Escort Reports

[QUOTE=KingOfFours;4751572]According to a reverse search of her real name, she's currently 29. She was around 20 to 21 the first time I inseminated her in 2011.[/QUOTE]Makes sense. I did see your post in Boston BB and your back-and-forth with Guyver but didn't make the connection since she looks so different.

So anyway, about the stable. . . . I was widening my search area into the eastern half of CT a few months ago and asked about her and another girl that goes by Star [URL]http://hartford.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/exotic/the-squirting-star/106891536688[/URL]. All I got for my participation in their forums was a bunch of shit and a demerit. That's what I get, I suppose, because, Connecticut. LOL. I don't post there any more.

But, I WAS told in PM by one of the decent CT guys, a SM with a lot of posts, (don't remember who, though. I deleted a lot of PMs) that this Scarlett, Shooting Star, and at least one other girl are being run by the same handler. No mention of drugs or robberies but that they're a pretty rough crowd. I'm a biker, I carry, and USED to be a bit of a bad-ass, but I'm too fucking old for that nonsense anymore. It isn't worth the trouble to me. If I was forty I'd try them both out, but I'm sixty-five now. Fuck that. LMAO!! I don't have the desire OR the stamina for any drama or bullshit at this point. I like nice, easy arrangements.

Anybody that has experience with either of them, or the rest of the harem for that matter, might be able to tell us if it's safe enough and worth a go for us older guys. I'd really like to see a good one because I think they're both pretty hot looking!!

That's about all I have to contribute. I've been enjoying the past few months with a nice UTR girl from SA who's a sort of blonde version of Luciana (who I miss DESPERATELY) So no further adventures into unknown territory lately. Suicide Girl went back to NC or someplace and I haven't re-visited any of the old regulars or been back to Florida. AMPs are out of the question until this shit-storm is over. Maybe it's time to take that trip to Thailand I've been pondering. I have friends there. Might be time for a visit.

A dull, boring DD out.

[QUOTE=DurtyDawg;4751707]Makes sense. I did see your post in Boston BB and your back-and-forth with Guyver but didn't make the connection since she looks so different.

So anyway, about the stable. . . . I was widening my search area into the eastern half of CT a few months ago and asked about her and another girl that goes by Star [URL]http://hartford.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/exotic/the-squirting-star/106891536688[/URL]. All I got for my participation in their forums was a bunch of shit and a demerit. That's what I get, I suppose, because, Connecticut. LOL. I don't post there any more.

But, I WAS told in PM by one of the decent CT guys, a SM with a lot of posts, (don't remember who, though. I deleted a lot of PMs) that this Scarlett, Shooting Star, and at least one other girl are being run by the same handler. No mention of drugs or robberies but that they're a pretty rough crowd. I'm a biker, I carry, and USED to be a bit of a bad-ass, but I'm too fucking old for that nonsense anymore. It isn't worth the trouble to me. If I was forty I'd try them both out, but I'm sixty-five now. Fuck that. LMAO!! I don't have the desire OR the stamina for any drama or bullshit at this point. I like nice, easy arrangements.

Anybody that has experience with either of them, or the rest of the harem for that matter, might be able to tell us if it's safe enough and worth a go for us older guys. I'd really like to see a good one because I think they're both pretty hot looking!!

That's about all I have to contribute. I've been enjoying the past few months with a nice UTR girl from SA who's a sort of blonde version of Luciana (who I miss DESPERATELY) So no further adventures into unknown territory lately. Suicide Girl went back to NC or someplace and I haven't re-visited any of the old regulars or been back to Florida. AMPs are out of the question until this shit-storm is over. Maybe it's time to take that trip to Thailand I've been pondering. I have friends there. Might be time for a visit.

A dull, boring DD out.[/QUOTE]When I saw Scarlett earlier this year she was with another woman that was at the house, she left and waited in the car. I did not feel like I was in danger, but the bait and switch (thin in picture, not in real life) was a big turn off. But I was there and wanted to CIP, and the face was pretty. I too miss Luciana, famous saying you do not know what you have till it is gone.

One thing I have learned is none of these girls are worth my life, personal as well as business. If there is danger or problems, walk away. It is only money.

[QUOTE=Style20;4751599]Oh ok. Damn these girls must have a rough life to start doing escorting at a young age.[/QUOTE]Do you think that girls generally become prostitutes because life is going WELL for them?

