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[QUOTE=Splenda;4131005]She keeps texting me every week coming down 50 each time. We're currently at 300. No dice. I ain't giving allowance to a woman I can match on Bumble.[/QUOTE]I counter 300 but she said lowest is 400. Damn! Maybe I will play the wait game.
[QUOTE=CitySlicker;4131426]I counter 300 but she said lowest is 400. Damn! Maybe I will play the wait game.[/QUOTE]Definition of Golden Pussy Syndrome!
Over the last week I have noticed multiple new profiles. At least 4 - listing two locations. One is Eugene, OR, and the other San Diego.
It is just not possible that so many genuine women would sign up with those two improbable locations within a week. Has to be a scam. Anyone got any idea as to what the scam is? I did not contact any of them.
[QUOTE=PussyPumper;4135319]Over the last week I have noticed multiple new profiles. At least 4 - listing two locations. One is Eugene, OR, and the other San Diego.
It is just not possible that so many genuine women would sign up with those two improbable locations within a week. Has to be a scam. Anyone got any idea as to what the scam is? I did not contact any of them.[/QUOTE]Check out the instagram acct "_farihaxahmed" Stay alert guys.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9bacb645-b8bf-45e4-bd11-7b9dc281af5b[/URL]
She was quick to accept my offer of texting each other rather than messaging each other on the site. She sent me some sexy pix. Then, after jerking me around all day (disappearing and then re-appearing) she said I needed to go through her booking process to meet with her. Her booking process? Yes, without getting specific, she said I needed to send a partial payment to her management. She didn't specific how or how much. I wrote an asked her if she thought I was stupid, born yesterday, or both. I told her there was no way I was going to send money to a total stranger. I don't care what their BBB rating is. She said, "Oh, well, then we're not getting together. " I wrote back, you're damn right we're not. ".
There was a guy on here recently who said he was going to report all pros to the admin of SA. Well, I guess she is going to be one of them.
Anyone else had the pleasure of meeting Lexi?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9e83f71d-8bcf-4928-972d-0259b8089536[/URL]
Positives:
Tiny Asian spinner.
Insatiable. Loves it. Keeps on going as long or longer than you can. Got 3 out of me.
Loves to DP herself. Toy and you. Either way around.
Took me in the rear!
Photos are accurate.
Negatives:
Minimal oral or kissing.
Bolt-ons are obviously so. Hard.
Older than stated. Probably around 10 years off.
PM for anything else.
Question. If I let my premium lapse for a month or two then re-up will I have my previous messages?
Also will say I am finding things to be as described here. Seems the older ladies, my preference as I'm in my 60's, well they seem to want high Dollar. You spend a lot of time chatting, even m&g only to hear $350-$500.
The one I've got going is for $200 but our schedules don't work too well. No I wonder whether any of the other ladies I'm talking with will work out.
I'll probably do another month.
[QUOTE=WilliamMonroe;4145783]Question. If I let my premium lapse for a month or two then re-up will I have my previous messages?
[/QUOTE]Yes your messages will still be there as long as you don't delete then.
[QUOTE=WilliamMonroe;4145783]Question. If I let my premium lapse for a month or two then re-up will I have my previous messages?
Also will say I am finding things to be as described here. Seems the older ladies, my preference as I'm in my 60's, well they seem to want high Dollar. You spend a lot of time chatting, even m&g only to hear $350-$500.
The one I've got going is for $200 but our schedules don't work too well. No I wonder whether any of the other ladies I'm talking with will work out.
I'll probably do another month.[/QUOTE]1) Yes, your messages will all still be there.
2) I was one of those who previously stated that the MILFS want (ask for) more money. I stand by that.
In addition, they usually have more commitments (work, kids), invariably have had bad experiences, and they are often bitter. Younger / students are better in all respects: better bodies, hotter, not burned out / bitter, fewer commitments, need less money, more flexible,.
3) If you get a high ask, never, ever say no / walk away. Do the opposite. Tell them what they want is reasonable! But unfortunately, you can't go that high, because of X, why, Z. I have had considerable success with this approach. Just one example, I talked our local porn star down from a 600 ask to my usual offer of 300.
[QUOTE=PussyPumper;4146469]3) If you get a high ask, never, ever say no / walk away. Do the opposite. Tell them what they want is reasonable! But unfortunately, you can't go that high, because of X, why, Z. I have had considerable success with this approach. Just one example, I talked our local porn star down from a 600 ask to my usual offer of 300.[/QUOTE]Can vouch for this approach.
Will especially work if you have some charm or other attractive qualities.
