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[QUOTE=Stormyoneonly;2121491]Can someone please come and show me the dark side. Of course I would have to know you. But yummy love to play on the dark side!![/QUOTE]You have a hardfelt invitation to cum to Memphis at any time. I still have the cuffs. However, I am no ax murderer. Am a tame pussycat. Just ask SinfulDreams.
Man, I must have scared everyone off. Walk on the Darkside.
At the risk of pissing off A2 and getting a flogging I would like to give my opinion. I think the thread would be useful. At least from the standpoint of other providers knowing who is legit and who isn't. I'm sure my ratings would be high as well as others but for other providers to know who is definitely legit would be helpful. Then the references and hoops to jump through would not be needed. I'm a senior member and still have to give references, and its a pain in the ass. Just my opinion. MF.
[QUOTE=TheGoodSh;2122760]First, a girl needs to do whatever she needs to do to keep safe. BUT, there's no reason you should be asked to jump through hoops. She wants business, she should make the screening process as painless as possible. I'd never tell a girl to not screen. But asking for money and also making people work hard to pay you that money, is bad business.
Second, I've never had to give a reference to anyone on this board that I've tried to see. At worst, I've told them my screen name, and they recognized it, and that was enough. They didn't even ask for time to review my posts.
Finally, aside from the "this will never happen" stuff that will come from A2, I'll say this:
1) Providers already have ways to do this, outside the site. They can say whatever the hell they want to say, laugh at us, whatever, and it's all private.
2) The few that can't be bothered to check your post history here, should just learn some customer service skills and make your end as painless as possible. That's part of their end, not yours. You're already telling them "take my money". You shouldn't have to work harder than they do for things to go down. They should be able to spend 20 minutes figuring out if your legit by reading your post history. I know most of them don't deal with responsibility very well (hence, this job), but come on!
They are getting paid, very well, for putting up with us being fat, old, hairy, whatever.[/QUOTE]If a gentlemen is a member here, all I ask for is a simple pm and look up his previous post. I would never make someone give me references when if they already have quite a few post and reviews. Now if someone only has two post or something of the sorts then I will ask for a reference. I don't want someone to go through a bunch of trouble to be verified.
And yes us providers get paid pretty well to see all sorts of men but in all honesty, I would rather see a man who is fat, bald and hairy who treats me like a lady and has respect than a hot built man who is conceited and thinks he is the shit. I see what's inside rather than outside unlike most men on here. Looks are not important to me once so ever. Hygiene and saftey are my priorities. That's the big difference between providers and mongers tho. And everyone is very different so one always differs from another. But one thing is for sure, if your a member here (exspecially a senior) your scheduling should be very painless. IMHO.
[QUOTE=TheGoodSh;2122760]First, a girl needs to do whatever she needs to do to keep safe. BUT, there's no reason you should be asked to jump through hoops. She wants business, she should make the screening process as painless as possible. I'd never tell a girl to not screen. But asking for money and also making people work hard to pay you that money, is bad business.
Second, I've never had to give a reference to anyone on this board that I've tried to see. At worst, I've told them my screen name, and they recognized it, and that was enough. They didn't even ask for time to review my posts.
Finally, aside from the "this will never happen" stuff that will come from A2, I'll say this:
1) Providers already have ways to do this, outside the site. They can say whatever the hell they want to say, laugh at us, whatever, and it's all private.
2) The few that can't be bothered to check your post history here, should just learn some customer service skills and make your end as painless as possible. That's part of their end, not yours. You're already telling them "take my money". You shouldn't have to work harder than they do for things to go down. They should be able to spend 20 minutes figuring out if your legit by reading your post history. I know most of them don't deal with responsibility very well (hence, this job), but come on!
3) We already have the "soft" version of this. If you post a review of a provider who advertises here, most of the time they will tell you how awesome you were (just like the last 200 guys were) publicly. There's your reference. Again, the girls on this board have as much access as you do, they can search and PM and read the boards. If they can't be bothered, think how lazy (and stupid) they are and how that translates to BCD and move on.
