Then where is his reference
I think we can all agree that if any escort that has an online ad and sends out a text of her kitty or any explicit pic, she can be arrested if its LE. I have always been amazed at the men that think its ok to text, email or call and ask me for an illegal act, and this is before they even give a reference or provide their screening info. I have found if they ask for pics, they have not bothered to check me out (reviews, Google searches) , or they are simply pic collectors, that have no intent of booking.
If a provider going to rip you off, or upsell, don't you think she would lie to you and agree to anything just to get you to book? If a provider is not worried about her safety, and getting herself arrested, I doubt she give a shit about the clients safety either.
If more of the clients would take the time to actual read our ads, and do some basic research there would be NO NEED for any kind of explicit conversation. I can't tell you how many times a day, I have to remind some clown on the phone that my rate is for my time and companionship and if they are not comfortable with that, then they shouldn't book with me. As far as screening, just give us a reference, after all most of you are regular hobbyist, and try picking the providers that have no problem giving references. I give references on guys I haven't seen in months or years, and the only info I keep is the first name, email address and cell number. The only info I will even give to another provider, is that I met with the man with no problems and I would be willing to see him again. It seems much of this kiss and tell shit is the downfall of many.
Do you guys really feel safe with providers that will give out their location without confirming who you are, perhaps this is why some of the hotels have cop cars sitting in parking lot, as it so easy to figure out where most of these girls are staying, just call them and they say "come right over I am at the Holiday Inn". Now at this point LE may not know the providers room number, but if the girl has 10 guys coming and going a day, its pretty easy to figure out what room they are in. Or they simply call the girl and say they are at the Holiday Inn and the provider gives them the room number. Needless to say I learned this lesson from a bad experience years ago, and while I understand many of you men are scared to give out screening info, escorts are just as scared of getting arrested, raped, robbed or murdered.
So perhaps before picking out your next provider you could ask, will you give me a reference in the future if I book with you, and perhps its time to start calling out the providers that refuse to provide references.
[QUOTE=Deb4512;1589768]I had an appointment set up with a gentleman I haven't met yet. He texted me that he insisted I send him a "kitty shot" so it would protect him from being stung by LE. He claimed this is a full proof method he uses to prevent himself from being arrested. Hmm, funny because he mentioned what he planned to do with my "kitty" which he claims he doesn't remember doing. Now this guy claims he is a hobbiest and has seen two well reviewed providers who sent him kitty shots before their first meeting, among others. He said it's standard procedure LOL. WTF![/QUOTE]
Please no more about the merits of verification
[QUOTE=GinaInTheMorni;1600732]Do you guys really feel safe with providers that will give out their location without confirming who you are?[/QUOTE]Yes, I do. And I would NOT feel safe with a provider who has my personal information! We've been over this in various forums. Any guy who goes with a provider who requires his personal information is taking a risk on the level of bareback service with streetwalkers. Please don't start another argument about the merits of verification. Ask some clients of Ms. Wright from Maine what they think of their personal information having been in her hands.
[QUOTE=GinaInTheMorni;1600732]If more of the clients would take the time to actual read our ads, and do some basic research there would be NO NEED for any kind of explicit conversation.[/QUOTE]Many providers' ads do not give nearly enough information to answer all of my questions. If the provider has reviews that answer them, great. If not, and the provider uses this "don't ask explicit questions" disclaimer, I don't bother with her. Why should I go pay a provider only to find out she does not provide the things I am looking to get? It's not like I can say,"Hey let's do lunch and I'll ask you then." When you arrive to meet with a provider you are generally expected to have the donation ready before a word is said.
[QUOTE=GinaInTheMorni;1600732]perhps its time to start calling out the providers that refuse to provide references.[/QUOTE]References aren't needed when there's no verification. It's time to start _culling out_ the providers who require personal info.