It's a definite mind-fuck for them because:
(1) Most men are rude / disrespectful if a pot gives them a figure out of their budget. Or they just ghost them, probably because theyre scared to say no and look "cheap".
(2) Telling them that they're reasonable for asking that is so far out of the norm that it's a conscious interrupt for them.
(3) Giving sound reasoning why it's out of your budget & being willing to walk away shows you're not desperate and have some principles.
Had a girl asking for $2 k / mo up front, and that she wasn't willing to negotiate. Looks like she could be a Kardashian.
Told her:
(1) that she's justified for asking that, and that I respect it, but.
(2) it's out of my budget.
(3) I'm glad that she doesn't want to negotiate it, and that I don't either because I wouldn't want her feeling disrespected or short-changed, and.
(4) I'm sure she'll find someone that she actually likes, that will give her what she's looking for and then some.
(3) is what really mind-fucked her.
She blew my phone up for hours wanting to talk about it (I ignored her purposefully).
Got her down to $300/ meet once a week.
[QUOTE=Mile22;4148068]Can vouch for this approach.
Will especially work if you have some charm or other attractive qualities.
It's a definite mind-fuck for them because:
(1) Most men are rude / disrespectful if a pot gives them a figure out of their budget. Or they just ghost them, probably because theyre scared to say no and look "cheap".
(2) Telling them that they're reasonable for asking that is so far out of the norm that it's a conscious interrupt for them.
(3) Giving sound reasoning why it's out of your budget & being willing to walk away shows you're not desperate and have some principles.
Had a girl asking for $2 k / mo up front, and that she wasn't willing to negotiate. Looks like she could be a Kardashian.
Told her:
(1) that she's justified for asking that, and that I respect it, but.
(2) it's out of my budget.
(3) I'm glad that she doesn't want to negotiate it, and that I don't either because I wouldn't want her feeling disrespected or short-changed, and.
(4) I'm sure she'll find someone that she actually likes, that will give her what she's looking for and then some.
(3) is what really mind-fucked her.
She blew my phone up for hours wanting to talk about it (I ignored her purposefully).
Got her down to $300/ meet once a week.[/QUOTE]I think that's a reasonable approach, if you're negotiating electronically. I try never to do that, I think women are much more conservative in their ask if they are face-to-face. No one wants rejection, even if they have GPS. When one tells me she was getting 6-800 per meet, or a big monthly, I say (nicely) that she should go back and find the SD that provided it, because it was out of my budget. I do have an explanation, I'm looking upscale to her, but I have a SO I must hide the $ from, so that is my reason for not meeting her ask.
I had a M&G w / a lovely Latina (in the IE) and we had instant chemistry, but she went through the above ask. I told her (generally) it was too high, I was surprised she didn't start negotiation w / me, we got along so well. But if they get a 'value' in their mind, often it can be hard to shake.
In my experience, if a POT ever says stuff like 'I know my worth', the conversation has turned for the worse, and you should try to establish the bottom line quickly and determine if you are game for it. If that is in the profile, I skip it, b / c you can be sure that the worth that she knows is a big number.
[QUOTE=CitySlicker;4131426]I counter 300 but she said lowest is 400. Damn! Maybe I will play the wait game.[/QUOTE]Met her twice late last year. It came down to $300 for multiple hours. Be patient and you'll be rewarded. Cheers!
Hello all. I just joined here. Seems everyone is referencing Seeking, so want to join there. I think I used to have account there when it was maybe called Selling Arrangements, but left because it became too much of a hassle to pay anonymously. I read here can use prepaid Vanilla Visa card, so went to store but seemed like there MIGHT be 2 kinds as some of the cards said something like "no charge after initial fee" whereas others did not.
I would very much appreciate it if someone please tell me. EXACTLY which card works and also anything else I will need to make this work!
[QUOTE=MarcDeCafe;4155177]Hello all. I just joined here. Seems everyone is referencing Seeking, so want to join there. I think I used to have account there when it was maybe called Selling Arrangements, but left because it became too much of a hassle to pay anonymously. I read here can use prepaid Vanilla Visa card, so went to store but seemed like there MIGHT be 2 kinds as some of the cards said something like "no charge after initial fee" whereas others did not.
I would very much appreciate it if someone please tell me. EXACTLY which card works and also anything else I will need to make this work![/QUOTE]Thread # 801 & 795 confirmed that Vanilla brand Visa works. I have tried different types of Vanilla brand of the prepaid cards, they all work.
[QUOTE=KingBaby;4155774]Thread # 801 & 795 confirmed that Vanilla brand Visa works. I have tried different types of Vanilla brand of the prepaid cards, they all work.[/QUOTE]Thank you. I will look at the threads you mention. I just recall something about need address, but it did not have to be correct, but maybe needed correct zip code?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f2f852eb-fa5d-486d-8b68-1b751d5a9080[/URL]
$300 for multiple hours last month. Just increased her goal to $600 which is way too much.
