Things that turn on a SB, SO or any other non-goldigging girl
1. Knowing what day their time of the month is. (so they don't have to feel pressured for sex)
2. Knowing that you take care of your kids. (shows you really are a daddy)
3. Knowing you don"t hate your X. (shows compassion, something ALL SB's crave more than anything)
4. Always arriving freshly showered. (just sexy all around)
5. Knowing the name of the perfume they wear. (most guys don't)
6. Knowing their Bday. (I still can't remember my x wifes)
7. Getting them off first. (a no brainer)
8. Getting them a greendot even if they already have a CC or debit card. (good boyscout mentality)
9. Making sure they have enough makeup. (CVS, Riteaid or Walgreens is fine. Most young girls can stock up big-time for $50 to $100)
10. Txt them as soon as you wake up and before you go to sleep. (Don't worry about the daytime. You are a busy guy.)
Maybe you do all of these things already. If you do all of them you can't help but go to the top of their list.
Taking Pictures. The smart way
We've talked about this topic a little bit in the past but I wanted to revisit it.
So far in my Sugar Bowl career I've never taken a single picture of one of my babies in the bedroom or otherwise. I've been tempted but I always felt it was just too big of a risk of exposure having hard evidence of my activities in my possession. With just about every action I do in the Sugar Bowl, I try to make sure it's always backed up by "Reasonable Doubt". Meaning if I'm careless and a piece of evidence of my activities finds its way into the Warden's hands, I can explain it and cloud it with enough reasonable doubt so a state of blissful ignorance can be maintained. I try to avoid creating "Smoking Guns" at all costs. I can explain an errant hotel charge on a credit card (ie. My buddy got in a huge fight with his girlfriend and needed a place to crash or the card number must have been stolen and I'll report it immediately, and etc). But if there is a pic found in my possession of a young 20 year-old deep-throating my cock in POV style then there's no explaining that away. That's a career-ending torn ACL injury, you're out of the Bowl immediately and if you somehow manage to return, you'll never be the same.
That said.
I've some really good bedroom experiences lately and man oh man, I'd like to have a few photos / vids to re-live those moments since in some cases they might be just once in-lifetime type experiences. So I'm really tempted to break my own rule. I also recently got a new phone, so I'm thinking of using my old phone, which has no service at all, as my Sugar Cam. Since it's a known device, I wouldn't have to hide it discretely and I can pretty much leave it lying around in the periphery in the house. And since it's a dead phone, it's highly unlikely the Warden will go thumbing through it (It has a screen lock anyway). And with the phone being off the grid from a wireless provider, the only way pics are getting downloaded / sent is through a manual USB transfer.
So the chain of custody of my Sugar Pics would go like this:
1). Naked SB 2). Pull out Sugar Cam 3). *Click* 4). Sugar Pics on Sugar Cam 5). After quick review, Sugar Cam Phone stays locked indefinitely 6). Transfer Sugar Pics to secure device / computer to password protected folders 7). Wipe Sugar Cam of Sugar Pics.
What do you guys think of that? Those of you who take pictures how do you transfer and store them securely?
Why it pays to do due dilligence
My brothers,
I was communicating on SA this morning with a hot-looking baby, a little older than I like them, but still do-able, at least from her photos. I coaxed her over to my Sugar email account, where her message to me contained her real name in her email address. Things were going along nicely, and we were setting up an m&g for later today when I idly put her name into pipl. Not only did more recent, and skanky, pics come up, but an article about her boyfriend and father of her SIX children, who was sent to prison for burning her clothes and setting the house on fire in a drunken jealous rage over her cheating on him. Oh, and he also set her parents' house on fire, and attacked a police officer with a butcher knife. This was back in 2011, and he was sentenced to 2 1/2 years, meaning he is probably just getting out, if not free already! I can just see it now: "Hi honey, I'm home from prison! Who the FUCK is this?"
Needless to say, I am going to vanish on this one. Any bro in the Chicago area on SA, pm me and I'll give you her profile. Unless you live for danger, in which case, tall ho!
You can never be too careful in your initial screening process, I say, and any little bit of intel is helpful.
Peace,
Scott