Printable View
[QUOTE=TheRogue099;2579302]That is the main issue I have with this board. Posting takes such a long time that someone can not get info quick enough. I am not sure how this board is set up. I can only assume that "Admin" or a "Mod" reviews the post before it posts. I could be wrong. Just do not know why a long delay.
Thanks for listening.[/QUOTE]As a regular member every post you make is reviewed before it goes up. Once you become a senior they don't hold the posts for review anymore.
[QUOTE=Gordo13;2579648]I think everyone has the same checklist for GFE and thanks for taking the time to respond.
Now, if your choice is GFE or non GFE BBBJCIM which way do you go and why? All things fairly equal in looks and if you choose to respond I am curious if you consider yourself younger or older, thanks.
Gordo.
Regular Member.
Haven't broken a rule since Thursday.[/QUOTE]I actually don't look for GFE when I go to providers anymore. I used to but I've adapted.
When I was younger (I'm 34), I would basically pay for a date in which we skipped dinner, movie and smalltalk. That said, I wanted a girl I would actually want to go out with (fat chance) and who would act like we had just been on a date that was going well. This was difficult to find and expensive when I got close.
These days I have two settings when I'm in hobby mode.
Setting 1 is the "any reasonable offer" setting. I have a need, either specific or generic. It could be that I need a massage or I have a strong urge to get a lapdance or whatever. As long as the basic need is met and some very basic criteria (hygiene, weight etc) are met, I'm good.
Setting 2 is the "GFE" setting. This is where I want the girl to treat me like she would if I had just taken her on a nice date and it were not a business transaction. I care a great deal more about appearance here and put a lot of effort into finding the right girls. I don't bother with the normal providers for this at all. I go UTR for this. It's not hard to find a non pro willing to take a trip down this road if you play your cards right.
I RTFF before seeing this girl, and the reports seemed to be mixed. Her ad is here:
[URL]http://columbia.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/danielle-is-backw33t-p3tit3-p3cl/10088666[/URL]
For starters, she was staying at kind of a lousy place. Not the worst place, but I always feel a bit too visible there. There was another girl with her in the room (another provider, who was pretty damn cute), and she stayed in the bathroom until right before I left. She could have come out, honestly. I'm not shy about an audience.
Anyway, she has kind of a girl next door look about her. Cute, but not that cute. Petite, but with a little bit of a belly on her. Perky little breasts. Nice little snatch, as one of the previous reports stated. In terms of service, it was a quick, uninspired CBJ (she said BBBJ was not on the table), followed by an "Are you ready?" before I even achieved full staff. I don't know about you guys, but I always wonder about what makes a girl think that it's a good idea to try to stuff a condom onto a guy lickety split, with no foreplay and no warmup. I mean, give me a little time to become aroused. Maybe even do something to help me to get aroused. As far as her level of enthusiasm, she was not into it very much at all and the best I could coax from her was a few moans. Overall, I would say that she does not appear to enjoy her work too much. Her friend came out just as I was finishing getting dressed, and I couldn't help but wish that I would have had her instead. She looked better, and she couldn't have been worse than Danielle.
[QUOTE=Gordo13;2579648]I think everyone has the same checklist for GFE and thanks for taking the time to respond.
Now, if your choice is GFE or non GFE BBBJCIM which way do you go and why? All things fairly equal in looks and if you choose to respond I am curious if you consider yourself younger or older, thanks.
Gordo.
Regular Member.
Haven't broken a rule since Thursday.[/QUOTE]I'm mid-thirties; my choice is BBJCIM every time. For me a good BJ is better than penetration and CIM is the ultimate in satisfaction / pleasure because during your peak moment of sensitivity it's better to be in the dynamic confines of a woman's mouth than an overused or stretched out pussy. Additionally, most of the woman who I date are either too lazy to get me to point of cumming during a BJ, don't like the taste, think's it's too freaky, or I just haven't been persuasive enough in telling them that's what I really want. So I avoid the ones you guys post about that say CBJ.
I spent numerous hours scouring through this forum and BP last night. I haven't hobbied in this area in a while so all my 2 ATF's have seemed to disappear. I contacted a 2 different providers who were recommended on this site, but when it came to the 2 call meet, they seemed to disappear. (Hence why I called 2). Disappointed but not out of the hunt, I went through BP so search out a girl to TOFFT. One girl asked to many identifying questions so I decided that either she was new or LEO, and I quickly dropped interest. The other said she would call me back but didn't. At this point it was 3:30 am, so I went to sleep not satisfied. Is this a normal thing in this area or did I just get unlucky? I can be picky on the girls, but I used to make regular trips here and it was never this difficult to at least be at the door to see if a girl was legit or not.
