I can confirm previous reports. This gal is a winner. Don't miss out.
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I can confirm previous reports. This gal is a winner. Don't miss out.
Hey guys! Thanks to you fellas I found the sweet Amber from Pawtucket. She is super nice, cute and extremely easy to talk with. I had horrible panic / anxiety attacks all that day and explained to her why and she was awesome about it! I drove by the 1st time cause my heart was pounding out of my throat but went back around and followed through. She put me at ease and told me to take my time. I donated. 6 for HE, opting out of the BBBJCIM like the wuss that I am. (so afraid of catching something) Even though this girl is clean and super normal. I tipped. 15 Feel free to ask me for any other info.
I was going to try 725Branch cause I usually do Studio253 but I felt like being at a more private location. I'm glad I did and I will repeat for sure.
I posted a report over in the BP Advertisers forum on Alicia who's been posting ads lately (a few people had expressed curiosity there). So go check it out if interested.
[url]http://providence.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/60-special-gorgeous-hot-sexy-latina-100-independent-100-me-available-247-25/3114291[/url]
I am probably going to open up a can of worms with this post, and I really want the opinion of the more experienced guys in this room to respond to it, good or bad. I was going to toftt and meet destiny the last for digits are 5576 from BP. She asked for 200 for the hour and 150 for the half. In my mind I was cool with that, but for some reason I had mentioned is it unlimited cups of coffee, or is it the one cup rule. She told me I can have two cups for the hour, and one cup for the half. But if you drink the coffee before the time is up the meeting is over. I told her I will get back to you, and never called back. What brought all this on was, after giving this thought, we spend 200 an hour, why can't we we enjoy the company for the whole hour? Yes ok some providers have unlimited coffee in the hour, but shouldn't that be the standard rule? If I we book an hour, should we get the whole hour with the provider? What happens of I guy is thirsty and finishes in 10 minutes, when he booked an hour?
The other thing that I can't figure out is if you cannot asked any question when calling the provider then how do you know this? You mention the code words, and they don't know what they mean, you ask them if they provide a service they hang up. Just my two cents guys, please respond, I can take criticism, so let it on me.
I don't know about anyone else but I think it has everything to do with the quality of the provider. The Agencies for the most part will always deliver your full time. For instance, you get the full hr at Room Service up in Metro Boston and it is because they / she runs a quality operation and the same holds true with Down City. For me, I always start with the 1/2 time frame with someone new and treat her well. If she is good I always tell her I will be back and what I am looking for. It normally work. You can never tell when the providers are having a bad day. Someone should make an app for that. We would all be happy.
Dick.
[QUOTE=Italian2424; 1587942]I am probably going to open up a can of worms with this post, and I really want the opinion of the more experienced guys in this room to respond to it, good or bad. I was going to toftt and meet destiny the last for digits are 5576 from BP. She asked for 200 for the hour and 150 for the half. In my mind I was cool with that, but for some reason I had mentioned is it unlimited cups of coffee, or is it the one cup rule. She told me I can have two cups for the hour, and one cup for the half. But if you drink the coffee before the time is up the meeting is over. I told her I will get back to you, and never called back. What brought all this on was, after giving this thought, we spend 200 an hour, why can't we we enjoy the company for the whole hour? Yes ok some providers have unlimited coffee in the hour, but shouldn't that be the standard rule? If I we book an hour, should we get the whole hour with the provider? What happens of I guy is thirsty and finishes in 10 minutes, when he booked an hour?
The other thing that I can't figure out is if you cannot asked any question when calling the provider then how do you know this? You mention the code words, and they don't know what they mean, you ask them if they provide a service they hang up. Just my two cents guys, please respond, I can take criticism, so let it on me.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Italian2424; 1587942]I am probably going to open up a can of worms with this post, and I really want the opinion of the more experienced guys in this room to respond to it, good or bad. I was going to toftt and meet destiny the last for digits are 5576 from BP. She asked for 200 for the hour and 150 for the half. In my mind I was cool with that, but for some reason I had mentioned is it unlimited cups of coffee, or is it the one cup rule. She told me I can have two cups for the hour, and one cup for the half. But if you drink the coffee before the time is up the meeting is over. I told her I will get back to you, and never called back. What brought all this on was, after giving this thought, we spend 200 an hour, why can't we we enjoy the company for the whole hour? Yes ok some providers have unlimited coffee in the hour, but shouldn't that be the standard rule? If I we book an hour, should we get the whole hour with the provider? What happens of I guy is thirsty and finishes in 10 minutes, when he booked an hour?
