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[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6934182]Sweet Angel has me blocked. Enough said.
This one is another big time dud. Been discussed here before.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/37a5a4bc-818b-4d3f-8ab5-cec24cb99254[/URL][/QUOTE]I'm not a paid member of the site. I don't message girls, I have 1 photo. i just look at what you guys post I'm blocked also.
Women sure have strong agendas.
Any girl that blocks me is surely not my type. Because I don't give them much of a reason to block me. And I also never block anyone. I'd rather be able to see what antics they're up to so I can learn from it and you need to be able to see their profile in order to warn others -- so blocking is pointless.
[QUOTE=MaxWalker86;6934369]I'm not a paid member of the site. I don't message girls, I have 1 photo. i just look at what you guys post I'm blocked also.
Women sure have strong agendas.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6934182]Sweet Angel has me blocked. Enough said.
This one is another big time dud. Been discussed here before.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/37a5a4bc-818b-4d3f-8ab5-cec24cb99254[/URL][/QUOTE]Super dud. Currently like six months pregnant too. Got a lot of her content though but was taken for a ride overall.
[QUOTE=Wockser;6934602]Super dud. Currently like six months pregnant too. Got a lot of her content though but was taken for a ride overall.[/QUOTE]There seems to be a few preggos on the site. Mostly in NH though. And very limited to meet ups. Most want to sell their content. Good damn internet.
I had what I thought was a great beginning conversation, to finally set something up w / this chick. Share had Favorited me, like what I said in my profile.
She seemed interested, however, shut off any form of "sexual conduct", but will be there "emotionally," – will be available to go to dinners and be arm candy.
Typically, I would have moved on. But I started to put one of my new ideas in motion. I'll be explaining this in a later post.
So, I went along & responded what I can offer and what I'm focused on. Which was building trust, friendship and going out. Essentially, I saw her just a person to hang out with, going out to dinners, grabbing drinks (after she mentioned the non-sexual stuff). I did NOT mention or even acknowledge her statement about no sexual conduct. I related all of my statements to the building connections, mentoring & to the concept of emotional well-being.
For work, she's does the random babysitting, waitressing, and bartending jobs. She's still in school, and has a few years left.
We had very long conversation, and I thought we hit it off, and soon I was going to pull the trigger to do one of these dinner dates.
Her message to me then stated.
"Your Net Worth is not that High. What do you normally give sugar babies? This was preferaced by talking about paying off student loans.
Overall, her looks are above average. Tall, Modelesque physique, she can communicate & responds fairly quickly.
I have not responded yet. How would you all respond to this statement?
[QUOTE=DreplyNow;6935122]I had what I thought was a great beginning conversation, to finally set something up w / this chick. Share had Favorited me, like what I said in my profile.
She seemed interested, however, shut off any form of "sexual conduct", but will be there "emotionally," will be available to go to dinners and be arm candy.
Typically, I would have moved on. But I started to put one of my new ideas in motion. I'll be explaining this in a later post.
So, I went along & responded what I can offer and what I'm focused on. Which was building trust, friendship and going out. Essentially, I saw her just a person to hang out with, going out to dinners, grabbing drinks (after she mentioned the non-sexual stuff). I did NOT mention or even acknowledge her statement about no sexual conduct. I related all of my statements to the building connections, mentoring & to the concept of emotional well-being.
For work, she's does the random babysitting, waitressing, and bartending jobs. She's still in school, and has a few years left.
We had very long conversation, and I thought we hit it off, and soon I was going to pull the trigger to do one of these dinner dates.
Her message to me then stated.
"Your Net Worth is not that High. What do you normally give sugar babies? This was preferaced by talking about paying off student loans.
Overall, her looks are above average. Tall, Modelesque physique, she can communicate & responds fairly quickly.
I have not responded yet. How would you all respond to this statement?[/QUOTE]I think you should stop wasting your time with this one unless you are looking for some personal project / experiment. If so, I would respond with you put in a low amount to ward of gold diggers. LOL.
