting them for bedroom fun. So the strat does work, its just YMMV and you are gambling.[/QUOTE]Just had this happen down here in CT. I told her that I would pay for dinner, their transportation (gas / uber) and babysitter if they needed it but wouldn't give them anything more until we had an intimate date. She said no, I said, if you change you mind let me know. She sent back a text a few days later asking for a picture that her and friend could see which made me think they were considering my offer. I did and just waiting for a response. I doubt I'll get one.

I also travel for work which is why I check the Boston forum out a lot. I do the same as the others who travel.

And for the dude that said these are all hookers selling their pussy and see a bunch of guys, you are completely wrong. Of course there are a lot of those but I've had two exclusive arrangements from SA with some really nice young girls. We both deactivated our SA accounts, I gave her a monthly allowance and we met 3-6 times a month. It was really very fun! That is a real SD / SB arrangement and what the site is meant for. But everyone uses it their on way. Some want to bang as many as possible for the lowest cost possible and others want to find the non-pro who want an actual arrangement. Neither is wrong because it's personal preference. I'm just glad there is a place we can do all that! Haha! Enjoy and be safe!

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7bd2a3c4-6974-49bf-84b8-61f25c3543f4[/URL]

PeacefulBaby4
21 Female Lincoln, Rhode Island, United States
Guess what I've got pierced 😋

I'm genuinely a bit surprised. She had been very responsive to text messages. I had some more flexibility than usual this week and asked her for a day that worked well for her to meet during the day. She chose Wednesday. I suggested meeting somewhere for lunch and she agreed. Picked a place and reached out on Tuesday confirming we were still on. Again before leaving, reached out and confirmed that we were still on. She told me that she'd be 5 minutes late. Not a problem, I too was going to be five minutes late.

After being 30 minutes late, she tells me she 20 minutes away and suggests we reschedule. I tell her if she truly 20 minutes away, that I'd rather wait cause it will be less time than dealing with driving back out to the area another day. I should have listened to my gut and just cut my loses and headed back home. She tells me that she's six minutes away - "great, I'll see you soon".

She pulls into the parking lot. I see her, but she doesn't see me. I get out of my car waiting for her to get out to walk up to the restaurant together. She plays on her phone for five minutes while I'm wait for her to get out of the car. I text "are you here?" and she replies that she just arrived. Okay, I've been watching you sit in the parking lot for five minutes, but whatever. 10 minutes later she's still sitting in car, and then literally drives away as I'm watching her.

[QUOTE=Alejhenry;5013498][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7bd2a3c4-6974-49bf-84b8-61f25c3543f4[/URL]

PeacefulBaby4.

21 Female Lincoln, Rhode Island, United States.

Guess what I've got pierced 😋.

I'm genuinely a bit surprised. She had been very responsive to text messages. I had some more flexibility than usual this week and asked her for a day that worked well for her to meet during the day. She chose Wednesday. I suggested meeting somewhere for lunch and she agreed. Picked a place and reached out on Tuesday confirming we were still on. Again before leaving, reached out and confirmed that we were still on. She told me that she'd be 5 minutes late. Not a problem, I too was going to be five minutes late.

After being 30 minutes late, she tells me she 20 minutes away and suggests we reschedule. I tell her if she truly 20 minutes away, that I'd rather wait cause it will be less time than dealing with driving back out to the area another day. I should have listened to my gut and just cut my loses and headed back home. She tells me that she's six minutes away - "great, I'll see you soon".

She pulls into the parking lot. I see her, but she doesn't see me. I get out of my car waiting for her to get out to walk up to the restaurant together. She plays on her phone for five minutes while I'm wait for her to get out of the car. I text "are you here?" and she replies that she just arrived. Okay, I've been watching you sit in the parking lot for five minutes, but whatever. 10 minutes later she's still sitting in car, and then literally drives away as I'm watching her.[/QUOTE]That sucks. There is no reason for that behavior that I can come up with, other than she being bizarre and totally unmotivated to find a successful connection. Or MAYBE 'cold feet' or anxiety at the last second? There is a lot of anxiety around.

[QUOTE=Alejhenry;5013498][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7bd2a3c4-6974-49bf-84b8-61f25c3543f4[/URL]

PeacefulBaby4
21 Female Lincoln, Rhode Island, United States
Guess what I've got pierced

I'm genuinely a bit surprised. She had been very responsive to text messages. I had some more flexibility than usual this week and asked her for a day that worked well for her to meet during the day. She chose Wednesday. I suggested meeting somewhere for lunch and she agreed. Picked a place and reached out on Tuesday confirming we were still on. Again before leaving, reached out and confirmed that we were still on. She told me that she'd be 5 minutes late. Not a problem, I too was going to be five minutes late.

After being 30 minutes late, she tells me she 20 minutes away and suggests we reschedule. I tell her if she truly 20 minutes away, that I'd rather wait cause it will be less time than dealing with driving back out to the area another day. I should have listened to my gut and just cut my loses and headed back home. She tells me that she's six minutes away - "great, I'll see you soon".

She pulls into the parking lot. I see her, but she doesn't see me. I get out of my car waiting for her to get out to walk up to the restaurant together. She plays on her phone for five minutes while I'm wait for her to get out of the car. I text "are you here?" and she replies that she just arrived. Okay, I've been watching you sit in the parking lot for five minutes, but whatever. 10 minutes later she's still sitting in car, and then literally drives away as I'm watching her.[/QUOTE]I actually met her last week. She came over late and was supposed to spend the whole night but bounced at some point. Service not bad. Took CIP like a champ. Smelled clean. Wasn't overly tight and once naked nothing really noteworthy to make it a repeat. Save yourself the trouble. This one isn't worth the fee.

[QUOTE=Alejhenry;5013498][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7bd2a3c4-6974-49bf-84b8-61f25c3543f4[/URL]

PeacefulBaby4
21 Female Lincoln, Rhode Island, United States
Guess what I've got pierced 😋

I'm genuinely a bit surprised. She had been very responsive to text messages. I had some more flexibility than usual this week and asked her for a day that worked well for her to meet during the day. She chose Wednesday. I suggested meeting somewhere for lunch and she agreed. Picked a place and reached out on Tuesday confirming we were still on. Again before leaving, reached out and confirmed that we were still on. She told me that she'd be 5 minutes late. Not a problem, I too was going to be five minutes late.

After being 30 minutes late, she tells me she 20 minutes away and suggests we reschedule. I tell her if she truly 20 minutes away, that I'd rather wait cause it will be less time than dealing with driving back out to the area another day. I should have listened to my gut and just cut my loses and headed back home. She tells me that she's six minutes away - "great, I'll see you soon".

She pulls into the parking lot. I see her, but she doesn't see me. I get out of my car waiting for her to get out to walk up to the restaurant together. She plays on her phone for five minutes while I'm wait for her to get out of the car. I text "are you here?" and she replies that she just arrived. Okay, I've been watching you sit in the parking lot for five minutes, but whatever. 10 minutes later she's still sitting in car, and then literally drives away as I'm watching her.[/QUOTE]Did you talk to her on the phone at all? I find that essential for both me and her. Sometimes I can rule out an SB by just the way they sound / talk on the phone.