The other thing that I can't figure out is if you cannot asked any question when calling the provider then how do you know this? You mention the code words, and they don't know what they mean, you ask them if they provide a service they hang up. Just my two cents guys, please respond, I can take criticism, so let it on me.[/QUOTE]You raised one of the oldest questions about the oldest profession. Personally, I think it has more to do with how men and women view getting off, and how providers view their work. If I'm a provider I'm seeing my job as getting the guy off, not necessarily being his F-pal for an hour. He gets off, I get him out of there. If I agree to 2 cups in the hour and they're both served in 35 minutes, I've done my job and since the guy's gotten his 2nd cup I'm entitled to a little extra time before my next appointment. He's not here to snuggle and chat with me, is he? . That's the way most providers (especially independents) look at it, and for a lot of guys, that's just what they want, so you can't really blame those gals. But there are other guys who might prefer to continue to enjoy the company of the lady even after the 2nd cup has been enjoyed (personally, I think they're in the minority, but they're certainly not a great majority). Those guys feel disappointed and a bit ripped off when a lady shows them the door 2 minutes after cup #2 or after cup #1 in a half-hour appointment. I'm not sure a "standard rule" is possible. As we all know, some gals care about building a repeat clientele and others don't seem to care about that at all. There are a few independents out there who will give guys who ask for it a full 60-minute hour, and even offer to try for a 3rd cup, and those ladies are gems. Yeah, there are a lot of ladies whose 40-minute appointments are genuinely more satisfying than 60 minutes with one of their competitors, but IMHO it's more often the case that the lady who stands strictly on her 2-cup "rule" is likely to a clock-watcher who sees her job as getting the coffer served as quickly as possible. Like Starbucks with a sign on the table saying,"Customers must not linger at the tables longer than it takes to let their coffee cool and quickly drink it down." My 2 cents.
[QUOTE=Italian2424;1587942]The other thing that I can't figure out is if you cannot asked any question when calling the provider then how do you know this? You mention the code words, and they don't know what they mean, you ask them if they provide a service they hang up. Just my two cents guys, please respond, I can take criticism, so let it on me.[/QUOTE]NO EXPLICIT QUESTIONS. I see that quite a bit lately. So if I don't ask how do I know what worthy cause I'm donating too? 200 bucks to watch her dance in bra and panties while I rub one out isn't a deal in my book. It is a valid question.
If you get to know a provider well most will say guys are in and out, no pun intended, in under a half. As for 'cups' or 'shots on goal' that is something best negociated face to face. Be warned, your excellant negociation skills may result in a sub standard experience.
[QUOTE=Italian2424; 1587942]I am probably going to open up a can of worms with this post, and I really want the opinion of the more experienced guys in this room to respond to it, good or bad. I was going to toftt and meet destiny the last for digits are 5576 from BP. She asked for 200 for the hour and 150 for the half. In my mind I was cool with that, but for some reason I had mentioned is it unlimited cups of coffee, or is it the one cup rule. She told me I can have two cups for the hour, and one cup for the half. But if you drink the coffee before the time is up the meeting is over. I told her I will get back to you, and never called back. What brought all this on was, after giving this thought, we spend 200 an hour, why can't we we enjoy the company for the whole hour? Yes ok some providers have unlimited coffee in the hour, but shouldn't that be the standard rule? If I we book an hour, should we get the whole hour with the provider? What happens of I guy is thirsty and finishes in 10 minutes, when he booked an hour?
The other thing that I can't figure out is if you cannot asked any question when calling the provider then how do you know this? You mention the code words, and they don't know what they mean, you ask them if they provide a service they hang up. Just my two cents guys, please respond, I can take criticism, so let it on me.[/QUOTE]If your going to be an "experienced guy" then you also need to set some rules and guidelines that you follow, just like these girls do! If your going to decide to TOFTT then also be prepared to have a bad time, possibly not get what you came for or get booted earlier then you had planned. That just comes with the territory when your seeing a girl who is not well reviewed. Some of the excitement of seeing a girl like this is the chance you strike gold and have a great time and didn't expect it.
Now on the other hand, if you the type who wants to insure he has a great time and gets his full allotted time and cups then you need to do your research, read all the reviews on the girl, google the girl, look for info on her here and only choose girls who meet your requirements per there reviews and what you find online. I rarely ever see a girl that I can't verify she is my type. I do tons of research sometimes over the course of weeks to months to insure that what I want is what I get. By doing this I rarely ever get disappointed, shorted on time of not getting what you paid for. After the research I do on a girl I don't need to verify anything with her because I already know what I'm getting. I'm the type who will find a great girl and see her often once we hit it off.
