Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[QUOTE=DirkyDiggy;5426361]My advice is to follow your gut. I would just totally stay away from younger ones even if they say they are in their early twenties. It's easy for someone much younger to just say they are older to lure you in even if they are not looking for trouble. But if things go South it doesn't matter how they feel, if they're below the legal age the law isn't going to be on your side just because they told you they were. 30 and above to play it safe if you ask me.[/QUOTE]I agree with this. Not only is there the legal issue but I've found they are unreliable, immature and inexperienced (most of the time). My age groups is 25-32.

I've been texting almost daily with a 21 yr old for about a month because she was home from college and just moved back last week. We were supposed to meet last week and she cancelled. Now we are supposed to meet Thursday but we will see if she follows through. She would be the most beautiful girl I've met from the site so I'm giving her some leeway. Normally I would be out.

[QUOTE=BoredinCT12;5431169]So we met up for quick BJ and a little slap an tickle for 75. Agreed to meet up again for 200 at at hotel. When we agreed to a date she told me she was getting much more. I said good luck. Bye! Someone either got to her and paid more or she was lying. Either way I was not negotiating. Too bad. Great little body. Perky tits.[/QUOTE]I was quotes 3 . 5 for a room and 2 for just dinner and drinks. I passed as she would not budge. Just shot out $ for cd and she said at least 2.

[QUOTE=BoredinCT12;5431169]So we met up for quick BJ and a little slap an tickle for 75. Agreed to meet up again for 200 at at hotel. When we agreed to a date she told me she was getting much more. I said good luck. Bye! Someone either got to her and paid more or she was lying. Either way I was not negotiating. Too bad. Great little body. Perky tits.[/QUOTE]My first encounter with Kylie was a hotel date for $200. The second date was car slap and tickle for $100. That was last summer, my recent contact with her had her demanding $300. She said that's what's she's getting now. Guys, stop over paying!

[QUOTE=MyHobby;5433296]My first encounter with Kylie was a hotel date for $200. The second date was car slap and tickle for $100. That was last summer, my recent contact with her had her demanding $300. She said that's what's she's getting now. Guys, stop over paying![/QUOTE]All of us could stop paying more than $200 for these young ladies and it wouldn't help very much. There's a hell of a lot more guys out there than the ones that are in this forum. We have to just work with what we've got.

Blue.

[QUOTE=MyHobby;5433296]My first encounter with Kylie was a hotel date for $200. The second date was car slap and tickle for $100. That was last summer, my recent contact with her had her demanding $300. She said that's what's she's getting now. Guys, stop over paying![/QUOTE]We can all stop paying higher rates but the truth, sadly, is the market is much bigger than the membership here at USG. Further, too many women, especially the young ones, aren't thinking long term with regulars. They want the BBD (bigger, better deal) right now. If she was getting 200, gets a date for 300, that becomes her new norm in her head and she won't go back to 200. They'll never be satisfied and it will be their downfall eventually.

BMD.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5433893]We can all stop paying higher rates but the truth, sadly, is the market is much bigger than the membership here at USG. Further, too many women, especially the young ones, aren't thinking long term with regulars. They want the BBD (bigger, better deal) right now. If she was getting 200, gets a date for 300, that becomes her new norm in her head and she won't go back to 200. They'll never be satisfied and it will be their downfall eventually.

BMD.[/QUOTE]Truth from BMD as always. I had one girl tell me over the weekend that she won't see me anymore for 2. She had a guy take her to the casino, gave her 1000 and only played with her feet. Maybe that is true, maybe not, but there are guys out there with fatter wallets. The girls are looking for the unicorns just like we are looking for our version of unicorns.

[QUOTE=XxMarkXx;5433962]Truth from BMD as always. I had one girl tell me over the weekend that she won't see me anymore for 2. She had a guy take her to the casino, gave her 1000 and only played with her feet. Maybe that is true, maybe not, but there are guys out there with fatter wallets. The girls are looking for the unicorns just like we are looking for our version of unicorns.[/QUOTE]Us "little" guys will have to be a little patient. Soon enough these girls will realize the grass isn't always greener on the other side. I've been declined for as much as 300 PPM which I think is personally high for most girls on there. I'm going to personally wait a bit to renew. Maybe around winter when all the big guys take their SB's on vacation.

