Has anyone else seen a big drop off in their hit rate? It seems like all of a sudden no one is reading or responding to any of my messages at all. I used to be able to connect with a couple real folks a week but right now it's crickets.
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Has anyone else seen a big drop off in their hit rate? It seems like all of a sudden no one is reading or responding to any of my messages at all. I used to be able to connect with a couple real folks a week but right now it's crickets.
[QUOTE=Eblan;6956821][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/69aa9232-2681-4882-ba9e-3be4674da37c[/URL]
Curious if anyone has met this duo before, Coms are good but wasn't sure if they were legit. Looks like they have individual profiles too.[/QUOTE]They quoted me 1500! That's way outside my range. What did they quote you?
[QUOTE=Bran2025;6956463]Unusual for SA -- her profile says she "escorts. " Her pics don't look like escort ad pics. Does she actually escort around here?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/84bf2ef5-cfbf-4f44-a4df-2763f2827038[/URL][/QUOTE]I'm not seeing anyone in particular on SA right now. So I messaged the girl you mentioned and it was fast and easy to get a reply with her number and I checked other sites if anything pops up on her. Found her on STG' not good, and on Secret Benefit under SweetSamantha. The video verification of her stop me on the track right away. She looks like a guy. Shit!
So I reupped with 25% discount and have been messaging with lovelykitt. She seems real but hesitant to meet. I'm wondering if I should continue. Has anyone had any success with her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/012eb1de-83f9-46cf-bdbf-62503dfeaf9e[/URL]
[QUOTE=Javazer;6959926]I'm not seeing anyone in particular on SA right now. So I messaged the girl you mentioned and it was fast and easy to get a reply with her number and I checked other sites if anything pops up on her. Found her on STG' not good, and on Secret Benefit under SweetSamantha. The video verification of her stop me on the track right away. She looks like a guy. Shit![/QUOTE]I don't think she is a guy, but she is definitely a little worn.
When someone says she wants to be discreet and doesn't want to meet in public until she is comfortable, I know it's a red flag. Do you completely drop the idea of meeting or proceed cautiously? I usually don't go ahead with those profiles but thought I'd get other opinions. Have you had any positive experiences meeting someone who insisted on being discreet?
[QUOTE=FriendlyKing;6961045]When someone says she wants to be discreet and doesn't want to meet in public until she is comfortable, I know it's a red flag. Do you completely drop the idea of meeting or proceed cautiously? I usually don't go ahead with those profiles but thought I'd get other opinions. Have you had any positive experiences meeting someone who insisted on being discreet?[/QUOTE]As with almost everything on SA, or communication in general, there is really no one rule of thumb for this. Yes, I've had positive experiences with people who us the word discreet in their profile.
Wants money only virtually and to send it before hand. Got to the bottom of it within 5 minutes thankfully.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/24459596-0de3-47e0-b6f5-adf43745121c[/URL]
[QUOTE=Spill;6961068]people who us the word discreet in their profile.[/QUOTE]I'm not referring to the term 'discreet' mentioned in their profile. I'm talking about women who prefer not to meet in public and want to go directly to the hotel.
Seems legit but no car and can't host so logistics were just too much for me.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e3d00e9e-4887-453d-b285-6670222ad030[/URL]
[QUOTE=FriendlyKing;6961045]When someone says she wants to be discreet and doesn't want to meet in public until she is comfortable, I know it's a red flag. Do you completely drop the idea of meeting or proceed cautiously? I usually don't go ahead with those profiles but thought I'd get other opinions. Have you had any positive experiences meeting someone who insisted on being discreet?[/QUOTE]I think at this point you need to view "discreet" in the context of their profile. I've chatted with a couple of "frustrated" wives who need a bit of discretion. Some of these want the attention behind the doors and what I consider a minor gift (dinner drinks / take them out to buy clothes etc). Rare but they are out there.
Others use "discreet" as more of an advertisting term, aka their a pro or at least semi-pro. They start falling more into the GPS category, and I tend to avoid.
