Take it from an old timer
[QUOTE=Ronnie0927;4928013]You do realize this is happening because the girls are demanding this and they are getting this. It's pretty simple. When they ask for 60 say no. If they short you on time. Don't tip. They will continue to get away with this if we allow them to. I play on a few different types of playgrounds (AMP, SA and Escorts) and I have noticed a similar trend. Prices are going up. Service is going down. Girls are getting nastier and this whole hobby crap is starting to get exhausting. I fear that this trend will become the new norm unless it gets squashed. We are the ones who can fix it but I doubt it will change. Maybe I should start searching the threads for those plastic robot chics!! LOL stay safe gents and stop rewarding and paying for shitty service! Ronnie out.[/QUOTE]This ebb and flow in service and price is as old as the hobby itself. Peaks and valleys, guys. That's not to say that I think anyone should pay more than they are comfortable with, just pointing out that the market has literally always done this.
My role in the Hong Tipping Fiasco
I want to apologize to everyone on this board for what is happening at Hong. I certainly played a role in it, if I'm not the primary cause. I never, ever considered that my tipping habits would have this sort of downstream effect. I know, I know; I should have known: its not rocket science. I f-ed up. I don't know how to fix things, but I can promise you all that I will stop doing it, immediately.
Again, I am sorry. I was a dumbass.
[QUOTE=Observant;4930345]Tipping at Hong is a hot topic. I went there yest and drew one that I had seen before. She asked me what her name was and I rattled off all the names except her. LOL.
Good 20-25 min massage. On flip she asked $ for topless and sucking tits. I said no. I told her my standard rates. 4 for HE. . 6 for topless and. 8 for titty sucking.
She came down to. 8.
I know this topic riles off everyone but this is what I have been doing for over 3 years and works for me.
They will break down. Stick to your guns. There was a girl at Hong who smacked my hand and I ended the message. As I was walking away, by chance the owner was there and she made me sit down and apologized and then lined up another girl for ending.
If their ask does not line up with my tipping thresholds, I will DIY with OTC and hand. 2.
You tip what you think the service is worth and what you can afford. There is no such things as standard tipping rates.
Ob.[/QUOTE]
Might need a little advice
[QUOTE=IFeelGood;4933388]There were a number of posts here that would have suitable for a response but I really liked OB's so here you go.
This is only for a little perspective so take it as you wish.
1st there are only a few places that I visit which allows for a bit of familiarity which really helps in this hobby. For me I visit only 4 which I will probably reduce to 3 as I think kabout it writing this. Choose the place you like / feel comfortable from everything to inside logistics, cleanliness and vibe.
2nd I keep a very simple menu: 30 min if no massage 60 min if I want a little massage.
3rd My tipping is up front discussion showing the money: . 4 for HE.
8 for CBJ or $ for / if GFE.
1. 4 for CFS or 1. 6 for / if GFE..[/QUOTE]If I may ask (and feel free to DM me the answer if necessary), how are you asking for GFE? Perhaps I'm going about it wrong (I'm open to changing some things).
For example, I've never set the expectation at the beginning; but I'm going to try later today.
I'm not an asshole to the provider, ever. Even when I've terminated service prematurely, I've done so in a direct but non-confrontational manner.
However, friends and colleagues have historically referred to my character as rather cold. Assuming that I cannot alter my character, is there anything else I can do differently?
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Waycross Church / AMP sign
[QUOTE=TheOldPilot;4933940]Stopped by Waycross today and it has gone from Massage to A Church. What is the the world going too. WOW.[/QUOTE]Have you seen their sign?