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[QUOTE=BigStud47;6175134]Well looks like back to old habits and now visiting Wayne Ivey motel!!

Bs.[/QUOTE]3 or 4 years ago the Boss Lady was the quintessential spinner for me when I came to town but even back then I knew that the girl would never be able to maximize her potential in this hobby and maybe make enough to change the course of her life. It's my understanding that she had a few bad breaks early in her childhood which she now has compounded with her own bad decisions and reckless behavior and it's sad to see someone who truly could have been a "Boss Lady" be such a train wreck. Ashley needs real help. Life changing help. Not the kind of help that you will find on this forum but the kind of help that would keep her from every being talked about again on this site. I for one hopes she finds it otherwise I'm afraid the ending will be very sad.

[QUOTE=BeachRunner51;6176268]3 or 4 years ago the Boss Lady was the quintessential spinner for me when I came to town but even back then I knew that the girl would never be able to maximize her potential in this hobby and maybe make enough to change the course of her life. It's my understanding that she had a few bad breaks early in her childhood which she now has compounded with her own bad decisions and reckless behavior and it's sad to see someone who truly could have been a "Boss Lady" be such a train wreck. Ashley needs real help. Life changing help. Not the kind of help that you will find on this forum but the kind of help that would keep her from every being talked about again on this site. I for one hopes she finds it otherwise I'm afraid the ending will be very sad.[/QUOTE]Amen to the quintessential spinner and the tragedy she has endured in her 26 years. I sure hope she can find an off ramp and write a better ending.

[QUOTE=BeachRunner51;6176268]3 or 4 years ago the Boss Lady was the quintessential spinner for me when I came to town but even back then I knew that the girl would never be able to maximize her potential in this hobby and maybe make enough to change the course of her life. It's my understanding that she had a few bad breaks early in her childhood which she now has compounded with her own bad decisions and reckless behavior and it's sad to see someone who truly could have been a "Boss Lady" be such a train wreck. Ashley needs real help. Life changing help. Not the kind of help that you will find on this forum but the kind of help that would keep her from every being talked about again on this site. I for one hopes she finds it otherwise I'm afraid the ending will be very sad.[/QUOTE]Amen to everything you said. Too many are gone already and missed by many here. Too many to list, but Kay Belle is one that immediately comes to my mind. Sometimes you take the drugs and sometimes the drugs take you.

I wish little boss lady and so many others would at least get back on the right side of that equation.

I read what happened to her. What can someone say? Its pure insanity and only reinforce why I don't do drugs. I used to see her twice a week for quite a while. She was really small, cute, and had serious energy. Then she fell off the deep end and I stopped seeing her. She did reach out to me months later and convinced me to a meet up. She looked so bad, I was shocked. I couldn't go through with the date but took her to eat and gave her some money and dropped her off. Kinda fucked up after all that she ends up in jail.

I'm probably enabling but for those who have been asking.

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[QUOTE=BeachRunner51;6183784]I'm probably enabling but for those who have been asking.

[URL]https://space-coast.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/guess-whos-back-bosslady/645039428309[/URL][/QUOTE]Yes, I saw that and have chatted with her a bit this morning, but she can't keep a conversation straight, pretty consistent round and round asking same questions after talking about something else.

Damn shame, I truly enjoyed my time spent with her before the incident.

[QUOTE=BeachRunner51;6183784]I'm probably enabling but for those who have been asking.

[URL]https://space-coast.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/guess-whos-back-bosslady/645039428309[/URL][/QUOTE]I met her today. I wish I could describe a dream, but I can only describe my experience. She had me meet her at a motel where I thought we were good. Instead, she got in my car and seemed to be avoiding someone. She said her room is full at the moment. Okay, no problem. I tell her we can go to my place. She says we don't have to, the room will be ready soon. She asked me to take her to a store nearby. I do. I waited in the car 15 min. Still no big deal for me. I offer my place again, again, no. Now she asks me to take her to a residential home to pick up clothes. A little out of the way, but again, okay. After waiting outside 45 minutes, having two people come up to my car asking about me, and seeing someone else who looked more like a client than a dope man pull up, I said fuck it and left. I text her to tell me when she's ready and I'd come back to get her. I still haven't heard from her. I felt like a fool waiting that long with no word from her.

