Hard to get girls to dance
This has been the biggest complaint people have in any strip club. When you see something nice, they are always sitting with somebody else and usually wont come over. You will find this at most strip clubs in Atlanta. I met a very nice looking girl at the Pink Pony and I ask her to dance. She said she will come over the next song (she was sitting alone). Then 2 guys with jackets and ties asked her. She walked over with them and danced for them instead. They only gave her one dance (maybe because she has bad attitude to them too). She never walked to my table. She went to the bar and sit by herself and talk to some of the other girls. She never came back. I thought she was beautiful and I would have give her 6-10 dances if her dance was good. Pls note that the club was quit empty.
When I go to a club that I know, I usually have a number of girls sitting with me as I have known them some time. Not that I give them too much money. Usually when the girls sit with some customers, the other guy feels they are more desirable. I have girls come sit on my table and it wont be long somebody would ask them for a dance. Some girls just prefer to sit on my table instead of making money. Sometimes I tell them to go dance and make some money, most times they prefer to sit, have a drink and BS with me. A lot of times the customers are very angry. I do feel for the guys, because this is a chronic problem for Atlanta or Las Vegas club. Girls would rather stay with their regulars.
I think this problem will go away if there is a depression.
Getting dances from girls
Strippers reject men for several reasons:
1) You seem creepy. If you look, smell, sound, or act funny, sometimes this triggers the girl to deem you unfit for her time
2) Money. She assesss her ability to make money off you vs the opportunity cost of someone else and decides to partake elsewhere.
3) Regulars. Anxiety, conditioned income, and friendships are at hand here. With a regular, the girl knows what to expect. With you, they don't. The ones with anxiety are going to stick to their regulars if available.
4) She's interested in you. Not very common, but I have experienced it before. If the girl is genuinely interested in you but has other issues, she may avoid you till those issues are resolved.
5) She's drunk, tired, or upset and doesn't want to work. Enough said
6) She forgot. It does happen, so remind her.
7) Someone is paying her to talk to them. Yes, just because she's not dancing for him doesn't mean he's slipping her money at some point
8) She's more interested in someone else NOT because of the money factor. I've met quite a few girls who used a strip club to find their next provider.
9) She doesn't want to make someone else jealous (customer, girl, boyfriend on premise). Are you someone else's regular? Are you currently sitting with another girl?
10) Have you been tipping girls or getting dances? Some girls watch this and make decisions based on observed activity at the club.
11) You're not drinking alcohol or don't seem intoxicated
12) You look too young. Yes, if you look under 30 some girls won't talk to you. They feel like if you're under 30-40 years old, you're looking for a girlfriend and they don't like being hassled.
Also, remember, a very high percentage of these strippers have anxiety of some sort. Maybe you trigger their anxiety.
All you can do is let the girl know you are interested either through asking her directly, tipping her, or sending over a waitress/another dancer to remind her. Don't be overbearing and if they are worth your time, let them know you mean business. Tipping a messenger works well.
Don't be offended if a girl doesn't dance for you. It may be irritating and guys are used to getting what they want when you flash money around, but not all girls are there for money.
