Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=DreplyNow;7041372]Looking for some additional ideas for email open rates & responses.
SecretBenefits is just totally weird right now. I get "incoming" emails, and I respond to their email within 6 hours, but there's no follow-up by them. And these have all been women with verified videos. They have reached out to me directly. Although, it's lines like "Hey," "Hi there", "willing to have meal dates", "hey you", "open to discussing..[/QUOTE]I've had the same experience on SB of a lot of profiles contacting me first, I respond fairly quickly, and never hear back from them. Overall my experience on SB has not been great, it's been tough to get replies when I reach out first, and sometimes even pay extra to boost the message but still they don't seem to even open it or view my profile. I'm probably going to switch back to SA, I've had much better luck on there actually connecting with real people.

[QUOTE=FrogPilot;7042755]I've had the same experience on SB of a lot of profiles contacting me first, I respond fairly quickly, and never hear back from them.[/QUOTE]Rumor has it, and I believe it, where the site auto-sends generic "hi" or "hey" replies, not sent by the woman, when you message. And the account can be real and verified; SB women on reddit have claimed that the site has sent reply messages on their behalf (to goose response rates and to get you to keep buying credits).

The site also uses pictures and sends messages from non-verified profiles with pictures (they get from SA or insta most likely) to goose engagement numbers; I once had a profile hit me up and then when I found their snap (the profile used the same name as the snap), I messaged them. They replied, told me where I found the snap and they confirmed that the pic was them, and they claimed they had never been on the site. We had a good laugh about it but yeah, fucked up.

[QUOTE=Hobbyist420;7043067]Rumor has it, and I believe it, where the site auto-sends generic "hi" or "hey" replies, not sent by the woman, when you message. And the account can be real and verified; SB women on reddit have claimed that the site has sent reply messages on their behalf (to goose response rates and to get you to keep buying credits).

The site also uses pictures and sends messages from non-verified profiles with pictures (they get from SA or insta most likely) to goose engagement numbers; I once had a profile hit me up and then when I found their snap (the profile used the same name as the snap), I messaged them. They replied, told me where I found the snap and they confirmed that the pic was them, and they claimed they had never been on the site. We had a good laugh about it but yeah, fucked up.[/QUOTE]I've seen girls say that they had no idea their verification video was viewable. Some said they deleted their profile but everything stays up. LOL.

Unlike some of you, I have had good luck on Secret Benefits. Better than on SA.

The trick with SB is to be disciplined in spending your credits. Select profiles to message that look real and that look like girls you would actually want to be with. Don't pay to "boost" your messages, they will see it eventually. Don't pay for read receipts to see when they have read it, because I have heard those indicators are often BS. I personally do spring for the 10 credits to see secret pics if offered, but I don't ask for access to them. My general approach is to exchange a few messages and then get them to text.

SB seems to me to have more late 20's single moms who are pretty aware of what they are up to and OK with it, and less college girls who think that some guy is going to take them to sped a month on his yacht in Dubai and pay off their student loans. SB just doesn't seem to have the brand awareness among college girls that SA does.

And that is fine with me. Lots of very pretty single moms out there who could use a little help. And some not single moms, for that matter. Maybe the hottest one I have had hosted me in her apartment, but I had to wait in my car for a bit because she didn't realize her husband was going in to work late that day.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/826c9c4b-3e5d-4216-b42c-a1e81f2dc305[/URL]

This one was interesting. Claims she's married, but wants to hook up discretely. Says she lives in Cambridge and knows the Assembly Square area. Enough for me to think she's legit. Suggests having a vid chat. Great, I do like verification. Says it must be Skype. OK. So the next day we get a video going and she begins to lift her shirt and expose herself. I'm saying "Hello," but no audio on her end. Then a message appears that says, "Show your C*ck," as she pulls down her panties. I continue to talk, with no response. So I message that I don't expose myself. Still no talking. So I hang up.

My hunch? She's not local and is trying to record me in a compromising video clip. I don't pursue married women anyway, but was curious enough to agree to the video. She messaged me after and the English was just a tad off. So more than likely she's not local.

