Sugarbabies?

First time going premium with SA.

Talking up Alexia.

She's asking how much to meet and just wondering how this should safely proceed.

Thanks Vinny.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e172633a-5cf5-4917-87ab-d23462cce88c[/URL]

[QUOTE=Vinlmp;4272328]First time going premium with SA.

Talking up Alexia.

She's asking how much to meet and just wondering how this should safely proceed.

Thanks Vinny.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e172633a-5cf5-4917-87ab-d23462cce88c[/URL][/QUOTE]You can talk about her needs and what she wants, but I don't talk about about support until the MnG.

[QUOTE=Vinlmp;4272328]First time going premium with SA.
Talking up Alexia.
She's asking how much to meet and just wondering how this should safely proceed.
Thanks Vinny.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e172633a-5cf5-4917-87ab-d23462cce88c[/URL][/QUOTE]Go to the Richmond Va Sugarbaby thread and study up. It's all there.

So have this one who wants 200 mng then 250 for meetups. The MNG fee seems high because she could never meet again. Do you wait to pay after MNG or lay it out at beginning?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d958ce52-cf24-4d94-b68f-8123063ef71a[/URL]

This one is in Monroe and her photo looks fake or photoshopped. Just makes one wonder who the fuck you're talking with. Appreciate any intel.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d2fd7ee6-50d6-490d-8a78-f75f1a85254a[/URL]

Thanks Vinny.

With extremely rare exceptions (I think twice in 4 years), I will not pay for a MnG, period. For me, at least, it sets the wrong tone for the kind of relationship I want. I know I've lost lots of dinners with a number of hotties, but I'm pretty sure things would not have evolved to my satisfaction anyway, so I'm OK with that.

A recent exchange with a very attractive SB-2-be with whom there was an immediate rapport illustrates my approach. The following was her response to my initial suggestion for dinner after some fun and engaging PMs, followed by my response to her request for cash.

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SHE: Thank you! Well I always do a first time coffee / quick bite meet up first to see if we even get along, we can discuss terms depending on how that goes. I also request $150 for that because I have met many potential SD's all of but one who have been a complete waste of my time meaning, they are either super weird, are fake from their profile online, or say one thing but mean another. If you're not okay with that then all the best!

ME: I, too, like to meet first to see if there's compatibility since the vast majority of SA women I've met are a complete waste of my time. E. g. , are escorts, don't look like their photos, etc. Literally 99%.

I usually take the girl to dinner because I'm pretty comfortable with people and can have a great conversation with almost anybody. Sometimes I end up investing some good money because we go to nicer restaurants where the meals plus drinks are well over $200. I consider that as my investment in finding the right person.

The bottom line is we're both risking the same thing. Time. But I'm also taking on the additional cost of dinner. I'm in a very different financial place than you so I'm fine with shouldering that. (Plus, my mom taught me that a gentleman always, always pays! LOL).

Given all of this, yes, I'm interested to meet you and learn about you. No, I will not pay for time since, for all of the above reasons, we are both investing. If you're fine with this, let's make a date. We will 100% have a blast. You pick the restaurant. Any in town! If you're not, you're a pretty girl and many men would be willing to pay just to be seen with you. But I'm looking for more than a pretty face and nice body. I'm looking for substance and vitality and growth and fun. A friend. Are you ready for that? .

#0#0#0#.

The result? We are slated to meet after she returns from her upcoming trip abroad. I'm still uncertain if this will happen but there's a decent chance it will in my experience.

As context, there are SBs I just want to meet and fuck and there are SBs with whom I'd like to see if I can get to a different place. This one is the latter. She interests me and I want to see if I can get her to hang out just to hang out, no direct sugar for sugar. Most of the time I don't offer much more than a drink at a local bar as an initial MnG. This one could be worth more so I'm willing to invest more. I know we'll have a great time.

By the time I reach this point in the game, I can get to where I want to go about 10% of the time. That may seem low but what I get out of it is just about perfect. A hottie that actually likes me, that I do fun stuff with, that I fuck and with whom I develop a solid friendship. My current stable of active fun numbers 4, the most I've had at one time. I have an additional 4 with whom I have developed strong, real friendships, some of which have lasted several years.

It takes time and effort but I love the chase and the friendships are very much worth it for me.

