General Reports

[QUOTE=Anderson74;1775723]My best advice, as someone who hobbies about as much as you do: 1) Be memorable. These ladies probably get their fill of crude guys coming to see them. Be a gentleman. Be courteous and friendly. Don't let yourself get walked all over, obviously. A visiting provider was my first reference, and even a month later when I finally saw a local provider, she remembered me and I was told she gave a glowing report on me. 2) Call ahead. If you are going to see a different provider and are going to use someone as a reference, call them ahead of time and let them know that you are going to be doing so and they can expect a call from so-and-so. And hand-in-hand with this. Ask them ahead of time if it's ok for you to use them as a reference.[/QUOTE]This is great advice. If I can add one more detail, I would recommend that you bring a small welcome gift. You'd be amazed at how much more memorable you are when you are the guy who brought her a scented candle, bottle of wine or (my favorite) a Victoria Secret gift card.

[QUOTE=Diyfyi; 1775513]Today I called a provider that advertised needing two references. I gave her two references, both of whom I've seen 2-3 times within the last 3 months.

Both responded that they had not seen me (despite the fact they email me to come see them)! Needless to say I'm very disappointed not to be able to see what I think is the sexiest advertiser on here, her pic and ad drives me nuts and I can finally afford her now. I was sooo dying to see her this week. Sigh. Any recommendations as to how I develop references, or am I behind the 8 ball on this?

I'm not rich enough to do this weekly, so for me my dreams are every 3-4 weeks. Will anyone remember me enough to give references? Is it cool to ask them to give references if I've only seen them once?

The young lady I tried to make an appointment with said that some girls won't give references because they are afraid of losing business. But that's silly as if they don't give references I probably won't go back.[/QUOTE]Posting reviews on girls you have seen helps build your standing with providers and also helps backs up your references.

[QUOTE=TravelinMan555; 1775646]I have been lurking in the background waiting to see who I would like to setup my first dream with. I have been interested in Sinful Dreams and was waiting for her to return from a recent trip. I saw that she did return and she posted her availability in Cincinnati, but, she seems to have dropped out of sight. Does anybody know where she may be? You can respond to this post or send me a PM.

Thanks,

TM[/QUOTE]Just talked with Ally yesterday. She's back, taking appointments, and even running a special to celebrate her anniversary! .

[QUOTE=Wingman Todd; 1775634]I am going to chime in with a discussion I recently had with a good friend on the recent thread about getting overly involved with a sexy, sensual and tall provider. Boy, did my buddy get taken to the cleaners!

Then as she was only occasionally working came the: can I have gas money / food? WTF, the fridge was stocked! Then came the: I need money for weed.

Though he'd be up and out by 7:00am for work, she'd be in bed til 1-3 pm and get ready 4 possible appointments that evening. Of course running out first for her weed. This WAS really becoming a strain and the house was a MESS. Made an off-handed remark about helping to straighten up his home and she went nuclear! Watch out for tempers of red-heads especially when quite high which was the norm at that time and still is.

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He will not mentioned her name, though all covered and again watch your time. She has a good following, though I doubt those know her true persona! There are several hints to allude to who she is.[/QUOTE]That sounds like NaughtyNina.

[QUOTE=Jeff75;1775674]Entertaining story, and sad mostly for the guy. He must have realized the relationship was unequal and she had only friendship goals with him. What was his angle and why was he a stooge for so long? I would say many providers would take advantage of someone like him. It is up to us to not be that guy, and at the end the little narrative is so unusual that is not informative or useful.[/QUOTE]Once there was a Tiger and a Monkey who met in the jungle. As time passed, they became great friends. One day, they were hanging out under the jungle canopy when, WHAM! The tiger bit the Monkey's arm off. Astonished, the Monkey looked at the Tiger and said,"What the Fuck? You are eating my fucking arm? I thought we were best friends?"

The Tiger looked at the Monkey, while gnawing on his forearm and said,"We are friends, but I am still a fucking Tiger!"

[QUOTE=Diyfyi; 1775513]Today I called a provider that advertised needing two references. I gave her two references, both of whom I've seen 2-3 times within the last 3 months.

Both responded that they had not seen me (despite the fact they email me to come see them)! Needless to say I'm very disappointed not to be able to see what I think is the sexiest advertiser on here, her pic and ad drives me nuts and I can finally afford her now. I was sooo dying to see her this week. Sigh. Any recommendations as to how I develop references, or am I behind the 8 ball on this?

I'm not rich enough to do this weekly, so for me my dreams are every 3-4 weeks. Will anyone remember me enough to give references? Is it cool to ask them to give references if I've only seen them once?

The young lady I tried to make an appointment with said that some girls won't give references because they are afraid of losing business. But that's silly as if they don't give references I probably won't go back.[/QUOTE]Once is good enuf to get a reference for. Yes some providers are unwilling to do references because they want you to come back to them. But this hobby is about variety and any provider that you have seen should give you a reference even if only seeing you once. You could find another provider and do a quick dream or a half hr dream just so you can save money to go to the big dream you want but make sure the provider you are seeing is willing to give you a reference if at any time you need one. It is absolutely bs that a provider you have been seeing for awhile won't give you a reference.

[QUOTE=Easton 1269; 1775980]Once there was a Tiger and a Monkey who met in the jungle. As time passed, they became great friends. One day, they were hanging out under the jungle canopy when, WHAM! The tiger bit the Monkey's arm off. Astonished, the Monkey looked at the Tiger and said,"What the Fuck? You are eating my fucking arm? I thought we were best friends?"

The Tiger looked at the Monkey, while gnawing on his forearm and said,"We are friends, but I am still a fucking Tiger!"[/QUOTE]Great analogy. We all do better when we remember to make our appointment, do our thing, go home, and don't worry about their life's until it is time to call on them again, lest we risk an arm.

