Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

I read so much through the boards where different people want to sit behind their computers and try speak that majority all providers are on some sort of drugs or another. I myself am not and do not do what I do for drugs. I do what I'd do because I enjoy it and because I have bills and a home to keep up with monthly as well. While I do what I do as a hobby I'm also looking for a job in search whether it be fulltime or just part time.

Also just a reminder and friendly key of advice for some providers in the hobby. I like to be on safe side when referencing my clients as I'm sure the rest of the providers would. I find it odd though on majority when I contact a few providers to reference through and all they can say is they do not remember if they know the client or number or not. I do not know if you choose to be that way because you feel you are loosing business or if its because you really do not. However key of advice is if you want to continue to be on safe side and help other providers be safe then START remembering clients and keeping track of names and numbers because I surely do. I also do not have a problem to ever be of help verifying a client because I do understand clients want to experience different providers, that is their right. Its not on me to choose not to verify out of being mad I would loose business. I give that respect to all providers so I would expect the same in return. I have heard numerous times from different people providers are complaining of their clients seeing certain people and not them. Grow up its a hobby business and clients can see whom they want it is their decision not ours to make for them or try stop them. All that will cause is for those providers doing just that to loose business being that way.

[QUOTE=EnvyMe; 1700760]I read so much through the boards where different people want to sit behind their computers and try speak that majority all providers are on some sort of drugs or another. I myself am not and do not do what I do for drugs. I do what I'd do because I enjoy it and because I have bills and a home to keep up with monthly as well. While I do what I do as a hobby I'm also looking for a job in search whether it be fulltime or just part time.

Also just a reminder and friendly key of advice for some providers in the hobby. I like to be on safe side when referencing my clients as I'm sure the rest of the providers would. I find it odd though on majority when I contact a few providers to reference through and all they can say is they do not remember if they know the client or number or not. I do not know if you choose to be that way because you feel you are loosing business or if its because you really do not. However key of advice is if you want to continue to be on safe side and help other providers be safe then START remembering clients and keeping track of names and numbers because I surely do. I also do not have a problem to ever be of help verifying a client because I do understand clients want to experience different providers, that is their right. Its not on me to choose not to verify out of being mad I would loose business. I give that respect to all providers so I would expect the same in return. I have heard numerous times from different people providers are complaining of their clients seeing certain people and not them. Grow up its a hobby business and clients can see whom they want it is their decision not ours to make for them or try stop them. All that will cause is for those providers doing just that to loose business being that way.[/QUOTE]Hon, I know it is very frustrating to see comments about providers being on drugs and doing what we do for drugs, yes some of us do what we do because we not only enjoy it, but hey it pays the bills, I for one am not on any drugs either but the comments are easily ignored, I know as well as my friends I have met along the way know I am no dope addict, so the comments mean nothing to me.

I get the frustration on references also, as I have ranted as well as other providers that do provide ref have also on this same topic. I won't name names on the girls that don't give ref in fear of losing "their" client, not my style but the guys know, and in the long run it hurts them more than it does anyone else. I know the ladies that do provide ref and have no fear, they know variety can be what some men are looking for, others may want one female they can relate to and feel comfortable with, to each their own. I always provide ref, always have and never had a problem with it, remember hon not all females in this business are secure enough with themselves nor their business to know giving a ref isn't going to destroy them if they are doing things right, its about being safe and ref help keep not only us but the men safe as well. Everyone needs to remember that!

As always stay safe and keep it fun,

Rhonda

If drugs weren't so intricately tied to this hobby, it would be legal. Which sucks for the ones who don't have an 'early death' habit to feed.

And, if this was legal, us girls would not have to rely so much on provider references. I am usually very good about saving phone #s, but every once in a while I do forget-hell, we are all human. That's why I ask for at least 2 refs, that way if one forgets then hopefully the other ref won't.

What really irks me is providers that I have never even heard of contacting me, and then grilling me for specific details about my client and his sessions. Seriously? I'm not telling you how big his cock is, if he cums quick, if he takes the whole hour, etc. I'm sorry, but I feel my clients do have the right to a little bit of privacy and discretion. Don't get me wrong-if something bad happened with the client, I will be sure to relay that info.

Users who post this kind of drama should be put in time out for 60 days from the board.

[QUOTE=Sinful Dreams; 1662358]So rumor has it, or rather it has been sent to me that you are sending emails to other hobbyists basically trying to ruin my business. What can't handle your own? I haven't bothered you, haven't said one word about you, because for one I am better than that, and two I don't stoop to highschool bullshit, but on this you went too far as to emailing other hobbyists whom might or might have not seen me. At any rate, your antics won't work, so keep trying. If you only knew so much more is going on, and you aren't "on top" like you claim to be. In fact I used to think highly of you, but A you call me out of my name, and B you now do this stupid shit.

I would like to know if you want to be so honest, how many other hobbyists received this very email.

Re: Plan be.

Can you imagine if leo gets ahold of her cel phone?

Credit card, Work place and personal information on anyone who calls her? WOW!

"I have a program that I put each client into, even if they are a ns / nc that lets me know next time."

Ally.

First of all, IF you would screen like I do, you would know that I use a SITE, not anything on my phone, to look up the info. And that is for MY safety, as tons of other providers use this same site. I am sure you have paid attention to the recent events, so we providers have to be very safe. And if a hobbyist has no references, I do verify his number with who he says he is, as well as work references. Also, I am very cautious about what I do, so I keep a database of said info. But doesn't mean it has YOUR info in it. It has a first name and that is it, and expenses incurred. Maybe before you go copying from forums I have wrote in, maybe you would've asked the question of what exactly I use it for.

