This is a doozy. Just bewildered. Any input appreciated
I had an appointment set up with a gentleman I haven't met yet. He texted me that he insisted I send him a "kitty shot" so it would protect him from being stung by LE. He claimed this is a full proof method he uses to prevent himself from being arrested. Hmm, funny because he mentioned what he planned to do with my "kitty" which he claimes he doesn't remember doing. Now this guy claims he is a hobbiest and has seen two well reviewed providers who sent him kitty shots before their first meeting, among others. He said it's standard procedure LOL. WTF!
And that's exactly why I see you
[QUOTE=Deb4512;1588901]To me an hour is an hour. This is supposed to be a customer service based business and if providers looked at it that way, they would get lots of repeat clientele like I have. BTW, I like to cuddle and talk. I think escorting and meeting the guys is fun, but then I only provide part-time, because I have a full-time career and have only been doing it on and off since 2008, so maybe I'm not burnt out yet. Actually as time goes on I like it more and more. Sex work isn't exactly new to me, because I used to be a stripper, so you think I'd be burnt out by now LOL.[/QUOTE]And that attitude is exactly why I have been enjoying your company for the past few years. Most guys are into it for the sex act and not the companionship. Just look at the reviews a lot of guys post. I got covered instead of BB. She only liked one position. She didn't swallow. I couldn't touch this or that. She didn't do this or didn't like that. Yadiyadiya. And that isn't to say that there is anything wrong with that. Some girls just don't have the predisposition, skill or apptitude to be anything other than cockpits. As you posted they need to feed a habit or something else money driven. The issue with these ladies is when they promise something and they don't do it but accept the money. If your not going to do it then just don't promise it.
Maybe it is just age. Maybe it is being jaded as you said but as you very well know when we get together it is all about the conversation, pillow talk and cuddle time. As 'dumb and farfetched' as this will sound to many out there. We have spent many a time just talking and cuddling and when we kiss goodbye that is about as close as we get to the 'act'. But it is time well spent. SO
High volume Vs low volume
[QUOTE=Stressed Out; 1590366]And that attitude is exactly why I have been enjoying your company for the past few years. Most guys are into it for the sex act and not the companionship. Just look at the reviews a lot of guys post. I got covered instead of BB. She only liked one position. She didn't swallow. I couldn't touch this or that. She didn't do this or didn't like that. Yadiyadiya. And that isn't to say that there is anything wrong with that. Some girls just don't have the predisposition, skill or apptitude to be anything other than cockpits. As you posted they need to feed a habit or something else money driven. The issue with these ladies is when they promise something and they don't do it but accept the money. If your not going to do it then just don't promise it.
Maybe it is just age. Maybe it is being jaded as you said but as you very well know when we get together it is all about the conversation, pillow talk and cuddle time. As 'dumb and farfetched' as this will sound to many out there. We have spent many a time just talking and cuddling and when we kiss goodbye that is about as close as we get to the 'act'. But it is time well spent. SO[/QUOTE]Many of these girls are high volume providers, and this is why they have low rates and do not even bother to get references or screen. Many will agree to anything on the phone and then they disappoint and rush the client out the door. If a girl is going to scam you, don't you think she will lie to you first, just to lure you in. When a provider does not ask for references nor does she require screening, this means she tells every guy that calls her, exactly where she is located and says "come right over". So don't be surprised when the cops are waiting and detain you as you are leaving one of these locations. If a women does not care about her own personal safety, do you really think she cares about yours, or the service she provides.
I have been told by clients that they love mature women, they are treated with respect, they enjoy pillow talk and cuddling and the non rush service, but its real hard to get this type of service with a 1/2 hr appointment, or a girl that has low rates.
Escorts spend 200 to 300 a day, between hotels, gas, and advertising, so when a girl only charges 100 bucks, she has to see at least 2 or 3 clients just to break even, most of these girls will see 10 clients a day, and then you guys wonder why they won't give you their full attention and why they rush you out the door.
Quality companionship usually comes from a provider who only see's a few clients a week, and while all of us have our own personal boundaries and may we willing to do somethings with some people and not with others, and while some clients like to complaint hat she wouldn't do this or that, sometimes its because the man has bad hygiene. We are not blow up dolls, you paid for our TIME not for a specific sex act.
