Still won't put what I wrote.
Why do they keep changing what I wrote? Its not "working girls" its W*HO*R*E*S!
Big Mack, fortunately it didn't affect me that way. Myself, in the counseling that I have had, which was very little, I've learned about myself that I am one that gains the pleasure of the feeling of being "wanted".
"If the connection between abuse and "love" is made early in life, the feelings of shame and anger, which naturally happen as a consequence of the abuse, are interpreted as feelings of love and passion. People who have been abused may not realize other ways of feeling in relationships are possible. They believe they are feeling love for their abuser, so when they are later abused in an intimate relationship, they perceive the familiar feelings of shame and anger as love and passion."
There are so many different feelings that one can have over being sexually abused.
Todd Cincy. There is not one man on this board or any other board for that matter that can say I have TOTALLY partook in BBJCIM. But even the littlest part, (pre-cum) , with ANY provider, is possible unfortunately. Those small ways are ways that I have not even thought about, honestly. After reading what you posted, I don't even know what to say.
You need to take a valium dude
This is a service industry. Women have the right to choose what they want to do and not do. We have a right to see them based on their service likes. We are all waiting for the results of her test. No guy cares whether you have one or not but some of us do get tested depending on activities. I have been in this almost 2 decades and never heard of one woman who took a shower and cried after she gave service based on her parameters. It is about service and needs. If you make a friend along the way you are way ahead. Take a chill pill I am glad you had a good time with the lady. Her likes are fine for some but not for others. True of most on here. Don't play white knight. It isn't well liked and and makes most look like a"holes who try it. Don't think that is what you want. Have a Merry Christmas and wait for the paper to come out through PFD He is one of the best on here and he will get to the bottom of a major concern on here. Let it happen but mostly STFU for now. Glad she got a good review from you but like most guys until the results are in this man will wait. It is up to each to make their own decision. Mack
NOT Another Safe Sex Lecture. Spare us Brother.
And here I thought this type of post was forbidden by the rules of posting.
"No Safe Sex Complaints Forum Members wishing to criticize other Members for not following what they consider to be safe sex procedures may do so only in the Safe Sex Thread. Members may not comment upon, criticize or confront other members on this subject in the general discussion threads. Any such "safe sex complaints" posted in the general discussion threads will be deleted without comment."
Brother, if you don't wish to run the risk of catching something then keep it in your pants. But if you, I or the next guy decides to stick our meat somewhere, or somehow, it ain't none of anyone else's business. And as O'Riely says,"That's a memo".
One last note. If you somehow think that you aren't at risk because you are paying more to a provider, well. You are living in fairytale land for sure. Just because a provider does, or doesn't do a certain act (covered or uncovered) with you in a certain way, does in no way guarantee that this is what she does with everyone. In case you hadn't thought of it this way before. If you are engaged with a pro in any fashion, the odds of your concern just went up. Now lets drop this shite from here on out unless you KNOW something specific in nature to the topic; (which to this point has been mostly off base). The poor gal deserves some slack and an apology by a few.
[QUOTE=Todd Cincy; 1344826]I agree that Lexi is a fundamentally good person who seems to have some personal problems. I hope she is able to work them out.
However, I think there is a lesson here. We all know that Lexi routinely engaged in BBJCIM. (I am not betraying any trust here, as this has been noted on various boards, including this one.) This sort of activity, compounded over time, is asking for health problems.
Yes, I can be as foolish as anyone else when the wrong mood strikes me. I partook myself-about 1 year ago. At the moment I thought it was great. But then I spent the following three weeks checking my equipment for anything strange. For me, the thrill of of the "GFE" aspect wasn't worth the anxiety and potential health problems.
On the other hand, a few weeks ago I saw this lady:
[url]http://www.discreetdesires.org/Brooke.htm[/url]
Very upscale. Not cheap. She did not allow either DATY, nor BBJ. Everything by the book and covered.
In the heat of the moment, I would have liked a more GFE experience. But, after I was done with this one, I didn't have to worry about what I had caught from any one of the last ten customers she was with.
There seems to be a contingent on this board that likes providers to be cheap, nasty, and completely uninhibited. (I cringe when I look at some of the crackheads that are in circulation on the SW board.) Recently there was a heavier one in NKY who apparently performed BBJCIM, much to the delight of her fans on this board.
Going with an older / plainer / heavier provider may enhance the illusion that these are your wives and / or girlfriends. But gentlemen, these women are *not* your wives or girlfriends. This is another reason why I like the younger, hotter ones who are a bit standoffish. Yes, the menu with the more upscale providers is sometimes limited, but you don't have to worry as much about nasty stuff like this afterwards.[/QUOTE]
Merry Christmas to All and to All a Good Night.
On this whole subject until after the New Year or until Lexi wants more to be posted.
Lexi- If part of your posts are being edited, then they must be violating the rules of the board. I would assume as a Provider you can not attain Senior Member status so your posts might be reviewed before being released like those of Regular male members. Send what you wrote with someone like WT. He would have a better feel for the reasoning behind the edits.
The hobby is filled with risks. BBBJ vs. CBJ, No Kissing vs. DFK and of course the grand daddy of them all CFS vs. BBFS. We all decide a level that we are comfortable with, one that will allow us to go away from the appointment with a clear conscience and sleep at night. Much of the level of comfort is derived from the "vibe" we get from the provider. Before you all attack me, I know that is not a trustworthy gauge of safety, but apart from carrying a lab in my back pocket it is all that I have to go by. I also feel that whatever level of safety that I employ is between my "partner" and myself. That it is of no business of anyone on this board or any other board.
Again, all we can do is wait and see. In the mean time I will simply go about the next week or two doing what I had planned to do, that is celebrate family and friends, love and life and hope and health, with the desire that we all have these things in our New Year.
PFD
Chrystal the girl next door.
Much has been said about how good, Chrystal, is on the board. Decided to give her a visit today. Email her around noon and got a reply quickly. Follow by a couple of text messages and a time was set.
Easy to find location. The minute I had walked into her home it was GFE time. Chrystal is passionate, affectionate, and enthusiastic the whole time I was with her. She can puts you competely at ease. Great time with her. Will be seeing her again.
Harpo
Playtime With Tattoo Delilah
Had a date with the Beautiful & Sexy Tattoo Delilah last night. Nice clean incall & candles to set the mood. She is very clean, great attitude, and superior skills. Her body is to die for with Tattoo's & Piercings. Her ass is to die for super firm & a beautiful kitty. I will repeat.