My key words at which I start to lose interest are things like WhatsApp, Telegram or when they want to text in the first couple of messages. I'm going with that anyone using Whatsapp or Telegram is overseas, and they are tricking the SA login location with a VPN. I'd be interested in anyone else thoughts on this.
[QUOTE=IOnDaStreet;6961758]I think at this point you need to view "discreet" in the context of their profile. I've chatted with a couple of "frustrated" wives who need a bit of discretion. Some of these want the attention behind the doors and what I consider a minor gift (dinner drinks / take them out to buy clothes etc). Rare but they are out there.
Others use "discreet" as more of an advertisting term, aka their a pro or at least semi-pro. They start falling more into the GPS category, and I tend to avoid.
My key words at which I start to lose interest are things like WhatsApp, Telegram or when they want to text in the first couple of messages. I'm going with that anyone using Whatsapp or Telegram is overseas, and they are tricking the SA login location with a VPN. I'd be interested in anyone else thoughts on this.[/QUOTE]I agree with you about whatsapp. Under no circumstances will I ever give my whatsapp to anyone on tinder or seeking because it traces back to your phone and you can not (or at least I have not found a way to use it with a textnow or googlevoice account. I get enough spam texts from beautiful asian girls playing the long crypto con and I haven't given out my real number in years. Disagree with you big time on Telegram. Its an amazing app that you basically have two distinct uses. If you are chatting with someone on seeking you can just give them your at username and they can not figure out your identity or phone number. You can set automatic disappearing messages or delete the whole chat on both phones without the other users consent. Case in point I was chatting with this girl and I let my guard down and gave her my address for a session because I totally thought she was authentic, but she asked me for 75 for some bullshit before the appointment. Without any discussion I deleted the chat for both of us so she no longer had my address. (usually I meet at a dunkies a block from my house and drive with them to my house).
As far as discretion goes some of the girls I have had long term success with are college girls that like to maybe grab a meal but also they don't want anyone around their campus or their families to see them with a guy in his 50's. I have no Significant other and my friends all know I love young girls and ****** so discretion isn't something I really need except from my neighbors. I would imagine that married guys value discretion so I don't think you can generalize with that word.
If all their pics are model pics I won't bother. If its a new profile I am wary but will connect if I think its legit and have them send me a video or a picture saying my name or something.
Just my three cents.
[QUOTE=Rome400;6961921]I agree with you about whatsapp. Under no circumstances will I ever give my whatsapp to anyone on tinder or seeking because it traces back to your phone and you can not (or at least I have not found a way to use it with a textnow or googlevoice account. I get enough spam texts from beautiful asian girls playing the long crypto con and I haven't given out my real number in years. Disagree with you big time on Telegram. Its an amazing app that you basically have two distinct uses. If you are chatting with someone on seeking you can just give them your at username and they can not figure out your identity or phone number. You can set automatic disappearing messages or delete the whole chat on both phones without the other users consent. Case in point I was chatting with this girl and I let my guard down and gave her my address for a session because I totally thought she was authentic, but she asked me for 75 for some bullshit before the appointment. Without any discussion I deleted the chat for both of us so she no longer had my address. (usually I meet at a dunkies a block from my house and drive with them to my house).
As far as discretion goes some of the girls I have had long term success with are college girls that like to maybe grab a meal but also they don't want anyone around their campus or their families to see them with a guy in his 50's. I have no Significant other and my friends all know I love young girls and ****** so discretion isn't something I really need except from my neighbors. I would imagine that married guys value discretion so I don't think you can generalize with that word..[/QUOTE]I agree with all of this.
What'sApp is a solid no-go for me. If I'm asked to use it I always say "I only use it for business. " 100% of the asks to use WhatsApp have come from what I'm pretty sure are ex-US scammers.
Telegram however is somewhat commonly used by legit SB's and it's a very good app.
