Getting really fed up with the shit options in Lexington.
== [B]The State of AMPs in Lexington[/B] ==.
As I learn more and more about the AMP hobby as it exists in other cities (similar to ours, bigger, smaller, richer, poorer) I am constantly annoyed by how shitty our options are.
Massage quality is usually good (at least we get that), but the happy ending options are terrible and they are even getting outrageously greedy with tip expectations.
Most cities around the country follow a very similar pricing method, and ours is similar right up until you want ANYTHING extra.
[B]$60 to the house[/B] for an hour massage.
[B]$40 tip for a HJ.[/B]
[B]$80 for a BJ.[/B]
[B]$120-200 for full service[/B] (understandable why this one varies the most).
All the main places seem to be HJ only 90% of the time (or more). It's absurd. And if you even want their top off, they expect $60 or $80 as if taking your top off is ANY kind of big deal when you're already jerking me off. Do you want me to cum fast or not? Taking your top off just makes your job 10 times easier. Then even if you agree, they get weird about you touching their tits or GOD FORBID you want to suck on those pretty asian nipples. WTF?
We have girls asking for $80 or $100 for a HJ. Utterly insane. You can fuck an escort in Lexington for $150-200. Why would you pay that or more for a HJ or even just a BJ?
== [B]The Experiment[/B] ==.
I recently decided to just do an experiment and offer the moon to a decent looking provider I had seen a few times and who seemed to vibe with. For purposes of fully understanding the situation, I should note that I am: obsessively clean and always shower and scrub myself before going to the AMP, I'm fit, attractive, I'm a clean cut older businessman, have absolutely no trouble nailing chicks vanilla in RL, off sites like fetlife, etc. I'm not saying I'm every girl's dream man, but there's nothing about me that would turn a provider off.
After lots of nice chat and banter back and forth, on my third or fourth visit, I went for it. Offered her $200 for sex. Nope. $150 for a BJ (I would have kicked myself later for paying this, but I honestly just wanted to see if she would budge). $200 for a BJ. Nope. $100 to fuck her tits. NOPE! (This one really shocked me. Just rub your tits on my cock! [I]"Sorry just massage.".[/I].
Don't get me wrong: I understand, these are individuals and everyone will have their own limits. But jesus christ. You are still a sex worker and money is money.
[B]Has anyone else had similar experience just getting so frustrated by the lack of extras you offered the moon and STILL they were HJ only?[/B]
I know for a fact the mamasan isn't against extras. I've asked her and she's 100% fine with whatever the girls want to do.
I know Lotus is the one that most commonly at least offers BJ, but they ask for $140-200 for a BJ which is fucking ridiculous.
== [B]What Can We Do About It? If Anything?[/B] ==.
My thoughts / theories / ideas:
1) Absolutely hard core stick to $40 tip for HJs and never, ever budge. If they want more money, they can earn it with better services (BJs and pussy). And every time someone tries to ask for more than $40 for a basic HJ, still only give $40 and then complain to the mamasan about being pressured. In my experience, mamasans really don't like it when their girls are shitty about the tip because a) that's not the house's money anyway and b) they want customers coming back often, not blowing their load (pun intended) on tip.
2) Ask for BJ and FS often to make it a common request, and stick to the $80 BJ, $120-200 for FS pricing in the request. Just ask every time for one or the other and turn it into the most normal request so eventually some providers just decide "well, I'm here anyway, might as well make more money since everyone's asking. ".
And the biggest and best plan IMHO. I call it [B][i]"The Nuclear Option."[/i][/B].
3) [B]Ask for everything you want in advance (BJ, FS, top off, etc) and insist on reasonable prices.[/B] If they don't agree, walk before paying the house fee. I guarantee you the mamasans will start putting SERIOUS pressure on the providers to offer these extras at a reasonable price if its making people walk.
What do you all think?
Lexington Erotic Mutual Full Bodyrubs
Has anyone see this one:
(and yes. I tried to search a few times without luck).
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I'm very interested and have actually been in contact with her already, but would love to hear any feedback before I pursue.
Thanks in advance for any help!