Great question no real correct answer
[QUOTE=IlvblckGrls;3724127]I feel like I may have written about this before, buy my experience with Thalia this morning really hit home my quandary, so I'm wondering how other mongers deal with this (or if I am just crazy, LOL).
Often, when I gear up to see a provider, I don't jerk off for a few days. The pressure mounts, and when I finish, it is a very satisfying explosion, but I will have hardly any stamina. It's like I stick it in just for a bit, and I can't hold on.
Last night, when making arrangements with Thalia, I totally blueballed myself, so I jerked off last night, then saw her first thing this morning. I definitely lasted longer, which is great, because the journey is a lot of fun, but the finishing act was less forceful and voluminous.
Am I alone here? I can't decide which is better: to last longer but not come as hard, or to come harder but not last as long. It's a quandary! What do you guys think? Which way to go?![/QUOTE]Usually if I know I am going for a q. V. Or a b&g I hold out. If I plan on a much longer more satisfying dream I break one off maybe 2. Had a week without anything once filled little Bree so full she looked like the kid from Big Daddy trying to get to the bathroom to spit it all out. On a side not Bree is a cutie but a total rush job and I felt like she was ripping my little head to shreds. I won't repeat with her again.
Shevelle and a general rant.
So I made an appointment with Shevelle the other day based on reviews here, 2. 5 hours before meeting time. I updated her that I may be a few minutes late, up to 15. Several texts want unanswered. At original meeting time I get a text giving me address if notel and "I'm at Wal-Mart tho. " WTF. Why aren't we at our notel awaiting arrival of client? I waited 30 minutes before I left. Next day she says they were detained by security because sister's friend decided to steal stuff that Shevelle had to fork out $130 for. How much of this is true, who knows.
LADIES, if you have an appointment with someone don't fucking go somewhere within 30 minutes of said appointment! We don't want you rushing back, waiting for you to freshen up, change out of your sweats, put makeup on, ad nauseum. You children need to show a little respect to the man that wants to come and see you and give you some of our hard earned cash!
Do yourselves a favor. Go buy a Playboy magazine and take note of how the models dress and use makeup. Be like them. That's the fantasy we're trying to buy here. Rant over.
Golfguy, playing through.
Frustrating Day Revisited
[QUOTE=BTBear;3729991]Since this is in The Octagon" I would assume I can say what I want without being slammed as a White Knight.
I won't defend Oolala, she said she was available, but didn't confirm. But the other ladies might have been "busy. " If you wete the one they were "busy" with, you would have been upset if they texted during your appointment.
You had a three hour window, but I also assume you want them freshly showered and prepared for your visit, that can take more an hour to do.
Complain about Oolala all you want, but maybe you should plan further in advance.
I love to play golf, but if a buddy calls me and wants me to play with him with just two hours notice, I probably won't be available.[/QUOTE]Wow, the point was missed here. I was not trying to slam the girls who were not available. I was beating myself up for trying to do a set up on short notice. Note the self loathing. I apologize for my apparently poor attempt at humor. I fully realize that the girls have lives too and short notice can be tough. I usually have decent luck, but due to my schedule short notice is the best I can do. I will say one thing. If a provider is not available just say so. Don't say you are and then go silent. It wastes time for the client. Anyway, stay safe.
GFE (Girlfriend Experience)
[QUOTE=Kc148;3730587]I know that different people include or not include activities when thinking about an experience labeled GFE. But if you think about the title it means what is the experience you have with a woman who is your girlfriend and not one paid to play. A true girlfriend is happy to see you, happy to kiss you passionately, happy to give you a BBBJ and try many positions in cfs. So posters please stop describing Providers as GFE if they don't provide all of these. You can still describe the time as wonderful, but if lacking all these activities then it is not a GFE. I realize it is always YMMV, but I saw someone who was described as GFE and she didn't DFK (barely light kisser) and only provided CBJ. To say the least, I was very disappointed. Thanks for not letting your emotions get the better of you in future posts.
KC.[/QUOTE]Totally agree. The use of the term GFE has become overused and too loose to count on. Never had a girlfriend that wasn't glad to see me, that didn't enjoy passionate DFK, that required a cover for a BJ or that didn't make me feel as if there was some sort of connection.
CFG.