Winning (or breaking even) at the Asian crapshoot game
A number of reliable mongers (and others of less certain pedigree) here have reported disappointing results after taking a turn at the Asian crapshoot, and I can't gainsay their reports as anything other than accurate reports. Yet, from Day One of my own experience with the crapshoot, I've [U]never[/U] had a bad or disappointing result and only one that I would rank as "average". The rest, which number close to thirty, have been thoroughly enjoyable encounters. So, I'm thinking the disappointment my fellow mongers have experienced were due to their approach to, or expectations of, the crapshoot. It's akin to how one might feel at a casino, playing craps when one really prefers blackjack. How else to explain the difference between my findings and those of mongers whom I know to be reliable observers and participants in the hobby?
I suppose one could explain it by saying I've lowered the bar of my own expectations; those mongers who know me best (both from my posts in this forum and from information I've shared in PMs) can reach their own conclusions. But rather than lowered expectations, perhaps the variance between my results and those of others is due to [U]a different set[/U] of expectations. Looking at it that way, it's a lot easier to reconcile the different experiences members here have reported. Just as craps is an entirely different game than blackjack (albeit with a similar goal), so too the Asian crapshoot is a different "game" than your friendly neighborhood AMP. If one understands that going in, and plays his chips accordingly, he'll have a far better chance of good results.
At the average AMP, one can expect (though not always receive) a table shower, a relaxing massage, and a satisfying finish during a specified length of time. At the crapshoot, despite the advertisements that claim otherwise, one should not expect the same "personal attendant" experience. A shower might be available before (and / or after) the encounter, and the lady might even join you in the shower, but it will almost always be a stand-up, DIY affair. Likewise, any massage will usually be perfunctory and administered only as a prelude to the more intense intimacies the crapshoots are geared toward offering. And, the amount of time one is actually "at the table" depends not only on one's endurance but also (and this is important) on how one successfully engages the table's attendant. I've mentioned this before, but it bears repeating here: One has a better chance of a quality experience at the crapshoots if one takes the time to make the visit enjoyable for the lady, too.
Unlike AMPs, where the ladies have the ability to interact (and commiserate) with each other, the crapshoot ladies are usually on their own. There might be another crapshoot lady elsewhere at the same location, but each lady usually remains in her own room and does not venture out, even to the other crapshoot lady's room. Social interactions are limited to text messages or cell phone calls during the downtimes between clients. In addition, unlike AMPs, they do not have a "kitchen mama" to do their cooking. Basically, the day-to-day life of a crapshoot lady usually consists of longer periods of drudgery interspersed with brief, often barely more interesting, encounters with customers. If the lady views a customer's visit as little more than an exchange of one daily drudgery for another, it's understandable that the crapshoot experience would be much different, and more disappointing, than a typical AMP experience would be. On the other hand, if the lady knows that she's going to have a fun time when she sees [U]you[/U] enter the room, then the chances of having a very good time, and getting a full session, improve to nearly even money.
Yes, I know that the ads for these operations often list services (such as nuru) that a monger seldom receives. But one has to remember, the ladies are [U][b]not[/b][/U] the ones writing those ads. Their understanding of their task can be markedly different. They know the basic expectation, but that may be all. Still, unless a particular lady is completely jaded and tired, they also want (and like) to have fun. And that's where it's up to us to help make that happen, because in doing so we improve the likelihood that the session will also be a lot of fun for us, as well. Having to "work" when we're the ones paying might be counter-intuitive. But look at it like gardening, where one has paid to buy the plants. Better yields usually result from properly tending to the plants, including regular weeding, watering, and pruning.