[QUOTE=JohnStillBored;2580067]I actually don't look for GFE when I go to providers anymore. I used to but I've adapted.
When I was younger (I'm 34), I would basically pay for a date in which we skipped dinner, movie and smalltalk. That said, I wanted a girl I would actually want to go out with (fat chance) and who would act like we had just been on a date that was going well. This was difficult to find and expensive when I got close.
These days I have two settings when I'm in hobby mode.
Setting 1 is the "any reasonable offer" setting. I have a need, either specific or generic. It could be that I need a massage or I have a strong urge to get a lapdance or whatever. As long as the basic need is met and some very basic criteria (hygiene, weight etc) are met, I'm good.
Setting 2 is the "GFE" setting. This is where I want the girl to treat me like she would if I had just taken her on a nice date and it were not a business transaction. I care a great deal more about appearance here and put a lot of effort into finding the right girls. I don't bother with the normal providers for this at all. I go UTR for this. It's not hard to find a non pro willing to take a trip down this road if you play your cards right.[/QUOTE]Thanks to all for sharing. I, personally, am going through a GFE phase.
Haven't found one in Columbia though there are two non GFEs in town that I would see if it wasn't for this phase.
Filling my needs with a wonderful provider in Charlotte and occasionally one in Greensboro. Did, recently, share the pleasure of Ms Tylor' s company when I was down by the coast.
At my age, old, I find that getting time for my hobby is more scarce than funds so I tend to have extended visits when I play.
Gordo.
I am new here so.
Excuse the mess.
Has anyone seen her? I was thinking of taking the plunge but I am seeing multiple providers under the same number?
[URL]http://columbia.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/your-wish-is-my-command-every-mans-fantasy/10299449[/URL]
If you remember not long ago I posted on here about getting robbed by two girls. So I'm taking some of your suggestions and trying to get some info from yall before I make contact. I know this is kind of endulgent of me, but oh well, we all have our dreams LOL.
So if you could either pm or list in reply confirmed proivders that either do work with another girl for sure or possibilities based on your experience if you care to share. I don't need stories, I just want to do this with a reputable provider who won't rob me or cash and dash again. Thanks guys.
[QUOTE=Bean082;2581550]Has anyone seen her? I was thinking of taking the plunge but I am seeing multiple providers under the same number?
[URL]http://columbia.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/your-wish-is-my-command-every-mans-fantasy/10299449[/URL][/QUOTE]I tried to see her. She no-showed me.
I've been meaning to see Nathalie for a long, long time, but our schedules have never matched. She has been recommended by some reputable hobbyists. Her ad:
[URL]http://columbia.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/blazin-asian-is-back-incalls-tonight-only/8492621[/URL]
I was pleased with my visit. She was not full GFE, but I still had a great time. I will certainly repeat with her when the next opportunity arises.
[QUOTE=Bean082;2581550]Has anyone seen her? I was thinking of taking the plunge but I am seeing multiple providers under the same number?
[URL]http://columbia.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/your-wish-is-my-command-every-mans-fantasy/10299449[/URL][/QUOTE]Multiple providers and race too. Not that race matters but another red flag.
Looks like Paradise is offering outcalls now! [URL]http://columbia.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/100-real-deal-look-no-longer/11508937[/URL].
[QUOTE=Bono26;2583713]Looks like Paradise is offering outcalls now! [URL]http://columbia.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/100-real-deal-look-no-longer/11508937[/URL].[/QUOTE]Using fake pictures, too, it seems. Offering outcalls seems like they are inviting trouble.
[QUOTE=LoveKgirls;2582439]I've been meaning to see Nathalie for a long, long time, but our schedules have never matched. She has been recommended by some reputable hobbyists. Her ad:
[URL]http://columbia.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/blazin-asian-is-back-incalls-tonight-only/8492621[/URL]
I was pleased with my visit. She was not full GFE, but I still had a great time. I will certainly repeat with her when the next opportunity arises.[/QUOTE]I've seen her several times and have always enjoyed myself. The only thing that I didn't like is her smoker breath but at least she doesn't smoke in her rooms so that was a big help.
[URL]http://columbia.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/read-firstbeautiful-upscale-and-discreet-usc-grad-student100-me786-626-0993/11045534[/URL]
Seems very promising, but I can't find any reviews on her anywhere. I'm wondering if anyone has had any dreams they can speak of. If so, please send me a pm. I've been robbed once in Columbia so I am a bit gun shy when it comes to toftt.