Hi, curious if anybody spoke with this person. She was communicative and responsive in the beginning. When it's close to meeting she just went quiet. And then she just response on and off. Coming to her it would take me 1.5 hours to get to her, that would suck if she didn't show up.

[QUOTE=Kuro4;7043534]I've seen girls say that they had no idea their verification video was viewable. Some said they deleted their profile but everything stays up. LOL.[/QUOTE]Haha yes it is definitely quite obvious that some of them have no idea that their verification video is viewable, it's pretty funny when their photos are touched up, airbrushed, and their hair and makeup is done but then I watch the verification video and they look like an absolute mess.

[QUOTE=BostonAmpFan;7043774][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/826c9c4b-3e5d-4216-b42c-a1e81f2dc305[/URL]

This one was interesting. Claims she's married, but wants to hook up discretely. Says she lives in Cambridge and knows the Assembly Square area. Enough for me to think she's legit. Suggests having a vid chat. Great, I do like verification. Says it must be Skype. OK. So the next day we get a video going and she begins to lift her shirt and expose herself. I'm saying "Hello," but no audio on her end. Then a message appears that says, "Show your C*ck," as she pulls down her panties. I continue to talk, with no response. So I message that I don't expose myself. Still no talking. So I hang up.

My hunch? She's not local and is trying to record me in a compromising video clip. I don't pursue married women anyway, but was curious enough to agree to the video. She messaged me after and the English was just a tad off. So more than likely she's not local.[/QUOTE]Yea def sounds like, a line up.

This was not a good experience.

I'm looking for cleaning lady so decided to get me a month on Seeking and see if I could get me a cleaning lady with extras. Naturally focused on Brazilians. This chick sounded good. I told her what I want. I told her that I liked to French kiss. When she showed up she did neither. She undressed lazily. What I was hoping to be a fun fantasy appointment turned into the luck luster BBBJ, and equally luck luster barely manageable BBFS. I didn't even try to get her to clean the house and just told her that she can leave. Told her I'd pay her 3/4 of the agreed price, she shrugged her shoulders, took $300 and left. I still think I overpaid.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/790e2df4-eb03-4474-b26d-7194fe1a9bba[/URL]

Pictures are her but touched up. Suspiciously skinny. Whatever tattoos. Liked her on photos, didn't like her nearly as much live. Appeared to be a bit in the different world. Barely any English which is not a problem for me since I speak pretty good Portuguese.

I remember her being reviewed before and remember the review being so-so, but I couldn't find it.

Any questions ask.

[QUOTE=KangTheMonger;7044144]Yea def sounds like, a line up.[/QUOTE]A line up?

[QUOTE=BostonAmpFan;7043774]Says it must be Skype. OK.[/QUOTE]Unless you were time warped back into 2018, red flag #1 right here.

Scammers use skype because only foreign countries are the ones still actually using it.

[QUOTE=Hobbyist420;7043067]Rumor has it, and I believe it, where the site auto-sends generic "hi" or "hey" replies, not sent by the woman, when you message. And the account can be real and verified; SB women on reddit have claimed that the site has sent reply messages on their behalf (to goose response rates and to get you to keep buying credits).
.[/QUOTE]It's not a rumor. When you sign up, at least in the past, they ask you to make a generic "introduction message", and that's why. One of my regulars started using SB and she told me she was getting messages from guys saying that she messaged them first and she was like uhh, no I did not LOL.

[QUOTE=PlayTrey;7044072]Hi, curious if anybody spoke with this person. She was communicative and responsive in the beginning. When it's close to meeting she just went quiet. And then she just response on and off. Coming to her it would take me 1.5 hours to get to her, that would suck if she didn't show up.[/QUOTE]I remember seeing her reviewed on the Worcester seeking forum, can't remember specifics though, so you might want to try searching / asking there.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/82a32388-8f64-46c2-b6ea-e4e6480ee7d1[/URL]

Anyone have any info on this one? Looks pretty decent and sounds like she is legit when in the conversations we've had.