One of the keys to success in the Asian crapshoot game is to make the lady feel special. Don't neglect this point. More often than not, these ladies are older than the average AMP girl and they know they've lost their youthful beauty. Put yourself in their shoes for a moment. How would you handle it, if all your customers looked at you (and a woman can see it in a man's eyes) with disappointment when they entered the room? Now, think about facing that scenario every day for a week, a month, or six months. Many of these ladies are here willingly, but still needing to earn money to pay off debts, so a six-month stint would not be unheard of. If you can at least make them feel special and give them a fun time during [U]your[/U] visit, you'll more than likely have a very satisfying time at the crapshoot. I don't recall if I knew this explicitly when I made my first visit to the crapshoot game; perhaps it was instinctive or just inspiration. But, from the beginning, I've never had a bad experience at the Asian crapshoots, and that [U]has[/U] to be due to more than just mere happenstance or luck. The only thing I can point to that would explain it would be the efforts I've made to make things fun for both of us.
Over time, I've developed and refined ways in which I ensure a mutually enjoyable experience. I won't go into details, in part because I've already discussed some of this in previous posts and in part because what works for me might not work for someone else. Also, we tend to be more natural when we use our own methods. It really doesn't take a whole lot of thinking to figure out how and what to do. And, once you do, the benefits can be more than one might expect. Aside from the immediate benefits of the particular session, my efforts in the Asian crapshoot game have resulted in the following:
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[b](1)[/b] For [u]less[/u] than what I'd pay (house fee plus tip) at a Prince George's County AMP, I receive an equal or better level of service and have a thoroughly enjoyable time, without the Mamasan knocking on the door when the session runs over the time limit.
[b](2)[/b] My sessions include a decent massage, if I want one. (It's just a matter of teaching and sharing.)
[b](3)[/b] In place of a table shower, my sessions include a shower in which the lady joins me for a mutually soapy and sensual time. (This also helps her get relaxed a bit more than if I showered alone while she waits.)
[b](4)[/b] Two different crapshoot ladies, one a late-50s MILF type and one being a slightly chubby 20-something girl who hoped to someday own and operate a restaurant, became so comfortable with me after a few visits that I received BBFS and DFK without even asking. Although the preludes surely helped, it was more a spontaneous thing, even though the top drawer of the bedside table had covers ready at hand. The 20-something simply requested that I not finish inside, a request with which I happily complied. The MILF, on the other hand, was riding me CG when I told her that I was about to cum. She got this wicked smile on her face and just kept humping away with her 32As staring me in the face until I finished inside her. Then, she hugged me close and held me tight for a few minutes until we decided to go take a shower together. Subsequent visits were the same. Both of these ladies are now gone from the area, the younger back to New York and the MILF back to Shanghai.
[b](5)[/b] I now have the personal number, not the "local" one listed in the ads, for the gal who schedules appointments for the crapshoot ladies. So, whenever I have to travel for the job, I'm very often able to arrange a session with a reliable lady in the area of the country to where I've traveled. The gal in NY knows my preferences and knows me as a reliable customer. (Incidentally, the crapshoot game I visit has a "backup" scheduler who works in California; hence, the 916 or 408 area codes in some of the ads.)
[b](6)[/b] Just recently, I've had an invitation to meet the scheduler if I'm ever visiting NYC. I've not been able to avail myself of that yet, but plan to do so sometime in the near future. This could be quite interesting, in addition to fun, and could even lead to other benefits. (And, no, I cannot and will not share this bit of info at this juncture, not even with my fellow Senior members.)
[b](7)[/b] Sometimes, "specials" are available, more often when I'm on travel but occasionally in this area, too.
[b](8)[/b] I can get appointments at odd hours that are outside normal hours.
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I have to emphasize: These benefits did not occur overnight, but they accrued reasonably quickly as a result of the comparatively small bit of extra effort I put in when playing the crapshoot game. My point is, the crapshoot game is only a crapshoot if one approaches it like the AMP game and only if one has the same expectations for the former as for the latter. The two games and the players, while providing similar outcomes, are different and must be played accordingly. With the crapshoot, if one treats the lady as a human being rather than a commodity, putting in even a modicum of effort to make her feel a bit special, you are far more likely to have a [U]very[/U] good time and you might even find that it opens up a whole new set of options.