[QUOTE=MongerBob;4752156]Do you think that girls generally become prostitutes because life is going WELL for them?[/QUOTE]LOL. Good question and unfortunately some of them love sex and figured they can charge people for it. Even though the others just want to support their habit.

[QUOTE=KingOfFours;4751572]According to a reverse search of her real name, she's currently 29. She was around 20 to 21 the first time I inseminated her in 2011.[/QUOTE]I am friends with her on Facebook. She posted yesterday that she will be visiting the Cranston Hilton for the next three months. Think she said she was going there this morning. Too bad. Maybe by the time she gets out things will be back to normal. I was hoping to meet up with her but not with Corona virus cases actively increasing.

[QUOTE=QuisquisqQuid;4747969][URL]https://onebackpage.com/personal-connections/female-escorts/yes4-hard-boner-no2-bad-corona-im-kasey-hiiii_i8296293[/URL][/QUOTE]Looks interesting, more info?

Best,

Petrone.

For context I am mid 30's and have been in this hobby since I was about 21. Recently got married and I struggle with the "guilt" of doing this on the side. I question whether I'm a bad person or if I should burn in hell etc etc. Maybe some of you that are married feel the same way, or maybe some of you that are married hate your wife and couldn't care less about fuckin escorts on the side? Either way I will say my wife is a good egg. I don't hate her and I want to continue being married to her. It's just that when it comes to sex I don't like just being with one person. The idea of remaining monogamous and only having sex with one person for the rest of my life kind of overwhelms me- I feel like I'm trapped and I start to panic. I guess you can relate it to someone asking an alcoholic to stop drinking- their immediate thought would be they couldn't picture going on without alcohol in their life. That's how I feel about sex. Throughout the years though its obvious that what I do is now a bit like an addiction instead of a hobby. I let it take the reigns and its kind of spiraling of out of control.

So with this there are three options- 1. Stop completely 2. Let the addiction take control and watch my money / sanity disappear 3. Try to shape it into something I can control.

So I'm choosing option 3. If I'm getting older and I want to keep this hobby, and also remain married, there has to be rules. I have to be smart about it. How I have been approaching escorts has always been kind of the same- once I have enough money saved (like 150 or so) I let it overtake me and its all I can think about- I'm a junkie getting a fix and its all I can think about. And then it happens. And there's a cooling off period where I'm ok. Until the urges start over again. It's nice to have a little secret and a stress reliever, but its obvious this is crossing a line and is doing more harm than good (financially, psychologically, etc).

The solution: I will now only see an escort twice a year. Once in November (birthday month) and the other time in June. I think this is a healthier option because I don't cut it completely from my life. I still have these two days to look forward to, and the experience will feel more rewarding (I assume) once complete. I think what I will do is create a new secret bank account and will direct deposit a small percentage of my paycheck to this account every week, very small amount where it won't be noticeable to the wife. (like 3 to 5% of paycheck). I'll be saving money overall because I won't be constantly seeing different girls every few weeks / months. It would just be twice a year.

An added bonus to doing this: I can now see top tier girls. No more $150 girls. No more big bellies or stretch marks or ghetto girls. And since its only twice a year I can make it a special occasion- maybe drive to NY or something if there's a top tier girl that I can now afford.

Hey so this hoe sometimes posts in the Rhode Island area too so here was my encounter.

So I set everything up with her. Went in and I had the donation in my pocket, she started talking to me but I just told her to get naked and on her knees. She asked for donation, I showed her & that's how I fucked up. I was gonna put it back on my pockets but I was naked already. Got distracted & put it on the table. She started giving me head & I was recording everything. Then she stopped & said I can't blah blah. I told her yes you can come on. She went to use the bathroom & when I looked the donation was gone. She said some code words & woman comes by & asks if everything is OK I said yes. Then she is still in the bathroom I said let's go. A dude comes out, he tried to scare me but I was not with it he was a pussy. I pushed him out the way & went to the back room with her & the friend counting my money. I said give me some back she said no her uncle is a cop blah blah. I snatched a 20 and she started bugging saying I recorded her without her permission. I said first off hoe I got everything on tape so your lying. Told her I will show everyone the video & snitch on the forum. She texted me back saying she had my license plate & will tell police. Ya right hoe.

[URL]https://brockton.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/party-friendly-female-clean-an/778953374524[/URL]

[QUOTE=Style20;4750700]You guys like looking at cum inside someone else pussy?[/QUOTE]As opposed to looking at their own pussy?

