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Sinful Spam Advertising Via Text
You know, I can tolerate many things in the hobby. Drama comes and goes. Poor service abounds, but then you chalk it up to a life lesson and move on to greener pastures. I can even handle the providers that clog the classified ad section with a new ad, that has little or no new information every 48 hours, because even though I tend to be lazy by nature, it is no big deal to simply click past redundant advertisements and find what you are looking for.
There is however one practice, that will immediately move a provider to my "NEVER BOOK AGAIN" list:
Spamming my phone with repeated offers and updates about where they will be, or pleas that I book a session with them.
The sad thing is, I actually enjoyed the session I did with Sinful Dreams and wrote her a glowing review, which she earned by providing a wonderful session BCD.
Then the phone began to buzz. It buzzed regularly.
Now there are some providers I will chat with (while it is rare to become actual friends between mongers and providers, it is possible to be friendly with one another) and maybe even catch a drink or a meal together, or just shoot the breeze. There is nothing wrong with that sort of casual contact, if we agree on that in advance.
However, to continually solicit business via texting is absolutely unacceptable. Especially, if it does not involve some new update, change in service, or a considerable special or discount. Even then, to be honest, it simply is unprofessional.
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Good review aside, Ally is now on my NEVER SEE AGAIN list.
It is reckless, and bothersome to send solicitation texts on a phone. That completely eradicates any quality session a provider may have conducted with me. Not only is it a severe buzz kill, it comes across as woeful begging.
I may not speak for everyone in this matter, but I know enough mongers that this is a sore point for many of them.
This post is not designed to create drama, but rather to warn other mongers that this provider, Ally (aka Sinful Dreams) will literally blow your phone up, if you let her. It should also serve as a point of instruction to ladies new to this profession that most mongers do not want to be contacted in this manner. If they do, they will let you know they want this form of contact.
For the most part, us mongers pride on ourselves on being fairly intelligent and capable clients that take research seriously. We know what we are in the mood for, and when we are in the mood for it. We know how to scan ads and make a selection. We do not need to be prodded or reminded that we like to fuck women.
We do not need a woman to buzz our phone out of the blue with some offer that is not even an actual special, especially when we are busy at work, trying to earn funds to see women that respect our privacy and show a modicum of discretion.
Long read but both sides will figure it out
13 years ago the internet didn't exist to have such a resource. It's commendable and the risks were high following logic out of the back of a city beat mag. Met many and all experiences with exception to one went well. Drug use was to blame, could tell by the glassed eyes and the pushy attitude. Body was worth the experience even though it was carded as a bad one.
I can be taken as a newbie with my limited posts here on this site, and I hope many think like that. Because that's not the litmus test. I'm posting this for many reasons as I view this site for reference points and the ability to grade experiences with those I meet, good or bad.
Those who know me know my handle, and 'shouldn't' think that some of the complaints I fire off here today is directed at you. You know me personally and you know my style, don't offend me by having to be put through a questionnaire not needed.
There are numerous that I've met, some I haven't reviewed yet as I'm searching out or working towards numerous dreams before doing so. If I haven't seen you in awhile it's not permanent. Got a lot going on and that's how it is. I got my favorites. Some it's a matter of the balance, nothing more.
I've had one bad experience off BP. Com that was truly a misrepresentation. If you like hardened German women with short hair, unattractive, I've got a story for you. She no longer advertises on backpage so apparently she got reported.
This is an understanding I want to give to those I haven't met, and this isn't anything personal, nothing other than a heads up.
When a dreamer posts dreams, no link means I don't care because I don't know who the hell you're referencing. PUT the link in your conversation so others can make a decision on your opinion, and see if others have a commanding / similar experience. I recently met one recently that gets 50/50 reviews and I can see why it rolls that way. It's more on the monger and I believe that to be a true statement. Some girls don't want to offer full menu and coming into the game trying to be a game changer because of your wants isn't going to fly.
Girls with similar names is another reason to post their active url path to their listing. Some of these topics runs over multiple users, the convos start to get fractured and all interest is lost trying to patch who started the convo or who's in the believable path.
To the girls who are posting ads here without links outbound to photo sets:
Privacy or no, I don't care what you write in seductive design or the enticement to commit to you; ultimate no. Maybe I don't want to share my references to get to know you. Hide and seek was grade school design, not now. Reference the ones that "do" post their images on here and see what works.
Some of you that are trying to edge up over $150 / hour for services, I got news for you:
You got nothing I want, and it's not an affordability statement. It's one that's geared by averages and the wholesome experiences I've attained. Hence the word "frequency" on an established relationship.
To top that off without naming names, some of you 'with' pictures shooting that high for your rates? Off your kilter completely. If you was beautiful / gorgeous I'll tell you, won't lie. But from what I see you're nothing special, and you might find a sucker every now and again but the established base won't hold still for the cause.