[QUOTE=Vinlmp;4275452]So have this one who wants 200 mng then 250 for meetups. The MNG fee seems high because she could never meet again. Do you wait to pay after MNG or lay it out at beginning?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d958ce52-cf24-4d94-b68f-8123063ef71a[/URL]

This one is in Monroe and her photo looks fake or photoshopped. Just makes one wonder who the fuck you're talking with. Appreciate any intel.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d2fd7ee6-50d6-490d-8a78-f75f1a85254a[/URL]

Thanks Vinny.[/QUOTE]

Your first choice Ellie4 u, the Asian, makes her money by doing meet and greets with guys for 150 to 250. Whatever she can get. She says her sister is also on seeking and she won't see people that her sister has seen. She has the personality of a polished doorknob. She does look pretty good and her body is very nice. But will likely block you after she gets your meet and greet money. Can't recommend. It's your choice.

[QUOTE=Vinlmp;4275452]So have this one who wants 200 mng then 250 for meetups. The MNG fee seems high because she could never meet again. Do you wait to pay after MNG or lay it out at beginning?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d958ce52-cf24-4d94-b68f-8123063ef71a[/URL]

This one is in Monroe and her photo looks fake or photoshopped. Just makes one wonder who the fuck you're talking with. Appreciate any intel.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d2fd7ee6-50d6-490d-8a78-f75f1a85254a[/URL]

Thanks Vinny.[/QUOTE]

Talking up this girl and presents 1200 per month for 2 meetings per month for 2 hours each.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0c2e78a9-6878-4497-a30c-57a683281a13[/URL]

Hot as hell but seems pricey?

[QUOTE=Vinlmp;4272328]First time going premium with SA.

Talking up Alexia.

She's asking how much to meet and just wondering how this should safely proceed.

Thanks Vinny.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e172633a-5cf5-4917-87ab-d23462cce88c[/URL][/QUOTE]How did that turn out? She interests me. PM more info Vinny.

[QUOTE=JustACustomer;4276208]How did that turn out? She interests me. PM more info Vinny.[/QUOTE]She never responded back.

[QUOTE=Vinlmp;4276093]Talking up this girl and presents 1200 per month for 2 meetings per month for 2 hours each.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0c2e78a9-6878-4497-a30c-57a683281a13[/URL]

Hot as hell but seems pricey?[/QUOTE]$1200 for 2 x 2 = $300 per hour with the same girl. You decide for yourself if it's worth it. Also, is that 4 hours of hanging out, or 4 hours of hooking up. You could end up with 1 hour of hanging out, 1 hour of sex, twice a month, for $1200.

[QUOTE=Vinlmp;4276093]Talking up this girl and presents 1200 per month for 2 meetings per month for 2 hours each.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0c2e78a9-6878-4497-a30c-57a683281a13[/URL]

Hot as hell but seems pricey?[/QUOTE]I met her very early on in my time on SA.

Thick girl. Solid but thick.

We chatted and had a solid time. I thought we had a connection. I slipped her a gift of cash as I was heading to the restroom and she had bolted by the time I got back.

[QUOTE=DNut;4276473]$1200 for 2 x 2 = $300 per hour with the same girl. You decide for yourself if it's worth it. Also, is that 4 hours of hanging out, or 4 hours of hooking up. You could end up with 1 hour of hanging out, 1 hour of sex, twice a month, for $1200.[/QUOTE]But you need to have multiple meets per week.

If you are taking care of all of their monthly bills, then they should be taking care of you more than twice per month.

Just make sure it's fair.

Filtering through the detritus is tough.

[QUOTE=HerrDoktor;4277124]I met her very early on in my time on SA.

Thick girl. Solid but thick.

We chatted and had a solid time. I thought we had a connection. I slipped her a gift of cash as I was heading to the restroom and she had bolted by the time I got back.[/QUOTE]So sad to hear.

[QUOTE=HerrDoktor;4277132]But you need to have multiple meets per week.

If you are taking care of all of their monthly bills, then they should be taking care of you more than twice per month.

Just make sure it's fair.

Filtering through the detritus is tough.[/QUOTE]Learning the finer points of negotiations.

Are these girls usually providing the place of pleasure or do they come to you??