4) If they are so fucking lazy that they can't click on your profile and see all your previous posts. Do you really think they are going to take the time to look you up on a thread with provider ratings. Keep in mind, it will be just the same amount of work. The forum is built the way it is, so they'd still have to search that thread. They can do that now in the escort review thread using your name and reading the quoted responses from providers.
5) They aren't going to be honest, because it's bad for business. But let's say they ARE going to be honest. This will just lead to more generally brutal honesty from the guys. As much as the girls can tell us we're fat hairy old suckers, you'd be a fool to think that they didn't have all have huge flaws. And again we are paying for beauty and skill and courtesy. They are getting paid, very well, for putting up with us being fat, old, hairy, whatever.[/QUOTE]They have a place on indys where a vouched provider / agency can attach a review or warning about you.
Its connected to your profile but you can't see it.
Most of the warnings are for pointless reasons.
One more walk down the Dark Side. Remember ladies, I still have those cuffs! Back to glamour soon.
. . And the piece of shit that runs that board.
[QUOTE=UtrInOhio;2122833]They have a place on indys where a vouched provider / agency can attach a review or warning about you.
Its connected to your profile but you can't see it.
Most of the warnings are for pointless reasons.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=PhatDaty;2123215]. . And the piece of shit that runs that board.[/QUOTE]Shocked! We agree on something.
Indys does suck and the system has been completely compromised.
Still thinking this is a 'catch all' category, wanted to know if anyone here belongs to swinging sites, single or coupled. Had some very interesting 3 somes and 1 4 some in the past month. Nice way to fill out my sexual dynamo punch list I've always wanted to enjoy.
I'm seeing some providers on there as well. Running as a couple has its perks, don't think I'd want the effort it takes being a single male in that venue.
This all started when my S. O. And I tested the waters on CL to get a male in the equation for an MMF. Sure enough about 50 takers, she cock picked her flavor of the evening. I basically watched most of the first experience, participated in the second. Who says you can't have fun watching yer female friend getting pounded? I can. .
In that move we grazed to couples, which then someone told us they could find them on another site. Low and behold it's a surprise like Gomer Pyle would say to see how many exist right in your own back yard.
The pickins are slim when you really want to find top brass in the equation, but this surely has developed a comfort zone to reach out to providers that are cool with couples in the equation, being able to hand pick your flavor of design in what both think will be a doable.
Clubs are next in our palate of eroticism. I can say that the experiences are opening many doors both in and out. We all like women so I see it from the viewpoint that as long as I keep my fingers teeth and toes, all's good.
I know some of us ride solo, but anyone finding this mix is like hitting a gold vein in a dry creek. I enjoy. Even turned another woman into a ejaculator for the first time in her life. Love doing this to experienced women as it throws a new toy in the toybox for them. Proud on my end like a hounddog bringing back a fresh rabbit to the hunter.
[QUOTE=Glockman;2122896]One more walk down the Dark Side. Remember ladies, I still have those cuffs! Back to glamour soon.[/QUOTE]Nothing hotter then a woman in cuffs! Well in the bedroom that is? You still have the ball gag and blindfold too?
Stormy.
[QUOTE=Stormyoneonly;2123486]Nothing hotter then a woman in cuffs! Well in the bedroom that is? You still have the ball gag and blindfold too?
Stormy.[/QUOTE]Well, I neglected to get a ball gag and blindfold. But that can be arranged. I do have the cuffs though. After all, what can you do with them. Can't hardly sell them at a yard sale! BTW, the cuffs are real. I kept wondering what I would do if I lost the key or couldn't get them off of her.
[QUOTE=Glockman;2123613]BTW, the cuffs are real. I kept wondering what I would do if I lost the key or couldn't get them off of her.[/QUOTE]You learn how to pick locks.
The alternatives include a hacksaw blade and a lot of faith in your sawing ability (hacksaws aren't called the ouija blades for nothing), or, you call the police and have them bring a cuff key over. Neither of which are really. Endearing options to have.
Yes, I speak from some experience. It took me about 15 minutes to pick the first handcuff and about 45 seconds for the next one. My timing, on the other hand was less than ideal -- her parents came home and we were interrogated / lectured by them for a good hour.
Ah, to be 17 and know what I know now.
Always have an extra key stashed someplace close, where you can reach it with your hands behind your back.
Cheech.