Clear your inbox bro. I can share some intel.

[QUOTE=Kuro4;7044391][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/82a32388-8f64-46c2-b6ea-e4e6480ee7d1[/URL]

Anyone have any info on this one? Looks pretty decent and sounds like she is legit when in the conversations we've had.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BostonAmpFan;7043774][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/826c9c4b-3e5d-4216-b42c-a1e81f2dc305[/URL]

This one was interesting. Claims she's married, but wants to hook up discretely. Says she lives in Cambridge and knows the Assembly Square area. Enough for me to think she's legit. Suggests having a vid chat. Great, I do like verification. Says it must be Skype. OK. So the next day we get a video going and she begins to lift her shirt and expose herself. I'm saying "Hello," but no audio on her end. Then a message appears that says, "Show your C*ck," as she pulls down her panties. I continue to talk, with no response. So I message that I don't expose myself. Still no talking. So I hang up.

My hunch? She's not local and is trying to record me in a compromising video clip. I don't pursue married women anyway, but was curious enough to agree to the video. She messaged me after and the English was just a tad off. So more than likely she's not local.[/QUOTE]I messaged her on Seeking and she gets around to the 'maybe we can fool around on video'. I tell them I don't do that. The response was "Well that's the only thing that turns me on. " I left it there; totally sounded like a set up.

[QUOTE=Kuro4;7044391][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/82a32388-8f64-46c2-b6ea-e4e6480ee7d1[/URL]

Anyone have any info on this one? Looks pretty decent and sounds like she is legit when in the conversations we've had.[/QUOTE]I used to text with her. From Lynn so kinda weary and never met. I don't think I have her number anymore in my textapp but yeah let me know if she's legit or not.

[QUOTE=Kuro4;7044391][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/82a32388-8f64-46c2-b6ea-e4e6480ee7d1[/URL]

Anyone have any info on this one? Looks pretty decent and sounds like she is legit when in the conversations we've had.[/QUOTE]I have her on Snapchat. Something about her gives me weird vibes and also she said she doesn't give head so I didn't even bother.

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;7044423]Clear your inbox bro. I can share some intel.[/QUOTE]All clear and thanks everyone for the info

[QUOTE=BostonAmpFan;7044227]A line up?[/QUOTE]Its slang for a set up.

Met with Caden while in the Portsmouth area for business.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a1a87a07-cdbd-44cc-950c-c499fb0b448d[/URL]

I was on the Seacoast and had setup a meeting with this single mom a few days prior to my work meeting that day. She is average body wise, nice tits, clean shaved, but a lot of piercing and tattoos. Very easy to be with and very vocal while having sex, performed a good BBBJ before I spread her legs and went to work, seemed to enjoy the stroking and the various sex positions that follow. I finished in her at the 45 minutes mark. We talked a little bit after and I slipped 400 to her before she leaves. Saw her a second time a few days later.

I like it just wish she was closer, I'm in RI that's 2.5 hrs.

[QUOTE=Javazer;7046446]Met with Caden while in the Portsmouth area for business.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a1a87a07-cdbd-44cc-950c-c499fb0b448d[/URL]

I was on the Seacoast and had setup a meeting with this single mom a few days prior to my work meeting that day. She is average body wise, nice tits, clean shaved, but a lot of piercing and tattoos. Very easy to be with and very vocal while having sex, performed a good BBBJ before I spread her legs and went to work, seemed to enjoy the stroking and the various sex positions that follow. I finished in her at the 45 minutes mark. We talked a little bit after and I slipped 400 to her before she leaves. Saw her a second time a few days later.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Javazer;7046446]Met with Caden while in the Portsmouth area for business.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a1a87a07-cdbd-44cc-950c-c499fb0b448d[/URL]

I was on the Seacoast and had setup a meeting with this single mom a few days prior to my work meeting that day. She is average body wise, nice tits, clean shaved, but a lot of piercing and tattoos. Very easy to be with and very vocal while having sex, performed a good BBBJ before I spread her legs and went to work, seemed to enjoy the stroking and the various sex positions that follow. I finished in her at the 45 minutes mark. We talked a little bit after and I slipped 400 to her before she leaves. Saw her a second time a few days later.[/QUOTE]Yes I know Caden very well. Hard core sex addict and loves one in the pink and one in the stink. Loves has asshole getting beaten up by 2 to 3 guys. She works a lot so setting up the gangbangs with her is very difficult.