I certainly appreciate that some girls want to be "discreet" and not be seen with an older guy in their neighborhood / by their friends. But the ones who will ONLY meet behind closed doors and are "scared" of even meeting in a hotel lobby. . . Those I assume are up to no good and aim to rob me or worse. If a girl won't meet me in a public place at least to chat for 10 minutes before getting a room, it's a total non-starter for me.
Have been talking to this chick. Seems real. Anyone had any experience with her by any chance?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f681d4cd-ff8f-4e06-87db-82f64efcf0d7[/URL]
[QUOTE=Bran2025;6962246]I agree with all of this.
What'sApp is a solid no-go for me. If I'm asked to use it I always say "I only use it for business. " 100% of the asks to use WhatsApp have come from what I'm pretty sure are ex-US scammers.
Telegram however is somewhat commonly used by legit SB's and it's a very good app.
I certainly appreciate that some girls want to be "discreet" and not be seen with an older guy in their neighborhood / by their friends. But the ones who will ONLY meet behind closed doors and are "scared" of even meeting in a hotel lobby. . . Those I assume are up to no good and aim to rob me or worse. If a girl won't meet me in a public place at least to chat for 10 minutes before getting a room, it's a total non-starter for me.[/QUOTE]Can pay for a free trial on a phone app number to connect it to WhatsApp then discontinue the trial to not pay for the app number service. I have Android so I'm able to duplicate my apps to be able to log into one account and on the copy app to another. That way my real number WhatsApp is still up and running with my monger one as well. Mainly use WhatsApp in South American countries when I sex travel but there are a few SB in the MA / RI area who use it and I've communicated with. Didn't know about telegram being able to just send your user name but also been askd to communicate on that. Regardless of the commutation platform I always do a video call. Snapchat, WhatsApp, SA or Face Time as now iphone users can send a link to connect a Android users to the FaceTime channel. Definitely saves time and money when you can see them and if they look like their pictures. When they don't want to then that's the red flag that stops everything for me.
This is my first time using seeking in the US. Got VIP primarily for my end of the month trip to the Cape.
Anyone had any experience with this chick? [URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/acbefe53-f66b-4034-99ae-8b7e16e560e3[/URL].
I'm texting with her. She seems real. It seems like we're going in the right direction but something makes me wonder. Anyone knows what I'm dealing with here?
Also this: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/85c44ec8-8d1c-47e0-82dc-650f714c8c0e[/URL].
[QUOTE=Bran2025;6962246]I agree with all of this.
What'sApp is a solid no-go for me. If I'm asked to use it I always say "I only use it for business. " 100% of the asks to use WhatsApp have come from what I'm pretty sure are ex-US scammers.
Telegram however is somewhat commonly used by legit SB's and it's a very good app.
I certainly appreciate that some girls want to be "discreet" and not be seen with an older guy in their neighborhood / by their friends. But the ones who will ONLY meet behind closed doors and are "scared" of even meeting in a hotel lobby. . . Those I assume are up to no good and aim to rob me or worse. If a girl won't meet me in a public place at least to chat for 10 minutes before getting a room, it's a total non-starter for me.[/QUOTE]I know our phones listen and pick up things we search or write for marketing but didn't know SB's were too! Hahaha I'm pulling the trigger though gents wish me luck 😬!
[QUOTE=EmvLa;6963069]I know our phones listen and pick up things we search or write for marketing but didn't know SB's were too! Hahaha I'm pulling the trigger though gents wish me luck![/QUOTE]LOL. If it were me I would push and push to see how discreet a 'public' meetup they might agree to. The one I was talking to here in the Boston area wanted to meet in a hotel room, but would not even agree to say hi in the lobby first. I pushed it to "let's just meet at the elevator and ride up together" and she claimed she was not comfortable with that. Her (bad) intentions were clear.
