Safe Sex Information and Advice

[QUOTE=LimaBean;4049916]I know of nothing that will transfer from simple skin-to-skin contact.

A couple months ago, a pretty SW hopped in. She'd changed her hair, so I didn't recognize her right away. Then I realized she was a lousy lay. I told her sorry, I only have five bucks. I thought this would get her out really fast. Instead she said she'd give me a handjob for $5. I laughed and said if I wanted that, I could jerk myself off for free. She didn't like my response, but she got out.[/QUOTE]Funny thing is 5 is what I paid LOL. Saliva doesn't pose a risk?

[QUOTE=Crism080;4050281]If you are worried about getting a present from a hand job, perhaps this hobby isn't for you.[/QUOTE]You sir, are correct. I realized this after my experience. I looked online and get conflicting info on saliva and HJ.

[QUOTE=Jkpt11;4024129]I am not sure where to post this, so I am posting this question (s) here. I am a newbie to this hobby so please don't be to hard on my ignorance. In your dreams, are there any concerns about STD? How do you dream of protection besides a condom (which they say is no guarantee of not contracting STD's). Are there any other safe measures to use when dreaming of FS?

Can you veteran dreamers give us newbies some input on how you handle protection from STD's?[/QUOTE]Latex condoms will protect you from STDs as long as they do not break or slip off during intercourse.

To keep a condom from slipping off, do not apply lube before applying the condom. Also, roll the condom all the way down the shaft of the penis. If lube is applied to the penis and if the condom is not rolled all the way down the shaft, the condom is in danger of slipping off during intercourse.

Some of the thinner "bare skin" condoms have a tendency to break under stress. So, make sure to use lubricant, when needed. You should avoid positions that put stress on the condom. If you use lube, it is unlikely that the condom will break.

So, use latex condoms, and protect against breakage and slipping off.

After the act, I suggest bringing wet wipes and soap with you. Use wet wipes for the initial clean up. Then, if you are able to use the restroom, clean your penis, scrotum and so on with soap and water. Wash, rinse and repeat. I tend to bring a small bottle of castile soap with me.

[blue]Not applying a small amount of lube to the head of your dick (very small amount) is more likely to cause a condom to fail. I couldn't even begin to count the number of hookers I've fucked in my life and I have never once had a condom slip off.

Also don't forget to unroll it a bit before putting it on your dick.

You should research before posting.

[url]https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/condom/how-to-put-a-condom-on[/url]

A2[/blue]

[QUOTE=JonWan;4061383]
[blue]Not applying a small amount of lube to the head of your dick (very small amount) is more likely to cause a condom to fail. I couldn't even begin to count the number of hookers I've fucked in my life and I have never once had a condom slip off.

Also don't forget to unroll it a bit before putting it on your dick.

You should research before posting.

[url]https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/condom/how-to-put-a-condom-on[/url]

A2[/blue][/QUOTE]Well, I do not want to disagree with A2, [blue][Deleted by Admin]

Then don't. I don't judge but after reading what you wrote you may as well go in bare.

I'm not judging, it's your dick use it as you want so long as the chick signs on as well.

A2[/blue]

As A2 points out, putting a little lube on the head before you put on the condom can help prevent breakage. Also, using lube in general can prevent breakage. I have had a couple of "Bare Skin" ones break on me, but I was not using lube.

Generally, latex condoms afford protection from STDs. But, if you want to be protected from STDs, you need to follow the directions on how to put on a condom correctly. Here is a good link: [URL]https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/condom/how-to-put-a-condom-on[/URL].

[QUOTE=DonTrask;4071334]I'm in sales so I travel a far bit by car. My business day ended in South Jersey so I swung by the Broadway stroll in Camden and counted just a single SW at about 6 PM and she was so bundled up that you couldn't tell what you are getting.

So on my way home, I checked out Keningston at about 6:30 and there had to be at least 5 SW that were all options. I made the swoop on one, told me her name was Dawn, no phone, on Sargent Street and we were off the races. Standard pricing $. 2 for a BBBJ and I was on way.

I just love the free enterprise system.[/QUOTE]Just wanted to post again in effort to be responsible to the lurkers who read this because it's not all fun and games.

Yes, in Kensington you can find girls to have fun with, but this area isn't Bangkok or Amsterdam where girls get tested and get into this line of work specifically to support themselves or their poor families somewhere.

In Kensenton the SW are primarily drug addicts (many of them are even homeless even though they don't look like it) so you need to be careful! Not going to elaborate but a LE source told me personally that HIV floats around in Kensenton with the SWs and I remember one girl telling me about a SW who had it.

