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[QUOTE=JustinFields;5516022]Anyone get this one to meet?
Probably an only fans girl or wants to sell pics.
Looks like she has a great pair of tits.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7e20cd94-c039-44a4-bd28-615b7d05cae8[/URL][/QUOTE]Last year I chatted and tried planning for meet and greet near west loop where she supposedly lives, think she wanted to get dinner vs. Just drinks. She kind of flaked so didn't end up seeing her.
[QUOTE=RusselJimmies;5374302]This was true a while ago but is no longer the case. I'm not sure if there are identifying phrases anymore, every profile that's gone dark on me didn't block (verified this from another account and they're gone altogether) and says "Unable to send a message as user is no longer active. ".
But*yeah I figured out your trick a couple years ago.[/QUOTE]I've also noticed that if you're blocked, their location stops showing up in the header under their username on the messages page.
[QUOTE=JustinFields;5516022]Anyone get this one to meet?
Probably an only fans girl or wants to sell pics.
Looks like she has a great pair of tits.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7e20cd94-c039-44a4-bd28-615b7d05cae8[/URL][/QUOTE]It take a long time to finally get her to meet, met her about 2 weeks ago, she is hot and even more so in person. Never went beyond that meet for a couple drinks. What she is looking for, in my eyes anyway, seems to be on the high end of things, travel, boats, etc. And we were not able to agree on things so that was that.
[QUOTE=JustinFields;5516022]Anyone get this one to meet?
Probably an only fans girl or wants to sell pics.
Looks like she has a great pair of tits.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7e20cd94-c039-44a4-bd28-615b7d05cae8[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Osyus;5516630]It take a long time to finally get her to meet, met her about 2 weeks ago, she is hot and even more so in person. Never went beyond that meet for a couple drinks. What she is looking for, in my eyes anyway, seems to be on the high end of things, travel, boats, etc. And we were not able to agree on things so that was that.[/QUOTE]She's looking for a husband. And becomes very possessive and dominating very quickly.
[QUOTE=Jinurso;5516669]She's looking for a husband. And becomes very possessive and dominating very quickly.[/QUOTE]Where you able to close the deal?
She has a great set of tits, that is for sure!
I never met her and she had an attitude when messaging and decided to cut my losses.
[QUOTE=Jinurso;5516669]She's looking for a husband. And becomes very possessive and dominating very quickly.[/QUOTE]Does anyone have any content or anything on her, I'd be interested in seeing that.
[QUOTE=BigPenor;5515577]I saw her pop up as well.
I'm curious though, how do you already have a report on her when her account was created today?[/QUOTE]She's been around, used to go by Val before. I'm sure you can find old reports. And if I'm a gambling man (I am) she also goes by nataliaville at some point (maybe still currently).
[QUOTE=Osyus;5517030]She's been around, used to go by Val before. I'm sure you can find old reports. And if I'm a gambling man (I am) she also goes by nataliaville at some point (maybe still currently).[/QUOTE]Ahh yes, I recall. Mia Collins was one of her other names. I was going to reach out to her for an arrangement until I found out she was more interested in escorting (not judging, just not what I'm looking for).
I don't understand what drives someone with such a top tier figure to escort. Someone like that could easily pull 5 k-10 k / mo in a more traditional sugar arrangement.
Hello, does anyone have experience getting a hotel room without a credit card. I am concerned about a paper trail. Thanks.
[QUOTE=BigPenor;5517566]Ahh yes, I recall. Mia Collins was one of her other names. I was going to reach out to her for an arrangement until I found out she was more interested in escorting (not judging, just not what I'm looking for).
I don't understand what drives someone with such a top tier figure to escort. Someone like that could easily pull 5 k-10 k / mo in a more traditional sugar arrangement.[/QUOTE]Something tells me there isn't a lot of overlap in the women who are smart enough to figure out how to best profit from their beauty and the women who have to resort to banging random dudes for money.
