General Reports

[QUOTE=PatMyCrotch;1614091]Don't LET FOLKS PISS YOU OFF, you are a sweetheart and when my funds are good your mine love, sum folks are being haters muah, why would us men be here if we didn't pay for it, your good to us we are good to you,[/QUOTE]LOL, it doesn't piss me off personally. But it is one of the reasons I could never use my home as an incall.

You never know who might be the weirdo. What brought this up was a weirdo in Texas did this after a provider refused to see him

For a second time. He just drove to her incall and watched her. I've seen other guys post about doing the same thing, which is mindboggling.

[QUOTE=RedMustang;1614125]I pulled out my decoder ring and no luck![/QUOTE]Essentially Aris thinks that guys who watch a girl's incall location for any signs of a robbery setup or LEO is "creepy". Albeit, the gent in this scenario has already gotten the incall location from said girl willfully and is most likely concerned for his own safey, finances, and freedom.

What is the report on Chanel Stone?

What is the word on this chick?

[QUOTE=GoodtoIgoodtou;1614839]What is the word on this chick?[/QUOTE]What are you talking about?

[QUOTE=JimmieB;1618128]What are you talking about?[/QUOTE]I remember hearing at first she was bad news and she ran with the girl mia for awhile who also posting on BP. I have not seen her myself but I think I can remember one or two good reviews. Maybe one of the other senior members can chime in but that's what I remember.

Also, just a side note I made senior member and didn't know it!

[QUOTE=ArisRose; 1596688]Jesus! I couldn't imagine making the news twice.

Does anyone know if she showed her face in any of her backpage ads?

And the article said the cops recieved a tip. Curious to know if it was a pissed off client or did she have a revolving door.[/QUOTE]Just now caught that post. I saw the girl a couple of times after her first arrest. Yes she had her face pic in her ads. After she was arrested the first time she lost her job at a daycare. Probation costs and restitution add up when you don't have job skills. Cops were telling her she'd come out of it with prison time and have to register as a SO. I can't blame a girl for making money anyway they know how.

I have an idea it was the next door neighbor that reported it, sumbitch was eyeballing the hell out of me the last time I saw him. Like that's a smart idea eyeballing someone that knows where you sleep, lolwtf?

[QUOTE=ArisRose; 1528979]I started a poll on another hobby site about this.

About 80% of the guys said in her mouth but also commented that not all girls offer this (or on the face).

I've also noticed how CBJ girls have been going in on providers (like myself) who do offer BBBJCIM / COF.

Its been a heavy topic of discussion today. In the same tone, guys have been dogging out CBJ only girls and basically calling the guys who pay them stupid. ("Dude, you paid $$$ for CBJ, fuuuuuck no!")

What I do is my business but at the same time no girl should be dogged out for protecting herself or offering BBBJCIM.

Will you guys see a girl who only offers CBJ?[/QUOTE]I know I'm late to the game, but I wanted to offer my 2 cents: Like most guys, I prefer BBBJ over CBJ any day, but I let the provider take the lead in this matter. I always try to play within her rules and if that's not good enough for me, I don't return. On the other end of the spectrum, there are providers that offer too much, opening themselves up to risks unacceptable to me (for example, anal sex and unprotected "sliding"). I don't return to these providers either. I know it doesn't make perfect sense, but it works for me.

[QUOTE=ArisRose; 1536051]What is your definition of an incall?

My understanding was that it is a place, be it a private residence or hotel / motel

That a provider establishes for men to come to her.

Now I am also being told that some providers who offer incalls do not have permanent location established before hand and will book a room on confirmation of the appointment. Also there are some who establish a higher rate to cover the cost of booking the room.

I'm always asked why I don't offer incalls. By offering outcalls I am only contacted by men who have a room and are ready to fuck. I tried doing the incall thingy before I became a verified provider and all I got was a bunch of NCNS. I thought about renting an incall but there is no way I'm going to take out a years lease just to sell ass out of with no established clientel.