Dud warning on this one. Just dilly dallied around and wasted time until it was time for her to go do something so I had to leave. SMH. Next!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/14406986-e060-4798-92dd-99b18b031812[/URL]

Anyone has any experience with this? [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d7019ed7-e386-4aba-98a6-08f77f86ad82[/URL].

Anyone knows how long does 'today only' last? LOL.

Okay I'll respond even though you've been ignoring my emails. There's a reason I have not met her, even though I did try a few times. She has been around forever. Bad attitude, GPS, you name it. You can search the forum and you won't find anything to convince you to try her. She strips in Providence. As for whether that's her sister, I have no reason to doubt that. But I'm unclear on why she thinks that's an incentive. Probably because she has nothing else to offer. To her credit I don't think she has demons. So, she's not the bottom of the barrel. But the best sugar babies are the ones who are almost never online. And she is always online. Enough said.

[QUOTE=Nrlmus;7050852]Anyone has any experience with this? [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d7019ed7-e386-4aba-98a6-08f77f86ad82[/URL].

Anyone knows how long does 'today only' last? LOL.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DarkClouds;7050923]Okay I'll respond even though you've been ignoring my emails. There's a reason I have not met her, even though I did try a few times. She has been around forever. Bad attitude, GPS, you name it. You can search the forum and you won't find anything to convince you to try her. She strips in Providence. As for whether that's her sister, I have no reason to doubt that. But I'm unclear on why she thinks that's an incentive. Probably because she has nothing else to offer. To her credit I don't think she has demons. So, she's not the bottom of the barrel. But the best sugar babies are the ones who are almost never online. And she is always online. Enough said.[/QUOTE]Thanks, but I wasn't ignoring your emails because you weren't emailing me LOL.

I went back and forth with her a bit. She did the same thing, came right down to the meeting and. Silence.

Just the way it goes?

JW.

[QUOTE=PlayTrey;7044072]Hi, curious if anybody spoke with this person. She was communicative and responsive in the beginning. When it's close to meeting she just went quiet. And then she just response on and off. Coming to her it would take me 1.5 hours to get to her, that would suck if she didn't show up.[/QUOTE]

She's legit but super shy. Works a regular job so availability is limited. Not really my body type so I didn't pursue too hard. I borrowed her bed in Westminster to familiarize myself with her hot friend though, who was posting in Fitchburg last I checked.

[QUOTE=PlayTrey;7044072]Hi, curious if anybody spoke with this person. She was communicative and responsive in the beginning. When it's close to meeting she just went quiet. And then she just response on and off. Coming to her it would take me 1.5 hours to get to her, that would suck if she didn't show up.[/QUOTE]

Sharing this for the newbies.

VWO33.

Just renewed my subscription after taking 10 days off.

Jade in Exeter NH has a new profile on seeking. Idk what seeking arrangements owner is doing but he whipped out my profile. Had to make a new account / profile. Anyways. I've been banging a lot of girls off seeking arrangements for cheap money. Last week went to Dover NH and cum pumped Sarah sunshine. This week I was looking to skull fuck 2 girls. Called up mom dukes and arranged a 1 hour appointment with the famous mom and daughter duo. It was amazing. Had Jade lay down on her back and mom was on top. Took turns abusing there mouth. Had them both assumed the position and tried missionary on both of them. Nice safe location. The whole street and neighbors know them. So nobody will give you any problems. I can't copy and paste jades / Amanda new ad. But they are also pictures and videos friendly. Made some hot porn. Popped some Cialis and oxycodone and wow. What a combo. My Cok was ready for all out war lolol.