[QUOTE=Donger999;5369089]I passed on this one, wants way too much scratch in my opinion. Basically a semi-pro. Attractive but way too slick, tries to act really genuine but seems to be an act.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/31bca550-749a-42bd-a943-92b37a48000a[/URL][/QUOTE]Anyone else try for this one? We switched to text recently and she blasted me with 2000-3000 a month, then lowered to 1000 for two meets a month (not awful in my opinion) and then I suggested 300-400 ppm prior to an allowance and she was okay with that. Has called herself "a very sexual being" multiple times LOL.
[QUOTE=BigPenor;5517566]Ahh yes, I recall. Mia Collins was one of her other names. I was going to reach out to her for an arrangement until I found out she was more interested in escorting (not judging, just not what I'm looking for).
I don't understand what drives someone with such a top tier figure to escort. Someone like that could easily pull 5 k-10 k / mo in a more traditional sugar arrangement.[/QUOTE]It is going to be hard for her to make 5-10 k a month off sugaring. She is uneducated and doesn't speak English. She is not the type you could take to a work function or dinner. Her personality is also kind of blah.
She does have a great body and her tits are natural and top tier.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b523c747-7524-4eb3-be4a-ed0e6bf30daf[/URL]
This girl has a great pair of tits and was in the mood for AA but she requested 700 ppm. The most I will do is 300.
[QUOTE=JustinFields;5516741]Where you able to close the deal?
She has a great set of tits, that is for sure!
I never met her and she had an attitude when messaging and decided to cut my losses.[/QUOTE]She was the last person I met before I canceled my membership and went back to escorts. She had just joined and on the first date it was immediately 20 million questions about who else I'm seeing, my dating history, some mess about something she called "roaching" that I didn't understand at all but apparently made her feel entitled to try to check my phone and come over unannounced. She would constantly text me and be like "Hello?? Where are you?" if I didn't write back immediately, and made an uncomfortable number of jokes involving her being pregnant which scared me off CIP.
I ended up leaving SA over her and a couple of other girls who were similar. I posted about the experience some months ago. There are less intense ways to get laid by hot young girls than that.
[QUOTE=Agoraphobe;5518394]Something tells me there isn't a lot of overlap in the women who are smart enough to figure out how to best profit from their beauty and the women who have to resort to banging random dudes for money.[/QUOTE]Even these girls on seeking are banging a lot of dudes. The ones who are responsive to you are responsive to many others as well.
The just aren't holed up in some house banging 5 dudes a day for money.
I think many over estimate the purity of these girls.
[QUOTE=Jinurso;5518428]She was the last person I met before I canceled my membership and went back to escorts. She had just joined and on the first date it was immediately 20 million questions about who else I'm seeing, my dating history, some mess about something she called "roaching" that I didn't understand at all but apparently made her feel entitled to try to check my phone and come over unannounced. She would constantly text me and be like "Hello?? Where are you?" if I didn't write back immediately, and made an uncomfortable number of jokes involving her being pregnant which scared me off CIP.
I ended up leaving SA over her and a couple of other girls who were similar. I posted about the experience some months ago. There are less intense ways to get laid by hot young girls than that.[/QUOTE]I was msg'ing with her awhile ago and she kind of flaked when it came to setting firm plans to meet up and I didn't press it at all, just moved on. What was her PPM?
[QUOTE=Ammar;5518033]Hello, does anyone have experience getting a hotel room without a credit card. I am concerned about a paper trail. Thanks.[/QUOTE]I use dayuse and a couple small motels. Dayuse hotels ask for cc for incidentals. I pay in cash. BUT they sometimes put through a reserve that shows as pending if your wife can check the online account balance. It drops off in a few days to a week. The small motels are fine with cash and no CC.
Is this the girl you guys are talking about? (see pic attached).
If so it all makes sense, met her 18 months or so ago on SA and she was a complete nut job. Wouldn't STFU to save her life, no filter (in a bad way), hounded me with texts after just 1 meeting with her. Def has a screw loose. Pics on SA are not her, the one attached is her and she looks like a donkey with a beer belly.