The other option would be to rent a room by the week. But then guys whine like hell about the star level and location! I remember as a teen we didn't give a damn abiout fucking at the Anchor or the Adams; we just wanted somewhere to fuck! And then everyone is paranoid about every hotel in Oxmoor and Lakeshore. What's the deal? If you are riding clean and legal and seeing a verified provider it shouldn't matter.[/QUOTE]I know I'm late to the game, but would like to make a couple comments. I totally agree with your definition of an incall location: it is a location that the provider provides for clients to come to her. I don't really care when she books the room, but when I show up she should already be checked in and ready to go.

I disagree with you about hotel location (I guess I'm a whiner). My comments apply mainly to first time visits, but I'm not just looking for a place to fuck, but a place I feel comfortable fucking. I don't want to worry about being mugged in the parking lot. I've also noticed a pretty good correlation between the incall service and the quality of hotel: the better the hotel, the better the service. For that reason I avoid certain providers that only work out of cheap motels. So for you providers reading this, you may want to pick a nicer location knowing that it could increase the number and quality of your clients. Just a thought.

I have no desire to go any place that is dirty and dangerous. If the place isn't clean you can't be sure how clean the occupants are; if it's dangerous outside then the chances are greater that it's not safe inside. I'm happier spending more to feel comfortable about where I am.

"remember as a teen we didn't give a damn abiout fucking at the Anchor or the Adams; we just wanted somewhere to fuck!"

I don't know about others but that attitude has changed in me over the years. The big head tries to maintain better control over the little one more now than in the past.

[QUOTE=Umecum7; 1618589]I know I'm late to the game, but would like to make a couple comments. I totally agree with your definition of an incall location: it is a location that the provider provides for clients to come to her. I don't really care when she books the room, but when I show up she should already be checked in and ready to go.

I disagree with you about hotel location (I guess I'm a whiner). My comments apply mainly to first time visits, but I'm not just looking for a place to fuck, but a place I feel comfortable fucking. I don't want to worry about being mugged in the parking lot. I've also noticed a pretty good correlation between the incall service and the quality of hotel: the better the hotel, the better the service. For that reason I avoid certain providers that only work out of cheap motels. So for you providers reading this, you may want to pick a nicer location knowing that it could increase the number and quality of your clients. Just a thought.[/QUOTE]FIRST of all. Any "Provider" who calls herself knowing what she is doing should realize that her ROOM is an INVESTMENT. (And SHOULD pay for itself). It's a shame the percentage of Bham "Providers" who actually RESIDE in motels / hotels. They're spinning their wheels (and we all know why).

Nevertheless, I have always felt like my incall location was / is kind of a "representation" of ME, my standards. Personally, The (larger) one on Lakeshore & 280 is substancial. It has MANY doors and CLEAN rooms, I mean, when the appointment arrives, no matter WHICH room I am in, I get to look out the window and "lay eyes on him before he lays eyes on me." LOL.

It's SAD how many women are actually living at the America's Best and expect a discerning gentleman to drive his Lexus into the lot and not think twice about the sheet sanitation. LOL. Ew!

[QUOTE=Meredeth; 1622207]FIRST of all. Any "Provider" who calls herself knowing what she is doing should realize that her ROOM is an INVESTMENT. (And SHOULD pay for itself). It's a shame the percentage of Bham "Providers" who actually RESIDE in motels / hotels. They're spinning their wheels (and we all know why).

Nevertheless, I have always felt like my incall location was / is kind of a "representation" of ME, my standards. Personally, The (larger) one on Lakeshore & 280 is substancial. It has MANY doors and CLEAN rooms, I mean, when the appointment arrives, no matter WHICH room I am in, I get to look out the window and "lay eyes on him before he lays eyes on me." LOL.

It's SAD how many women are actually living at the America's Best and expect a discerning gentleman to drive his Lexus into the lot and not think twice about the sheet sanitation. LOL. Ew![/QUOTE]Never seen this lady, but she sounds right on target!

[QUOTE=Wallet;1622548]Never seen this lady, but she sounds right on target![/QUOTE]I saw her almost two years ago on Lakeshore. BBBJ, cfs, cof (cim offered). Been wanting to see her again, just haven't worked it out.

Would you consider a provider Indy if she has a "handler"?