[QUOTE=Spill;6935131]I think you should stop wasting your time with this one unless you are looking for some personal project / experiment. If so, I would respond with you put in a low amount to ward of gold diggers. LOL.[/QUOTE]The thing is, sometimes, it seems they may be chiding, and goading for a reaction or response. Maybe it could be a Test, of what we're going to say.
And I do like experimenting and pushing the limits a little. Sometimes, they could be experimenting with us too. Hahaha!
And yes, one of the things I'm going to be posting later on today, is about a New Experiment I aim to start doing -- in regards to "Platonic", No Sex, and "online" bunnies. I'll be letting ya'll know of the idea & what I plan to be doing.
But yeah, that is a very good line. Low Amount to Ward off Gold Diggers. LOL.
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6934383]Any girl that blocks me is surely not my type. Because I don't give them much of a reason to block me. And I also never block anyone. I'd rather be able to see what antics they're up to so I can learn from it and you need to be able to see their profile in order to warn others -- so blocking is pointless.[/QUOTE]I thought it would be worth replying to this. I've also noticed in my life if a girl is my type but isn't really interested she won't get annoyed by me. If they aren't my type meaning I don't like them either just look at them than they may take offense by it.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d68b3168-a3e4-46af-bb62-0fa90bc2f763[/URL]
I've seen this pair a couple times. I think they're pretty cool. They have a few rules which vary for each of them, but deliver what they promise and are quite reasonable (400) for two of them. A bit far from me or I'd see them more.
Let me know if you have questions.
[QUOTE=DreplyNow;6935183]The thing is, sometimes, it seems they may be chiding, and goading for a reaction or response. Maybe it could be a Test, of what we're going to say.
And I do like experimenting and pushing the limits a little. Sometimes, they could be experimenting with us too. Hahaha!
And yes, one of the things I'm going to be posting later on today, is about a New Experiment I aim to start doing -- in regards to "Platonic", No Sex, and "online" bunnies. I'll be letting ya'll know of the idea & what I plan to be doing.
But yeah, that is a very good line. Low Amount to Ward off Gold Diggers. LOL.[/QUOTE]Can also just try walking away man. Keep the same outcome you want but in a week or month or two LOL you'll get that question of how you been? As long as you leave on good terms. The money will dry up for them sooner and later and will go down their contact list to who they messaged before and cold text to see if they can get that steady income again. I would phrase it as: I hear you and I wish I could justify more for you to be my arm candy or be there emotionally but I can't hun. If that's a deal breaker I understand and wish you luck on your search. Feel free to reach out whenever.
[QUOTE=MarkPowers;6935329][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d68b3168-a3e4-46af-bb62-0fa90bc2f763[/URL]
I've seen this pair a couple times. I think they're pretty cool. They have a few rules which vary for each of them, but deliver what they promise and are quite reasonable (400) for two of them. A bit far from me or I'd see them more.
Let me know if you have questions.[/QUOTE]Interesting! I have avoided pairs who advertise together, for fear of the typical dangers. Instead I've had very good luck over the years with bi SBs who then find other women for us to see together.
A bit far for me too but not for a one-off if it's decent fun.
[QUOTE=Bran2025;6935418]Interesting! I have avoided pairs who advertise together, for fear of the typical dangers. Instead I've had very good luck over the years with bi SBs who then find other women for us to see together.
A bit far for me too but not for a one-off if it's decent fun.[/QUOTE]These two are a couple that lives together. I haven't had any problems.
In a related note, I'm seeing two different girls regularly and separately and I've thought about asking them if they'd be up for getting all of us together. What do people think? Too risky? How would you ask?
[QUOTE=MarkPowers;6935474]These two are a couple that lives together. I haven't had any problems.
In a related note, I'm seeing two different girls regularly and separately and I've thought about asking them if they'd be up for getting all of us together. What do people think? Too risky? How would you ask?[/QUOTE]I just ask if they "like women" and if they do then I just ask straight out. In my experience, high sex drive women who are bi go for it way more than not.
Plan on paying them each what you usually pay them. Get permission from each to share pics with the other.
Again, in my experience, it is Easy to make this happen if you have a bi SB.