I'm not even complaining; if you're good looking you'd already know me. Skinny isn't always a beautiful thing and I don't make a point of staring aimlessly at praying mantis's. A complexion is something you won't fix with makeup. Might have the body but if I can't look at you without cringing I don't care if a pair of small hands pops out between your legs and pulls me in.
Some features require higher rates, understood like nu ru or greek. Greek is the short phrase of saying I need this for later when I can't sneeze at a family picnic when I'm 60.
What I expect from a woman:
When those clothes come off, I expect you to be clean like a beautiful rose. I don't want excuses, I don't care how hard your day was, none of that matters when the next in line shows up. If you have odor problems down below there's bearable and then there's unacceptable. If I can't get my nose no closer than the distance from your kneecaps, that's wrong even in the book of Job.
Clean up, spray, utilize what the bathroom and personal hygiene / female toiletries offer to the land between the legs because you owe it to the one you expect to fund your motions. << I shouldn't even have to post such criteria but it's not been covered here yet, and there's no better going out of business sign than someone complaining of such an issue for others to see. Body scents are the same that you deal with who come through the door. I understand. Males are not the best kept creature on the planet.
Phone communication:
IDGAF, it's 2013. Have a good phone, make sure I can leave a message if I'm reaching out to you. If you have another person on that voicemail message, WTF is wrong with your voice? It doesn't make sense like Burger King selling McDonald's hamburgers. I always give a substantial time frames on callbacks knowing you might be in the midst of a session. Fair enough.
I know that losing calls can be rough, but sometimes the window of opportunity can come and go in short time spans. Understand that and I'll ring you again, soon. Promise. Hustle me into your time slot and I'll know before I even conversate whether it's going to work or not. Entice me, don't give away the farm, something simple / small if you want my business that bad. An extra 5-10 minutes won't be the end-all.
In summary, it's all about consenting adults, all about having a good time. Some of the newbies (women) in this I have no problem giving pointers to help them get on their way, as long as you follow the solid advice, quit making repetitive mistakes that you know is *ing up your game. If you have a girl that you've teamed up with, whether you're doing FFM's or trading up spots out of the same location, keep in mind that your partner is representing you completely, and those interested in you pay attention to whether your 'other' is decent or not.
Someone I met recently has this problem, and it's terrible because the 'other' has piss poor attitude that keeps a FFM equation from ever transpiring for that reason. Nothing attractive about a bad attitude no matter how good you look. New or not, you'll find your place on the totem pole whether it's your business or personal life.
Those of you who dress nicely, change it up on a regular basis, greatly appreciated. Nudity is not always the carrot hanging from the string mentality. It's more so the shapely figure, what can't be seen that hides under the allure of an outfit whether casual or following the night lingerie. There's one wearing granny panties and bra currently on BP. Com that if you've seen what hides behind those articles of clothing, it's as good as breakfast in bed. I've said enough, but it's necessary I put this out there for those to read because changes need to be made in an effort to help others, save somebody some money when off the chart gouging is evident with a select few. Anyone including advertisers have a problem with this, feel free to critique / offer a rebuttal to my statements. I will NOT entertain any discussions away from the viewing audience. No private messages. Say what you got to say in front of the masses.
After All, It IS a Buyers Market?
I don't think we appreciate the Quality, Quantity of Talent in the Queen City area! I travel forty plus weeks a year, try to sample the local wares, every city I can and got to tell you, we have the best selection of talent, by far, nationwide. After months of watching, reading, researching, I have starting using the local services, KA, UTR, EE, Oh what a bevy of beauties they have and I am completely satisfied with there professionalism, when setting up the arrangements for these ladies. So why the rant? I just set a Pm to another "service", to inquire about a post with no pictures attached and was promptly told, to look at his previous posts! Now, while I admit, I do enjoy the game, the research, the anticipation, the Hunt, if you will, but the one thing that I realize, that this gentleman obviously doesn't, is, it is a Buyers Market and I have the money to play! If I wanted to read all of the old posts, I would. I have my own criteria when shopping, want to look at every picture I can, every angle and every review I can. The great thing about this hobby is that it makes no difference how I look, it only matters that the picture of Ben Franklin is fresh and crisp!
So the most important thing, I guess I'm trying to convey is, If it doesn't make a difference, then why do my favorite providers, include their pictures Every Time? I don't have to name them, welcome back Dawn, but I sure make my decision fast, when I see all of the pics! Even better, when I first decided to try a service, after the screening process, again, I send my info with message, I couldn't book the appointment fast enough, when the Pictures of an under the radar lady, hit my Email. Someone else had said, that Silks advertises more than Geico, but she always has great new pictures with them and obviously there is a reason for that. As you ladies, I too am in sales, appreciate all of you and only want the decision making process, on our part, to be instantaneous. Also, I look forward to stimulating your economy, this week at home and will do my best to keep America rolling!