[QUOTE=LongSkull;7052692]Jade in Exeter NH has a new profile on seeking. Idk what seeking arrangements owner is doing but he whipped out my profile. Had to make a new account / profile. Anyways. I've been banging a lot of girls off seeking arrangements for cheap money. Last week went to Dover NH and cum pumped Sarah sunshine. This week I was looking to skull fuck 2 girls. Called up mom dukes and arranged a 1 hour appointment with the famous mom and daughter duo. It was amazing. Had Jade lay down on her back and mom was on top. Took turns abusing there mouth. Had them both assumed the position and tried missionary on both of them. Nice safe location. The whole street and neighbors know them. So nobody will give you any problems. I can't copy and paste jades / Amanda new ad. But they are also pictures and videos friendly. Made some hot porn. Popped some Cialis and oxycodone and wow. What a combo. My Cok was ready for all out war lolol.[/QUOTE]Sounds like you're having fun. Can you share profile names with us?

[QUOTE=MarkPowers;7053409]Sounds like you're having fun. Can you share profile names with us?[/QUOTE]Amanda: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6896406a-5ab9-43d7-ba69-48b6de040ee0[/URL].

Mom: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8ef57664-07dd-4df4-8ad8-ba6f5f6d5a7e[/URL].

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?32521-Seeking-Arrangements&p=6747479#post6747479[/URL]

Haven't partaken with this one but have had a mom / daughter combo before and it is insanely fun.

[QUOTE=Hobbyist420;7053437]Amanda: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6896406a-5ab9-43d7-ba69-48b6de040ee0[/URL].

Mom: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8ef57664-07dd-4df4-8ad8-ba6f5f6d5a7e[/URL].

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?32521-Seeking-Arrangements&p=6747479#post6747479[/URL]

Haven't partaken with this one but have had a mom / daughter combo before and it is insanely fun.[/QUOTE]Can anyone send me Mandy / Jades number, lost it a while back and wouldn't mind going back at some point. Sometimes I get worried if she's all there though.

Fellow mongers. Anyone knows more about this one? A bit too good to be true and my spidey senses are up.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5bbac66c-6bf3-4823-bd47-5a95d9a70db6[/URL]

[QUOTE=DotHill;7056273]Fellow mongers. Anyone knows more about this one? A bit too good to be true and my spidey senses are up.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5bbac66c-6bf3-4823-bd47-5a95d9a70db6[/URL][/QUOTE]Feels like TETBT. Too Expensive To Be True LOL. I think I've seen this profile for a few years; she has her "joined date" covered so I don't know for sure. More importantly, her ID and photos have been verified. And, based on my experience, this kind of profile is seeking a lot of financial support. That said, she could be a scammer, but I think she's more apt to be someone looking for a real, wealthy sugar. If that's you, have at it.

[QUOTE=DotHill;7056273]Fellow mongers. Anyone knows more about this one? A bit too good to be true and my spidey senses are up.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5bbac66c-6bf3-4823-bd47-5a95d9a70db6[/URL][/QUOTE]What's the name? It's coming up blocked for me which usually means I decided it was a scammer.

[QUOTE=BostonAmpFan;7056411]Feels like TETBT. Too Expensive To Be True LOL. I think I've seen this profile for a few years; she has her "joined date" covered so I don't know for sure. More importantly, her ID and photos have been verified. And, based on my experience, this kind of profile is seeking a lot of financial support. That said, she could be a scammer, but I think she's more apt to be someone looking for a real, wealthy sugar. If that's you, have at it.[/QUOTE]You were spot on bro! Appreciate the insights. Just TETBT but looks like a real person. Not for me. She deactivated the account and said if I change my mind, let her know.

[QUOTE=MarkPowers;7056813]What's the name? It's coming up blocked for me which usually means I decided it was a scammer.[/QUOTE]Same for me, curious who this might be. Can we get a screenshot of her profile?

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;7057331]Same for me, curious who this might be. Can we get a screenshot of her profile?[/QUOTE]She must have deactivated (or she was booted). I can no longer see it either.