[QUOTE=Jinurso;5518428]She was the last person I met before I canceled my membership and went back to escorts. She had just joined and on the first date it was immediately 20 million questions about who else I'm seeing, my dating history, some mess about something she called "roaching" that I didn't understand at all but apparently made her feel entitled to try to check my phone and come over unannounced. She would constantly text me and be like "Hello?? Where are you?" if I didn't write back immediately, and made an uncomfortable number of jokes involving her being pregnant which scared me off CIP.
I ended up leaving SA over her and a couple of other girls who were similar. I posted about the experience some months ago. There are less intense ways to get laid by hot young girls than that.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BigPenor;5517566]Ahh yes, I recall. Mia Collins was one of her other names. I was going to reach out to her for an arrangement until I found out she was more interested in escorting (not judging, just not what I'm looking for).
I don't understand what drives someone with such a top tier figure to escort. Someone like that could easily pull 5 k-10 k / mo in a more traditional sugar arrangement.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=PauFord;5518650]Is this the girl you guys are talking about? (see pic attached).
If so it all makes sense, met her 18 months or so ago on SA and she was a complete nut job. Wouldn't STFU to save her life, no filter (in a bad way), hounded me with texts after just 1 meeting with her. Def has a screw loose. Pics on SA are not her, the one attached is her and she looks like a donkey with a beer belly.[/QUOTE]This seeking profile: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e2368d36-0109-4306-8df8-ccf26b1abc1b[/URL].
This is the mia collins profile from earlier this year: [URL]https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/mia-collins-3126680076-355744[/URL].
I've never met her so I don't know what she looks like in real life.
Hi.
So I got banned from SA. I guess they changed something, because I haven't done anything different. But anyways, any idea how do I get back on? I had a different account (under different email) and they clearly were able to associate the two. Thanks.
[QUOTE=PauFord;5518650]Is this the girl you guys are talking about? (see pic attached).
If so it all makes sense, met her 18 months or so ago on SA and she was a complete nut job. Wouldn't STFU to save her life, no filter (in a bad way), hounded me with texts after just 1 meeting with her. Def has a screw loose. Pics on SA are not her, the one attached is her and she looks like a donkey with a beer belly.[/QUOTE]The girl you posted is a pro.
[URL]https://tryst.link/bdsm/miss-anastasia[/URL]
[QUOTE=Randolph;5518556]I use dayuse and a couple small motels. Dayuse hotels ask for cc for incidentals. I pay in cash. BUT they sometimes put through a reserve that shows as pending if your wife can check the online account balance. It drops off in a few days to a week. The small motels are fine with cash and no CC.[/QUOTE]You'll be at Motel 6 level and below with no credit card involved at all, so you'll have to consider the kind of impression that'll make with the type of girls you're shooting for. Most mainstream to upscale chains may let you pay in cash at checkout, but they'll almost always want a card to swipe for 'incidentals' when you check in. I've heard stories of some places taking a cash deposit instead of a card swipe up front, but the amount was something crazy like 150 or 200.
If you don't have a credit card under your control with no unwanted eyes on it, I think it'll be tough to play the SA game since hotel rooms are obviously a key requirement. FWIW, I used DayUse spots many times with a card for both deposit and payment and never had a single piece of paper mailed to me. I actually like to leave the room presentable with the key cards on the desk and just leave without going to the lobby to check out. Deposit always drops off and room charge stays on the card. In my opinion, if you try jumping through too many hoops to keep payments in cash, etc you're just going to stand out as doing something shady vs all the regular guests doing transactions normally.
[QUOTE=Cdds20;5518472]I was msg'ing with her awhile ago and she kind of flaked when it came to setting firm plans to meet up and I didn't press it at all, just moved on. What was her PPM?[/QUOTE]She wasn't interested in a PPM, which was part of the problem. I don't know what she's like now, but at the time it was basically "$3000 for a month plus we hang out on weekends and go shopping". It started off a good deal because she was over like every day for hours so by week two she was cheaper than most escorts. But then she started coming over on days I didn't really want her or expect her to come over. And she wouldn't really take a hint that it was time to go. Then she was like "hey mind if I stay tonight? I have to be at x tomorrow and your place is real close" and each time more of her stuff wouldn't leave with her. By the end of the first month she somehow had a week's worth of clothes at my place and I don't know how that happened.