[QUOTE=Style20;4752225]LOL. Good question and unfortunately some of them love sex and figured they can charge people for it. Even though the others just want to support their habit.[/QUOTE]I have been more of a strip club person because it just works out better with my schedule and I have found plenty that are just plain horny! Some are wet as can be and make a mess and others just can't seem to slurp up enough!

Have checked out the Providence / South Coast STG postings in recent weeks. Nothing but fake ads. The pictures are pasted up from other sources and the locations listed are useless. I believe the Covid-19 Virus is going to drive a lot of these gals into the streets. Those of you who love to cruise the neighborhoods (me excluded) may be in quite a surprise once the weather warms up. Of course they will have to wear masks.

[QUOTE=MrPlow57;4752864]For context I am mid 30's and have been in this hobby since I was about 21. Recently got married and I struggle with the "guilt" of doing this on the side. I question whether I'm a bad person or if I should burn in hell etc etc. Maybe some of you that are married feel the same way, or maybe some of you that are married hate your wife and couldn't care less about fuckin escorts on the side? Either way I will say my wife is a good egg. I don't hate her and I want to continue being married to her. It's just that when it comes to sex I don't like just being with one person. The idea of remaining monogamous and only having sex with one person for the rest of my life kind of overwhelms me- I feel like I'm trapped and I start to panic. I guess you can relate it to someone asking an alcoholic to stop drinking- their immediate thought would be they couldn't picture going on without alcohol in their life. That's how I feel about sex. Throughout the years though its obvious that what I do is now a bit like an addiction instead of a hobby. I let it take the reigns and its kind of spiraling of out of control.

So with this there are three options- 1. Stop completely 2. Let the addiction take control and watch my money / sanity disappear 3. Try to shape it into something I can control.
.[/QUOTE]I'm working thought what will probably be option 4 after this BS is over. Occasional AMP HJ visits, maybe monthly, and once or twice a year FS with safe, clean escorts or AMP girls. I have been having similar thought and your commentary helped. Thanks.

[QUOTE=JoeMuckInFutch;4753373]I'm working thought what will probably be option 4 after this BS is over. Occasional AMP HJ visits, maybe monthly, and once or twice a year FS with safe, clean escorts or AMP girls. I have been having similar thought and your commentary helped. Thanks.[/QUOTE]Best of luck to you. It's definitely a tricky situation once you're married and the flood of guilt starts to wash over you. The way I rationalize it though it's not like I'm having an affair- there is no love or emotional aspect to it. It's not like I'm meeting a girl at a bar and we fall in love and my marriage is ruined. I do it for fun, it's sexual of course but there's zero romantic feelings.

As long as you're safe and don't let it seep into your personal life then what is it really besides a harmless dirty little secret.

[QUOTE=WillyO;4752969]I have been more of a strip club person because it just works out better with my schedule and I have found plenty that are just plain horny! Some are wet as can be and make a mess and others just can't seem to slurp up enough![/QUOTE]I was a strip club guy before I graduated to escorts. I could never fuck in a strip club now. When I see a girl I want to relax and enjoy the moment, not feel rushed or be nervous about being caught. Same reason why I'd never do a car date. Different strokes for different folks though.

[QUOTE=ShadowFox198;4752895]Hey so this hoe sometimes posts in the Rhode Island area too so here was my encounter.

So I set everything up with her. Went in and I had the donation in my pocket, she started talking to me but I just told her to get naked and on her knees. She asked for donation, I showed her & that's how I fucked up. I was gonna put it back on my pockets but I was naked already. Got distracted & put it on the table. She started giving me head & I was recording everything. Then she stopped & said I can't blah blah. I told her yes you can come on. She went to use the bathroom & when I looked the donation was gone. She said some code words & woman comes by & asks if everything is OK I said yes. Then she is still in the bathroom I said let's go. A dude comes out, he tried to scare me but I was not with it he was a pussy. I pushed him out the way & went to the back room with her & the friend counting my money. I said give me some back she said no her uncle is a cop blah blah. I snatched a 20 and she started bugging saying I recorded her without her permission. I said first off hoe I got everything on tape so your lying. Told her I will show everyone the video & snitch on the forum. She texted me back saying she had my license plate & will tell police. Ya right hoe.

[URL]https://brockton.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/party-friendly-female-clean-an/778953374524[/URL][/QUOTE]I don't think you come out squeaky clean based on all this. Give the girl the donation before the services. Always. What kind of guy holds off on the donation until after the session is done? That just instills doubt in the girl. If I were her I would think you would just cum and run off with the money. Also who records someone without permission? Yeah I get it she's just a hooker blah blah but that's still really shady. Just cause she's a working girl doesn't mean you can do shit without her consent.