I seen with my own eyes a girl who I bought about 2 weeks worth of syringes and rubbing alcohol for her to only give it away (or sell it) and keep using the same dirty bent syringe that she was using for weeks. Another gal I know who works the ave almost died of a blood infection that went to her heart because of shooting up. These just ain't the kind of gals you want to go bareback with and for me I don't even do any kind of intercourse with any of them.

To each his own and I'm not here to judge but I'm just telling you all what I do and to just warn lurkers reading this thread that it's not all fun and games.

As far as BBBJ it's much safer but you still need to watch out. Many of these gals have very poor oral hygiene which is why many of them have missing or black teeth. Make sure you pee afterwards and you flush your body out with drinking plenty of water and cranberry juice. Cranberry juice also helps to keep bacteria from sticking to the lining of your urethra or something like that.

[QUOTE=Lance547;4074942]Just wanted to post again in effort to be responsible to the lurkers who read this because it's not all fun and games.

Yes, in Kensington you can find girls to have fun with, but this area isn't Bangkok or Amsterdam where girls get tested and get into this line of work specifically to support themselves or their poor families somewhere.

In Kensenton the SW are primarily drug addicts (many of them are even homeless even though they don't look like it) so you need to be careful! Not going to elaborate but a LE source told me personally that HIV floats around in Kensenton with the SWs and I remember one girl telling me about a SW who had it.

I seen with my own eyes a girl who I bought about 2 weeks worth of syringes and rubbing alcohol for her to only give it away (or sell it) and keep using the same dirty bent syringe that she was using for weeks. Another gal I know who works the ave almost died of a blood infection that went to her heart because of shooting up. These just ain't the kind of gals you want to go bareback with and for me I don't even do any kind of intercourse with any of them.

To each his own and I'm not here to judge but I'm just telling you all what I do and to just warn lurkers reading this thread that it's not all fun and games.

As far as BBBJ it's much safer but you still need to watch out. Many of these gals have very poor oral hygiene which is why many of them have missing or black teeth. Make sure you pee afterwards and you flush your body out with drinking plenty of water and cranberry juice. Cranberry juice also helps to keep bacteria from sticking to the lining of your urethra or something like that.[/QUOTE]Of course there is HIV out there. Almost all of the girls on the Ave are homeless or close to homeless but the chances of catching the virus is slim for hetero males. These are the common scientific stats " about 4 cases of HIV transmission per every 10,000 acts of vaginal sex with a woman who is HIV positive) ".

[QUOTE=Lance547;4074942]Just wanted to post again in effort to be responsible to the lurkers who read this because it's not all fun and games.

Yes, in Kensington you can find girls to have fun with, but this area isn't Bangkok or Amsterdam where girls get tested and get into this line of work specifically to support themselves or their poor families somewhere.

In Kensenton the SW are primarily drug addicts (many of them are even homeless even though they don't look like it) so you need to be careful! Not going to elaborate but a LE source told me personally that HIV floats around in Kensenton with the SWs and I remember one girl telling me about a SW who had it.

I seen with my own eyes a girl who I bought about 2 weeks worth of syringes and rubbing alcohol for her to only give it away (or sell it) and keep using the same dirty bent syringe that she was using for weeks. Another gal I know who works the ave almost died of a blood infection that went to her heart because of shooting up. These just ain't the kind of gals you want to go bareback with and for me I don't even do any kind of intercourse with any of them.

To each his own and I'm not here to judge but I'm just telling you all what I do and to just warn lurkers reading this thread that it's not all fun and games.

As far as BBBJ it's much safer but you still need to watch out. Many of these gals have very poor oral hygiene which is why many of them have missing or black teeth. Make sure you pee afterwards and you flush your body out with drinking plenty of water and cranberry juice. Cranberry juice also helps to keep bacteria from sticking to the lining of your urethra or something like that.[/QUOTE]Your information is not correct. While it is true that BBBJ has a lower risk of spreading HIV, the risk for an cut male in contracting HIV thru vaginal sex is really low as the other poster said. However, your risk of catching the common STD's like gonorrhea and chlamydia are far, far higher via BBBJ. These girls' pussies are far cleaner than their mouths.

I refuse to get BBBJ for this reason and go BBFS exclusively.

[QUOTE=BusterHymen;4076239]Your information is not correct. While it is true that BBBJ has a lower risk of spreading HIV, the risk for an cut male in contracting HIV thru vaginal sex is really low as the other poster said. However, your risk of catching the common STD's like gonorrhea and chlamydia are far, far higher via BBBJ. These girls' pussies are far cleaner than their mouths.

