Safe Sex Information and Advice

I have read a lot of folks on this fourm having DATY and getting a BBBJ. I have been wondering how safe is it indulging in this with a escort off of BP? They have been many instances on my dreams when I was asked if I wanted to DATY or wanted a BBBJ, although I am very tempted to say yes I back out. I have read many articles that suggest that many a times although prostitutes have a low risk of HIV since they use protection regularly but that does not stop from contracting a STD.

I just wouldn't want to have warts on my tongue.

Feedback would be appreciated!

[QUOTE=ILoveDeams; 1848933]I have read a lot of folks on this fourm having DATY and getting a BBBJ. I have been wondering how safe is it indulging in this with a escort off of BP? They have been many instances on my dreams when I was asked if I wanted to DATY or wanted a BBBJ, although I am very tempted to say yes I back out. I have read many articles that suggest that many a times although prostitutes have a low risk of HIV since they use protection regularly but that does not stop from contracting a STD.

I just wouldn't want to have warts on my tongue.

Feedback would be appreciated![/QUOTE]My brother works as a nurse supervisor for one of the county health departments and his group specializes in the STD issues there. He told me that under no circumstances should I exchange any bodily fluids with anyone. He said that while the risk of transmission of HIV from DATY or BBBJ was fairly low, transmission of HPV (especially) , gonorrhea, and syphilis is very high.

He said to wrap it and keep my mouth out of BP girl's crotches.

[QUOTE=ILoveDeams; 1848933]I have read a lot of folks on this fourm having DATY and getting a BBBJ. I have been wondering how safe is it indulging in this with a escort off of BP? They have been many instances on my dreams when I was asked if I wanted to DATY or wanted a BBBJ, although I am very tempted to say yes I back out. I have read many articles that suggest that many a times although prostitutes have a low risk of HIV since they use protection regularly but that does not stop from contracting a STD.

I just wouldn't want to have warts on my tongue.

Feedback would be appreciated![/QUOTE]Keep doing what you're doing bro by staying safe. Staying safe not only protects you, but it also doesn't cause regret. First of all anyone that decides to DATY a "working girl" is playing Russian Roulette. I don't see the point in paying a girl to DATY. We aren't here to please them. Yes BBBJ are nice, but that's something for the relationship not when I'm living the single life now. A BBBJ makes you prone to herpes, and anything bacterial. I dunno about you but I don't want discharge, burning sensations, or herpes.

DATY could ultimately have your mouth all F'D up. I'm young and absolutely refuse to throw away my health to a woman in this field of work. Point blank, look at it like this. The girl may be clean, but who knows what the people seeing her have. No offense to you all, I'm just being real. A girl could be tested every week, but those results do no justice when there is a high volume of customers. We have seen this at the abs. A straight up line for a girl. No shower in between, no type of cleanliness. I think everyone should use protection and don't allow any room for mistake. Ask the right questions. Don't please these women with DATY. Save that for a real woman. I'm out.

Sometimes people show no symptoms but can be carriers. Just reduce all the heartache and anxiety with protection.

[QUOTE=ILoveDeams; 1848933]I have read a lot of folks on this fourm having DATY and getting a BBBJ. I have been wondering how safe is it indulging in this with a escort off of BP? They have been many instances on my dreams when I was asked if I wanted to DATY or wanted a BBBJ, although I am very tempted to say yes I back out. I have read many articles that suggest that many a times although prostitutes have a low risk of HIV since they use protection regularly but that does not stop from contracting a STD.

I just wouldn't want to have warts on my tongue.

Feedback would be appreciated![/QUOTE]Dreaming has its risks, no doubt. The reason we dream is that we crave hot pussy. Sometimes partaking in DATY is incredibly hot for all involved and the essence of a woman's flavor. Are there risks? Of course. Until it's legal, that will remain the case.

Happy hunting.

I made a huge monger mistake. I saw this provider a few days ago while I was drunk and made the mistake of taking off the rubber during our appointment. The girl did not object when I did which makes me worry even more. I don't need a lecture about how it was a stupid thing to do I am just asking for some fellow monger advice. I was wondering if any mongers around the south county area may have heard any negative rumors about this girl through the ho underground about her having stds or something I should be worried about like a drug habit which may indicate she takes place in more risky behavior on a regular basis. She went by the name erin she has a post up on backpage with the number 314-296-966? Last digit is zero by the way. She stayed off of wilmington. Like I said I have a wife and daughter and made a seriously stupid ass mistake by taking off the rubber but I was drunk. I guess you could say going to see an escort drunk is a serious mistake, but whatever. Any mongers around the south county area who have heard anything negative about this girl please post or send me a private pm.