[QUOTE=MrPlow57;4752864]For context I am mid 30's and have been in this hobby since I was about 21. Recently got married and I struggle with the "guilt" of doing this on the side. I question whether I'm a bad person or if I should burn in hell etc etc. Maybe some of you that are married feel the same way, or maybe some of you that are married hate your wife and couldn't care less about fuckin escorts on the side? Either way I will say my wife is a good egg. I don't hate her and I want to continue being married to her. It's just that when it comes to sex I don't like just being with one person. The idea of remaining monogamous and only having sex with one person for the rest of my life kind of overwhelms me- I feel like I'm trapped and I start to panic. I guess you can relate it to someone asking an alcoholic to stop drinking- their immediate thought would be they couldn't picture going on without alcohol in their life. That's how I feel about sex. Throughout the years though its obvious that what I do is now a bit like an addiction instead of a hobby. I let it take the reigns and its kind of spiraling of out of control.

So with this there are three options- 1. Stop completely 2. Let the addiction take control and watch my money / sanity disappear 3. Try to shape it into something I can control.

So I'm choosing option 3. If I'm getting older and I want to keep this hobby, and also remain married, there has to be rules. I have to be smart about it. How I have been approaching escorts has always been kind of the same- once I have enough money saved (like 150 or so) I let it overtake me and its all I can think about- I'm a junkie getting a fix and its all I can think about. And then it happens. And there's a cooling off period where I'm ok. Until the urges start over again. It's nice to have a little secret and a stress reliever, but its obvious this is crossing a line and is doing more harm than good (financially, psychologically, etc).

The solution: I will now only see an escort twice a year. Once in November (birthday month) and the other time in June. I think this is a healthier option because I don't cut it completely from my life. I still have these two days to look forward to, and the experience will feel more rewarding (I assume) once complete. I think what I will do is create a new secret bank account and will direct deposit a small percentage of my paycheck to this account every week, very small amount where it won't be noticeable to the wife. (like 3 to 5% of paycheck). I'll be saving money overall because I won't be constantly seeing different girls every few weeks / months. It would just be twice a year.

An added bonus to doing this: I can now see top tier girls. No more $150 girls. No more big bellies or stretch marks or ghetto girls. And since its only twice a year I can make it a special occasion- maybe drive to NY or something if there's a top tier girl that I can now afford.[/QUOTE]Good luck with tha. Like any addiction you either feed it or cold turkey. Having a taste now and then is never enough. If it wasn't for my dick I would be driving Lamborghinis.

[QUOTE=NewOne;4753617]Good luck with tha. Like any addiction you either feed it or cold turkey. Having a taste now and then is never enough. If it wasn't for my dick I would be driving Lamborghinis.[/QUOTE]Honestly it's not even satisfying as of late. It's not fun like it used to be, it feels like I'm merely just scratching an itch. Getting my hit. I don't want it, I NEED it. That kind of thing. I think a big part of it is probably the quality of the girls as well. I'll be the first to admit I'm definitely picky and have high standards, and the price range I've been playing at is very difficult to find good looking girls. I feel better mentally just knowing that while it'll only be twice a year, At least the two girls will be top shelf quality. Ushering in a new era I suppose, quality over quantity.

And as for the feeding the addiction comment, yes I agree it'll be difficult. But I do believe discipline is like a muscle, the more you train it the stronger it becomes.

[QUOTE=MrPlow57;4752864]For context I am mid 30's and have been in this hobby since I was about 21. Recently got married and I struggle with the "guilt" of doing this on the side. I question whether I'm a bad person or if I should burn in hell etc etc. Maybe some of you that are married feel the same way, or maybe some of you that are married hate your wife and couldn't care less about fuckin escorts on the side? Either way I will say my wife is a good egg. I don't hate her and I want to continue being married to her. It's just that when it comes to sex I don't like just being with one person. The idea of remaining monogamous and only having sex with one person for the rest of my life kind of overwhelms me- I feel like I'm trapped and I start to panic. I guess you can relate it to someone asking an alcoholic to stop drinking- their immediate thought would be they couldn't picture going on without alcohol in their life. That's how I feel about sex. Throughout the years though its obvious that what I do is now a bit like an addiction instead of a hobby. I let it take the reigns and its kind of spiraling of out of control.