I normally wouldn't even explain myself on this subject, but I just find it appalling that you would stoop to this level. But I guess your true colors are starting to shine through. This isn't the first email I have gotten. I can post the other one too, because it seems you have it out for me. I have done nothing to you. The transaction we had was a business transaction, but didn't completely work out the way it was supposed to. It happens. I am not God and I know you definitely aren't, so get off your high horse, and leave my name out of your mouth. This was the other email I got. I didn't post all of it but the last line to keep the one who sent it to me out of it.

Your old news here. Must kill you to see you are no longer the big man on the boards and folks won't take your shit anymore. Stick to ally and the druggie bitches.

Again, you must be showing your true colors, but mine are clearly shining on, and I am and always will be a true and honest person. Can you say the same?[/QUOTE]

I hope this post goes in the right area for newbs to say hi.

I was on BestGFE when I was in Jersey, have lived in Cincy area for about 4 years now.

I'm 40, disabled, a part-time hobbyist and have had the pleasure of meeting several gals from DD of D. (B is awesome to deal with on the phone / screening process)

I have met w / Brianna now from R2U, (Very beautiful but also very much aware of it.) and met up with AmR a month back and had a really great time.

I'm pretty much in the know on where to look for what so don't need to bug anyone for this or that, just wanted to say hi and also thanks to the ladies.

Of the Cincy area for being able to look past the wheelchair. Cheers.

PS, I hope the abbreviations aren't a pain to follow. Never sure how much to spell out. Better to be a little obscure IMHO.

I do not accept this type of behavior.

If I make a scheduled appointment with you, please have the courtesy of showing up.

Today I scheduled with a gentleman who had good references and checked out.

23 minutes after said appointment time he sends me a text saying that the area was too hot. Apparently he seen a cop a block away. What a bs lame excuse.

I told him that he need not ever contact me again. I do not accept this type of behavior and it isn't tolerated.

I will put his handle name / number on any black listed site and will inform the ladies of any gentleman who plays such games with me.

We take time to schedule appt's. We get sitters (some of us) that we must pay. We turn away other appointments. Only to have someone cancel or not show up. It is frustrating and unacceptable.

I will not ever correspond with anyone who does this. You go into the Do Not Answer log.

Please, everyone, be courteous or do not schedule at all.

Thank you, O,

Dawn

That sucks,

I have had the same thing happen to me the last few days. These guys infuriate me at times!

Hang in sister!

[QUOTE=Delicious Dawn; 1702807]I do not accept this type of behavior.

If I make a scheduled appointment with you, please have the courtesy of showing up.

Today I scheduled with a gentleman who had good references and checked out.

23 minutes after said appointment time he sends me a text saying that the area was too hot. Apparently he seen a cop a block away. What a bs lame excuse.

I told him that he need not ever contact me again. I do not accept this type of behavior and it isn't tolerated.

I will put his handle name / number on any black listed site and will inform the ladies of any gentleman who plays such games with me.

We take time to schedule appt's. We get sitters (some of us) that we must pay. We turn away other appointments. Only to have someone cancel or not show up. It is frustrating and unacceptable.

I will not ever correspond with anyone who does this. You go into the Do Not Answer log.

Please, everyone, be courteous or do not schedule at all.

Thank you, O,

Dawn[/QUOTE]Darlin,

First, your PM box is full, and you may want to purge. I did not realize you were ready to do new sessions with your recent strained back. Why didn't you give me a heads up if you were ready to see clients, especially given that some jackwagon cancelled on you? You know I would have dropped whatever I am doing to take his place. Are you ready to go?

-PD

Anyway, touch base when you can. I have a hectic travel schedule for the second part of March, but is some idiot backs out on you, I will pinch hit, if I am in town.

Take care,

PD

OK, thinking out loud here but also seeking opinions. If I have it right, for $130 a year you are "verified," and are sometimes available for discounts, depending on the provider.

So, if you are a part-time hobbyist living in a low-traffic area, you pay the same amount as a full-time monger in NYC. That seems a rather obvious disparity in value.

I'm thinking of saving my money, and slowly just build my references. (I have one agency ref and one independent.) If you don't travel / monger cross country, can someone let me know what else I might not be considering? Sorry if this is a topic beaten to death, don't kill the newb.

Or maybe not.

By the way that should read,"The the or Nyet." I don't know why the word filter. I'm crippled not retarded.

[QUOTE=CoffeeFtw; 1708873]OK, thinking out loud here but also seeking opinions. If I have it right, for $130 a year you are "verified," and are sometimes available for discounts, depending on the provider.

So, if you are a part-time hobbyist living in a low-traffic area, you pay the same amount as a full-time monger in NYC. That seems a rather obvious disparity in value.

I'm thinking of saving my money, and slowly just build my references. (I have one agency ref and one independent.) If you don't travel / monger cross country, can someone let me know what else I might not be considering? Sorry if this is a topic beaten to death, don't kill the newb.[/QUOTE]

Random musing: I love doing it, but I never ask for it because I think it makes me look like an asshole. I know some of you hobbyists will shred me for that."Aw, its your money, at least ask for what you want", and that's fair, but this is just one of those things where I feel downright bad about it for whatever reason. (That is, bad about asking for it, not about wanting to do it). I guess it just strikes me as an outrageous request (for some obvious reasons). Am I alone in this?

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