Public Service Anouncement
Just wanted to give a little refresher on how we all need to be much more careful and aware of the risks of this hobby. Lately there seems to be a big influx of "New" girls in the area, just a quick search on BP will bring up dozens of girls who are unfamiliar to our area, they may have out of town phone numbers or even local numbers. After researching on google (which you should always do) you find little to no information, no reviews or anything else on this girl. Its almost as if she suddenly appeared from the heavens! Usually the pics are of a very attractive woman and the pics are professionally done. I always wonder how such an attractive woman who has Pro pictures displayed can exist in this profession without at least having some verifiable info online or have reviews on the review sites. To me this is a HUGE red flag, if I can't find anything online other then the girls BP ads and she seems TGTBT then I stay away, no matter how much little muffy wants to run to see her! I'm seeing most of these mystery girls working out of the Warwick hotels, so just be ultra aware of whom you decide to see!
I'm only brining this information up due to the fact that our little fucked up state has decided to go after our beloved hobby with a passion, not only are they closing the AMPs but they will be also working hard to slow the BP and escort trade. There will be stings coming, could even be a real working girl working for LE, just be careful out there, times have changed here in RI, its not the wild west it use to be! (you've been warned!)
Muffy
Recommendations for not falling into the trap
[QUOTE=MuffyTheDiver; 1591180]Just wanted to give a little refresher on how we all need to be much more careful and aware of the risks of this hobby. Lately there seems to be a big influx of "New" girls in the area, just a quick search on BP will bring up dozens of girls who are unfamiliar to our area, they may have out of town phone numbers or even local numbers. After researching on google (which you should always do) you find little to no information, no reviews or anything else on this girl. Its almost as if she suddenly appeared from the heavens! Usually the pics are of a very attractive woman and the pics are professionally done. I always wonder how such an attractive woman who has Pro pictures displayed can exist in this profession without at least having some verifiable info online or have reviews on the review sites. To me this is a HUGE red flag, if I can't find anything online other then the girls BP ads and she seems TGTBT then I stay away, no matter how much little muffy wants to run to see her! I'm seeing most of these mystery girls working out of the Warwick hotels, so just be ultra aware of whom you decide to see!
I'm only brining this information up due to the fact that our little fucked up state has decided to go after our beloved hobby with a passion, not only are they closing the AMPs but they will be also working hard to slow the BP and escort trade. There will be stings coming, could even be a real working girl working for LE, just be careful out there, times have changed here in RI, its not the wild west it use to be! (you've been warned!)
Muffy[/QUOTE]Muffy can you recommend any security checks one can do not to fall into such a trap.
I had one provider show me her breast in the hallway before we went into her room, I did that because I had noticed a black&white sitting next door.
Reviews are the only way to go.
That really is the beauty of this site and another site. Anyone that goes by pictures on BP can get in some big trouble. One time I thought I was in a jam in Warwick and I actually was asked by the front desk who I was visting. I made up a name, faked a call and split. I actually cased the place for a while at a distance. The girl had good reviews on another site. She called me and asked what was up. I told her and she still wanted to meet. Little head was thinking and I had her walk to my car and went for a BJ.
[QUOTE=MuffyTheDiver; 1591241]Thats a good way to insure she is not part of a sting but most of the time an LE girl is not going to come out of the room to fetch you, just too risky for them to be walking around away from their security. Always be aware of interconnecting rooms in Hotels, check the lock and insure its locked between the rooms, If its not get your ass out of the room but you can almost be sure if you start to go towards that door to lock it your going to get stormed by the waiting crowd in the other room if its a sting!
My feelings about the typical LE check is that it is worthless and you will end up in cuffs either way regardless of where or what you grab or feel!
If your already in the Hotel room and they are set up for a sting and you go to grab the girls tits or feel her up you can guarantee the cops are running in and throwing your ass to the floor and cuffing you! Doesn't matter how much you insist you were only there for a chat with the girl, your going down, its their word against yours and their going to win that battle 99% of the time.
The working girls do it as it makes sense for them because no "Good" cop is going to let her grab his balls, I know some girls who will go right into a BJ as soon as you walk in the door, then if you let them continue the passing of money happens. But for us guys to be grabbing a girl and feeling her up as a "Cop Check" is not going to do anything but land your ass in jail if it is in fact a sting!
I'm talking about doing your "Due Diligence" and researching the girl before you ever step foot in the door to see her. Look for reviews from reliable guys who have reviewd many, do a google search with her phone number, you would be surprised at how much info is out there. I personally will never see a "New" girl who has no reviews or any searchable info online, just wayyyyyy to risky for me and also I don't want to waste my time or money on a scam girl or a girl who does not offer the level of service I want. If you follow these rules you should never have to worry about doing a "Cop Check" at all. Leave the "Cop Checks" to the girl you are seeing.[/QUOTE]