[QUOTE=BossTown101;4990811]Hey guys my first time posting in the group. In the past I've been an AMP kinda of guy frequenting places in the q and Waltham. However since covid I haven't been out much. I've recently connected with a younger woman interested in sugar baby life. My question is what is a normal allowance? I don't want to paying her way to much. But I also don't want to low ball her and turn her off. This is my first time doing anything outside my normal massage spots. Any advice is greatly appreciated.[/QUOTE]I almost always get them to give me a number first.
Sometimes it's within my normal range (3-400 ppm), in which case I agree right away.
I had a coffee date yesterday with a 24 yr old blonde college grad who had never done this before. Great coffee date, she just wants casual sex without a relationship and with keeping her independence, and agreed to talk later in the day. I brought up the allowance on the phone and she told me that "from her research" she was "hoping for $3 k per month.) I immediately told her that was way out of everything I'd done before, and that I thought it very unlikely she'd find that in Boston for 2 - 4 dates per month. I expected the call to end quickly (I don't like trying to talk them down; if they have unrealistic plans let them just go), but she pivoted to 'that's what I thought and I am comfortable with you so your numbers are ok. '.
We'll see; not having our first hotel date for a little over a week. She may yet bail; if she does that's ok. I don't THINK she'll get $750 a week PPM from anyone.
Again I'd ask her for a number first. But if you have a limit just use that. If you two are far apart figure it out sooner rather than later and go on your separate ways.