[QUOTE=EmvLa;6962882]Can pay for a free trial on a phone app number to connect it to WhatsApp then discontinue the trial to not pay for the app number service. I have Android so I'm able to duplicate my apps to be able to log into one account and on the copy app to another. That way my real number WhatsApp is still up and running with my monger one as well. Mainly use WhatsApp in South American countries when I sex travel but there are a few SB in the MA / RI area who use it and I've communicated with. Didn't know about telegram being able to just send your user name but also been askd to communicate on that. Regardless of the commutation platform I always do a video call. Snapchat, WhatsApp, SA or Face Time as now iphone users can send a link to connect a Android users to the FaceTime channel. Definitely saves time and money when you can see them and if they look like their pictures. When they don't want to then that's the red flag that stops everything for me.[/QUOTE]I've never tried but is there a way to FaceTime where they don't see your real contact info?
[QUOTE=Bran2025;6963160]LOL. If it were me I would push and push to see how discreet a 'public' meetup they might agree to. The one I was talking to here in the Boston area wanted to meet in a hotel room, but would not even agree to say hi in the lobby first. I pushed it to "let's just meet at the elevator and ride up together" and she claimed she was not comfortable with that. Her (bad) intentions were clear.[/QUOTE]Push for the video call. I mean I've seen escorts before without doing that and knocking hoping when they open it as they're behind the door they look like their pictures and not a set up haha. I'm still young and fit my monger standards so not worried to get into a tussle, always carry a "tool" to fight dirty just incase. Luckily never have needed it so knock on my hard wood hahah I don't need to in the future. If she doesn't do a video call however than it's all to shambles.
[QUOTE=Bran2025;6963161]I've never tried but is there a way to FaceTime where they don't see your real contact info?[/QUOTE]I don't know. Try it with some of your friends or hell me if you want. I clicked a link to her Face Time room or whatever it's called but don't remember if I wrote my name in there or saw her name or number. I'll ask her actually come to think of it.
[QUOTE=Bran2025;6963161]I've never tried but is there a way to FaceTime where they don't see your real contact info?[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/iphone/comments/8n7wow/is_there_anyway_to_set_up_a_facetime_that_wont/[/URL]
[QUOTE=Nrlmus;6962657]Have been talking to this chick. Seems real. Anyone had any experience with her by any chance?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f681d4cd-ff8f-4e06-87db-82f64efcf0d7[/URL][/QUOTE]I've texted on and off with her, I have not been able to see her. My experiences, She seems sincere, not too pushy at all. Actually sent me a follow-up messages as we had lost connection but I have sensed a good vibe.
Jolene is on "vacation". Not sure how long. Initial experience, not as well. She contacted and wanted to meet that day. I wasn't available and definitely felt like I got an attitude with her. I asked about a different day. Just reread the message and it was a hard nope, I'm on vacation. She has reached out to me since but the initial attitude, I don't feel like dealing with a princess.
[QUOTE=IOnDaStreet;6964722]I've texted on and off with her, I have not been able to see her. My experiences, She seems sincere, not too pushy at all. Actually sent me a follow-up messages as we had lost connection but I have sensed a good vibe.
Jolene is on "vacation". Not sure how long. Initial experience, not as well. She contacted and wanted to meet that day. I wasn't available and definitely felt like I got an attitude with her. I asked about a different day. Just reread the message and it was a hard nope, I'm on vacation. She has reached out to me since but the initial attitude, I don't feel like dealing with a princess.[/QUOTE]Thank you for your response. I haven't contacted Jolene yet and am not sure if I will but I get the same vibe from the babygirl.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4a56e1ff-5a13-4a40-ae17-26df3980a624[/URL]
[QUOTE=BaySide511;6965531][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4a56e1ff-5a13-4a40-ae17-26df3980a624[/URL][/QUOTE]The profile says, "Someone that can provide a mutual companionship. " That's not language (including the grammar) that a "white Caucasian" student would use.
The grammar / slightly off English usage is a pretty good sign that a profile is scam / fake / etc.
I've been pretty down on the site in the past because of the spamming with messages they want you to pay to unlock. But I see a ton of profiles there that don't seem to be on SA. . . So I'm giving it a try.
