Adding my two cents in here
[QUOTE=BriefBanana;6983754]Comms were actually pretty good, started yesterday to set up for this morn. This morn, late start to meet but still good comms. While on the way, a favor was requested but not out of the way so a quick stop. First of many flags: wrong location. Was sent to where it's younger and not as someone who mention recently at new location down the road, not a major inconvenience, apologies wer4 sent, on the way towards new spot. Flag no2, the paranoia, I get it, some have it, some don't but the amount of questions for the are you a so so, gets old quick with the repeats. Decided to ask for pics and that's was a no from me. Was about to leave when we had a compromise to verify differently which kinda worked out. Flag no3, surprise power outage at incall, so she came inside my car where I asked for a car date. Seemed reasonable, but there was an adamant no citing bad experiences and I was not excited for hotness in the dark which comes to Flag no4. She tried to make a plea for back inside, mind you haven't gone in yet, just in my car. She says girl roommate and her bf just came back before I did.[/QUOTE]Services offered are a high enough, on a dollar per hour basis, that a request for "complete privacy" should 100% be granted.
If either party is concerned about safety, a neutral meeting place should be arranged (read as "get your ass to a Hilton or something" It's enough money being transferred that those costs can be covered and she can still make more than 90%+ of people in this city (on a $ per hour basis).
I've done business with a handful of gals with another party present in the bathroom / apartment. But, I've seen the gal enough to have been able to make the judgment call that no slick shit was going to pop off. I would never knowingly see someone with another person in the bathroom / apartment without having made that judgement call, Especially not the first time seeing her. Even if the other person there is a woman. It doesn't take much strength to apply the force needed to pull a trigger, any grown woman should have it.
Until I get the vibe that my safety ain't at risk, her friends boyfriend, her friend, whoever, can go drive down the block and get a happy meal.
If she don't like it, and won't meet me somewhere neutral, I'll see someone else. If they all start acting that way, I'll just go back to bottom feeding on Tinder. At least then any risk I take comes free of charge.
Be smart gentlemen. Good call BriefBanana.