I refuse to get BBBJ for this reason and go BBFS exclusively.[/QUOTE]I had am awful experience from someone who appeared on the outside clean, good hygiene and well kept, even had all of her teeth (LOL). But seriously. 2-3 days later I had a problem after a short oral session. Then two weeks to heel completely. It was awful. Never again, always covered.

Now I will say, that I moved from SW, BP and CL to the AMP's. With that said, at least I would like the risk is lower. I certainly believe this. They are safer and less drama. I am paranoid, now I travel with my DCK Dick Cleanup Kit, in the event my little head takes control. I never want to go through that again.

[QUOTE=BusterHymen;4076239]Your information is not correct. While it is true that BBBJ has a lower risk of spreading HIV, the risk for an cut male in contracting HIV thru vaginal sex is really low as the other poster said. However, your risk of catching the common STD's like gonorrhea and ily2231@aim.com are far, far higher via BBBJ. These girls' pussies are far cleaner than their mouths.

I refuse to get BBBJ for this reason and go BBFS exclusively.[/QUOTE]To each is his own. No judgment. Yes, you're probably right in that a pussy is "cleaner" than a mouth that is full of bacteria but from all the medical literature I have read there are no known cases of HIV transmission from oral sex.

And yes, gonorrhea and clymadia can be transmitted from unprotected oral sex. I have contacted it once from an online escort and was treated at a clinic.

Since we are on the subject I think I will throw the question open. Have any of you actually caught anything ever?

I have been having bareback sex about 80% of the time since the 90's. Worst I have ever gotten is a sneeze.

Then again I have never put my junk in any obviously diseased holes. In fact I have only seen photos never encountered one up front.

[QUOTE=ShootingBlanks;4084384]Since we are on the subject I think I will throw the question open. Have any of you actually caught anything ever?

I have been having bareback sex about 80% of the time since the 90's. Worst I have ever gotten is a sneeze.

Then again I have never put my junk in any obviously diseased holes. In fact I have only seen photos never encountered one up front.[/QUOTE]I've only bare backed 2 hoes. Cristy2681 and kendra from backpage but this is the first time I've gotten something that worries me. I'm going to PP on Wednesday to get a full std test.

Even though I've never caught anything I get tested regularly. To me its just part of the price of admission.

[QUOTE=OakRaiders89;4084703]I've only bare backed 2 hoes. Cristy2681 and kendra from backpage but this is the first time I've gotten something that worries me. I'm going to PP on Wednesday to get a full std test.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ShootingBlanks;4084384]Since we are on the subject I think I will throw the question open. Have any of you actually caught anything ever?

I have been having bareback sex about 80% of the time since the 90's. Worst I have ever gotten is a sneeze.

Then again I have never put my junk in any obviously diseased holes. In fact I have only seen photos never encountered one up front.[/QUOTE]I've had the clap 3 times in the last 2 years. The last time I had the clap, I had to take the z pack 3 times. For the guy saying that you banged cristi bb, or any of you guys that want to: she has hep c. She does not look healthy at all.

So, I don't think I'm the only one here that does this. Does anyone go hardcore on the disinfectant after having a dream? Like I am typing this with clorox bleach on my nob, trying to make sure I kill whatever may be lurking. Hell, on the drive I poured hand sanatizer on me nob, shit burned like hell, but I'd rather burn for a few minutes than burn for my life. Better hyper paranoid than sorry.

Oh, and dreamed lexi, demons present and on display the moment we finished (the classic inhaling rock), but very submissive to the customer. BBBJ cim qv. 4 damage 15 min kinda watched the clock but not really. It was fun and easy (though definitely sketch), but probably won't visit again.

[QUOTE=JackobLee;4087750]So, I don't think I'm the only one here that does this. Does anyone go hardcore on the disinfectant after having a dream? Like I am typing this with clorox bleach on my nob, trying to make sure I kill whatever may be lurking. Hell, on the drive I poured hand sanatizer on me nob, shit burned like hell, but I'd rather burn for a few minutes than burn for my life. Better hyper paranoid than sorry.

Oh, and dreamed lexi, demons present and on display the moment we finished (the classic inhaling rock), but very submissive to the customer. BBBJ cim qv. 4 damage 15 min kinda watched the clock but not really. It was fun and easy (though definitely sketch), but probably won't visit again.[/QUOTE]I do this. Well, not the bleach, but the sanitizer. Yeah, it stings a little, but better than getting a gift that won't stop giving.

