Sugarbabies and Arrangements

[QUOTE=Rafter17;5332450]I got kicked off right after I told a girl I wasn't interested because the amount she was asking for was more than I wanted to do. If I remember correctly, she was looking for two or three thousand a month and only one meeting a week. They claimed I was soliciting. I had just renewed couple days beforehand and asked for a refund. At first they said no and I told them they needed to tell me who reported me and show me the proof because the person was lying. They said they weren't going to do that, so I said I'll just dispute the charge as services were not provided for what I paid for. After that, they refunded the full amount. That was over a year ago.[/QUOTE]Yeah it's always best to threaten them with a dispute. They're not a huge operation and I'm guessing their payment processor doesn't know the extent to what they're doing. Too many disputes and a payment processor will review / suspend payments to your business. It's just in their best interested to refund.

But yeah I'm guessing some girl who wanted a stupid amount to meet is what did me in each time. No matter, I'll be back other.

Anyways if someone has a number for Morgan (Clevelandbabe or whatever), I'd be willing to trade. I have some good ones who are reliable.

It's been well over 2 years since I've been on SA. I got a 3 month membership and met about 8 girls who most of them were STG quality. Had 2 that I saw several times, one which was still in college and was hot. I sent out a ton of messages for just over a half dozen dates, was too much work. At the time someone on this board suggested to send a friendly message with nothing close to a solicitation request. Give the girl your phone number (app or burner) and take the conversation off the SA site. Seems like I hear about so many guys getting kicked off that makes me hesitant to join again. Apparently now a girl doesn't need any proof of a solicitation request, just an allegation is good enough.

[QUOTE=Rafter17;5332450]I got kicked off right after I told a girl I wasn't interested because the amount she was asking for was more than I wanted to do. If I remember correctly, she was looking for two or three thousand a month and only one meeting a week. They claimed I was soliciting. I had just renewed couple days beforehand and asked for a refund. At first they said no and I told them they needed to tell me who reported me and show me the proof because the person was lying. They said they weren't going to do that, so I said I'll just dispute the charge as services were not provided for what I paid for. After that, they refunded the full amount. That was over a year ago.[/QUOTE]Never talk about anything other than where you are meeting for coffee on SA. Take that shit off site for details.

[QUOTE=SR7D1;5332601]Never talk about anything other than where you are meeting for coffee on SA. Take that shit off site for details.[/QUOTE]I never talked about sex on there. Eventually the conversation would turn to an allowance and how much they were looking for, so I could decide if I wanted to meet up or text off site and talk details. I was very careful about never once mentioning paying for sex because I read about other people getting kicked off. I figured it was some girl that was mad because I told her the allowance was higher than I wanted to do. If I had actually broken the rules, it would seem they wouldn't have any issues with showing it me and keeping the money.

[QUOTE=Rafter17;5332757]I never talked about sex on there. Eventually the conversation would turn to an allowance and how much they were looking for, so I could decide if I wanted to meet up or text off site and talk details. I was very careful about never once mentioning paying for sex because I read about other people getting kicked off. I figured it was some girl that was mad because I told her the allowance was higher than I wanted to do. If I had actually broken the rules, it would seem they wouldn't have any issues with showing it me and keeping the money.[/QUOTE]I didn't say sex. I said anything other than where to meet for coffee. Compensation is something never to discuss on SA.

[QUOTE=SR7D1;5332860]I didn't say sex. I said anything other than where to meet for coffee. Compensation is something never to discuss on SA.[/QUOTE]Most of them told me they wanted money to meet for coffee without me bringing it up or exchanging numbers first.

[QUOTE=Rafter17;5333025]Most of them told me they wanted money to meet for coffee without me bringing it up or exchanging numbers first.[/QUOTE]My dude. I'm trying to help and you're fighting me all the way. Who cares who brought it up? You discussed compensation. (you got banned, she didn't and they can show you were discussing it) Never do that. Ever. No matter who brings it up. Take it offline.

You don't want to be in their logs as arguing about money, even it it's just for "coffee".

And, if they want paid for coffee, say no thanks and move on to the next one. Plenty of women on there that don't ask for money to meet for coffee.

[QUOTE=SR7D1;5333040]My dude. I'm trying to help and you're fighting me all the way. Who cares who brought it up? You discussed compensation. (you got banned, she didn't and they can show you were discussing it) Never do that. Ever. No matter who brings it up. Take it offline.

You don't want to be in their logs as arguing about money, even it it's just for "coffee".

And, if they want paid for coffee, say no thanks and move on to the next one. Plenty of women on there that don't ask for money to meet for coffee.[/QUOTE]I don't see how I'm fighting you about it I'm just saying what happened to me and maybe other guys can learn from it. I'm just pointing out that they were the ones who brought it up, not me. You're correct, I should have shut it down right away. I wasn't arguing about money, just saying it was higher that I was expecting and good luck in their search. That was the end of the conversation as far as I was concerned.

