Telling a provider about this forum?
Curious if anyone has shared with a provider the existence of this forum, even in a general way? It seems very beneficial to do so in some circumstances. I did it the first time the other day (without providing details such as the name) with a new SW in town who wants to develop a little more established base as a higher end provider. She promised much but delivered poorly and cost me too much for what I got. The fantastic body is what trapped me. Anyway, on the ride back home I casually mentioned a forum and explained that the discussions here can make a girl famous or make it clear she is bad news. When I explained how that happens (generous service, nice attitude, fair price, etc.) and it was clear I was saying she would not be promoted here, she felt really salty. It was too late for her to fix my opinion. I found that an extremely effective tool: wish I would have done it prior to her services.
Anyone have a contrary opinion? I can't think of a good reason not to share the existence but maybe I'm missing something.