Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[QUOTE=Cincyfunguy; 1664254]Why is it that people discuss these things, personal arguments, disagreements, airing of personal laundry and such, in a public forum? What ever happened to, if ya have a problem with someone, face to face discussion, or picking up the fricken phone and discussing it? Is it just me, or has the art and ability to have a "real" conversation been replaced with the need to be "heard" by the world? Are we really that lonely? Have we forgotten what "real" communication is all about? Sorry, no offense to anyone intended, just my rant in hopes that we all think about it.

CFG[/QUOTE]Well not sure what Ally was trying to prove with her post. But I thought it was uncalled for for her to flame B in the open. And for what he PM some fellow members about how she runs her business. There has to be more to it the that. But I agree ally should have kept in private as B did. You did not see B getting on the boards flamming ally. But I have taken this to pm as long as it stays there.

I heard from three different providers that there is a gentleman (and I use that word very loosely) that is on the hunt for bareback full service. I won't name the gent, since it is hearsay at the moment, but he is a senior member.

I don't usually lecture folks on what they do in the hobby. I have always thought personal preference is a personal preference and WALDT is a concept we should all follow, however, bareback is where I draw the line, because it impacts all of us in the hobby. Being a guy that loves DATY, I don't ever want a creampie surprise, but it goes beyond that.

This isn't just about preference, it is about safety. Hopefully I don't have to provide the medical facts about just how reckless such behavior is. The three ladies told me they all declined. Sadly one of them said this dude became rough and profane when she showed him the door.

Ladies, I appreciate how you have to be careful, discreet, and watch just who and what you accuse people of. If this guy visits you and pulls his manipulation tricks, or gets physical with you, please understand that there are men on this board that you can trust and if you would like, we can form a posse and show this gentleman the error of his ways and if he doesn't listen to the voice of reason, there is always a good old fashioned military soap party.

I hope the gent in question is reading this.

Dude, cover up. If you want to practice bareback, get married, stay monogamous, and don't endanger the lives of the hobby community.

I completely think it is out of be character to pass such slander around I'm sure he has better things to do then trash just one person he has been a very good support to me since my incident and I'm very grateful to him for listening to me when I needed to vent.

[QUOTE=PhatDaty; 1666750]I heard from three different providers that there is a gentleman (and I use that word very loosely) that is on the hunt for bareback full service. I won't name the gent, since it is hearsay at the moment, but he is a senior member.

I don't usually lecture folks on what they do in the hobby. I have always thought personal preference is a personal preference and WALDT is a concept we should all follow, however, bareback is where I draw the line, because it impacts all of us in the hobby. Being a guy that loves DATY, I don't ever want a creampie surprise, but it goes beyond that.

This isn't just about preference, it is about safety. Hopefully I don't have to provide the medical facts about just how reckless such behavior is. The three ladies told me they all declined. Sadly one of them said this dude became rough and profane when she showed him the door.

Ladies, I appreciate how you have to be careful, discreet, and watch just who and what you accuse people of. If this guy visits you and pulls his manipulation tricks, or gets physical with you, please understand that there are men on this board that you can trust and if you would like, we can form a posse and show this gentleman the error of his ways and if he doesn't listen to the voice of reason, there is always a good old fashioned military soap party.

I hope the gent in question is reading this.

Dude, cover up. If you want to practice bareback, get married, stay monogamous, and don't endanger the lives of the hobby community.[/QUOTE]Amen to all of that!

For the love of everything:

If you make an appointment at 2, please be here (if you're doing outcall) before 2:10.

If you can't make it, just apologize and say,"Maybe next time," and I'd have no issues with it.

Blowing my burner up because you're an hour+ late and I'm not answering a door (that I'm not even at, mind you. I left when you were 30 minutes late and not responding to my texts / calls) just makes me turn the damn thing off and adding your number to the "Do not answer ever" entry in that phone's address book.

Hell, if anyone realizes that shit happens, it's me. Fuck, I've been late for my own appointments before, but, I've always called, apologized, given them an opportunity to cancel with no hard feelings, and then tip well for being someone who wasn't mindful of their time. If you're not going to show me even a bit of the same courtesy that I show everyone else, then you're not worth my time, or my money.

That is all.

[QUOTE=PhatDaty; 1666750]I heard from three different providers that there is a gentleman (and I use that word very loosely) that is on the hunt for bareback full service. I won't name the gent, since it is hearsay at the moment, but he is a senior member.

I don't usually lecture folks on what they do in the hobby. I have always thought personal preference is a personal preference and WALDT is a concept we should all follow, however, bareback is where I draw the line, because it impacts all of us in the hobby. Being a guy that loves DATY, I don't ever want a creampie surprise, but it goes beyond that.

This isn't just about preference, it is about safety. Hopefully I don't have to provide the medical facts about just how reckless such behavior is. The three ladies told me they all declined. Sadly one of them said this dude became rough and profane when she showed him the door.