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[QUOTE=TravelinMan555; 1775646]I have been lurking in the background waiting to see who I would like to setup my first dream with. I have been interested in Sinful Dreams and was waiting for her to return from a recent trip. I saw that she did return and she posted her availability in Cincinnati, but, she seems to have dropped out of sight. Does anybody know where she may be? You can respond to this post or send me a PM.

Thanks,

TM[/QUOTE]Note sure where she is but she is on line now 1:00PM.

[QUOTE=Diyfyi; 1775513]Today I called a provider that advertised needing two references. I gave her two references, both of whom I've seen 2-3 times within the last 3 months.

Both responded that they had not seen me (despite the fact they email me to come see them)! Needless to say I'm very disappointed not to be able to see what I think is the sexiest advertiser on here, her pic and ad drives me nuts and I can finally afford her now. I was sooo dying to see her this week. Sigh. Any recommendations as to how I develop references, or am I behind the 8 ball on this?

I'm not rich enough to do this weekly, so for me my dreams are every 3-4 weeks. Will anyone remember me enough to give references? Is it cool to ask them to give references if I've only seen them once?

The young lady I tried to make an appointment with said that some girls won't give references because they are afraid of losing business. But that's silly as if they don't give references I probably won't go back.[/QUOTE]Yes the provider he is referring to is me and this is not the first time this has happened and I'm sure many other providers would agree sometime youll txt another girl and then they'll txt that client whining and crying saying well why don't you see me I thought you liked me blah blah blah it does get it old but it happens all we can do is ask for the refrence some are secure in their own business to give the refrence while others are petty and chidish basically at the end of the day its a business and we all have to make money so stop being babies woman up and extend the same courtesy youd want extended to you what goes around comes around what you put into this world you get back.

[QUOTE=SilkyWetness;1776052]Yes the provider he is referring to is me and this is not the first time this has happened and I'm sure many other providers would agree sometime youll txt another girl and then they'll txt that client whining and crying saying well why don't you see me I thought you liked me blah blah blah it does get it old but it happens all we can do is ask for the refrence some are secure in their own business to give the refrence while others are petty and chidish basically at the end of the day its a business and we all have to make money so stop being babies woman up and extend the same courtesy youd want extended to you what goes around comes around what you put into this world you get back.[/QUOTE]Go girl! Sometime in life SHIT happens.

Yes, we have had this issue in Cincy for a while now. I will always give a reference and respond to the request, whether or not I have seen them before. Also, if it is a provider that I am not familiar with, I make sure to research that she is legit and fun before responding to her request.

My thoughts on the issue of providers not giving references:

(1) CockBlocking. They don't want to lose their client. Or, they back-stab and call the client and beg them to see them instead.

(2) Some providers may not be as professional in terms of the business aspect of the hobby; in other words, they do not keep track of all numbers / names / handles, etc.

(3) Sometimes even the best providers forget to save names / numbers / contact info. I myself have done that before, and I respond truthfully to the provider, saying that I may have seen him, but did not save contact info.

(4) Some providers may be lacking in their screening process, and don't check references before meeting with a client, so I highly doubt those ladies would save contact info either.

Just my thoughts.

Kisses,

MD

[QUOTE=Easton 1269; 1775980]Once there was a Tiger and a Monkey who met in the jungle. As time passed, they became great friends. One day, they were hanging out under the jungle canopy when, WHAM! The tiger bit the Monkey's arm off. Astonished, the Monkey looked at the Tiger and said,"What the Fuck? You are eating my fucking arm? I thought we were best friends?"

The Tiger looked at the Monkey, while gnawing on his forearm and said,"We are friends, but I am still a fucking Tiger!"[/QUOTE]When I was growing up, I heard lots of little sayings reflecting common sense. Amazing how many of them I ignored and got bit in the ass. A tiger never changes his stripes was one of them. Hell, I can't even deal with civilians who have no drug habits and are not trying to dig money from me.

Smile, Well just goes to show I've been choosing the wrong ones Silky. I'll mend my ways. :)

Today I dreamed about a fabulous young lady, Candice. I won't go into the details, there's plenty of reviews of her and my dream fully lived up to those.

We did spend about half of the hour enjoying chatting and cuddling and she is really a very nice woman. Looking forward to future dreams and company with her.

And, grin, she will refer me.

I've slipped out of this scene for a couple months. I was contacted via phone by someone who I'm convinced was my uncle leo. Claiming he was looking for a provider gone missing who I may or may not have seen in the past, asking details about this site, what my account name was, who I've seen. Obviously, I told him I didn't know anything and ended the call. Intuition tells me that my uncle leo may have brought this girl home with him, and is now using her phone to find more information. This, in combination with some new faces on the scene, especially on backpages, was enough to make me end my adventures on this and other sites. At this point I've just gone into lurking to see if my suspicions are true. We'll see.

Hi, I apologize for posting here. I tried to post a new thread in the Cincy section, but it just keeps telling me I'm not either activated (I am) or don't have permission to do so.

I'm trying to find out if anyone has had any luck with any of the cleaning services for action? I don't particularly care if it's nude cleaning, but actually getting more.

Currently, I have a girl who was down on her luck who I pay to come clean my place every two weeks. Since I'm here when she does it, we normally fuck once or twice while she's here. Unfortunately. She's moving soon.

So. I actually do need someone who can do some basic light cleaning and also might be up for some play as well. I've seen the backpage ads for the "sexy maids" and I don't think that's probably what I'm after.

I'm not senior enough to expect to be given digits or anything, but any suggestions on where to search for this? Or maybe some ads I've missed in the past?