Depends on where you're shopping
[QUOTE=GAGuy2020;5853342]The whole point is to break that old mindset. Deposits use to be expected or "normal" and now they're all but eliminated. This can be corrected too. She can meet you in the lobby, see you in the viewfinder of the door, or ask to do a video chat to reduce risk. Information about you does nothing to make it safer for her.
5 minutes in Photoshop with burner accounts is how easy it is to fake these and if there really is a safety risk. The bad people would be doing fake information defeating the whole purpose negating the whole process, nothing but database collection putting you at risk or punishing the people that value their safety by not giving out information to strange 304's. Just because she sucks your dick does not mean you can trust her. LOL!
Let's say you gave all that information and then you were a bad person. Somebody else other than her has access to that data or it would not be collected. You are not safe and this is high risk if you have a social life or work a real job. "I didn't get burned last time when I touched the stove" doesn't mean you should touch it to see if it's on each time.
Just as easy as you could go through all your old emails she has all your information at hand and so does her pimp. If she needs money she'll come back and exploit you or if she gets busted she'll turn your information over. You act like 411 is safe but it's just a different database logging all your actions.
Accepting this and allowing it is the ignorance that we need to break. The first and biggest illusion is that all high quality girls do this. FALSE! Had plenty of high quality top-of-the-line girl in this area and DC that don't.
Break that mindset on your end so you can break it on theirs. It's not going to happen overnight but with effort people are going to eliminate this by not just ignoring it or allowing it to be the standard and it'll be gone just as easily as deposits.[/QUOTE]Deposits haven't went anywhere, LOL, but that all depends on where you're shopping. Like I said, if you're shopping on STG then maybe it's 50/50, with the bad 50 going to the scammers. Tryst is about the same, but deposits are mostly asked for from providers who are in higher demand than others. It's a decent business model, I just don't do it, but I don't knock the next man who does given she has a solid review history, discretionary income, etc. But you're preaching to guys who mostly fish on the lower tier. I just hear a bunch of you should do this instead of this or that. Of course there are girls who don't require deposits, crazy screening, work I'd, LinkedIn etc. , but do those girls fit what every monger is looking for? Probably not. To each his own. As far as accepting, bruh, either call the girl ot don't, if you think she isn't worth the price, don't call. If she requires deposits, don't call, if she only does CBJ and you want BBBJ, don't call. But somebody IS calling / texting her, and I doubt whoever is calling and paying these deposits ain't going to stop because GAGuy2020 said stop giving in to these 304's.
I personally don't do all that reference crap, and if somehow I send a date request on P411 and get a reply back asking for additional screening or a deposit then I simply move on. But that's something that is learned through experience, not told through board talk. For everyone of us that don't fall for the BS, there are 10,20, 50 that pay and jump through hoops and just want to bust a nut. I hear alot about chicks in DC, well DC is on a whole other playing field compared to Hampton Roads, it's just a much bigger playing field of both providers and clients. And again it is all subjective to the client as to what qualifies as "top tier".
Candi Randi is bipolar crazy
I don't know how these 304 stay in business. I knew going in that candy was going to be bipolar and crazy, hell she hasn't had a review that was good in years but being able to work with the crazy ones like Aya it look like it was worth a shot. Spoiler alert it was a waste of a few hours of conversation.
Actually got some decent conversation then the demons kicked in with paranoia. "How can I prove that you're not a cop?" You tell me you do this for a living. LOL!
She actually opened up too and sounded like it was going somewhere then she went straight to ghost mode. I don't know why she keeps posting if she's never going to meet anybody and even then I don't know how she's meeting the ones that she does choose.
Something strange with Karisma
I think her name was Karisma or something like that. The BBW Hispanic or black mixed Mami girl who says she's out near the outlets. Found one of her old ads a few weeks ago sent her a message. Haven't seen a recent ad in a minute but she bounces between here and FL.
The funny part is just after that message she started posting her ads all over and her communication was very strong but poorly playing timing did not allow for a meetup. Plan to meet the next day then suddenly all her ads are taken down and she's not talking at all. I've never seen that before. Anybody else seen her she usually posts in red lingerie and she's pretty big but the proportions aren't horrible for her ethnicity.