Thanks.

[QUOTE=Johndoe2; 1849414]I made a huge monger mistake. I saw this provider a few days ago while I was drunk and made the mistake of taking off the rubber during our appointment. The girl did not object when I did which makes me worry even more. I don't need a lecture about how it was a stupid thing to do I am just asking for some fellow monger advice. I was wondering if any mongers around the south county area may have heard any negative rumors about this girl through the ho underground about her having stds or something I should be worried about like a drug habit which may indicate she takes place in more risky behavior on a regular basis. She went by the name erin she has a post up on backpage with the number 314-296-966? Last digit is zero by the way. She stayed off of wilmington. Like I said I have a wife and daughter and made a seriously stupid ass mistake by taking off the rubber but I was drunk. I guess you could say going to see an escort drunk is a serious mistake, but whatever. Any mongers around the south county area who have heard anything negative about this girl please post or send me a private pm.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]My wife knows that I see girls every know and again, because she knows I have a ho addiction, but I always wear a rubber and I would kill myself if I gave her anything I am thinking about not having sex until I get tested but some stuff like hiv takes months for your body to build up detectable levels of antibodies to show up on a test. How am I going to get around trying to put off having sex with her for 3 months I know getting hiv from vaginal sex has a very low probability but I am just freaking out right now. I know most hos are not going to go around announcing they have hiv or stds but if you veterans mongers have ever heard anything from other girls or through the grapevine shoot me a text. I remember there was some ho a while back that was working in stl as an escort and she had hiv so the shit is possible. Here is a link to her backpage ad http://stlouis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/beautiful-italian-bombshellare-u-ready-2-play100-specialsstl-incall-29/11954792

[QUOTE=Johndoe2;1849418]My wife knows that I see girls every know and again, because she knows I have a ho addiction, but I always wear a rubber and I would kill myself if I gave her anything I am thinking about not having sex until I get tested but some stuff like hiv takes months for your body to build up detectable levels of antibodies to show up on a test. How am I going to get around trying to put off having sex with her for 3 months I know getting hiv from vaginal sex has a very low probability but I am just freaking out right now. I know most hos are not going to go around announcing they have hiv or stds but if you veterans mongers have ever heard anything from other girls or through the grapevine shoot me a text. I remember there was some ho a while back that was working in stl as an escort and she had hiv so the shit is possible. Here is a link to her backpage ad http://stlouis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/beautiful-italian-bombshellare-u-ready-2-play100-specialsstl-incall-29/11954792[/QUOTE]I don't have any information about her for you, but I am wondering how you get away with your wife knowing and not caring.

That amazes me.

[QUOTE=Johndoe2;1849418]My wife knows that I see girls every know and again, because she knows I have a ho addiction, but I always wear a rubber and I would kill myself if I gave her anything I am thinking about not having sex until I get tested but some stuff like hiv takes months for your body to build up detectable levels of antibodies to show up on a test. How am I going to get around trying to put off having sex with her for 3 months I know getting hiv from vaginal sex has a very low probability but I am just freaking out right now. I know most hos are not going to go around announcing they have hiv or stds but if you veterans mongers have ever heard anything from other girls or through the grapevine shoot me a text. I remember there was some ho a while back that was working in stl as an escort and she had hiv so the shit is possible. Here is a link to her backpage ad http://stlouis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/beautiful-italian-bombshellare-u-ready-2-play100-specialsstl-incall-29/11954792[/QUOTE]I couldn't get that link to work. [url]http://stlouis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/beautiful-italian-bombshellare-u-ready-2-play100-specialsstl-incall-29/11954792[/url] I remember seeing her ad last week. She looks good in the first pic sitting in the passenger seat, but she looks strung out in the bed pics. You'll probably be fine, but it might not be a bad idea stay out of your wife for a couple weeks.

Dude, take a deep breath and go get an anonymous STD test.

[QUOTE=Johndoe2; 1849414]I made a huge monger mistake. I saw this provider a few days ago while I was drunk and made the mistake of taking off the rubber during our appointment. The girl did not object when I did which makes me worry even more. I don't need a lecture about how it was a stupid thing to do I am just asking for some fellow monger advice. I was wondering if any mongers around the south county area may have heard any negative rumors about this girl through the ho underground about her having stds or something I should be worried about like a drug habit which may indicate she takes place in more risky behavior on a regular basis. She went by the name erin she has a post up on backpage with the number 314-296-966? Last digit is zero by the way. She stayed off of wilmington. Like I said I have a wife and daughter and made a seriously stupid ass mistake by taking off the rubber but I was drunk. I guess you could say going to see an escort drunk is a serious mistake, but whatever. Any mongers around the south county area who have heard anything negative about this girl please post or send me a private pm.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]Ok bro, I don't want to upset you more than you already are but let me start by saying you ain't the first and you won't be the last, trust. If any of us had any sense at all we would never do what we do, but "dog will hunt". Erin has been around forever and a day my friend. She used to live on Penn right on the stroll, convenient right? Anyway she ran with the infamous crew that included Donna, Renee, CeCe, Sunshine, Vinnie, etc. She went to prison and got huge but the old needle and spoon diet seems to have worked wonders for her. She has been known to do cash & grabs, bait & switches and all other sorts of under handed Ho shit.