For the first couple of weeks I thought it was awesome because between the allowance, meals and occasional shopping trips it was working out to like $50 per hour. But then I realized that it was because she was quickly building her life around me and I knew I had to do something to get out of the situation before she ended up with keys and my credit card for buying nursery furniture.
I feel bad for whatever guy doesn't catch what's happening before it's too late.
[QUOTE=Ammar;5518033]Hello, does anyone have experience getting a hotel room without a credit card. I am concerned about a paper trail. Thanks.[/QUOTE]Can you explain what trail you're trying to avoid leaving? Charges from wife? The description of hotel on the charge? Hotel literature to your house? A hotel record of you being there? You may be able to get around using a card but they will almost certainly ask for at least one form of I'd.
[QUOTE=Jinurso;5518875]She wasn't interested in a PPM, which was part of the problem. I don't know what she's like now, but at the time it was basically "$3000 for a month plus we hang out on weekends and go shopping". It started off a good deal because she was over like every day for hours so by week two she was cheaper than most escorts. But then she started coming over on days I didn't really want her or expect her to come over. And she wouldn't really take a hint that it was time to go. Then she was like "hey mind if I stay tonight? I have to be at x tomorrow and your place is real close" and each time more of her stuff wouldn't leave with her. By the end of the first month she somehow had a week's worth of clothes at my place and I don't know how that happened.
For the first couple of weeks I thought it was awesome because between the allowance, meals and occasional shopping trips it was working out to like $50 per hour. But then I realized that it was because she was quickly building her life around me and I knew I had to do something to get out of the situation before she ended up with keys and my credit card for buying nursery furniture.
I feel bad for whatever guy doesn't catch what's happening before it's too late.[/QUOTE]Please tell me she at least put out.
[QUOTE=JustinFields;5518423]It is going to be hard for her to make 5-10 k a month off sugaring. She is uneducated and doesn't speak English. She is not the type you could take to a work function or dinner. Her personality is also kind of blah.
She does have a great body and her tits are natural and top tier.[/QUOTE]She doesn't speak English? How does she communicate on text to setup a meet? Google translate? Or you think she has a pimp or booker type helping her? What does she speak? LOL.
Quick report been meeting Alpalxoxo from SA awhile now. I believe a few guys here posted about how she wasn't replying. I think she's not very responsive due to she's an alcoholic and a hot mess. One of the times we met at the hotel she asked me if she should bring vodka from the car into the room. I told her no, because I actually like sober sex. Otherwise a sweet girl and appreciates the $ help.
[QUOTE=Jayp80;5518902]Can you explain what trail you're trying to avoid leaving? Charges from wife? The description of hotel on the charge? Hotel literature to your house? A hotel record of you being there? You may be able to get around using a card but they will almost certainly ask for at least one form of I'd.[/QUOTE]I guess that's the issue. I'm married and open about this on SD site. I have had a few nibbles but asking the woman to get the room can be a deal breaker. I can't put a charge on my credit card and don't want ads from a hotel coming to my house. I may not be able to crack this nut.
[QUOTE=JustinFields;5516022]Anyone get this one to meet?
Probably an only fans girl or wants to sell pics.
Looks like she has a great pair of tits.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7e20cd94-c039-44a4-bd28-615b7d05cae8[/URL][/QUOTE]I met her in early summer for a meet / greet. Good personality, cute and has a nice body but complexion wasn't very good. We didn't discuss allowance in person but when we texted after, she gave me the same 2 k-3 k range for a "few dates" per month. I didn't even bother negotiating. I would consider at 300-400 but not a chance beyond that.