Ladies, I appreciate how you have to be careful, discreet, and watch just who and what you accuse people of. If this guy visits you and pulls his manipulation tricks, or gets physical with you, please understand that there are men on this board that you can trust and if you would like, we can form a posse and show this gentleman the error of his ways and if he doesn't listen to the voice of reason, there is always a good old fashioned military soap party.

I hope the gent in question is reading this.

Dude, cover up. If you want to practice bareback, get married, stay monogamous, and don't endanger the lives of the hobby community.[/QUOTE]Amen to this!

Just wanted to thank you all, as I am new to USA and new to the hobby I have learned alot from your posts. I have been able to see a few of the young ladies and will write a post when I feel a little more comfortable. Thanks to all for the information.

Leftygolfer

[QUOTE=MollyDaniels; 1656110]UGH! I am so sick and tired of all the drug addicts that do not check references nor return my requests for checks.

With a sexual predator on the loose, why do these girls not respond / act like they don't know what I'm talking about?

Are there any providers that keep track and provide references? I know that Silk, Chrissee, and Ally do, but is there anyone else? Please help me out girls.[/quote]I don't know about everyone, but there has to be more than just me, I'm licensed a few yrs but in salon, advertised only this yr so a lot is new to me. The very first month I took BP or CL list clients a lot of them would text me saying hello here are my references, plse check them quickly as I'd like to get in. I was really nervous calling an texting any of these girls, I didn't even kno what I was cross checking? Also as soon as my reviews hit, I got a ton of really nasty texts an emails calling me names. So the last thing I wanted to do was call some of those same girls an ask anything! So I didn't. I just followed a strict thing given to me from clients who are educated personally on what a cop has to get you to do or say " not that I needed it, I don't do anything." it didn't help with the crazies though. Then last month I got a great surprise. I was texted by Rhonda. She was polite an needing a reference on a client. I was scared to answer because it was sooo well set in my head from clients to never ever ever mention anything from sessions to anyone else period!

I didn't want to give anything personal out on my private clients, in my head these are my babies! They trust me! So I called the client first. I said Rhonda was asking things, is it ok to answer that. An one right after another said, yea sure, oh yea that's fine, yep please do tell her what ever she asks, yes an thank you Christina! So now, I may not call every single client Frst now, but maybe those other girls don't know if their allowed? Also it's hard to give reff on some clients, they don't like you keeping their info at all. Just my food for thought an now that you have be out the importance to everyone's attention, hopefully it will change, if I'd a seen something like this, I would of coropperated sooner.

So, seriously, I think I really need to read the urban dictionary ([url]www.urbandictionary.com[/url]) from start to finish.

As you may know, I am a snowboarder, and I have been using the term 'snowbunny' quite frequently to describe myself. I even got a little jealous when I saw other girls using it. But, anyway, ladies and gents, here's the word of the day.

.[b]SNOWBUNNY[/b].

Hot white girls who like black guys.

A female prostitute addicted to snorting cocaine.

And various other derogatory definitions. CRAP! I feel like an idiot-haha-laugh at me.

Anyway, luckily some nice hobbyiest on the east coast pointed out the definition for me.

Hope this gives someone a laugh today.

Kisses,

Molly Mae

The kicker was the pm that I got asking me if I only saw african american men (before I learned the definition of 'snowbunny') or white men as well.

I was like, WTH? I don't post that I don't see black men, but I was wondering why they would think I ONLY saw black men.

Yeah, it was hilarious-I am the first one to laugh at me haha.

Just goes to show you that you can learn a bunch of never-needed information from this hobby haha. Like when I was asked about watersports, and I replied, yeah, I like water-skiing!

[QUOTE=MollyDaniels; 1684037]So, seriously, I think I really need to read the urban dictionary (

[url]www.urbandictionary.com[/url]

) from start to finish.

As you may know, I am a snowboarder, and I have been using the term 'snowbunny' quite frequently to describe myself. I even got a little jealous when I saw other girls using it. But, anyway, ladies and gents, here's the word of the day.

[b]SNOWBUNNY[/b].

Hot white girls who like black guys.

A female prostitute addicted to snorting cocaine.[/QUOTE]I can see the second one. But the first? I don't see how that correlates to snow bunny. Usually I can make sense of Urban Dictionary, but that one's a bit off to me.

[QUOTE=MollyDaniels; 1684037][b]SNOWBUNNY[/b].

Hot white girls who like black guys.

A female prostitute addicted to snorting cocaine.

And various other derogatory definitions. CRAP! I feel like an idiot-haha-laugh at me.

Anyway, luckily some nice hobbyiest on the east coast pointed out the definition for me.[/QUOTE]Well, it made me snicker a little. I can remember in the '80s, some black men referring to hot white girls as "snow", if not with the rodent appellation.

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