[QUOTE=DaReal86;5436819]Us "little" guys will have to be a little patient. Soon enough these girls will realize the grass isn't always greener on the other side. I've been declined for as much as 300 PPM which I think is personally high for most girls on there. I'm going to personally wait a bit to renew. Maybe around winter when all the big guys take their SB's on vacation.[/QUOTE]That's a good strategy. Within the past week, SA had a 25% off sale so they're trying to increase their customer base but unlikely in the summer months. I did not renew either.

The one trick to try is to change the top right filter from 'recently active' to 'newest members. ' Lately, you'll be lucky if you see one new female member per day. So, in my 25 to 50 mile radius, there's no point in renewing. I definitely don't want to see all the old stuff already there. The new members generally increase in the Fall and Winter months since there's less to do and the women start getting bored. Well, at least, that's my theory.

BMD.

Seeking Arrangements latest Pushing the overpriced gift lift on the profiles.

Also with the price increase there have also been a lot more fake profiles. This was due to SA removing captcha check aka the prove you're human test before logging in or the select the pictures with motorcycles etc, you guys get the point. Anyway the captcha is used to prevent bots from making fake profiles. Since they've removed it the fake profiles get to run wild and waste your time. Ever hear of the saying "vote with you wallet"? Until something changes or the site is reverted back to using captcha. I would highly recommend against signing up or renewing.

[QUOTE=DaReal86;5438345]Also with the price increase there have also been a lot more fake profiles. This was due to SA removing captcha check aka the prove you're human test before logging in or the select the pictures with motorcycles etc, you guys get the point. Anyway the captcha is used to prevent bots from making fake profiles. Since they've removed it the fake profiles get to run wild and waste your time. Ever hear of the saying "vote with you wallet"? Until something changes or the site is reverted back to using captcha. I would highly recommend against signing up or renewing.[/QUOTE]I noticed that, too, and didn't renew despite the 25% off sale. Very few new members in my area and in a 50 mile range. Mostly fakers and girls I recognize from 2-4 years ago.

[QUOTE=DaReal86;5438345]Also with the price increase there have also been a lot more fake profiles. This was due to SA removing captcha check aka the prove you're human test before logging in or the select the pictures with motorcycles etc, you guys get the point. Anyway the captcha is used to prevent bots from making fake profiles. Since they've removed it the fake profiles get to run wild and waste your time. Ever hear of the saying "vote with you wallet"? Until something changes or the site is reverted back to using captcha. I would highly recommend against signing up or renewing.[/QUOTE]How about when you go on the site you get all these new girls instantly favoriting you from a ll over the world!!

[QUOTE=Hapcj7;5438553]How about when you go on the site you get all these new girls instantly favoriting you from a ll over the world!![/QUOTE]Sites like SA and WYP should start charging women to join the site like men. Right now, they need to only set up an ID and they get the same access as men who pay.
Charging women, whether full rate or a nominal fee, would clear out most the dead weight, spammers, and scammers. The counter argument would that women wouldn't pay anything to join. Food for thought but something needs to change. The current way is like STG. Anything that's free starts attracting deadbeat scammers. Let the women join like men. No access to the message system until you pay something. At the very least it could reduce the number of deadbeats.

Should they pay the same?

Wouldn't this lead to the girls requesting more money to the sugar daddy? Passing the cost to the consumer.

Would you be okay with this?

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5438838]Sites like SA and WYP should start charging women to join the site like men. Right now, they need to only set up an ID and they get the same access as men who pay.
Charging women, whether full rate or a nominal fee, would clear out most the dead weight, spammers, and scammers. The counter argument would that women wouldn't pay anything to join. Food for thought but something needs to change. The current way is like STG. Anything that's free starts attracting deadbeat scammers. Let the women join like men. No access to the message system until you pay something. At the very least it could reduce the number of deadbeats.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BigBoss203;5439091]Should they pay the same?

Wouldn't this lead to the girls requesting more money to the sugar daddy? Passing the cost to the consumer.

Would you be okay with this?[/QUOTE]I wrote, " Charging women, whether full rate or a nominal fee".

As it is now, they pay nothing at all for full access. She's not going to tack on her fee to every date. It's a way to get quality dates for both men and women and could be marketed that way.

Further, if a girl does a hotel incall, say 100 $ For the room, it doesn't get tacked on to every date for that day. So, on SA, if she pays 100 $, it's spread out for the month. The big question is, would the spammers and scammers pay the fee to cheat legitimate people or go away.