Don't get me wrong, she can be sweet as hell and has top notch sexual skills times three if you know what I mean? A drunk monger could fall for those innocent looking eyes on a mission night for sure. What I am trying to say is, she is straight up trouble with a capital T and many a trick has fallen for her line of Ho BS, including me, albeit long ago. I realize that this will probably make you stress even more but the truth is a hard pill to swallow sometimes and I think it's best you and everybody else know. I had no idea she had taken the leap to BP until a buddy texted me about your post last night.

All I can say in closing is to go pick up an RFT and in the classifieds you will see half a dozen or so ads advertising discrete STD testing. Just pick one close to you and go for it, ASAP. If it was just a crack thing I would say don't stress too much, but these H junkies will share anything to get that shit in their veins. In the big picture I am sure alot of us have done worse and personally for me, there has been many a morning I woke up hungover as a motherfucker and thinking "what the fuck did I do"? Luckily I have always come out of it unscathed as I am sure you will as well, The search is a fucked up thing on here but if you can figure it out, go back a year or so and you will see some shit from when she was staying in a garage off Va. Then go back like 3 or 4 years and there will be a shitload of posts on her in the SW section.

Good luck,

WHW

Here's what I do. Go on line and look for Canadian pharmacies. There is a couple that do not require prescriptions. Go to the mens section and they have a drug that starts with a z that my doctor prescribed to me years ago when I got one of these things. Order up 30 pills. That is enough for two rounds of anti-biotics. Take two a day for seven days. Keep the remaining 16 pills for the next time this happens. I do this twice a year because you can have stds with no symptoms. This way you will know that you should be good. I have done this the last couple years and they work. They will give you a bad case of the shirts for a week but its worth it. PM me for the actual on line pharmacy that I used. They were not cheap but it beats going to the doctor and having this shit on your medical records.

I am mainly concerned about getting hiv. That shit won't show up on an antibody test for three months because it takes your body a certain amount of time to develop a detectable amount of antibodies. The hiv tests are all antibody tests. Thats means they don't test for the virus itself they test for the presence of antibodies that your body produces to fight off the virus. I think the only test you can get that picks up the virus within 2 to 4 weeks is a hiv rna or dna test and those fuc*ers cost 200 dollars a test. I guess the only thing I got going for me is that fact that hiv is really hard to acquire through vaginal sex. It is much more common from anal because microscopic tears tend to occur on the skin due to a lack of lubrication in the butthole. I am never going to search backpage or go on any streetwalker stroll again when I am drunk big fuc*ing mistake. I know people on here have said that this girl has been around the block for a few years, but has anyone heard about her having hiv or any of the girls having hiv on the stroll recently. I remember that gibbs girl a few years back had it and that dirty ***** went out and worked as an escort like it was no big deal.

Either way this was an epic failure on my part. I tend to target backpage girls over street walkers because in general they tend to engage in less risky behavior than street walkers. Well turns out this chick was a street walker and a herion addict on top of that. I have not had any symptoms yet and its been a week so I guess thats good. I will type a report if I get even the slightest hint of a possible symptom. Have you ever heard about her offering full service without a condom to anyone else. If she did that on a regular basis I am going to shit myself. She put a condom on me initially so that would seem to suggest she uses them on a regular basis, but then again she did not object when I took it off so that has me worried too. I was not being sneaky when I took it off. I pulled it off right in front of her and she did not say shit. Most chicks would be like hey you need to put a condom back on but she was quiet as a ghost.

Johndoe2 why worry about something that might not even be? Chill. Go get tested and be done with it. The "what ifs" are starting to get old.

My money is on the clean test result.

Hobo

JUST RELAX AND TAKE IT EASY. THERE IS A VERY MINOR CHANCE THAT YOU HAVE HIV. I have been doing this a long time and have made a few mistakes and have never ended up with hiv. I know its hard but just take it easy. The first symptom of most of the stds is little yellow stains in your underwear. You will notice them. After a week of this, you have a little pain. Trust me you will be ok.