BTW, no disrespect to the people comin up to my car. If a stranger was in my driveway, I wouldn't have been as polite as they were. I don't have a bad thing to say about them. The problem was I stuck out like a sore thumb and I hate drawing attention to myself or other people.

She lives a sad, chaotic lifestyle that I know too well. So I don't judge her negatively for it at all. But I have a big problem leaving me hanging like that. If she was real with me, I would've waited longer. Tell me you're seeing someone else first or getting dope. I'd understand. Just fuckin communicate. She left a few very replaceable belongings in my car. I doubt I'll make time to ever see her again.

The real mistake and lesson here is don't be too kind or accommodating to these women. This is supposed to be a business transaction. They're not our friends. You have to put your foot down and tell them how it's going to be, or don't do business with them. That doesn't mean to disrespect them. It just means you're going to be treated how they perceive you. Either as a friend, a simp or a true client.

[QUOTE=TheTechnician;6185151]
The real mistake and lesson here is don't be too kind or accommodating to these women. This is supposed to be a business transaction. They're not our friends. You have to put your foot down and tell them how it's going to be, or don't do business with them. That doesn't mean to disrespect them. It just means you're going to be treated how they perceive you. Either as a friend, a simp or a true client.[/QUOTE]You said it right sir; sorry to hear about your experience, but I am not surprised.

[QUOTE=TheTechnician;6185151]I met her today. I wish I could describe a dream, but I can only describe my experience. She had me meet her at a motel where I thought we were good. Instead, she got in my car and seemed to be avoiding someone. She said her room is full at the moment. Okay, no problem. I tell her we can go to my place. She says we don't have to, the room will be ready soon. She asked me to take her to a store nearby. I do. I waited in the car 15 min. Still no big deal for me. I offer my place again, again, no. Now she asks me to take her to a residential home to pick up clothes. A little out of the way, but again, okay. After waiting outside 45 minutes, having two people come up to my car asking about me, and seeing someone else who looked more like a client than a dope man pull up, I said fuck it and left. I text her to tell me when she's ready and I'd come back to get her. I still haven't heard from her. I felt like a fool waiting that long with no word from her.

BTW, no disrespect to the people comin up to my car. If a stranger was in my driveway, I wouldn't have been as polite as they were. I don't have a bad thing to say about them. The problem was I stuck out like a sore thumb and I hate drawing attention to myself or other people.[/QUOTE]Thank you for sharing that story. I have been around for only a short amount of time and from my perspective nearly all the providers that I have experience with do not have their own transportation and rely on family / friends or have to resort to pay for an Uber to get them around. There is a point where we must draw a line between being a friend and a business client. This appears to have been your first meeting with her so I would say that line was clear to both you and her that this is business only. You were going to what you believed and agreed to be an incall. Not outcall or car date. You had your time allotted for your travel time to and from the incall as well as the time at the incall itself. When we arrive at their door they start the clock on us. Their time is valuable to them and they need to realize that our time is valuable to us. Most of us are not sitting around twiddling our thumbs bored. We have things and placed to be during the day as well. Reading your experience I would have pulled the plug at the same point you did.

Now lets say that she came out right when you were about to text that you were leaving. You have an extra hour of your time invested into this that you had not planned on. Then you went back to your incall location. Would she have offset the donation for the extra hour you wasted? Normally whenever I give a true friend a ride they offer me at least gas money which is always more than the actual cost of fuel. I am not an Uber and I do not offer this rate to anyone. When I don't have family or friend readily available or I don't want to take up their time, I use Uber. What she did would have sounded like 2 Uber rides but she had the luxury of not having to wait. So based off my Uber experiences I would say what you did saved her around $50 and cost you more than that in fuel and your time. I doubt when it came time to drop the donation she would have said "take $30 off for your troubles".