I tend to freak myself out after a dream. My worry used to be that I would get a girl pregnant (like a FB or a random civvy or a SB who doesn't ride so many cocks that she couldn't figure out who fertilized her), even though I use condoms religiously. Now that I've gotten a vasectomy my brain spins about STDs. I still use condoms religiously and don't do BBBJ, or BB anything, but there are a couple of things like herpes and warts you can get thru skin to skin contact in areas that aren't protected by the condom. So far, either by luck or because of my hygiene routines I've been lucky and never gotten anything.

I've done a lot of reading and it seems that the herpes virus is pretty fragile and is destroyed by sanitizer pretty easily (not once you're infected, of course, but when it's just on a "surface", like in pussy juice on your cock). It's a lipid coated virus and the alcohol dissolves the coating and the virus is no longer able to function. Warts viruses, on the other hand are generally very, very durable and sanitizer doesn't affect them, unfortunately. Your bleach trick might kill warts, but at what strength and how long does it need to be exposed to bleach before dying? I worry about putting that shit on my junk. The skin is thin and sensitive there, bleach may do more damage than good.

I haven't read anything about using sanitizer as a preventive measure. No idea if it prevents infection by herpes virus that's fresh on the skin and hasn't "burrowed" into a cell yet, but the logic makes sense to me. If there is anyone with actual info in this, I'd love to hear it.

Kwag.

[QUOTE=JackobLee;4087750]So, I don't think I'm the only one here that does this. Does anyone go hardcore on the disinfectant after having a dream? Like I am typing this with clorox bleach on my nob, trying to make sure I kill whatever may be lurking. Hell, on the drive I poured hand sanatizer on me nob, shit burned like hell, but I'd rather burn for a few minutes than burn for my life. Better hyper paranoid than sorry.

Oh, and dreamed lexi, demons present and on display the moment we finished (the classic inhaling rock), but very submissive to the customer. BBBJ cim qv. 4 damage 15 min kinda watched the clock but not really. It was fun and easy (though definitely sketch), but probably won't visit again.[/QUOTE]I keep a bottle of Hibiclens in my car to clean-up with after every encounter. I found the following description online, and it seems to kill just about everything:

Hibiclens soap is an antiseptic, antimicrobial skin cleanser used by medical professionals before surgical procedures and by patients before a surgical procedure. This special soap cleans the surgeon's own skin as well as their patients'. Germs are killed on contact, with continuous effectiveness for up to 24 hours. It is essential that all germs are eradicated on the skin surfaces of surgeons, operating room attendants, and the patient in order to help prevent postoperative infections.

The benefits of Hibiclens soap include:

Antiseptic activity plus a persistent, long-lasting antimicrobial effect.

Rapid bactericidal activity, fighting a range of microorganisms.

Ideal for skin preparation pre-surgery and as a surgical scrub.

Kills fungi, viruses and bacteria.

Continues to kill germs for up to 24 hours after use.

Gentle on the skin of both healthcare professionals and patients, even when used frequently.

[QUOTE=Lopakhin;4088620]I keep a bottle of Hibiclens in my car to clean-up with after every encounter. I found the following description online, and it seems to kill just about everything,[/QUOTE]Of course, there is no substitute for using a latex condom, and apply it properly. So, this clean up talk is an additional measure.

Hibiclens is the best. It is a soap, and you use it just like you would any soap. Wash, rinse, repeat. [URL]http://hibiclens.com/retail[/URL].

If Hibiclens is not available, try another soap. I use liquid castile soap. [URL]https://draxe.com/castile-soap/[/URL].

Mouthwash or diluted alcohol or hand sanatizer are OK, but uncomfortable. And, not my first choice.

I carry flushable wipes for quick clean ups. [URL]https://www.walmart.com/c/kp/cottonelle-flushable-wipes[/URL] But, I carry soap and water also. I always make time to use the soap and water in addition to the wipes.

P.S.: If you are going to do BB, then it is a good idea to piss shortly after intercourse (in addition to washing up). I like the idea of drinking plenty of water or cranberry juice before a session.

Chlamydia is common. [URL]https://www.cdc.gov/std/stats17/tables/1.htm[/URL] The best protection is a latex condom.

I believe people that shave pubes are at higher risk for herpes. Or if you shave you should wait at least 3 days. . If this is true maybe just wearing boxers and a condom would help. Maybe keeping the skin hydrated would make it less absorbant. Wonder how common herpes is among provider / mongers. I know cold soars are very common so makes me worry that maybe there is something that I don't know.

[QUOTE=Kwagmire;4088069]I do this. Well, not the bleach, but the sanitizer. Yeah, it stings a little, but better than getting a gift that won't stop giving.