Bottom line is if your the type who is a spur of the moment type always need to see a different girl each time then be prepared to TOFTT
Muffy
[QUOTE=Italian2424; 1587942]I am probably going to open up a can of worms with this post, and I really want the opinion of the more experienced guys in this room to respond to it, good or bad. I was going to toftt and meet destiny the last for digits are 5576 from BP. She asked for 200 for the hour and 150 for the half. In my mind I was cool with that, but for some reason I had mentioned is it unlimited cups of coffee, or is it the one cup rule. She told me I can have two cups for the hour, and one cup for the half. But if you drink the coffee before the time is up the meeting is over. I told her I will get back to you, and never called back. What brought all this on was, after giving this thought, we spend 200 an hour, why can't we we enjoy the company for the whole hour? Yes ok some providers have unlimited coffee in the hour, but shouldn't that be the standard rule? If I we book an hour, should we get the whole hour with the provider? What happens of I guy is thirsty and finishes in 10 minutes, when he booked an hour?
The other thing that I can't figure out is if you cannot asked any question when calling the provider then how do you know this? You mention the code words, and they don't know what they mean, you ask them if they provide a service they hang up. Just my two cents guys, please respond, I can take criticism, so let it on me.[/QUOTE]I am with you on this because of this I never do hour sessions anymore I did one and timed my self and I was in and out in 20 mins felt really pissed off. I now usually do 15 mins sessions then talk my way into getting the provider to extend the session for 10 more minutes so now I kind of get half hour session at the 15 min rate. I am a nice guy but unlike others here I don't take getting ripped off lightly. If your like me and don't take getting ripped off lightly then you got to do a lot of research always start off with the 15 min session if the girl is good at what she does then you can pay to extend the time or come back for a longer period. Since I like to do 15 sessions I always have to make sure what is offered and whats not because some girls only do BJ on 15 min sessions, so I get hanged up on sometimes but you have to be as respectful as you can. I am one of the type that feels we are the ones in control since we are the ones paying so if your charging 200 a hour I should be able to ask whats included and she needs to make me feel like she is worth 200 a hour. I normally have a back up provider and a exit strategy incase I get to the door and the person does not look anything like their picture or the place don't seem safe or right. I always walk away please do the same it encourages these girls to stop using fake pics and most the time the service might not be good if she has to use fake pictures and it stops girls who live in the slums and provide below average service to be charging high end prices. I see some of these girls and they not living that much better then the SW but want to be charging 150 for a half hour. We need some low end providers who can get you off quickly and cheaply I am still looking for a provider that will take like 30 for quick BJ when I don't feel like or can't afford to drop a 100 for half. I at the end of the day feel what your saying and if more guys took a stand it would force these girls to change, mostly talking about the low end providers trying to come off as high end providers. Higher end providers like joi love can ask what she wants because she put in the extra work taking care of her body, putting out videos, having photoshoots and dressing up her incall location etc
[QUOTE=Gansett; 1588559]NO EXPLICIT QUESTIONS. I see that quite a bit lately. So if I don't ask how do I know what worthy cause I'm donating too? 200 bucks to watch her dance in bra and panties while I rub one out isn't a deal in my book. It is a valid question.
If you get to know a provider well most will say guys are in and out, no pun intended, in under a half. As for 'cups' or 'shots on goal' that is something best negociated face to face. Be warned, your excellant negociation skills may result in a sub standard experience.[/QUOTE]I think the reason for no explicit questions is to avoid LE. If they don't say anything over the phone, they're safe. Just like the women who ask "Are you LE?" I keep wanting to tell them that question won't save them.
Hey M's,
When I was contemplating who to see on beerfest I thougt about seeing this lovely lady [url]http://providence.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/s-e-x-y-23/3166489[/url]
I called and we talked and sent me a text on her general local, but I am not that familiar with providence and my GPS was running low. I didn't get a chance to visit because the GPs had died on me, so I am asking if anyone has seen her and what are their thoughts. No explicet details, only if she's worth the 140 hh and 200 hr. I will not give out her general area so no pm asking for it.
Tap
To me an hour is an hour. This is supposed to be a customer service based business and if providers looked at it that way, they would get lots of repeat clientele like I have. Unfortunately the one's I've met off of BP and tried to help have a negative opinion of men, most of the older ladies I've met have been in the business starting in their late teens, early 20's, come from dysfunctional families, have drug issues, are not good with money. Live out of hotels. Unstable lives. I think they see the business as a way to earn quick cash and then spend every bit of it quickly. I doubt they think about retirement, savings, being responsible, I find many being self-centered. I haven't met many of the younger ladies, but I'm not too impressed with our educational system when reading the ads as they are not creative, can't spell, call themselves Italian Stallions. And what's up with the younger generation with all those tatoos? They will regret it later on, but I probably sound like an old fart,.which I am in comparison. BTW, I like to cuddle and talk. I think escorting and meeting the guys is fun, but then I only provide part-time, because I have a full-time career and have only been doing it on and off since 2008, so maybe I'm not burnt out yet. Actually as time goes on I like it more and more. Sex work isn't exactly new to me, because I used to be a stripper, so you think I'd be burnt out by now LOL.