So with this there are three options- 1. Stop completely 2. Let the addiction take control and watch my money / sanity disappear 3. Try to shape it into something I can control.

So I'm choosing option 3. If I'm getting older and I want to keep this hobby, and also remain married, there has to be rules. I have to be smart about it. How I have been approaching escorts has always been kind of the same- once I have enough money saved (like 150 or so) I let it overtake me and its all I can think about- I'm a junkie getting a fix and its all I can think about. And then it happens. And there's a cooling off period where I'm ok. Until the urges start over again. It's nice to have a little secret and a stress reliever, but its obvious this is crossing a line and is doing more harm than good (financially, psychologically, etc).

The solution: I will now only see an escort twice a year. Once in November (birthday month) and the other time in June. I think this is a healthier option because I don't cut it completely from my life. I still have these two days to look forward to, and the experience will feel more rewarding (I assume) once complete. I think what I will do is create a new secret bank account and will direct deposit a small percentage of my paycheck to this account every week, very small amount where it won't be noticeable to the wife. (like 3 to 5% of paycheck). I'll be saving money overall because I won't be constantly seeing different girls every few weeks / months. It would just be twice a year.

An added bonus to doing this: I can now see top tier girls. No more $150 girls. No more big bellies or stretch marks or ghetto girls. And since its only twice a year I can make it a special occasion- maybe drive to NY or something if there's a top tier girl that I can now afford.[/QUOTE]This is the exact reason I will not get married. I enjoy life and all the things that come with it. Am I selfish or am I just me.

My job which has me traveling 80 percent of the year US and over seas (Current Pandemic has me stuck at home). With that type of job I could never settle down, and raise a family or keep a LTR going. I have friends who are married and they cheat on their wives all the time some don't. The ones that do explain it to me as men have needs and men with money can play. They would never pick up a street walker, or a cheap trick, but at a strip club or night club game on. The non-cheaters / players seem happy and they have gone to strip clubs but they just are not into it. Maybe some guys are wired differently who knows. I am in my mid forties and have been doing this since college days. I look normal, blend in with the crowd, but I just love all women.


This hobby good or bad has only one cure going broke.

[QUOTE=Guyver73;4753837]This is the exact reason I will not get married. I enjoy life and all the things that come with it. Am I selfish or am I just me.

My job which has me traveling 80 percent of the year US and over seas (Current Pandemic has me stuck at home). With that type of job I could never settle down, and raise a family or keep a LTR going. I have friends who are married and they cheat on their wives all the time some don't. The ones that do explain it to me as men have needs and men with money can play. They would never pick up a street walker, or a cheap trick, but at a strip club or night club game on. The non-cheaters / players seem happy and they have gone to strip clubs but they just are not into it. Maybe some guys are wired differently who knows. I am in my mid forties and have been doing this since college days. I look normal, blend in with the crowd, but I just love all women.

This hobby good or bad has only one cure going broke.[/QUOTE]Never judge a book by their cover. I look normal as well and also blend in with the crowd. I'm sure a lot of guys reading this look normal as well and you would never guess they see escorts on the side. Also, for what its worth. You said you have friends that never cheat on their girls. I'm not calling them liars but I will just say that I've been doing this 10+ years and not one soul knows about what I do. Its one thing if you're single and you tell a bunch of your guy friends, but if you are in a relationship and you tell your friends you fuck around with escorts then you're just dumb and sloppy and asking to get caught.

[URL]https://providence.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_e/sexy-little-snow-bunnyready-to/427974013722[/URL]

Seems legit. She sent verification pic 150 1/2. 180 hr.

[QUOTE=Hcat113;4753879][URL]https://providence.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_e/sexy-little-snow-bunnyready-to/427974013722[/URL]

Seems legit. She sent verification pic 150 1/2. 180 hr.[/QUOTE]Seems she's been posting since March. Might be real, consistency with the tattoos she's had since the first ad she posted. Pics might be old or maybe not hers, who knows? Please let us know if you do see her. Body looks nice, hopefully the face is the same.

[QUOTE=Cropsey;4753923]Seems she's been posting since March. Might be real, consistency with the tattoos she's had since the first ad she posted. Pics might be old or maybe not hers, who knows? Please let us know if you do see her. Body looks nice, hopefully the face is the same.[/QUOTE]Sent face pic. Not bad. Cute! Likes to party! She said "hard" stuff. I passed.