I tend to freak myself out after a dream. My worry used to be that I would get a girl pregnant (like a FB or a random civvy or a SB who doesn't ride so many cocks that she couldn't figure out who fertilized her), even though I use condoms religiously. Now that I've gotten a vasectomy my brain spins about STDs. I still use condoms religiously and don't do BBBJ, or BB anything, but there are a couple of things like herpes and warts you can get thru skin to skin contact in areas that aren't protected by the condom. So far, either by luck or because of my hygiene routines I've been lucky and never gotten anything.

I've done a lot of reading and it seems that the herpes virus is pretty fragile and is destroyed by sanitizer pretty easily (not once you're infected, of course, but when it's just on a "surface", like in pussy juice on your cock). It's a lipid coated virus and the alcohol dissolves the coating and the virus is no longer able to function. Warts viruses, on the other hand are generally very, very durable and sanitizer doesn't affect them, unfortunately. Your bleach trick might kill warts, but at what strength and how long does it need to be exposed to bleach before dying? I worry about putting that shit on my junk. The skin is thin and sensitive there, bleach may do more damage than good.

I haven't read anything about using sanitizer as a preventive measure. No idea if it prevents infection by herpes virus that's fresh on the skin and hasn't "burrowed" into a cell yet, but the logic makes sense to me. If there is anyone with actual info in this, I'd love to hear it.

Kwag.[/QUOTE].

[QUOTE=TeddyO;4098059]I believe people that shave pubes are at higher risk for herpes. Or if you shave you should wait at least 3 days. . If this is true maybe just wearing boxers and a condom would help. Maybe keeping the skin hydrated would make it less absorbant. Wonder how common herpes is among provider / mongers. I know cold soars are very common so makes me worry that maybe there is something that I don't know.[/QUOTE]In the past, I used to shave some down there but started thinking the same way you do about the extra protection pubes provide. I always wanted to be presentable for the ladies but fuck that. If longer pubes can, in any way, reduce my chances of catching something, I'll continue to let them grow. The boxer idea is a good one, too.

I suspect the extra risk from shaving pubes is due to small cuts in the skin rather than the absence of the hair. I've thought about the boxer idea too, but my concern is they may absorb body fluids which will then be transferred to the penis when you take them off. I remember reading another poster's comment that he puts the condom on first, then a dental dam with a hole in the middle (as a gasket), and then the boxers after that. If you take them off in the reverse sequence, that should be safe.

The general idea of adding a protective layer to areas not covered by the condom is a good one. There are some other options available. Coconut oil is water (body fluid) resistant and also antimicrobial. It contains monolaurin, a substance that suppresses the herpes virus. However, it is not compatible with latex condoms. Lauricidin is a concentrated form of monolaurin derived from coconut oil that is meant for oral consumption.

Dimethicone is a silicone material used in skin barrier creams. It bonds with dead skin cells in the outermost skin layer. It is water and body fluid resistant for several hours until the skin cells are shed. It is compatible with latex condoms. It is also found in silicone lubricants.

The active ingredient in Hibiclens is chlorhexidine gluconate, which is also used as an oral rinse for gum disease. There are other brands with this ingredient if that one is not available. In theory it could be used afterwards and also before hand as a preventive measure. It might absorb into the skin providing a protective layer. Use it before dimethicone.

Urinating afterwards to flush out microbes is a reasonable precaution, especially after BBBJ. Drinking water before hand will help. Cranberry juice contains a sugar called mannose that prevents UTI infections, but it only works for E. Coli bacteria.

Vacuum ED pumps often come with a thin stretchy silicone or rubber disc that is used as a scrotal shield at the base of the penis. Has anyone tried sliding one of these on before putting on the condom? It might substantially increase the amount of skin coverage to protect against herpes and warts. It would be necessary to avoid friction between the two items to prevent the condom from breaking, so they probably shouldn't overlap.

It's good to know I'm not the only one with SO. I appreciate all the info you provide. The one thing that I do worry about, I know nothing is 100%, is catching a STD. How likely is that? Any idea on how to get around that one? I wear a condom except for blow jobs.

[QUOTE=RockChalk;4106557]Sorry that you guys have had these experiences at Euro. I haven't been there in over a year due to a change in address, but I frequented there often when I first started mongering in the Spring of 2017 and I never had an issue then. Of course, "Cookie" wasn't around then and it could be more her doing this than the rest of the Euro staff.

Another reason I may not have had a problem with anyone going through my stuff at Euro is because I never went in the sauna. That seems like a perfect time for a girl to go through your stuff since they know where you are and for how long. That wasn't the reason I didn't take the sauna, to me it just seemed like a waste of time. If I just had a table shower with big tittied Candy soaping my balls and ass crack while rubbing those giant juggs in my face, the absolute last thing I wanted to do is sit in a hot little wooden room by my damn self!

