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My OPINION don't matter, and I don't care about that. When a person states FACTS, everyone should listen. And I stated FACTS! I may take a little longer to get my points across, but my posts were stating logical FACTS! I'm a provider that sees clients daily. Anyone with common sense would know that somtimes peep in this sort of business may encounter important true things that that they feel the need to share to maybe help or keep someone else safe. I shared the facts. If you don't want to listen and you want to think that you are safely hidden behind a screen name and a computer, so be it.

I did my good deed though. It's silly to think that only men can have valuable insight, afterall, the men see only a few providers a month as a lady sees people daily. The likelyhood of a provider knowing somthing valuable to others is great. And of course, everything is fictional and just for entertainment only. Blah blah blah. Ok. If any of my regular friends would like to call me or text me or message me, please do.

[QUOTE=PoppaDiddy; 1094225]The purpose of this forum is the sharing of information to facilitate men connecting with women for whatever they choose to do behind closed doors. The reason men desire this information is simply for the luxury of not having to listen to a page of rambling inanity of the type to which you have just subjected the entire forum. The donation is not for the act, it is for the shutting up beforehand and the leaving afterward. Not to say, on occasion, one is not pleasantly surprised by a provider who happens to be a stimulating conversationalist; it just isn't the top priority. Or the normal state of affairs for that matter. So, yes, your "voice and opnion" fall on deaf ears because no one cares what you think.

Stay safe,

Pops[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=TheRealValerie; 1094408]My OPINION don't matter, and I don't care about that.

Anyone with common sense would know that somtimes peep in this sort of business may encounter important true things that that they feel the need to share to maybe help or keep someone else safe.

I did my good deed though. [/QUOTE]WOMAN! What the "F" are you talking about? I'm trying to hear you but I obviously don't speak the same language. Everyones opinion is important. Stop whining about how you aren't appreciated. Stop writing essays with run on sentences and no endings. I'm not being malicious or mean. I'm just telling you to take it down a notch and quit saying the same thing 24 times in a single post.

My. 02 worth for the day.

Kisses,

Melissa

Val you just have to understand that this board is mainly for the men! True enough we are privileged to be able to use it also but its clear that it's mainly for the exchange of info from and for the men. Myself personally just mainly uses the PM method and posts randomly but not often. I'll PM you some sites that us providers use and respond on more freq.

Star Pleasures.

[QUOTE=TheRealValerie; 1094408]My OPINION don't matter, and I don't care about that. When a person states FACTS, everyone should listen. And I stated FACTS! I may take a little longer to get my points across, but my posts were stating logical FACTS! I'm a provider that sees clients daily. Anyone with common sense would know that somtimes peep in this sort of business may encounter important true things that that they feel the need to share to maybe help or keep someone else safe. I shared the facts. If you don't want to listen and you want to think that you are safely hidden behind a screen name and a computer, so be it.

I did my good deed though. It's silly to think that only men can have valuable insight, afterall, the men see only a few providers a month as a lady sees people daily. The likelyhood of a provider knowing somthing valuable to others is great. And of course, everything is fictional and just for entertainment only. Blah blah blah. Ok. If any of my regular friends would like to call me or text me or message me, please do. [/QUOTE]

Ok I had a dream with this guy tonight and he told me things that I am not sure I should just ignore but on the same level I'm don't sure if I should try to report it or just go on about my business.

Ok so we started the dream and he was big on masturbation, so he was talking about it and then he says" I caught my daughter doing it yesterday. So I so I say well did you explain to her that its a normal thing for a woman to do and not to be embarrassed by it or have a woman talk to her like that. He says yes then a few mins later says " it made me so hot ". Now I'm like WHAT? So he goes on to tell me that he has had her jerk him off, he's watched her play with herself many times, and that he has ended on her face before. He said he has never had sex with her (which to me oral is sex). The whole while not only is this his daughter she is only 13.

So I feel like, how can I do anything about it bc of how we met but at the same time I keep feeling so bad for her and feel that I should try to do something at the least about it.

What should I do?

Would you rather me answer on the public forum or in private? I am sorry that you went through this BTW. I had a similar experience years ago. I never regretted my decision.

[QUOTE=Starpleasures; 1094589]Ok I had a dream with this guy tonight and he told me things that I am not sure I should just ignore but on the same level I'm don't sure if I should try to report it or just go on about my business.

Ok so we started the dream and he was big on masturbation, so he was talking about it and then he says" I caught my daughter doing it yesterday. So I so I say well did you explain to her that its a normal thing for a woman to do and not to be embarrassed by it or have a woman talk to her like that. He says yes then a few mins later says " it made me so hot ". Now I'm like WHAT? So he goes on to tell me that he has had her jerk him off, he's watched her play with herself many times, and that he has ended on her face before. He said he has never had sex with her (which to me oral is sex). The whole while not only is this his daughter she is only 13.

So I feel like, how can I do anything about it bc of how we met but at the same time I keep feeling so bad for her and feel that I should try to do something at the least about it.

What should I do? [/QUOTE]

Hello all,

Newbie to this forum, just wanted to say Hi and looking forward to contributing to this forum, as it has given me some valuable information. Not sure where to start, I have seen a few backpagers and summer / nat'l girls over the years and will add to their reviews shortly once I get a hang of the proper posting etiquette! Looking forward to meeting more ladies!

If a lady requests that her clients refrain from posting positive reviews to keep their encounters private, most of those clients will respect that wish. However, that leaves mostly negative reviews. Somebody who is unhappy is more likely to comment than somebody who is happy and been asked not to comment. Positive reviews are more helpful than dissertations refuting negative reviews.

Almost every lady will have some negative reviews at sometime. It is impossible to please everybody. Having mostly positive reviews and clients that defend against negative reviews are the most powerful advertising.