I don't mind showing the cash when I get there so they know I'm good for it but I NEVER pay in full up front.

If they ***** about it ill offer up half to start and half on completion. Keeps them a little more honest with better service in my experience.

[QUOTE=MrPlow57;4753457]I don't think you come out squeaky clean based on all this. Give the girl the donation before the services. Always. What kind of guy holds off on the donation until after the session is done? That just instills doubt in the girl. If I were her I would think you would just cum and run off with the money. Also who records someone without permission? Yeah I get it she's just a hooker blah blah but that's still really shady. Just cause she's a working girl doesn't mean you can do shit without her consent.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MrPlow57;4753457]I don't think you come out squeaky clean based on all this. Give the girl the donation before the services. Always. What kind of guy holds off on the donation until after the session is done? That just instills doubt in the girl. If I were her I would think you would just cum and run off with the money. Also who records someone without permission? Yeah I get it she's just a hooker blah blah but that's still really shady. Just cause she's a working girl doesn't mean you can do shit without her consent.[/QUOTE]Bro clearly you are on her side for some reason. First I did not record without permission. I have the messages to prove she said no at first when I asked. Then I told her I will find someone else. Then she said yes and up charged me 80. I said ok, she specifically said I can record. Also I did not just hold on the money just to run, I showed her I had the full amount. As soon as she got the money from me shit went south. She stopped & used a code word to make her friend come in & try to intimidate me to leave. This is why you don't give money upfront.

[QUOTE=MrPlow57;4752864]For context I am mid 30's and have been in this hobby since I was about 21. Recently got married and I struggle with the "guilt" of doing this on the side. I question whether I'm a bad person or if I should burn in hell etc etc. Maybe some of you that are married feel the same way, or maybe some of you that are married hate your wife and couldn't care less about fuckin escorts on the side? Either way I will say my wife is a good egg. I don't hate her and I want to continue being married to her. It's just that when it comes to sex I don't like just being with one person. The idea of remaining monogamous and only having sex with one person for the rest of my life kind of overwhelms me- I feel like I'm trapped and I start to panic. I guess you can relate it to someone asking an alcoholic to stop drinking- their immediate thought would be they couldn't picture going on without alcohol in their life. That's how I feel about sex. Throughout the years though its obvious that what I do is now a bit like an addiction instead of a hobby. I let it take the reigns and its kind of spiraling of out of control.[/QUOTE]Interesting perspective. I can't do this if I'm in a relationship. No matter how safe we are, this is extremely risky behavior and there are probably bugs out there we don't even know of yet like COVID.

You are not alone in how you feel. I've had a similar argument / discussion with many people including women. Monogamy is unnatural for men. Full stop. I would even say it's unnatural for women, but its harder for them to be non-monogamous for a variety of reasons (emotional, society, shaming, etc).

I'd say more than 50% of the time people agree with me (including women). Often times people don't know how to respond and look confused which to me implies. They know I'm right, but won't admit it. Occasionally, I'll get an idiot to says I'm wrong and have no feelings.

Anyway, if you want to stay married, but see this as a problem. Then you need to deal with it. Given what you have been doing for years, I doubt you will able to keep it to twice per year. I would approach it differently, perhaps find a non-escort on the side that knows your situation and is OK with it. Perhaps she is in an open relationship. I don't know, just thinking outside of the box a bit.

Anyway, good luck. No need to create stress and anxiety in your life because you like having sexual variety in your life.

[QUOTE=MrPlow57;4752864]For context I am mid 30's and have been in this hobby since I was about 21. Recently got married and I struggle with the "guilt" of doing this on the side. I question whether I'm a bad person or if I should burn in hell etc etc. Maybe some of you that are married feel the same way, or maybe some of you that are married hate your wife and couldn't care less about fuckin escorts on the side? Either way I will say my wife is a good egg. I don't hate her and I want to continue being married to her. It's just that when it comes to sex I don't like just being with one person. The idea of remaining monogamous and only having sex with one person for the rest of my life kind of overwhelms me- I feel like I'm trapped and I start to panic. I guess you can relate it to someone asking an alcoholic to stop drinking- their immediate thought would be they couldn't picture going on without alcohol in their life. That's how I feel about sex. Throughout the years though its obvious that what I do is now a bit like an addiction instead of a hobby. I let it take the reigns and its kind of spiraling of out of control.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ShadowFox198;4754013]Bro clearly you are on her side for some reason. First I did not record without permission. I have the messages to prove she said no at first when I asked. Then I told her I will find someone else. Then she said yes and up charged me 80. I said ok, she specifically said I can record. Also I did not just hold on the money just to run, I showed her I had the full amount. As soon as she got the money from me shit went south. She stopped & used a code word to make her friend come in & try to intimidate me to leave. This is why you don't give money upfront.[/QUOTE]Go back and read your original post. You didn't mention she previously agreed in messages to be recorded. I'm not an all knowing God, unless you specified she previously agreed to be recorded how were we supposed to know? But anyway I been doing this 10+ years never once had issues with giving the money up front. You do whatever works for you though.

