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[QUOTE=Trickster666;6250508]Attraction is something that sometimes could not be controlled. I was just answering someone's question about dating a parlor girl. Yes, it happens and more often than the common sense would suggest.[/QUOTE]I've considered an opportunity or two to "date" a professional. Unless both parties are interested in a traditional arrangement, I can't see it being anything other than a sugaring arrangement, which is fine, but don't fool yourself into believing it's anything else. Ideally, we all get to have side arrangements outside the spa with our favorite ladies, but we are in this hobby for a reason, and its basically to avoid complex entanglements.
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[QUOTE=IrishRover55;6250857]WHich spa is considered best? Thanks for the help![/QUOTE]Both are overpriced. Obviously if you want white chicks, go Mandela.
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Friends with benefits
[QUOTE=NewJeff;6251141]I've considered an opportunity or two to "date" a professional. Unless both parties are interested in a traditional arrangement, I can't see it being anything other than a sugaring arrangement, which is fine, but don't fool yourself into believing it's anything else. Ideally, we all get to have side arrangements outside the spa with our favorite ladies, but we are in this hobby for a reason, and its basically to avoid complex entanglements.[/QUOTE]These relationships can get complicated.
The ladies are looking for a way to get out of the 'AMP' life and perhaps a long term relationship (I. E. Marriage) but I agree; most of us are trying to avoid complex entanglements and the 'drama' that comes with it.
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What town?
[QUOTE=Timisinu;6251096]1st time ever at AMP. Called went in followed upstairs said undress. Didn't ask her name. Short older woman shoulder length black hair short nice fake jugs and nice ass in shorts. Walked on my back for a few minutes step down rub back from standing above head. My hands roam she moaned a bit as to say ok, up feeling under shorts she says she can get naked if I made offer she countered said ok she stripped told me on back went right after it with hand, asked mouth she said offer I countered left come back with saran wrap she hopped up in 69 position told me no kiss so stuck finger in her ass she like said ya fuck my ass, she was to short for me to reach with mouth anyway. Finished she kept going till completely empty then a little more, towel clean up and gone was hh for. 4 then with strip 1. Then another. 4 probably was too much but have no idea how it worked but now that I found this site I have learned and happy to share and learn some more, hope this was a good post lmk if shortcuts were right. Would like to find a f / s she may have but damage was enough.[/QUOTE]Great first post, thanks. Is Tranquility the name of spa if so Beverly or Weymouth?
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Teasing
[QUOTE=JackLyons1967;6250636]Would love a lead on finding a provider who is incredible at teasing. To me that is the ultimate variable. Knowing exactly what is going to happen even if its pretty good is not nearly as titillating as being teased and not knowing exactly where and how far it will go. And when. That's why I like trying different providers. The thrill of the unknown. Feel free to PM me. Happy to share a couple leads myself also.[/QUOTE]They are there! Show them some cash and they will tease you for the entire session. You will have an unbelievable release!
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[QUOTE=RedDelano;6250439]I have never received anything more than a standard HE here.[/QUOTE]Ask for Amy. Tip well. I told her early that if she was fun I'd tip well. She was fun!
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Newbury
Took a trip to newbury after a year, 297 newbury.
Looked new, legit & wanted to try it out, was greeted by a receptionist (looked 40+, looked like a thai establishment), told 1 hr was taken to the room.
If I recall correctly, I got an older provider 50+ (might be ava / ada) got good massage (slight tease but no signs of HE).
After the massage, I was told to pay at the reception but this time I saw a few more providers who were in the similar age group.
Damages. 7 + . 3 (will repeat just for the massage).
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Teasing
[QUOTE=Bishop8891;6251409]They are there! Show them some cash and they will tease you for the entire session. You will have an unbelievable release![/QUOTE]Yes I understand that part but really good teasing is an art form. Aside from what you offer for $ some are better than others at it. Takes intuition and other skills to really be good at it. Any recommendations re: providers who are artists please share here PM me. Much appreciated.
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[QUOTE=MandarinOrange;6251297]These relationships can get complicated.
The ladies are looking for a way to get out of the 'AMP' life and perhaps a long term relationship (I. E. Marriage) but I agree; most of us are trying to avoid complex entanglements and the 'drama' that comes with it.[/QUOTE]Complicated is an understatement. Not really dated but had some off the clock fun with 2 different spa girls from RI and dated an escort who used to travel here all the time. This dates back to the days when FS spas operated unfettered all over Providence.
Spa Girl 1- Gave her my number and one night she calls me out of nowhere and asks me if I can come to Foxwoods. I go down there meet up with her at her room. We go and get some food and then back at the room we had a bit of fun. Stayed the night. Banged a few times only using a condom once and the rest of the time was BB. She left the area to work at a spa in Texas. We stayed in touch until I got a threatening phone call from her husband. I told him I didn't know she was married but I'll back off. He called me back later and apologized. He was almost in tears and was telling me he was just trying to keep his family together. Felt bad for the guy. Poor bastard.
