Thinking with the little head.
[QUOTE=MikeQanaby; 1890856]You should stand your ground with them instead of chastising the forum.
I got a decent-to-above average massage (1 hr for $60) from Mia at Wayne Road and when I asked her to take her top off she told me $60. I told her I would only pay $40 and she obliged.[/QUOTE]I've done this myself, massage is amazing, on flip, hot chic, and my dick takes over! WTF? So frustrating!
I have over paid several times, knowingly, if all above is taking place! Too easy to do and I've been in the hobby many years.
I agree though, if massage sux, and the "planets " are not in order, only HJ. 60 is way too much!
But, we all have made this mistake!
Just got a pushy provider.
[QUOTE=Jd1234;1889987]Fellow members. Please don't spoil the providers. They now EXPECT $ 60 for a HE. If you don't pay them they give you this nasty look. Also, please make sure that there is a MASSAGE and not just a quick mechanical HJ. I just dropped a buck twenty on a stupid massage with a very mechanical HE with NO touching or nothing sensual at Wayne Road. When I took out a 40, she said."All pay 60. You pay 60". Now she could have been bluffing but going through the forum it seems like quite a few of you are big spenders. This is the 2nd time this has happened to me. Don't raise the price for the rest of us. It quickly adds up for regulars.[/QUOTE]I think you may have gotten a pushy provider. You can't judge what I did based on feedback from the massage provider. Least reliable source ever. I *am* what you're likely to call a big spender. And I will continue to do so because it works for me, thank you. By which I mean I tip $40 consistently for a decent massage and decent HJ. But I expect them to take reasonable direction within those parameters. Not too rushed, hard massage on request, etc. I'm not a roamer and I don't expect a BJ at an AMP, so I don't push those boundaries.
But even though I'm a regular for over a year at Acu on Middlebelt (Westland) , Acu on Telegraph (Detroit) and Chinese Massage on Wayne (Westland). I get strange requests all the time. Acu at Telegraph once refused handjob entirely (her first day) , same with Wayne. Girl at Acu just tried to barter me up to $60. One girl couldn't even remember me and tried to barter me up to $30. Even though I always tip more. Funny. I also got a two-hand once for price without asking because the girl was tired. It's a YMMV kind of world.
No matter what you're approach, they're going to ask for more. No point blaming that on other mongers. Guys are going to try to roam further or what not, and they're going to try and maximize their money. That's never going to change, no matter how many dudes post about price solidarity in the forum.