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		[QUOTE=BadDances;7105683]I am not here to convince people that what I did was right or wrong. I generally never pay the house fee to anyone but the person giving me service, that should be a rule for most hobbyists, which was enough for me to walk out. Anyone in this hobby has probably experienced the "She will be right in" after paying the house fee, and 20 min later, they still have not shown up.
I also have a preference; I have participated in events where I was just part of an assembly line, or you take a number, but that isn't what a massage visit is supposed to be, is it? At least, that is why I chose a massage instead of a brothel.
So, I am going to pause on SXL until there is another flavor of the month or I find another place like it.[/QUOTE]The only thing you said that makes sense is directly paying the girl you wanted to avoid a bait and switch situation. I learned that the hard way and did it in my early monger days, got a switch and tried to get my money back. The momma made a big fuss about it and even tried to grab me by the arm and drag into the room. I stood my ground and got my money back after being cussed out in another language by both the momma and the switched girl. Anyways. I don't know how much of a "buffer zone" you expect from a lady who you know is banging dudes all day to have in between clients. This is not a real life date here LOL maybe you would do better with a massage girl who does outcalls directly to your house, so you can really feel like you're so special LOL.