Spa Girl 2- Also in RI. This one only liked going to restaurants and to the CT casinos after their work hours. They all seem to like the casinos and shopping. Took her out to dinner a couple times and the casino once. Of course we had our fun time off the clock, but she started hitting me up for money and when all the Providence spas shut down she called me begging me for $3000. She even said she would transfer title to her Lexus SUV to me. What? In exchange for $3000? I know I can get more than that for the Lexus but it all sounded shady as fuck so I said no. She was begging me for the cash. I had to cut contact with her after that.
Escort I "dated" for a while ended in heartbreak. They always do. We did have a lot of fun while it lasted. We weren't exclusive but I knew she had one other guy on the hook during the time we were together. She still took regular clients. I never really got jealous at that part. The majority of her off the clock time we spent together. Travelled quite a bit to where she was living too. We did take a few trips together. Hawaii, Cabo, Lake Tahoe, and Miami and Boca. These were "off the clock" but it was first class treatment the whole way. She was expensive to date and trust me when I say this it's cheaper to see them on the clock and pay their rate for 1 or 2 hours. Then be done with them until it's time to book another appointment. It was more of a SD / SB relationship and outside drama always pops up. She's needs money for this, that, and the other. Or she wants some expensive designer bag that she will turn around and sell almost immediately. These girls know exactly what they are doing and they are there to rinse your ass. Don't believe a thing these girls tell you. It's all bullshit. Learned that hard lesson and now I only book 1 to 3 hour appointments max. I lost myself and my sense of purpose for a while. I was in a bad place. Never again though. These girls belong to the streets.
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Teasing
[QUOTE=JackLyons1967;6250636]Would love a lead on finding a provider who is incredible at teasing. To me that is the ultimate variable. Knowing exactly what is going to happen even if its pretty good is not nearly as titillating as being teased and not knowing exactly where and how far it will go. And when. That's why I like trying different providers. The thrill of the unknown. Feel free to PM me. Happy to share a couple leads myself also.[/QUOTE]I think Amy & Coco at Cherry Blossom in Waltham do a really nice job of setting the mood. The legendary Angela at Mindful in Watertown mixes some tease with a pretty killer massage but you have to get her and not one of the others.
I'm reminded of the time I went to Waverly (long ago when it was open and busy). I got a mid 20's American Chinese girl (from Flushing but born here not sure the whole back story but obviously much easier to communicate with because English was her first language). I told her I wanted 35 minutes of teasing so she literally played with my nuts and ass for a half hour. It was great and I did not take long to explode on the flip.
In general if you want a tease tell them you want soft touch only or say medium with a lot of soft touch. That sometimes works. Break up the session say 15 minutes medium then 15 soft touch.
Also pretty straightforward if they do something I like I just keep saying do that again haha.
I hate when they ask to flip when there's been no tease. Juniors all asleep. No bueno.
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Teasing as an Art Form
[QUOTE=JackLyons1967;6251824]Yes I understand that part but really good teasing is an art form. Aside from what you offer for $ some are better than others at it. Takes intuition and other skills to really be good at it. Any recommendations re: providers who are artists please share here PM me. Much appreciated.[/QUOTE]I totally agree with you on this. Along with intuition and other skills, such as being able 'to read' my reactions to certain moves, I believe the ingredient that puts it over the top is Attitude.
We so often have discussions about granny's, MILF's, spinners, etc. Personally I think it is attitude that is almost always the deciding factor for me.
Just my. 02.
Stay Safe, Play Safe.
JR.
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Cheaper by the hour!
[QUOTE=AzngrlLuvr;6252510]Complicated is an understatement. Not really dated but had some off the clock fun with 2 different spa girls from RI and dated an escort who used to travel here all the time. This dates back to the days when FS spas operated unfettered all over Providence.
Spa Girl 1- Gave her my number and one night she calls me out of nowhere and asks me if I can come to Foxwoods. I go down there meet up with her at her room. We go and get some food and then back at the room we had a bit of fun. Stayed the night. Banged a few times only using a condom once and the rest of the time was BB. She left the area to work at a spa in Texas. We stayed in touch until I got a threatening phone call from her husband. I told him I didn't know she was married but I'll back off. He called me back later and apologized. He was almost in tears and was telling me he was just trying to keep his family together. Felt bad for the guy. Poor bastard.
Spa Girl 2- Also in RI. This one only liked going to restaurants and to the CT casinos after their work hours. They all seem to like the casinos and shopping. Took her out to dinner a couple times and the casino once. Of course we had our fun time off the clock, but she started hitting me up for money and when all the Providence spas shut down she called me begging me for $3000. She even said she would transfer title to her Lexus SUV to me. What? In exchange for $3000? I know I can get more than that for the Lexus but it all sounded shady as fuck so I said no. She was begging me for the cash. I had to cut contact with her after that.
