Friend, been there and done that.
[QUOTE=Noobalicious;3589106] I picked her up a while back when the weather was warm.
Anyway, she doesn't have much skill to speak of, but has the perfect body type for me, let me do what I wanted how I wanted, and was always personable & respectful of my stuff. I'd even see her one Saturday, set a time to pick her up the following Friday (no phone back then), and she'd be there +/- 10 minutes! Yes, I offered her more than going rates, but that's because I didn't want a car date & there was a pretty long drive to the spot I wanted to use. So offering extra was both a way to make up for her missed time & an incentive to be where / when we agreed for the next meet-up.
Everything worked really well! Until.
She started slipping a bit, asking me to drive her to the pharmacist, then drop her off at her spot. She usually wanted me to stop on the way back for her to get something to eat. I had no illusions about the fact she was taking the extra scratch from our time to get meds & food for the deadbeat BF.
Up until now, I'd been plenty comfortable with our arrangements & the money I gave her for her time. She's a nice girl, we had a lot of conversations, and hours later it was still less than a BackPage half-hour. The girl is so much my type I was developing a little crush on her (though I have zero thoughts that I can somehow "save her" and I'm never kid myself about the med status even though I couldn't see it). Being a gentleman, I was catering a little too much to her. After maybe 8-10 meet-ups, she finally chose to abuse it. . .
We stop to pick up meds on the way back (which she acknowledged most wouldn't do because of the risk it put them in).
Moral of the story? I'd had many good times with her, never treated her as anything less than another person deserving respect & largely she behaved accordingly. Although I'd fallen for her a bit, I talked myself back from that by being realistic about her situation & why I ever saw her out there in the first place, as well as thinking through who dude was that I kept seeing hanging around. But eventually the meds and / or the BF gave her the idea that maybe she could get a little bit extra, maybe there was an angle to grab a little bit more to make up for long stretches between our appointments. So she fucked it up like they all will fuck it up, thinking she could make a play while shouldering the burden of the deadbeat BF. Sadly, you get too polite & accommodating, and even the best girl will get to thinking "What if?
So don't fall in love guys, and don't forget for a second the role everyone is playing in the game. If everyone can be nice & satisfied with what they get from the game, so be it. But you're there to get service she probably wouldn't provide if it weren't for her med needs, and she's there trying to get the most money for the least service. The girl may talk shit about her "ex BF" but he's probably got med needs too. And when you go home to your safe, comfortable spot, she's probably out there needing even a scrawny punk to be some nominal security while she waits for the next car to pull over.[/QUOTE]Noob, I've been in the same situation. The girl fucked it up by trying to take advantage of me by asking me to pay her drug debt. Hell no. I really liked this girl and I really tried to work with her to get her to change her life. At one point I was spending $1500 a month on her for medicine / materials and trips to the motels for sex. I tried to get help for her, but she told me that she couldn't get off of drugs. It was "hardwired" in her system to get and take drugs. That was the stupidest thing that I had ever heard. I realized that no matter what, she was not going to change, so I knew that I had to change. Also I found out that I was supporting her habit and her boyfriends habit as well. I slowly stopped seeing her. I miss her but not the emotional rollercoaster, giving her money or the time spent wasted waiting on her like I was her private taxi.
Propilot-Always check your six.
Has any one seen petite BSW Mo?
Its been a few months since I seen her twitch her little ass around the circle area. Usually I would have seen her at least once or twice at minimum with in 2 months. But lately not at al. I know she had a surgery recently, just hoping she has not had any post complications from that.
Can't find favorites Big Booty Nikki and Raynee
Seems like my two favorites have dropped off the map. Big Booty Nikki is no longer posting on BP and Raynee has disappeared on me again. I'm going to try the you-haul area on Wash Blvd. I miss those big booty girls.
Any updated info on these ladies would be appreciated. I want to make a Holiday donation to the ladies.
BK.
