Suggestions on Techniques
[QUOTE=JWSearching;4905564]Correct about the car.
Picked Bella up from her place on the backroads. Drove around for a few and then dropped her off. Heavy smell of stale cigs, which is a turnoff. Dressed a little below casual. Some dentistry issues.
Might upgrade from "unlikely to repeat" to "maybe in a pinch. " Just expect some considerable depreciation from the appearance in her pictures.[/QUOTE]For those that are sensitive to cig smoke or other odors, there are a few things one can and should do when setting up dates. First when I contact a girl I ask if she smokes and gauge her reaction. Might mention I don't like the smell. Also others have noted they have SOs with VERY sensitive noses and they can not risk coming home with cig odor on them. So a girl who takes her business seriously should be willing to accommodate you and make sure she doesn't smell like smoke. In one of the DE thrreads there is a report where a guy complained about the smoke smell on a girl, followed by a report on the same girl where the dude reported he talked to her up front and she showed up odor free. So depending on how you operate YMMV. Girls can't read your mind, and guys aren't shy about asking about BBBJ, etc. So why not any odor issues? Same goes for dress code. If there is something you like, then mention that up front. THEN when a girl can't get it together to meet your needs, then she is a no repeat.
There was one girl that I dated where this was an issue and her situation didn't allow her to show up odor free so I fixed that with a spritz of Fabreez and a quick mouthwash rinse. Have seen others complain that some girls aren't "fresh. " Taking a girl to a notel and tossing her in the shower usually fixes that too!
Point is that if you want perfect dress, manicure and perfume one needs to fish in the high end waters: Eros or Tryst. Otherwise it makes some sense to communicate ones desires and turn offs before the date, or be prepared to fix them yourself. Finding a girl with skilz that match needs is often hard in this hobby so when one finds one, working with them to fix a few issues makes sense.