Made one comment about switching....
From Hookers back to Sugar Babies and my email got blown up. WTF! LOL to avoid the common questions asked.
"Sugar Daddy 101".
Glossary of Terms:
CL = CraigsList.
FWNSL = First Wife No Sex Life.
SA = [URL]SeekingArrangement.com[/URL].
SB = Sugar Baby.
SD = Sugar Daddy.
SD4 ME = [URL]SugarDaddyForMe.com[/URL].
WYP = [URL]WhatsYourPrice.com[/URL].
How to Recruit a Sugar Baby?
Some guys have luck advertising themselves on M4 W in CL.
For real civilian co-eds and 20-somethings, try:
[URL]http://www.seekingarrangement.com/[/URL] (known as College Sugarbabies) and.
[URL]http://www.sugardaddyforme.com/[/URL]
[URL]http://www.whatsyourprice.com/[/URL]
Spend a few weeks checking out these sites and getting a feel for them and the type of girls you will be meeting.
On Seeking Arrangement make sure you get yourself "verified" for a $49 one-time fee. They have a third party company that checks you out for:
Criminal Checks:
Registered Sex Offenders.
Sex Crimes.
Violent Crimes.
Domestic Violence.
Felonious and Misdemeanor Assaults.
The girls feel safer and you will get way more responses and more productive initial meetings that way.
How to Keep Your Real Life away from your Sugar Baby:
(and your SB life away from your FWNSL).
Create a Hobby Identity (HI) and ALWAYS use it with ALL SBs:
1. Create a new Hobby Name for exclusive use with ALL SBs, and RB members you choose to meet or communicate with outside RB.
2. Choose a fairly common name that has 15+ people using it as their legal name with linkedin accounts in the Bay Area, including several with no photos.
3. Create a Hobby Back Story (e.g., "private investor") that has nothing to do with your real life, business, or what city / town you reside or work. Never give real personal info in conversation. Don't tell them where you really live. Be extremely vague or lie about employment.
4. Either use a pre-paid Hobby Phone, or the password-protected [URL]http://Line2.com[/URL] app on your Android or iPhone for a separate Hobby Line (HL) with your Hobby Name as caller I'd.
5. SBs are to use your HL exclusively for texts and calls to VM.
6. If you want to show a document, e.g. STD test results, use Adobe Acrobat to change your real name to your Hobby Name.
7. Auto-lock your Android or iPhone after 1 minute of non-use to keep prying SB and FWNSL eyes out of it.
8. Open a free Hobby Email Account (e.g. Gmail).
9. Get a Hobby Snail Mail Address at a PO Box or Private Mail Box for any paper hobby-related statements. Better to use online statements to your Hobby Email Account.
10. Hobby Debit Card (HDC) (e.g. Ally) for all hobby-related ATM withdrawals and other expenses, e.g. Hotels. It has your legal name, so you must keep it away from SB's eyes when used to check into hotels, so always check in alone.
11. Use cash whenever possible.
12. Buy a Hobby Wallet for SB and date cash, with a hiding place for Hobby Debit Card.
13. Keep your vehicles off-limits to your SBs, and park far and walk to meetings.
14. Use lockable compartments in each vehicle to hide items like condoms, Hobby Wallet, champagne bottles, etc. From FWNSL.
15. Put your Hobby Snail Address on your CA DL, vehicle registrations, and insurance I'd cards. In case a SB sees one of these items so she can't get your home address.
16. Use iPhone 5's new Map app (or Android equivalent) with turn-by-turn spoken directions for navigating to SB rendezvous and AAMPs, instead of your vehicle's built-in NAV, which has to be erased after each use.
17. Use a Hobby FastTrak RFID device tied to your Hobby Debit Card to pay tolls when hobbying, or just wait in line and pay cash.
18. Never pick-up a receipt for anything you pay for during a SB date.
19. No hosting if you have an S.O.
For prepaid credit card information one place to start:
[URL]http://www.nerdwallet.com/blog/prepaid-debit-cards/chase-liquid-prepaid-yeah-gamechanger/[/URL]
Some use bank / brokerage accounts and credit cards they had before they got married their wife know nothing about.
You can check into hotels and keep it under an assumed name or "unregistered." Just tell the hotel manager you need to do that for security purposes. That will keep your babe from knowing your real name. Pay cash whenever possible.
S.be's are great, but they don't always end well... If you create a Hobby Identity by following the above recommendations, you will be almost extortion-proof, unless your SB hires a private investigator!
How to Spot and Avoid a Hooker Posing as a Sugar Baby:
To eliminate hookers look for codewords: GFE, BBBJ, outcall, etc. $250 1st hour $400.00 for 2 hours, $700.00 if it includes a dinner date etc. Are all signs of hookers.
Avoid glam shots, pictures taken in motels, etc. Use google image search, tineye etc. To eliminate hookers. Google phone numbers and email addresses. Google is your friend.
How to tell if she's a Civilian?
Civilian girls don't count hours. They are hoping for a fixed monthly amount for an arrangement. Always pay them by the meeting the first month. After that some pay them every two weeks or monthly. Others continue paying per meeting, but try not to miss a week.
The legit ones will give you their phone # right away in email before you meet them so you can text the day you're meeting.
A phone number trace can get the name and other info the phone number is in. US search is pretty reliable:
[URL]http://www.ussearch.com/consumer/index.jsp?searchtab=home[/URL]
Real civilian sugarbabes DO NOT use pre-paid phones in fake names with fake addresses. If their name is on their cell phone, you can get advance intel off facebook, twitter, linkedin etc. Before you even meet them.
Always ask a college SB to show you her student I'd after she tells you what school she goes to. If it's an older girl, it's easy to verify employment. If the girl is legit, she will tell you her real name and even show you her I'd if you are a verified member.
The Initial Meeting:
First meetings typically take place at a Starbucks. To talk privately, either find a private table outside, take your prospective sugar baby for a walk, or just sit in your car. The first goal of the initial meeting is to determine if there is "chemistry". If so, an "arrangement" (frequency of meetings, and her compensation, called a "gift") can be worked out. If she seems promising, then invite her to have lunch or dinner to continue establishing "chemistry". Don't try to rush a new SB into a hotel room for a "test drive"! Never make her feel like a prostitute.
How to Find a Stable Sugar Baby:
Look for SBs who have a decent relationship with their parents or relatives. One reason is because they won't want their parents to know. Therefore, they will be discreet. Another reason is if they had a decent childhood, they are less likely to have emotional problems.
If you select the right SB, she will want her privacy as much as you.
Bareback Sex With Your Sugar Baby.
If you want condom-free sex (and even if you don't) ask them if they are willing to be tested. This shows you they are responsible and disease-free.
Conclusion.
It's hard work to get started, but the rewards are well worth it. The sex will be off the hook compared to the (usually) mechanical hooker sex with too many rules.
So I'm moving and I need some advice!
I am going to be moving fairly soon and was wondering which board would be best to post my contributions to the Hobby! I am moving about 30 miles on the far side of Cookeville! I looked at the Tri Cities but, that looks more North of where I am planning on setting up residence! Any advice or suggestions would be helpful!