I have been to way too many AMPs than I should have in the past 2 years since I moved here and seen plenty of escorts, too. Thanks to reading up the forum and also doing some thinking with my big head before the little head gets involved, there are some things I do now to avoid problems that I didn't use to do when I first started mongering.

I'm not saying that I have all the answers and please don't think I am trying to be a know-it-all, I just don't like my fellow mongers getting robbed and I'm trying to help. Take it for what it's worth..[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MikeRizzo2020;4106954]It's good to know I'm not the only one with SO. I appreciate all the info you provide. The one thing that I do worry about, I know nothing is 100%, is catching a STD. How likely is that? Any idea on how to get around that one? I wear a condom except for blow jobs.[/QUOTE]The question on STD is a good one. I also wonder about that. Especially so many of the girls are now doing BB. Even BBBJ can be risky.

[QUOTE=MikeRizzo2020;4106954]It's good to know I'm not the only one with SO. I appreciate all the info you provide. The one thing that I do worry about, I know nothing is 100%, is catching a STD. How likely is that? Any idea on how to get around that one? I wear a condom except for blow jobs.[/QUOTE]Number 1 concern for me too. Problem is several of them have no symptoms so you never know.

The answer is an answer you do not want to hear. The odds are very high of getting an std from an escort / AMP provider offering BBFS. I have seen statistics that 1 in 4 people have an STD. I cannot pomt to a specific study showing this. But look online for the prevalence of STD's. It is high.

The more contacts one has the higher the risk of contacting an STD. Some of these providers see multiple men a day. If they are barebacking you they are barebacking others no matter what they say.

Recently there was a posting on here in the BB thread saying those who had seen a certain provider should be checked. Think about it. If she saw multiple mongers who then saw multiple providers each who then saw more mongers it is easy to figure out the odds are high, especially since many on here see the same providers based on what I have read. Yes one can contact an STD with a BBBJ as well.

Many STDs are asymptomatic in both males and females. So sadly feeling fine is not a guarantee of being free of an STD. Gonorrhea and Chlamydia are fairly easily checked as is syphilis. Trichomoniasis is not easy to diagnose in men. Many people with herpes have only one episode and no more so they do not realize they have HSV. But they can still shed the virus at certain times. HIV and Hepatitis B are around too. Many of these providers have track marks on their arms or elsewhere and / or abscesses on the legs or buttocks indicative of IV drug use. There have been comments about there being multiple women on the track on AA who are HIV positive. Hepatitis goes along with IV drug use too.

The one bright part is that just because one is exposed to an STD (including HIV) does not mean they will come down with the disease. But certainly the more exposure the higher the risk.

Wearing a condom is a good way to protect oneself. Latex ones are the best but none are 100% effective. All experts recommend wearing a condom at all time when engaged in sexual activity.

One provider who has been frequently mentioned on this site as a BB provider (and a gangbang provider) takes something to protect her from getting HIV (or did as of a couple years ago when I was communicating with her). It may help her but not those who are barebacking her. And clearly she is a high volume provider.

There is much reliable information on STD's (STI's) online. Check the CDC website. I suspect webMD is a reliable site as well.

If one has been barebacking one or more escorts then one should be checked for an STD (and possibly treated) before being with your SO or you run the risk of passing along a gift to her.

Hope this answers your questions.

PM if you have any questions / comments.

[QUOTE=MikeRizzo2020;4106954]It's good to know I'm not the only one with SO. I appreciate all the info you provide. The one thing that I do worry about, I know nothing is 100%, is catching a STD. How likely is that? Any idea on how to get around that one? I wear a condom except for blow jobs.[/QUOTE]

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[QUOTE=PeterHouston;4110051]The answer is an answer you do not want to hear. The odds are very high of getting an std from an escort / AMP provider offering BBFS. I have seen statistics that 1 in 4 people have an STD. [/QUOTE]Misleading. Estimated 20-25% of USA Adults have HSV-2 (herpes simplex B), close to that 1 in 4 total. HSV-2 is twice as common in women as in men. Once you have it, you always have it.

If you count HPV (human papillomavirus) as an std, that's another 25%. It's the most common std, but usually clears up on its own (unlike other stds), and there's a vaccine that women receive because HPV can cause cancer.

The most common remaining std is chlamydia, at about 4% of adults, probably much higher here. It and syphilis spread very easily. You will eventually lose the bet, possibly on your first try.