[QUOTE=Jge096;5518409]Anyone else try for this one? We switched to text recently and she blasted me with 2000-3000 a month, then lowered to 1000 for two meets a month (not awful in my opinion) and then I suggested 300-400 ppm prior to an allowance and she was okay with that. Has called herself "a very sexual being" multiple times LOL.[/QUOTE]This is actually the one I met not the one in the previous post. I met her in early summer for a meet / greet. Good personality, cute and has a nice body but complexion wasn't very good. We didn't discuss allowance in person but when we texted after, she gave me the same 2 k-3 k range for a "few dates" per month. I didn't even bother negotiating. I would consider at 300-400 but not a chance beyond that. She's thinks very highly of herself too which I find annoying from young twenty somethings in general. Please ignore my previous post-can't figure out how to delete a post.
[QUOTE=Ammar;5518033]Hello, does anyone have experience getting a hotel room without a credit card. I am concerned about a paper trail. Thanks.[/QUOTE]I have been using Walmart money card for years without hitch. They don't send you a paper statement and you can check your transactions and balance online. I load it with cash for 3 $ fee. It works for online or in person hotel pay, parking fees, incident deposit, restaurants and presents if I want to treat the girl. The only thing is to be careful checking your mail when ordering it or renewing it, but at that point you know it will be coming in few days, so I just check my mail every day for few days. I havent received too many hotel letters by mail and I used to travel a lot for work, so I had a ready made lie that the hotel send me that cause I had stayed at their hotel chain for work. Few times I was able to put my work as my home address for extra security.
[QUOTE=GetOnUrKnees;5519064]Quick report been meeting Alpalxoxo from SA awhile now. I believe a few guys here posted about how she wasn't replying. I think she's not very responsive due to she's an alcoholic and a hot mess. One of the times we met at the hotel she asked me if she should bring vodka from the car into the room. I told her no, because I actually like sober sex. Otherwise a sweet girl and appreciates the $ help.[/QUOTE]Had the same experience. Nice girl, amazing tits, absolute alcoholic and can get sloppy which quickly became annoying.
[QUOTE=JustinFields;5516022]Anyone get this one to meet?
Probably an only fans girl or wants to sell pics.
Looks like she has a great pair of tits.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7e20cd94-c039-44a4-bd28-615b7d05cae8[/URL][/QUOTE]I did a meet and greet with her and she looked better in person than I expected. Agreed to $500 PPM next visit. However she has a personality disorder or something. Just can't keep herself from saying or messaging really off-putting stuff. I found something better and never followed through. Imagine that if in the first 15 minutes of meeting her it's already the same feeling as the last month of the worst relationship you've ever been in. It's possible she was created by one of the more mischievous Greek gods as a way to torture lustful men in the afterlife. If she could just find it in herself to pretend to be sweet, she'd make tons of money.
[QUOTE=Ammar;5519120]I guess that's the issue. I'm married and open about this on SD site. I have had a few nibbles but asking the woman to get the room can be a deal breaker. I can't put a charge on my credit card and don't want ads from a hotel coming to my house. I may not be able to crack this nut.[/QUOTE]I use dayuse because I can only do stuff in daytime and it's like half the price at nice hotels. Have not gotten any actual mail to house, only a few emails of promotions. I also do occasional cash motels that are cleaner. You can search reviews on ChicagoLand motels that are cleaner, TripAdvisor, and won't upset the sb. I haven't had complaints. But for motel it's best to meet at a coffee shop first if it's the first meet. If you are nice and put it the right way (oh there's a festival-Chicago event" so, and looks like nice ones are all booked LOL) . They will overlook it. In a pinch there my suv, LOL the office after hours, or invest in an RV?
[QUOTE=Ammar;5519120]I guess that's the issue. I'm married and open about this on SD site. I have had a few nibbles but asking the woman to get the room can be a deal breaker. I can't put a charge on my credit card and don't want ads from a hotel coming to my house. I may not be able to crack this nut.[/QUOTE]There is nothing more discrete than an Air BNB, if you get marketing mail (which I never have) it's very easy to associate it to a prior trip or future trip you have planned. You reduce the risk of one of your wives friends seeing you go into a hotel etc. I have a small side business with chase / Amex business credit cards that allow me to create employee cards with completely random names (no ss# required) With business credit the inquiry goes against your personal credit but the balance doesn't report on your personal credit. You can always get cards sent to your office, PO Box etc. I also use [URL]privacy.com[/URL] which allows you to generate virtual credit cards using funds from a bank account, it allows you to use random names and addresses and it allows you to mask the transition from [URL]Hilton.com[/URL] to [URL]privacy.com[/URL]/ hardware store / convenience store / etc.