[QUOTE=MrPlow57;4752864] So I'm choosing option 3. If I'm getting older and I want to keep this hobby, and also remain married, there has to be rules. I have to be smart about it. How I have been approaching escorts has always been kind of the same- once I have enough money saved (like 150 or so) I let it overtake me and its all I can think about- I'm a junkie getting a fix and its all I can think about. And then it happens. And there's a cooling off period where I'm ok. Until the urges start over again. It's nice to have a little secret and a stress reliever, but its obvious this is crossing a line and is doing more harm than good (financially, psychologically, etc).[/QUOTE]I'm similarly in my 30's now and started around 21. I do typically stop whenever I'm in a serious relationship. It's never been a problem. It's an addiction for all of us. How many times have you left a session and thought what was I thinking? The best way to avoid "relapsing" is to get rid of the burner phone and the txt apps and stay busy. "Idle hands are the devils playthings". Whenever I'm transitioning into a hoe free period I try to keep my mind occupied when I feel the urge. If you find yourself browsing STG while your lady is upstairs sleeping, just give one of your buddies a call and talk about how you can't believe Gronk just came out of retirement and abandoned us. But hey what do I know I have a date in a couple hours with a bimbo that has tits the size of my head and I can't wait. But seriously best of luck to you buddy.

[QUOTE=MrPlow57;4753457]I don't think you come out squeaky clean based on all this. Give the girl the donation before the services. Always. What kind of guy holds off on the donation until after the session is done? That just instills doubt in the girl. If I were her I would think you would just cum and run off with the money. Also who records someone without permission? Yeah I get it she's just a hooker blah blah but that's still really shady. Just cause she's a working girl doesn't mean you can do shit without her consent.[/QUOTE]Most of the girls I have seen do not even ask for the donation. Just leave it for them afterwards.

Not saying I have never given girls up front, but in my experience that is the exception rather than the rule.

Maybe it is because I only see well reviewed women in safe locations and avoid girls with rock bottom prices.

This chick is wicked hot, my type and right up my alley. Has anyone ever seen her? Just wanted to get some opinions before hand since I can't find anything about her track record.

[URL]https://escortfish.ch/ad/view/i-wont-get-you-in-trouble-80-kiss-special/28910100[/URL]

[QUOTE=Hcat113;4753879][URL]https://providence.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_e/sexy-little-snow-bunnyready-to/427974013722[/URL]

Seems legit. She sent verification pic 150 1/2. 180 hr.[/QUOTE]Was texting this one myself. She has an arm band tattoo on one of her biceps. Was making plans to meet up until somebody started posting on STG that she took his money without services. Couldn't find the posts just now, so no reference, but I chose not to see her as a result. Please let us know if you have any success.

I know I may be beating a dead horse here, but has anybody met this provider or can confirm she is legit?

[URL]https://providence.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/exotic/ciassy-and-exotic-female-massa/004174446827[/URL]

All this talk about retiring makes me sad.

[QUOTE=JohnGulbany;4754495]This chick is wicked hot, my type and right up my alley. Has anyone ever seen her? Just wanted to get some opinions before hand since I can't find anything about her track record.

[URL]https://escortfish.ch/ad/view/i-wont-get-you-in-trouble-80-kiss-special/28910100[/URL][/QUOTE]I use to see her a few years back when she look like this:

[URL]https://escortindex.com/ad/providence/401-649-3639/1/75432[/URL]

She was always good to me, everything covered but a really good time. I don't know what she is like now.

The pics in her ad from back then were accurate. I recognized the tattoo on her leg.

Go for it and report back.