It's been 6 weeks since I've barebacked a meth addict (status unknown). A full ten second and less of very dry vaginal intercourse with her on top with me finishing inside her.

A week afterwards I started getting flu symptoms: canker sores, muscle weakness, yellow to green mucus, coughs. Symptoms have persisted for the 6 weeks on and off. Still haven't had chills, headaches, fever, or rashes.

Although I live in the cold and could just attribute this to the flu, the canker sores and random muscle aches have been off putting. I've never had canker sores unless I accidentally bit my lip or brush too hard against my gums. The muscle ache\weakness is new. Although I can lift and contract muscles normally, it feels weak like you're in a hypoglycemic state all the time. Then I get these random and mild muscle aches, the worst so far has been jabbing neck pains in the lymph nodes that leads to earaches.

Feels like my luck is finally out. I've been hyper aware of everything HIV since then; I literally sat the airport, looked up and saw a magic johnson ad looking back at me and panicked. What could the transmission route have been in this potential case? Break in the skin or through the urethra? It was so dry I can only assume it was either through skin break or the urethra tip unfolding of the penis.

I'll be testing at the 7 week mark and will update. This post was more a less of #offmychest. Will be interesting to see if I fall into that. 04% odds of transmission.

I was talking to a friend yesterday who has a cousin on SA and her cousin is 19, Latina mix and actually gets $$ per visit. Thing is that her cousin has herpes. I don't know her profile and won't find out. She said that some guys get so worked up about going BB that they just do it anyway. Although pleasurable, you may be bringing back some extra baggage. Stay covered my friends.

[QUOTE=Tripnosis;4116981]It's been 6 weeks since I've barebacked a meth addict (status unknown). A full ten second and less of very dry vaginal intercourse with her on top with me finishing inside her.

A week afterwards I started getting flu symptoms: canker sores, muscle weakness, yellow to green mucus, coughs. Symptoms have persisted for the 6 weeks on and off. Still haven't had chills, headaches, fever, or rashes.

Although I live in the cold and could just attribute this to the flu, the canker sores and random muscle aches have been off putting. I've never had canker sores unless I accidentally bit my lip or brush too hard against my gums. The muscle ache\weakness is new. Although I can lift and contract muscles normally, it feels weak like you're in a hypoglycemic state all the time. Then I get these random and mild muscle aches, the worst so far has been jabbing neck pains in the lymph nodes that leads to earaches.

Feels like my luck is finally out. I've been hyper aware of everything HIV since then; I literally sat the airport, looked up and saw a magic johnson ad looking back at me and panicked. What could the transmission route have been in this potential case? Break in the skin or through the urethra? It was so dry I can only assume it was either through skin break or the urethra tip unfolding of the penis.

I'll be testing at the 7 week mark and will update. This post was more a less of #offmychest. Will be interesting to see if I fall into that. 04% odds of transmission.[/QUOTE]I seriously doubt you contracted anything serious if you look at the stats on actual transmission and see how hard it can be to get something awful even with an infected partner. Something ore simple that an antibiotic may fix would be more a realty in my opinion. I'd say test and get your answers then relax. I have been where you are and all the self torture you're doing really wears on you. You begin to feel sick in certain ways and phantom pains and illness pops up. I can say that if I had to bet I am about 99.99% sure you are fine and I will be found to be correct. I hope all turns out well for you as I'm sure it will.

[QUOTE=Murphy69;4133311]I seriously doubt you contracted anything serious if you look at the stats on actual transmission and see how hard it can be to get something awful even with an infected partner. Something ore simple that an antibiotic may fix would be more a realty in my opinion. I'd say test and get your answers then relax. I have been where you are and all the self torture you're doing really wears on you. You begin to feel sick in certain ways and phantom pains and illness pops up. I can say that if I had to bet I am about 99.99% sure you are fine and I will be found to be correct. I hope all turns out well for you as I'm sure it will.[/QUOTE]Also, HIV symptons probably going aren't going to show up that soon. And it can take 6 months to show up on a test. If you have a wife, fuck her as little as possible and definitely do not do anal on her until you get tested.

[QUOTE=BigRon1969;4132685]I was talking to a friend yesterday who has a cousin on SA and her cousin is 19, Latina mix and actually gets $$ per visit. Thing is that her cousin has herpes. I don't know her profile and won't find out. She said that some guys get so worked up about going BB that they just do it anyway. Although pleasurable, you may be bringing back some extra baggage. Stay covered my friends.[/QUOTE]Condoms do not protect against herpes, you're f*cked.