Everyone has mentioned prepaid cards before but sites like Robinhood, cash app allow you to create debit cards as well. Apple Cash (not the CC) is an option as well. You can have a friend send you cash app or Apple Cash as your funding source.
[QUOTE=Anons550;5518927]Please tell me she at least put out.[/QUOTE]Of course. That was the only good part of the entire thing until she started "joking" that she wasn't on BC despite telling me it was ok to CIP. Was she joking? She never really made it clear so I stopped CIP.
Then she started "joking" that she was late.
The whole thing was creepy.
[QUOTE=Jinurso;5519971]Of course. That was the only good part of the entire thing until she started "joking" that she wasn't on BC despite telling me it was ok to CIP. Was she joking? She never really made it clear so I stopped CIP.
Then she started "joking" that she was late.
The whole thing was creepy.[/QUOTE]Seems like she wants to trap a guy for monthly money for herself and child support for good measure.
[QUOTE=Ammar;5519120]I guess that's the issue. I'm married and open about this on SD site. I have had a few nibbles but asking the woman to get the room can be a deal breaker. I can't put a charge on my credit card and don't want ads from a hotel coming to my house. I may not be able to crack this nut.[/QUOTE]I wouldn't worry so much about paper mailed ads, since I don't see any of that from either these kind of stays or legitimate business / family trips. On the off chance it happens, it should be pretty easily explainable away as junk mail.
But I do see the credit card issue as a big obstacle for you. Even if one of the 'hacks' from the other posters work, that puts you in the position of withdrawing and / or moving cash around to have it on hand or load one of these other payment options. If your credit card activity is not private, are you sure you can pull off that kind of cash coming out of your account in a short time without questions being asked? If you're doing a typical PPM allowance, full price of the hotel room, and deposit / incidentals all in cash that would easily be 500 to 1 k in play for one session. If you have bank accounts under your control that are managed differently from your credit cards, then maybe you're ok. But if your spouse watches your bank account in the same way as the credit cards, it still seems like a version of the same issue. But hope you work it out and are able to have some fun!
[QUOTE=FafaFooey;5519998]But I do see the credit card issue as a big obstacle for you. Even if one of the 'hacks' from the other posters work, that puts you in the position of withdrawing and / or moving cash around to have it on hand or load one of these other payment options. If your credit card activity is not private, are you sure you can pull off that kind of cash coming out of your account in a short time without questions being asked?[/QUOTE]This is the exact reason I have avoided SA and even my general mongering is more limited than I want. It is nearly impossible to move money around if you had not previously moved money around and do not own your own business. If you work for someone else and your spouse is used to money coming in from your employer and going out for normal expenses and entertainment, it is very hard to find ways to shift 1 K plus a month. QV at 80-100 is much easier.
The thing that sucks is that I have seen a couple random people pop up on SA that I have either seen out and about or might see on IG and there is no way a guy with average looks, dad bod would have a shot with those women. But I'm not paying 1 K in hotel fees and donation for one shot. Too hard to do for me and not economical when that money could be spread over a few months with EB junkies. .
A guy responded to one of my vanilla personal ads and wants me to fuck his girlfriend with him. He wants to watch and do like a chicken-on-a-spit thing. Maybe get a little rough with her. He sent me a pic and she looks pretty good. Mid to late 20's. I'd *definitely* fuck her if there wasn't another guy in the room.
I've been chatting with him. It's not for me. They don't want any payment but would like someone to host. Also important for them to find someone fit, professional, respectful and attractive. Like a dentist who bikes a lot or something. They sound extremely new to any sort of "scene" so this might be a good chance for one of you weirdos to have a good time and show this chick the ropes.
He didn't ask me to post this, but I'll pass along one or two prospects to him as a way of saying "thanks, but no thanks. " If you fit the bill, shoot me a note.