Long distance Outcall advice
[QUOTE=Clark5780;4598941]How do you more experienced members handle out all? Do you just rent a hotel room? If I come to GR from Lansing and don't want in call, or it's not available, what do you suggest? Just trying to be safe and smart. Thanks.[/QUOTE]Great question. I hope others join the discussion so I can consolidate the advice to the New Member Guide. (if you aren't familiar, find that thread in the Grand Rapids forum under user blogs).
Here are my thoughts: we get too many reports of mongers making a long drive to GR only to get ghosted by whatever eye-candy escort ad they were lured to. So I wouldn't do a long distance trip unless you've made an appointment with a proven, well reviewed provider. But in that case, most proven providers in GR offer incall so might as well save yourself some cash and do her incall.
If you want to make a trip without a sure thing lined up (or just don't feel safe doing incall), I'd wait to get a room until the last minute. Find a place with multiple hotels nearby with vacancies (28th & I-96 is ideal coming from Lansing). Hang out at a bar or something until you've set the appointment. I'd also recommend not doing the cheap, no-tell motels or those with room doors that go outside. That can scare the better escorts off. If you say you are staying at a business or family style hotel it makes her feel safe and more assured you have the cash. I've actually lead with that in my first text: white professional looking for hr outcall at xx business hotel. Escorts are known to skip an appointment if a better option comes along (just like we'd cancel if a better escort becomes available). So make your offer more attractive than another's, especially if you are getting her at a busy time. The other point about nicer hotels: it's safer for you. If someone's going to scam a monger, they'll find an easier target at a cheap motel with no lobby / cameras.
If you are trying to do this on the cheap, then be prepared for disappointment. I'm all about getting the best value, but that means you need to accept the risk of a wasted day if you can't find what you want for your price. Otherwise if your time is more valuable, money talks so offer up a nicer place and / or better rate to get the escort you want. Local mongers might complain about "driving up rates" but this is a free market society and it's about satisfying your desires.
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Ran across ad where escort on marsillpost P411 verified provider P Anyone know what it all about?