Have others been getting outrageous proposals lately? I've had 4 different girls state they get $2 K per meet in the past 24 hours. I wonder if some high priced escorts were in town for the NBA finals or something.
Nuts!
[QUOTE=Bran2025;6935672]I just ask if they "like women" and if they do then I just ask straight out. In my experience, high sex drive women who are bi go for it way more than not.
Plan on paying them each what you usually pay them. Get permission from each to share pics with the other.
Again, in my experience, it is Easy to make this happen if you have a bi SB.[/QUOTE]I like the approach! Thanks.
[QUOTE=BR1201;6935692]Have others been getting outrageous proposals lately? I've had 4 different girls state they get $2 K per meet in the past 24 hours. I wonder if some high priced escorts were in town for the NBA finals or something.
Nuts![/QUOTE]The key is they Say they get 2 k. There clearly is Very little to no market for that in Boston. "You get 2 k? That's awesome for you. Stay safe!" is my response when this happens.
Maggie 29.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/26287682-feac-4e34-aaea-a4bc020b3bcd[/URL]
I've seen her before. She comes to town and just wants fun. She's not thin but not egregiously fat. I believe I gave her $350 last time. Had a hotel in Copley. Used protection but not sure if that's required.
[QUOTE=BR1201;6936054]Maggie 29.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/26287682-feac-4e34-aaea-a4bc020b3bcd[/URL]
I've seen her before. She comes to town and just wants fun. She's not thin but not egregiously fat. I believe I gave her $350 last time. Had a hotel in Copley. Used protection but not sure if that's required.[/QUOTE]Former D1 athlete? In what a pie eating contest. These girls all like to throw out that there former athletes and cheerleaders like decades ago and now there disgustingly fat.
Another dud. Not true to her word. Tries to hide it but has a handler who tries to stay out of sight.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/790e2df4-eb03-4474-b26d-7194fe1a9bba[/URL]
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6931886]Duds are gals who are real, they will meet, they passed my vetting, but for various reasons they are not worth it. For example, too focused on the gift, poor performers, drama queens, addicts (some of them hide it really well. And I don't mind functional addicts), novices (I like amateurs but novices are those who think this lifestyle is a great idea but get cold feet at the last minute and ghost you), don't look anything like their pics, etc. For the most part I weed them out prior to meeting and my success ratio is pretty good, but in some cases I've found out during the meeting. Those are the ones I will list on this thread so that others don't get taken for a ride. In this particular case, I would avoid her crazy sister Charli as well.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=MarkPowers;6935329][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d68b3168-a3e4-46af-bb62-0fa90bc2f763[/URL]
I've seen this pair a couple times. I think they're pretty cool. They have a few rules which vary for each of them, but deliver what they promise and are quite reasonable (400) for two of them. A bit far from me or I'd see them more.
Let me know if you have questions.[/QUOTE]How does this go down? Do you get to fuck them both? BBFSCIP?
[QUOTE=BR1201;6936054]Maggie 29.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/26287682-feac-4e34-aaea-a4bc020b3bcd[/URL]
I've seen her before. She comes to town and just wants fun. She's not thin but not egregiously fat. I believe I gave her $350 last time. Had a hotel in Copley. Used protection but not sure if that's required.[/QUOTE]I work in Copley. I wonder if she's around today and if I could make this happen before the end of the work day.
Just a technicality. Would CIP for both imply MSOG or a mid-shot switch? Grin.
[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6936411]How does this go down? Do you get to fuck them both? BBFSCIP?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6936419]I work in Copley. I wonder if she's around today and if I could make this happen before the end of the work day.[/QUOTE]I've seen her too. Happy to share details via DM.