I totally agree, for me it all depends on our chemistry. I go into everything with an open mind but there are always some situations where you and that person just don't vibe. I am a very bubbly person but I am also very shy so I have had some people think that I just wasn't into it, not the case, sometimes my shyness took over so I didn't talk as much. So if someone rights a neg. Review bc of the lack of chemistry they were just stating facts but my many good reviews show that it wasn't that I am just a rude provider or all about business. So I totally agree.

[QUOTE=Mrmaroon5; 1095092]If a lady requests that her clients refrain from posting positive reviews to keep their encounters private, most of those clients will respect that wish. However, that leaves mostly negative reviews. Somebody who is unhappy is more likely to comment than somebody who is happy and been asked not to comment. Positive reviews are more helpful than dissertations refuting negative reviews.

Almost every lady will have some negative reviews at sometime. It is impossible to please everybody. Having mostly positive reviews and clients that defend against negative reviews are the most powerful advertising. [/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Starpleasures; 1094589]Ok I had a dream with this guy tonight and he told me things that I am not sure I should just ignore but on the same level I'm don't sure if I should try to report it or just go on about my business.

Ok so we started the dream and he was big on masturbation, so he was talking about it and then he says" I caught my daughter doing it yesterday. So I so I say well did you explain to her that its a normal thing for a woman to do and not to be embarrassed by it or have a woman talk to her like that. He says yes then a few mins later says " it made me so hot ". Now I'm like WHAT? So he goes on to tell me that he has had her jerk him off, he's watched her play with herself many times, and that he has ended on her face before. He said he has never had sex with her (which to me oral is sex). The whole while not only is this his daughter she is only 13.

So I feel like, how can I do anything about it bc of how we met but at the same time I keep feeling so bad for her and feel that I should try to do something at the least about it.

What should I do? [/QUOTE]It is difficult because of how you met him but I think you would need to report him in some form or fashion. Because of the business we participate in, we tend to avoid any interection with LE at all costs but, in this case, we are talking about the abuse of a child. Assuming that the guy is telling the truth about all of this (and I see no reason why anyone would make up sick stuff like this) , she is going to have major problems down the line due to the sexual abuse that her father has basically admitted to committing. She needs to be away from that guy and out of his life, ASAP. She's almost certainly going to need some therapy to have any shot at getting over something like that and the sooner she can get away from him and in a stable home environment (whether that is with her mother, grandparents, foster care or wherever) , then the sooner she can get help in dealing with what has happened to her.

I want to thank everyone for the advice, you just don't know how it made me so uneasy and stressed knowing this type of thing (only assuming it was true ). Tonight I handled it with the advice of LE and did it anonymously. I feel I did the right thing. That was by far the worst nightmare I have ever had! Thanks again to everyone!

Star.

[QUOTE=Tumbling Dice8;1095308]It is difficult because of how you met him but I think you would need to report him in some form or fashion. Because of the business we participate in, we tend to avoid any interection with LE at all costs but, in this case, we are talking about the abuse of a child. Assuming that the guy is telling the truth about all of this (and I see no reason why anyone would make up sick stuff like this) , she is going to have major problems down the line due to the sexual abuse that her father has basically admitted to committing. She needs to be away from that guy and out of his life, ASAP. She's almost certainly going to need some therapy to have any shot at getting over something like that and the sooner she can get away from him and in a stable home environment (whether that is with her mother, grandparents, foster care or wherever) , then the sooner she can get help in dealing with what has happened to her.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Starpleasures; 1095318]I want to thank everyone for the advice, you just don't know how it made me so uneasy and stressed knowing this type of thing (only assuming it was true ). Tonight I handled it with the advice of LE and did it anonymously. I feel I did the right thing. That was by far the worst nightmare I have ever had! Thanks again to everyone!

Star. [/QUOTE]Star pleasure I am a long time monger who doesn't get to the memphis area much, so I am sure you don't know me, but you have done the right thing in my opinion. Congrats to you. You should feel great about yourself, and I hope all of your clients feel the same way, you have made a great decision and please never hesitate to report any misconduct when it comes to a child. TY good luck and play safe and if you have time please send me a private message

You did the right thing Star.

[QUOTE=Starpleasures; 1095318]I want to thank everyone for the advice, you just don't know how it made me so uneasy and stressed knowing this type of thing (only assuming it was true ). Tonight I handled it with the advice of LE and did it anonymously. I feel I did the right thing. That was by far the worst nightmare I have ever had! Thanks again to everyone!

Star. [/QUOTE]

Why do most providers post at the end of their advertisment that this is not a offer of prostitution ect. If they are busted do they think this will help in any way? As Sweet M. Would ask inquring minds would like to know?

I used to do it and it is on my site, it's kinda just like when we ask you aren't affiliated with LE? Like is that was LE they would say,"yes". I honestly guess that it's just for a little piece of mind (not that it really help me from being nervous ).

[QUOTE=Cumndumn73;1098141]Why do most providers post at the end of their advertisment that this is not a offer of prostitution ect. If they are busted do they think this will help in any way? As Sweet M. Would ask inquring minds would like to know?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Retskir;1099807]The new and improved board isn't the improvement it was supposed to be. I don't like it, its not as good and half the time it won't log me in anyway.[/QUOTE]I can't log on to this site sometimes for days.

I did meet a nice looking young black SW last Tuesday. I saw her go into the store on EP BLVD just south of Parkway. I stopped and went in the store. I flirted with her and got the digits. She was short with a body that said come get me and to top it off was also cute. Her quote was a deterrent. Too expensive for the dream but still regreting I passed it up. I still have that picture of her body and smile in my mind. Will use the digits in the future to see if I can get a better quote.