Escort I "dated" for a while ended in heartbreak. They always do. We did have a lot of fun while it lasted. We weren't exclusive but I knew she had one other guy on the hook during the time we were together. She still took regular clients. I never really got jealous at that part. The majority of her off the clock time we spent together. Travelled quite a bit to where she was living too. We did take a few trips together. Hawaii, Cabo, Lake Tahoe, and Miami and Boca. These were "off the clock" but it was first class treatment the whole way. She was expensive to date and trust me when I say this it's cheaper to see them on the clock and pay their rate for 1 or 2 hours. Then be done with them until it's time to book another appointment. It was more of a SD / SB relationship and outside drama always pops up. She's needs money for this, that, and the other. Or she wants some expensive designer bag that she will turn around and sell almost immediately. These girls know exactly what they are doing and they are there to rinse your ass. Don't believe a thing these girls tell you. It's all bullshit. Learned that hard lesson and now I only book 1 to 3 hour appointments max. I lost myself and my sense of purpose for a while. I was in a bad place. Never again though. These girls belong to the streets.[/QUOTE]Very true! Something always comes up, need money for parking tickets, vet bills, late rent, the emergencies are endless. Listen to them talking to others on the phone, always trying to scam for a buck. We are nothing but ATM machines!
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[QUOTE=MajorJohnson;6252880]Very true! Something always comes up, need money for parking tickets, vet bills, late rent, the emergencies are endless. Listen to them talking to others on the phone, always trying to scam for a buck. We are nothing but ATM machines![/QUOTE]Without a doubt man. It's always something. As soon as you cave to their demands for money they lose respect for you. Not that they had much respect for you to begin with.
I felt bad for the first spa girl's husband. Hey he married her and had a kid with her. You can't turn a Ho into a housewife. Thought I could do that and learned the hard way with the escort I was with for a while. I was considering taking her off the market until I came to my senses. I started seeing red flags that were there all along that I chose to ignore. Started asking myself how well do I really know this girl? What is her relationship with her family like? Of course she has no relationship with her father. She had a very different childhood than mine. I had a great childhood and parents are still together. Hers are divorced and she didn't get along with her siblings. Her father took off a long time ago. No surprise in hindsight. Then I found out she actually had a real boyfriend. Some thug drug dealer dude she's known since she was in high school. Those are the only kinds of guys who can "date" these girls. Walked away from the whole thing because I couldn't stomach knowing she was probably giving that asshole the money I gave her. At least a good amount of it. Yeah sure lady, you're "independent.”
These girls think they are entitled to our money. In the spirit of the holidays I will share this. I had one escort hit me up last year right around this time. Texts me out of nowhere. "Hey baby I'm going to be in your area and would love to see you. " First of all don't text me unsolicited like that. It makes me want to see you even less. I didn't respond and she texted again a couple days later asking if I'm around. I texted back saying Sorry I'm not around. She threw an absolute shit fit. She then starts saying something about not having hardly any clients and she's made no money on this trip. She said she needs money for Christmas presents for her family. So do I lady but for my family. I really hate getting unsolicited texts from these girls. It makes me not want to see them. I'll text or call if I want to see you. That's how it works.
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My visit to Weymouth
I gave Dandelion a call first. The phone was picked up but then almost immediately disconnected. I didn't know if they hung up on me or the call was dropped so I waited a few minutes and tried again. No answer. Either trouble with their phones or too busy or whatever. I had a short window of time so I called SSR. They answered right away and told me they weren't busy and I could come right over so I did.
I met Linda who seemed to be the only one there. Linda gave me one of the best massages I've ever had. I had to ask her to lighten up a little at one point but other than that it was really good. Several "accidental" touches throughout the massage (Those casual accidental touches might be my favorite way of teasing) which became more frequent the longer the massage went. Eventually a hot towel and ST then flip. Unfortunately she positioned herself with her back to me for the finish. This limited any roaming which was disapointing as she looks to have a nice body. The HJ however was great. She had me on the edge almost immediately and kept me there for a bit before the inevitable. She asked me if I felt better and smiled and seemed quite pleased with herself. Cleanup, some face, and foot massage and we were done.
They weren't busy at all so after I dressed we talked a little bit in the lobby. She asked me to come back soon but I explained to her that I didn't live close and wasn't in the area often. We hugged and I left. Something I noticed was there was no music playing at all. I think that may be the first time I went through an entire massage without it. If lived closer I would probably become a regular with her. I don't know when I'll be in the area again, maybe months from now and who knows if she'll still be there or remember me.
Thanks to everyone who gave me recommendations for the area.