Another dud IMO. Very jittery. Not honest. Told me she was driving herself but I couldn't see her car. Probably got dropped off somewhere and walked over. I get it. There are mongers who do that (I used to) when meeting complete unknowns. But that's what's good about Seeking. You can spend some time getting to know the person before meeting so that it doesn't have to be all that spooky.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/93c6a9ca-a6f0-47f4-9ae4-8529f40bf1e7[/URL]
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6931886]Duds are gals who are real, they will meet, they passed my vetting, but for various reasons they are not worth it. For example, too focused on the gift, poor performers, drama queens, addicts (some of them hide it really well. And I don't mind functional addicts), novices (I like amateurs but novices are those who think this lifestyle is a great idea but get cold feet at the last minute and ghost you), don't look anything like their pics, etc. For the most part I weed them out prior to meeting and my success ratio is pretty good, but in some cases I've found out during the meeting. Those are the ones I will list on this thread so that others don't get taken for a ride. In this particular case, I would avoid her crazy sister Charli as well.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6936656]Another dud IMO. Very jittery. Not honest. Told me she was driving herself but I couldn't see her car. Probably got dropped off somewhere and walked over. I get it. There are mongers who do that (I used to) when meeting complete unknowns. But that's what's good about Seeking. You can spend some time getting to know the person before meeting so that it doesn't have to be all that spooky.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/93c6a9ca-a6f0-47f4-9ae4-8529f40bf1e7[/URL][/QUOTE]Was she just weird in person? she looks cute
Pics are accurate. Just a very cagey type of person, which I don't really vibe well with. Might vibe with someone else.
[QUOTE=KangTheMonger;6937266]Was she just weird in person? she looks cute[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6937348]Pics are accurate. Just a very cagey type of person, which I don't really vibe well with. Might vibe with someone else.[/QUOTE]Maybe just nervous?
Possible, but she's been at it for 4 years. And still nervous? I don't buy it. I think she is looking for a pushover and she would spring many rules on you if you meet. The way she interacts seems professional and transactional, not the amateurishness of someone who is new and nervous. Maybe someone can prove me wrong.
[QUOTE=Spill;6937572]Maybe just nervous?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Spill;6937572]Maybe just nervous?[/QUOTE]This is the type of thinking that gets you robbed. . .
We know that there are some very shady actors in this "industry. " When someone behaves in a shady way, you have two options: make some excuse, or assume they are shady.
Anyone have any connects that they can share for some late nights get togethers in the area: Lincoln, Rhode Island and surrounding areas?
Looking for thin, average size. Any age range. Not into the curvy or full figured at the moment.
Looking for connects that are willing to show up & are ready to hang out & chill.
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6937619]Possible, but she's been at it for 4 years. And still nervous? I don't buy it. I think she is looking for a pushover and she would spring many rules on you if you meet. The way she interacts seems professional and transactional, not the amateurishness of someone who is new and nervous. Maybe someone can prove me wrong.[/QUOTE]Did she deliver on expectations?
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6934383]Any girl that blocks me is surely not my type. Because I don't give them much of a reason to block me. And I also never block anyone. I'd rather be able to see what antics they're up to so I can learn from it and you need to be able to see their profile in order to warn others -- so blocking is pointless.[/QUOTE]The way around this for me: I setup a dummy account alt (all you need is email verification; no profile setup needed) to see blocked (both by and against me) profiles.
I still have it even thought I haven't been on SA so that way I can see the profiles ya'll post here (as well as keep up on past conquests).
Add her to the list of duds.
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6930413]I'm starting a hall of shame thread. Not going to share the goodies publicly (it creates an overwhelming situation for the goodies and ruins a good thing) but I've shared privately with many of you. However, the duds ought to be shared widely. Again, I'm not talking about online scammers and such, of which there are too many to list and they are dead easy to identify. The ones I'm posting are real ladies who will meet up with you. They just aren't worth your time though for various reasons. I won't post separately in each forum so I'm just going to piggy back on this thread to share duds from across New England as I find them and remember to post them here. Also, I won't provide any commentary, take it or leave it. If you are really curious, feel free to message me. I'll start with this one. Many more to come.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c7b6adf9-62ea-4271-b2eb-74d3099aa403[/URL][/QUOTE]
Cocktails and Fun -- another dud. Messaged going around and around but her Only option was to meet IN a hotel room. She wanted no part of meeting for coffee first and even refused to meet in a hotel lobby. "If we don't like each other in the room we can just leave. " No f'ing way.
