I rarely interact with newbies
[QUOTE=Djapa1234;5351768]So I have interacted either on the app or offline with all of the below but conversations have stalled. If anyone has intel or seen any of the below please report.
1) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/946e9fd2-1aab-4e25-a9bc-ba634ef026ec[/URL] (asking for 5 agreed shed consider 4 then we set up a meet and greet but then went silent.).
2) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/16d0f16b-44ad-4292-a431-6cbdada18623[/URL] (texted back and forth, sounded very promising and reasonable, then went silent.).
3) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/020cc97c-f050-4a96-bb27-7c8782454b58[/URL] (chatted briefly on the app, but aside from hello, how are you, she won't engage, although reads all messages.).
4) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/25c7826e-8986-4299-85f2-aa64d9887a05[/URL] (texted offline, went silent quickly, was very chatty on the app but as soon as I asked for mote photos, crickets).
5) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ceaf2114-c984-47c1-aada-72d51f46850d[/URL] (I think she is just trolling cause asked for 6,000 a month. Bless her heart.).
6) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/send/76cdd7ee-b9e7-4759-9990-fcc98fb80b8e[/URL] (chatted on the app but when I asked what she is looking for never replied.).
7) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/37740959-2871-4267-a4d8-6ce66425ec48[/URL] (chatted on the app but stopped replying shortly.).
Also, some of us here on the board have better success than the others. At the end of the day I know its mostly about numbers / averages but I'd like to hear from the ones that are having consistent luck with the ladies and if so give us pointers.
I try to customize messages as to not come off a scammer but mostly I just send them a copy pasted spiel of what I am looking for and I do try to avoid putting numbers in messages but when they ask I try to answer in terms of monthly, rather than ppm. I have one private photo which I immediately reveal prior to messaging. These days about 80% of the messages go unopened for me, and I know its not my photo cause I am relatively decent looking guy in early 40's. Maybe its just how things are these days.
Have a good weekend everyone![/QUOTE]In my experience, new, young members rarely pan out. I look for members that have been on the site for months, not weeks, and have a more complete profile than a lot of the early 20-somethings. Occasionallya newbie will pan out but it's a rare exception. I approach them with a couple compliments, some humor and wit, and try to find something in common with them. I also try to get them to text asap. If they won't go to text, they're not really interested. I don't discuss allowance until the first meet, which is usually over coffee or a drink. Treating a woman more like a date than someone you just want to pound has paid off for me.
I chatted on and off with her (him?)
[QUOTE=Longduckdong1;5355199]Ummm. Does anyone else think she might be a he or at least post op?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/30b47b97-049a-4141-9759-b16729243458[/URL][/QUOTE]On Ashley Madison a couple years ago. Never struck me as being a dude, but she was rather secretive about pic sharing, which might have been a sign.