Had a visit with Kasey Woonsocket last night. She is as described. Cute little spinner with a friendly personality and safe location. Took a couple days to line things up and when we met she said she was cleaning and about 30 minutes late. (no big deal. And I didn't see anyone else walk out of the house while waiting) She was "spacey" all day and not sure of what she said she charges. Finally while waiting she said $275 after me telling her I am looking for a regular girl. Her place was very clean and recently disinfected with bleach (floor was wet and could smell it). As to the actual visit which wasn't arranged before hand and as I said the texting was "really spacey), covered BJ, no FIV, FIA, no kissing and no CIM. That is the most I ever paid a provider and probably the least amount of service.

As I said, very cute and very friendly. I enjoyed my time with her and I think the service is due to CORONA fear but I won't be going back. Also, not a problem for me but no tits. I mean NO tits but great nipples and I like great nipples. I also asked her to greet me in something sexy and she greeted me bare bottomed with a bra on. Enjoy.

[QUOTE=NewOne;4756630]Had a visit with Kasey Woonsocket last night. She is as described. Cute little spinner with a friendly personality and safe location. Took a couple days to line things up and when we met she said she was cleaning and about 30 minutes late. (no big deal. And I didn't see anyone else walk out of the house while waiting) She was "spacey" all day and not sure of what she said she charges. Finally while waiting she said $275 after me telling her I am looking for a regular girl. Her place was very clean and recently disinfected with bleach (floor was wet and could smell it). As to the actual visit which wasn't arranged before hand and as I said the texting was "really spacey), covered BJ, no FIV, FIA, no kissing and no CIM. That is the most I ever paid a provider and probably the least amount of service.

As I said, very cute and very friendly. I enjoyed my time with her and I think the service is due to CORONA fear but I won't be going back. Also, not a problem for me but no tits. I mean NO tits but great nipples and I like great nipples. I also asked her to greet me in something sexy and she greeted me bare bottomed with a bra on. Enjoy.[/QUOTE]275.00 CBJ? I was thinking of seeing her for a BBBJ cim. But not at that price.

Have always wanted to have 2 at once. Was wondering if anyones seen them and can offer up some information.

[URL]http://providence.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/exotic/mother-and-daughter-hottest-ar/223430532493[/URL]

Has anyone seen Katrina? She's been posting for a bit now but I haven't seen any reviews. She wanted to video chat on snapchat but I'm not comfortable with that without knowing she's legit. Its getting dry out here!

[URL]https://providence.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/latin/katrina/249884480166[/URL]

[QUOTE=MrMissedHer;4755160]I know I may be beating a dead horse here, but has anybody met this provider or can confirm she is legit?

[URL]https://providence.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/exotic/ciassy-and-exotic-female-massa/004174446827[/URL]

All this talk about retiring makes me sad.[/QUOTE]To me it looks like she took pics of someone else's pics.

[QUOTE=NewOne;4756630]Had a visit with Kasey Woonsocket last night. She is as described. Cute little spinner with a friendly personality and safe location. Took a couple days to line things up and when we met she said she was cleaning and about 30 minutes late. (no big deal. And I didn't see anyone else walk out of the house while waiting) She was "spacey" all day and not sure of what she said she charges. Finally while waiting she said $275 after me telling her I am looking for a regular girl. Her place was very clean and recently disinfected with bleach (floor was wet and could smell it). As to the actual visit which wasn't arranged before hand and as I said the texting was "really spacey), covered BJ, no FIV, FIA, no kissing and no CIM. That is the most I ever paid a provider and probably the least amount of service.

As I said, very cute and very friendly. I enjoyed my time with her and I think the service is due to CORONA fear but I won't be going back. Also, not a problem for me but no tits. I mean NO tits but great nipples and I like great nipples. I also asked her to greet me in something sexy and she greeted me bare bottomed with a bra on. Enjoy.[/QUOTE]I saw her several years ago myself, and this sounds like a far cry from the experience I had. She was VERY GFE back then, one of the most convincing I've experienced. Ton of DFK, amazing BBBJ, DATY etc. Maybe it is just extra precaution due to COVID, but this change in services along with the higher price from what she asked before has given me second thoughts about trying to see her again.

[QUOTE=MongerBob;4757293]I saw her several years ago myself, and this sounds like a far cry from the experience I had. She was VERY GFE back then, one of the most convincing I've experienced. Ton of DFK, amazing BBBJ, DATY etc. Maybe it is just extra precaution due to COVID, but this change in services along with the higher price from what she asked before has given me second thoughts about trying to see her again.[/QUOTE]I concur. I certainly wouldn't have shared in good regards if I thought she was going to get GPS just like that. She's always been very good to me. Doesn't let me cim anymore, but everything else has always been on the menu.