I'm focusing a lot more this time on the MILF types than the college student types. We'll see if I get my $200 worth out of the credits I bought.
[QUOTE=FriendlyKing;6961045]When someone says she wants to be discreet and doesn't want to meet in public until she is comfortable, I know it's a red flag. Do you completely drop the idea of meeting or proceed cautiously? I usually don't go ahead with those profiles but thought I'd get other opinions. Have you had any positive experiences meeting someone who insisted on being discreet?[/QUOTE]Only a small number of the total women I've fucked from SA have actually wanted to meet in public first. Of that portion, only 2 didn't fuck immediately after, and of those 2 only 1 didn't result in me getting laid at some point in the future, but that's because I bailed.
[QUOTE=Nrlmus;6963045]This is my first time using seeking in the US. Got VIP primarily for my end of the month trip to the Cape.
Anyone had any experience with this chick? [URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/acbefe53-f66b-4034-99ae-8b7e16e560e3[/URL].
I'm texting with her. She seems real. It seems like we're going in the right direction but something makes me wonder. Anyone knows what I'm dealing with here?
Also this: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/85c44ec8-8d1c-47e0-82dc-650f714c8c0e[/URL].[/QUOTE]Both of these links are directly to your messages.
[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6968534]Both of these links are directly to your messages.[/QUOTE]Yep, you're right. Can't undo it now, can I LOL.
[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6968531]Only a small number of the total women I've fucked from SA have actually wanted to meet in public first. Of that portion, only 2 didn't fuck immediately after, and of those 2 only 1 didn't result in me getting laid at some point in the future, but that's because I bailed.[/QUOTE]Interesting! It seems we all have our preferences, different strokes for different folks. Personally, I avoid anyone who prefers not to meet in public. My ideal target might differ from yours; I primarily seek out graduates but sometimes consider others outside that criterion. The selection is limited, but it's very rewarding when I find the right one.
[QUOTE=Nrlmus;6968571]Yep, you're right. Can't undo it now, can I LOL.[/QUOTE]No one but you can see your messages.
What you can do is post links to their profiles.
[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6968531]Only a small number of the total women I've fucked from SA have actually wanted to meet in public first. Of that portion, only 2 didn't fuck immediately after, and of those 2 only 1 didn't result in me getting laid at some point in the future, but that's because I bailed.[/QUOTE]This is my experience as well. I know some like the chase. I prefer to skip that and never meet and greetss.
Has anyone met: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/26beee27-2094-45ef-b44b-6328a25ddbbd[/URL]#.
I haven't taken the plunge yet to buy the membership.
Looking for information before I do.
Mike.
[QUOTE=MikeJL;6969313]Has anyone met: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/26beee27-2094-45ef-b44b-6328a25ddbbd[/URL]#.
I haven't taken the plunge yet to buy the membership.
Looking for information before I do.
Mike.[/QUOTE]Out of all the woman on that site to choose from, your buying a membership for that?
[QUOTE=MikeJL;6969313]Has anyone met: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/26beee27-2094-45ef-b44b-6328a25ddbbd[/URL]#.
I haven't taken the plunge yet to buy the membership.
Looking for information before I do.
Mike.[/QUOTE]That girl hasn't logged into SA in 11 months, so I wouldn't count on getting a response.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9e40ee9b-beae-4c87-a9de-1e8e7e52eb56[/URL]
My gut says fake but I want to believe LOL.
Has anyone seen this one.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a824d81e-b478-4bf3-ad2c-e28cd94a0f7b[/URL]
[QUOTE=Bran2025;6969914][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9e40ee9b-beae-4c87-a9de-1e8e7e52eb56[/URL]
My gut says fake but I want to believe LOL.[/QUOTE]I think fake for sure. This sentence sounds fake how they mention long term and throw casual out there as well "for long term or I just need for casual, connection and chemistry". Also the fact that they checked off that they are seeking "True Love" and that they have completed any of the verification options.
Any intel on this one? We chatted but kept telling me to venmo her. Boston area.