[QUOTE=Italian2424; 1587942]I am probably going to open up a can of worms with this post, and I really want the opinion of the more experienced guys in this room to respond to it, good or bad. I was going to toftt and meet destiny the last for digits are 5576 from BP. She asked for 200 for the hour and 150 for the half. In my mind I was cool with that, but for some reason I had mentioned is it unlimited cups of coffee, or is it the one cup rule. She told me I can have two cups for the hour, and one cup for the half. But if you drink the coffee before the time is up the meeting is over. I told her I will get back to you, and never called back. What brought all this on was, after giving this thought, we spend 200 an hour, why can't we we enjoy the company for the whole hour? Yes ok some providers have unlimited coffee in the hour, but shouldn't that be the standard rule? If I we book an hour, should we get the whole hour with the provider? What happens of I guy is thirsty and finishes in 10 minutes, when he booked an hour?
The other thing that I can't figure out is if you cannot asked any question when calling the provider then how do you know this? You mention the code words, and they don't know what they mean, you ask them if they provide a service they hang up. Just my two cents guys, please respond, I can take criticism, so let it on me.[/QUOTE]This is actually a good topic. I have a few that I use as repeats. From my experience, the time thing will always vary. What does it vary on?
1. Girl: I have a few that I generally use, sometimes she will let me sit there for minutes and talk before she even starts. Other time she tries to get me in and out be / see she has some other mong coming. (I use a girl that partners up w / another girl, and if the other girl has someone else coming, then I'm in and out no less then 15min)
2. How busy they are: goes back to 1.
3. Mood: sometimes it depends how their feeling.
4. Location: If I coming into a residential area its always IN and OUT, hotels I've been able to stay longer.
Cups of tea / coffee. Never asked to pop more than 1x. Think I will be using more of the incalls going forward VS street, so I will definitely be asking for tips and posting.
If anyone has any good ebony or latin w / a big bodonkadonk PM me.
[QUOTE=Italian2424; 1587942]I am probably going to open up a can of worms with this post, and I really want the opinion of the more experienced guys in this room to respond to it, good or bad. We spend 200 an hour, why can't we we enjoy the company for the whole hour? Yes ok some providers have unlimited coffee in the hour, but shouldn't that be the standard rule? If I we book an hour, should we get the whole hour with the provider?
The other thing that I can't figure out is if you cannot asked any question when calling the provider then how do you know this? You mention the code words, and they don't know what they mean, you ask them if they provide a service they hang up.[/QUOTE]While all the advise & opinions here are very good, it's really up to you to go out & apply the information to real life situations.
There is no teacher better than the school of hard knocks.
Don't be afraid to make mistakes, they can be a great learning tool, in time hopefully you will learn to minimize mistakes.
However it's one thing to be beat out of some money or sevice, it's quite another to have a run-in with LE so be ever vigilant.
IMO all you can do is learn from your experiences & make the best you can out of each encounter.
There are no standard hard fast rules, & the only ones that apply are the ones you make at that moment, & please [red]NOTE[/red] they are suject to change without notice!
Communication about specific services, time, availability, etc. can be a challenge, this is also part of the learning curve & is best done between you & the provider, not always but mostly face to face.
You may find that this applies to most situations when you are wanting something specific:
Now some they do and some they don't.
And some you just can't tell.
And some they will and some they won't.
For some it's just as well.
Just asking the questions you did shows the ability & capacity to learn from opinions & advise.
Now all you need do is go & apply that to the real world.
Remember to trust your guts, instincts, & judgement, they should serve you well over time.
Have fun stay safe
[QUOTE=Deb4512;1588901]To me an hour is an hour. This is supposed to be a customer service based business and if providers looked at it that way, they would get lots of repeat clientele like I have.[/QUOTE]You're right Deb, but unfortunately the business model has become get'them in, get'them off, get'them out NEXT as there will always be another to take the place of a client who leaves feeling they were short changed.
I'm not a fan of tats but a small butterfly or flower doesn't bother me too much. But when a beautiful breast has a former (?) boyfriends name,"sleeves" and legs, back and belly covered in them it's a turn off for me.
Wait until they get the tramp stamp they have in Chinese translated and find it's 'beef w / brocoli' or my favorite 'thank you, cum again' [grin]