I was messaging this one Kiki_jj out of ashtabula. Profile said 22 yo. While texting off site, she didn't make any sense, so I asked how old are you? Her reply was it doesn't matter. I said it does matter. She then admitted she was 15 and not to report her. I reported her as underage. Be careful guys. Don't know if it was a setup or a real one, either way, I'm glad I asked how old again.

Anyone know what happened to mafia princess? Wasn't unusual for her to leave the site and pop back up a month or so later but I haven't seen her in a while. She was always good times for a quick meet up, wouldn't mind seeing her again!

Just some things I have noticed. Keep in mind, I am a seasoned SD but relatively new to Seeking and this site.

However, as I scroll through reports here due to my once again need to search for a reliable SB, a couple things stand out.

After clicking on many seeking links in your reports, they are at least 90% all coming up as deleted profiles. Either that or I am supposed to believe they have blocked me without ever even chatting or my even viewing them prior? Hmmmmmmm.

I call BS. I have been caught in the new fresh meat trap too many times now on SA, AM, etc.

I won't spend one credit chasing a new profile that smells of hot crap anymore.

You all here talk about keeping costs down, right? I say, when it comes to these sites, you kind of have to lie in wait and watch the comings and going's a bit.

Seriously. All of these profiles are disappearing. Or I'm some kind of persona non grata when I haven't even looked at them yet?

This method at least a keeps my cost down and I do at least meet these girls.

The ones who want money just for meet and greet? I tell them sure and once they show up, I point out how they have a flaw in their advertising. They all leave with no fight. What are they going to do? Freak out on me, "hey you, man I know from the internet sugar daddy site! Please.

It is all about taking a chance and knowing what you can or cannot leave the house for.

Stop chasing ghosts. And do not talk numbers until you are texting at least, in person at best once both established not LE.

And just because one person comes on here and gives some report, we'll take that with a grain of salt too until you see a butt in the chair.

You get what you pay for. And no, that doesn't mean over pay for.

You want cheap and readily available, it comes with stretch marks or track marks.

You want a suburban MILF, you will have to host or get the room and deal with mid day schedules.

Otherwise, I have yet to see a perfect solution.

Also, SA is well known on college campuses. That is both good and bad. Problem is these girls are openly comparing notes and driving the prices.

[QUOTE=DrStrngeLover;5343909]Just some things I have noticed. Keep in mind, I am a seasoned SD but relatively new to Seeking and this site.

However, as I scroll through reports here due to my once again need to search for a reliable SB, a couple things stand out.

After clicking on many seeking links in your reports, they are at least 90% all coming up as deleted profiles. Either that or I am supposed to believe they have blocked me without ever even chatting or my even viewing them prior? Hmmmmmmm.

I call BS. I have been caught in the new fresh meat trap too many times now on SA, AM, etc.

I won't spend one credit chasing a new profile that smells of hot crap anymore.

You all here talk about keeping costs down, right? I say, when it comes to these sites, you kind of have to lie in wait and watch the comings and going's a bit.

Seriously. All of these profiles are disappearing. Or I'm some kind of persona non grata when I haven't even looked at them yet?

This method at least a keeps my cost down and I do at least meet these girls.

The ones who want money just for meet and greet? I tell them sure and once they show up, I point out how they have a flaw in their advertising. They all leave with no fight. What are they going to do? Freak out on me, "hey you, man I know from the internet sugar daddy site! Please.

It is all about taking a chance and knowing what you can or cannot leave the house for.

Stop chasing ghosts. And do not talk numbers until you are texting at least, in person at best once both established not LE.

And just because one person comes on here and gives some report, we'll take that with a grain of salt too until you see a butt in the chair.

You get what you pay for. And no, that doesn't mean over pay for.

You want cheap and readily available, it comes with stretch marks or track marks.

You want a suburban MILF, you will have to host or get the room and deal with mid day schedules.

Otherwise, I have yet to see a perfect solution.

Also, SA is well known on college campuses. That is both good and bad. Problem is these girls are openly comparing notes and driving the prices.[/QUOTE]Regarding the deleted profiles when you click the links, sometimes if you refresh the link, they'll actually pop up. It's not always the case, but I think it's a glitch regarding SA's website that does that.

[QUOTE=TheEndlessEdge;5346346]Regarding the deleted profiles when you click the links, sometimes if you refresh the link, they'll actually pop up. It's not always the case, but I think it's a glitch regarding SA's website that does that.[/QUOTE]Or that by the time you get to one of our links, they have been reported as scams? Or they have created a new profile, sometimes they do that too.

[QUOTE=JohnnyGti;4958195]If her number is 216 xxx 8202?[/QUOTE]Been texting this one. Anyone besides the guy that got banned have experience?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cc44aef8-c889-4b5a-8341-7c11d07359fb[/URL]

[QUOTE=SR7D1;5349044]Been texting this one. Anyone besides the guy that got banned have experience?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cc44aef8-c889-4b5a-8341-7c11d07359fb[/URL][/QUOTE]I have before she is very nice also like her pics. She can give some mean head also and she is right to a point. Only down side is she can blow your phone up at times and also will only meet you for money other else also lives in Cleveland the West side.