She first told me that she was a BU nursing student but then 48 hrs later she was a Harvard student.
I have no idea what's Really going on with her but I'd never meet someone who's too afraid of being seen even in a corner of a hotel lobby.
She finally blocked me on SA.
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6938833]Add her to the list of duds.[/QUOTE]
This is the way. (I'd rather not be followed by past conquests or those I've turned down, so personally I use the block function pretty liberally. Obv they can do the same in return if they are so motivated).
[QUOTE=Hobbyist420;6938819]The way around this for me: I setup a dummy account alt (all you need is email verification; no profile setup needed) to see blocked (both by and against me) profiles.
I still have it even thought I haven't been on SA so that way I can see the profiles ya'll post here (as well as keep up on past conquests).[/QUOTE]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/af74b406-3b70-4f88-a1b5-c8add4da4b4f[/URL]
She is attractive and a fun person. We met and had a nice conversation. She is looking for a boyfriend type situation and I am not. I would recommend her for sure. We kissed a little and I felt her nice tits.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cdedf201-f05d-4e69-9798-99069f79223e[/URL]
She is very attractive we met for coffee. The problem is she knows my sister too close for comfort.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/012eb1de-83f9-46cf-bdbf-62503dfeaf9e[/URL]
I have been chatting with kitt but we can't seem to connect would love to know if anyone has.
You made the right decision, of course. She seems to be up to no good. Usually the reason they do that is because they are afraid of rejection and they figure that once they're in your room (which you've obviously paid for) you're less likely to back out and they can strong-arm you into it. Even if I already had a room for some other reason (for example when I travel) I would never just give her the room number and say come on up. I would meet her somewhere first for a coffee or something and then decide where to go from there. The last time someone tried that with me (she's still on the site from time to time) I later found out that she was heavily pregnant and none of her photos showed that, of course. I might not have minded the pregnant part but I didn't like the deception.
[QUOTE=Bran2025;6939205]Cocktails and Fun -- another dud. Messaged going around and around but her Only option was to meet IN a hotel room. She wanted no part of meeting for coffee first and even refused to meet in a hotel lobby. "If we don't like each other in the room we can just leave. " No f'ing way.
She first told me that she was a BU nursing student but then 48 hrs later she was a Harvard student.
I have no idea what's Really going on with her but I'd never meet someone who's too afraid of being seen even in a corner of a hotel lobby.
She finally blocked me on SA.[/QUOTE]
She's looking for a boyfriend type situation but her profile tags are No Strings Attached and Discretion.
[QUOTE=MikeJohns;6939561][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/af74b406-3b70-4f88-a1b5-c8add4da4b4f[/URL]
She is attractive and a fun person. We met and had a nice conversation. She is looking for a boyfriend type situation and I am not. I would recommend her for sure. We kissed a little and I felt her nice tits.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6937619]Possible, but she's been at it for 4 years. And still nervous? I don't buy it. I think she is looking for a pushover and she would spring many rules on you if you meet. The way she interacts seems professional and transactional, not the amateurishness of someone who is new and nervous. Maybe someone can prove me wrong.[/QUOTE]That sounds about right.
Major dud. In fact, psycho. Stay far away!
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e71a0862-3d71-4552-9293-76c401c350d4[/URL]
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;6930413]I'm starting a hall of shame thread. Not going to share the goodies publicly (it creates an overwhelming situation for the goodies and ruins a good thing) but I've shared privately with many of you. However, the duds ought to be shared widely. Again, I'm not talking about online scammers and such, of which there are too many to list and they are dead easy to identify. The ones I'm posting are real ladies who will meet up with you. They just aren't worth your time though for various reasons. I won't post separately in each forum so I'm just going to piggy back on this thread to share duds from across New England as I find them and remember to post them here. Also, I won't provide any commentary, take it or leave it. If you are really curious, feel free to message me. I'll start with this one. Many more to come.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c7b6adf9-62ea-4271-b2eb-74d3099aa403[/URL][/QUOTE]