I had a similar story. I had seen provider 3 times over the course of 2 weeks. She didn't live far from me and she knew that. One morning she asked for me to take her to an office appointment and the grocery store. Ok, I took off work. The quick office visit turned into 2 hours then another hour for the grocery store. So I lost 3 hours of work that morning that I had to make up at the end of the week. So a few days later I visited her. Feeling her out to see if she would drop some of the donation I asked how much for the donation. A confused look she gave and said the amount that it had always been. No problem. Drop the donation, spent my time there, and never been back or returned calls since. Stop a bad habit before it starts.

I guess we all have judge where that line is because every situation is different.

[QUOTE=TheTechnician;6185151]

The real mistake and lesson here is don't be too kind or accommodating to these women. This is supposed to be a business transaction. They're not our friends. You have to put your foot down and tell them how it's going to be, or don't do business with them. That doesn't mean to disrespect them. It just means you're going to be treated how they perceive you. Either as a friend, a simp or a true client.[/QUOTE]I So wanted to see Bosslady, having missed a few ops over the last 2 years, but DEF won't. This one is doomed. ,. ,. ,. has a VERY similar feel to the 'wind-down' of Mia, who turned up OD in storage unit.

A lot of us have made the same mistake--personal shuttling. Learn from it and NEVER do it again. The commentary about your time (and gas) is worth something is SPOT ON, but consider the other possibilities. If she climbs in your car and is carrying, and you get stopped, its trouble. If you take her to a house to 'get clothes' and she's scoring dope and gets pinched as she gets back in your car, you got BIG trouble.

Not only will I never again take one anywhere, I won't even accommodate a request "Hey, can you pick me up _ _ (cigs, beer, liquor, etc--espec NOT condoms) on your way over?

Don't be her personal shopper or her personal driver. (EVEN if she's paying gas or discounting).

F1.

[QUOTE=Feckless;6188441]I So wanted to see Bosslady, having missed a few ops over the last 2 years, but DEF won't. This one is doomed. ,. ,. ,. has a VERY similar feel to the 'wind-down' of Mia, who turned up OD in storage unit.

A lot of us have made the same mistake--personal shuttling. Learn from it and NEVER do it again. The commentary about your time (and gas) is worth something is SPOT ON, but consider the other possibilities. If she climbs in your car and is carrying, and you get stopped, its trouble. If you take her to a house to 'get clothes' and she's scoring dope and gets pinched as she gets back in your car, you got BIG trouble.

Not only will I never again take one anywhere, I won't even accommodate a request "Hey, can you pick me up _ _ (cigs, beer, liquor, etc--espec NOT condoms) on your way over?

Don't be her personal shopper or her personal driver. (EVEN if she's paying gas or discounting).

F1.[/QUOTE]These are some of the most profound words you will find anywhere on any board. Ignore the cautions here at your own peril.

This post should be pinned to the very top.

Hope no one was planning on trick-or-treating with this one tonight. She caught some charges today in Sebastian so she in charm school at the moment. Don't be texting her LOL.

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[QUOTE=TruePair;6194894]Hope no one was planning on trick-or-treating with this one tonight. She caught some charges today in Sebastian so she in charm school at the moment. Don't be texting her LOL.

[URL]https://vero-beach.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/like-it-ruff-with-a-side-of-re/021852189624[/URL][/QUOTE]Gee, why am I not surprised? I tried warning all you guys in Brevard and Indian River that she's bad news! My favorite expression to describe her was "heroin chic"! Completely accurate!

[QUOTE=Willie24;6195351]Gee, why am I not surprised? I tried warning all you guys in Brevard and Indian River that she's bad news! My favorite expression to describe her was "heroin chic"! Completely accurate![/QUOTE]Glad I dodged that bullet thanks to you Willie!

[QUOTE=HardHat69;6195684]Glad I dodged that bullet thanks to you Willie![/QUOTE]BTW, I just read the arrest report from Sebastian News website. She was charged with possession, leaving the scene of a crash that she caused, driving without a license, etc etc! A real model citizen! My one visit with her was a disaster and I left after about twenty minutes! I did warn the mongers in Indian River. I'm sure that she won't be posting for quite awhile!