[QUOTE=BoroGuy54;4133397]Condoms do not protect against herpes, you're f*cked.[/QUOTE]Conclusions Condom use offers significant protection against HSV-2 infection in susceptible women. Changes in sexual behavior, correlated with counseling about avoiding sex when a partner has lesions, were associated with reduction in HSV-2 acquisition over time. These data suggest that identification of discordant couples can reduce transmission of HSV-2, especially for heterosexual couples in which the male partner has HSV-2 infection.

I have 2 female friends I know who have it. They say 80% of the guys they date want to go BB. It doesn’t slow the guys down. I guess I’m old school. Show me the papers before we’re BB.

[QUOTE=BlackHawk101;4134369]Conclusions Condom use offers significant protection against HSV-2 infection in susceptible women. Changes in sexual behavior, correlated with counseling about avoiding sex when a partner has lesions, were associated with reduction in HSV-2 acquisition over time. These data suggest that identification of discordant couples can reduce transmission of HSV-2, especially for heterosexual couples in which the male partner has HSV-2 infection.

I have 2 female friends I know who have it. They say 80% of the guys they date want to go BB. It doesnt slow the guys down. I guess Im old school. Show me the papers before were BB.[/QUOTE]Blackhawk you are much more experienced in this game than I will ever be. But what you just described is parners who are intimate and of course then it is easier to keep from catching the virus. However, we are talking about guys who have sex with random women and women who have sex with random guys not knowing anything about their habits, lifestyles, or kinky shit they may be into. The fear of herpes in one reason I normally stick to bjs and with a select few bbbjs. And there is a certain member I never see a provider he has been with because chances are he has barebacked them.

[QUOTE=Tanatloc;4137015]Lisa does not let you CIP? Are we talking about the big titted, redheaded, chubby Lisa? I was under impression CIP with her isavailable to anyone.

Also questiin about Lucy. How does tightness of her box compare to Lily?[/QUOTE]A question for you brave gentlemen. Aren't you guys concerned of STD's, especially those you can't rid of, like HIV, ETC. I would love to give this a try but scared to death of that. How are you sure they are clean?

[QUOTE=VanillaStick;4139079]A question for you brave gentlemen. Aren't you guys concerned of STD's, especially those you can't rid of, like HIV, ETC. I would love to give this a try but scared to death of that. How are you sure they are clean?[/QUOTE]There are 109,000 people with HIV in NYC. Just remember that.

Hypothetical situation here.

Lets say someone goes to an Asian massage parlor. Pays 50 for a massage and tips 100. Pretending the masseuse comes in to the room in a very sexy outfit, takes it off, puts a condom on the guy. Sucks and rides him with a condom. Then finishes him with a hand and no condom. What are the std risk levels here? Is it safe for her to wash you down in rubbing alcohol too?

[QUOTE=VanillaStick;4139079]A question for you brave gentlemen. Aren't you guys concerned of STD's, especially those you can't rid of, like HIV, ETC. I would love to give this a try but scared to death of that. How are you sure they are clean?[/QUOTE]I rmember being a naive kid who started out never expecting BBFS because it always seemed like a forbidden thing that was impossible to have. Then years later I find this forum and I've been almost exclusively been doing BBFS with providers. I'm starting to lose track of the women I've inseminated and I pray to God or whoever is answering to not give me a std or a kid. I sometimes wish I never found this forum but then I'm sticking my dick inside a nice warm pussy and all my worries go away till later that night. I can't get enough it's like my addiction while others have booze or drugs I bare fuck these chicks.

Thats why we are all here. Too test the water and report back. Its rare but members do report if they unfortunately contact something from a providers but some time its just bacteria from unclean providers and others will just say stories about when they did contact something and give members advice. Its a shameful thing to contact something and its not easy to always report back if member criticize you

Most of us wear our rain coats so we mainly discuss service but since this section is mixed the BBFS members should be more informative but for the most part everyone that BBFS at Mott has not said anything bad so up until now everything seems ok.

We all take risk in the hobby why worry about the next man doing BBFS when you should be greatful he taking the risk to report back us on the forum.( thats how i see it)


[QUOTE=Chris93;4139283]I rmember being a naive kid who started out never expecting BBFS because it always seemed like a forbidden thing that was impossible to have. Then years later I find this forum and I've been almost exclusively been doing BBFS with providers. I'm starting to lose track of the women I've inseminated and I pray to God or whoever is answering to not give me a std or a kid. I sometimes wish I never found this forum but then I'm sticking my dick inside a nice warm pussy and all my worries go away till later that night. I can't get enough it's like my addiction while others have booze or drugs I bare fuck these chicks.[/QUOTE]