[QUOTE=JakeDSnake;4157035][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f2f852eb-fa5d-486d-8b68-1b751d5a9080[/URL]
$300 for multiple hours last month. Just increased her goal to $600 which is way too much.[/QUOTE]300 hundred she's a keeper I would do 6 for weekends.
Still a freaking hottie you lucky bastard!
[QUOTE=KingBaby;4155774]Thread # 801 & 795 confirmed that Vanilla brand Visa works. I have tried different types of Vanilla brand of the prepaid cards, they all work.[/QUOTE]I used an Amex prepaid card bought at Walmart. It doesn't have monthly recurring fees etc.
Damn. She is hot. And that ass. My gosh. And she is willing to BBFS. Lovely.
[QUOTE=JakeDSnake;4157035][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f2f852eb-fa5d-486d-8b68-1b751d5a9080[/URL]
$300 for multiple hours last month. Just increased her goal to $600 which is way too much.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=JakeDSnake;4157035][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f2f852eb-fa5d-486d-8b68-1b751d5a9080[/URL]
$300 for multiple hours last month. Just increased her goal to $600 which is way too much.[/QUOTE]OMFG! Best pic of 2019 by a mile. Congrats to you for landing that pretty young lady and that view. Damn!!
She reached out to me and said we should meet and see if we connect. Message a little and move to texting. Due to my schedule, set a M&G for a couple days later near where she lives. Continue to chat and I ask, if we "connect" is moving on to the main event ok. She replies yes, so we begin negotiating allowance. Claims her typical is 500, I counter with 200 and says she's good with that. Pay attention prospective daddies, don't cave right away and give away the farm. A couple hours before our date, she texts that if sex is involved, she typically gets 500. I remind her of our prior discussion. No response. After 30 minutes I text I'm moving on, I'm sure there are plenty of other $500 guys out there and good luck in your search. That got things going again. Now she just wants to meet for dinner and drinks and we can talk about it and suggests a waterfront dining option. I counter with a local hole in the wall fish place that has great food but without the inflated prices and "fine dining" experience. After all this, I was in no mood to impress / spend lots of $/ cater to / slobber over / some POT that has gps or at a minimum is a professional meet and greeter.
Sorry, my mistake.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c244717b-b498-453f-87c2-d1f17c1d1bea[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0155086a-6286-4ab7-b745-6cd781ad8c93[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a7ec53dc-f257-46b8-a4a2-e46c4cc9242c[/URL]
They (if you see the pics) are the same person and want 200 $ for professional M&G. So she hit me up saying that they would love to meet and I will have to pay them upfront. Afterwards they will direct me to their apartment via text (which sounded like a bait and decided to ghost them).
[QUOTE=Holocaust;4163196][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0155086a-6286-4ab7-b745-6cd781ad8c93[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a7ec53dc-f257-46b8-a4a2-e46c4cc9242c[/URL]
They (if you see the pics) are the same person and want 200 $ for professional M&G. So she hit me up saying that they would love to meet and I will have to pay them upfront. Afterwards they will direct me to their apartment via text (which sounded like a bait and decided to ghost them).[/QUOTE]This would be a cool play. Go along with this charade and set up your M&G. When they text that they are at the meeting place and "where are you?" Text back and say "I'm trying to get your money, but the ATM is closed!
I am visiting for only two days and I would appreciate recommendations for a GFE baby as I do not have much time to have a meet and greet, I need a "sure thing " F / S GFE sugar baby I appreciate your help Thanks M.
[QUOTE=Waxxon;4162564]She reached out to me and said we should meet and see if we connect. Message a little and move to texting. Due to my schedule, set a M&G for a couple days later near where she lives. Continue to chat and I ask, if we "connect" is moving on to the main event ok. She replies yes, so we begin negotiating allowance. Claims her typical is 500, I counter with 200 and says she's good with that. Pay attention prospective daddies, don't cave right away and give away the farm. A couple hours before our date, she texts that if sex is involved, she typically gets 500. I remind her of our prior discussion. No response. After 30 minutes I text I'm moving on, I'm sure there are plenty of other $500 guys out there and good luck in your search. That got things going again. Now she just wants to meet for dinner and drinks and we can talk about it and suggests a waterfront dining option. I counter with a local hole in the wall fish place that has great food but without the inflated prices and "fine dining" experience. After all this, I was in no mood to impress / spend lots of $/ cater to / slobber over / some POT that has gps or at a minimum is a professional meet and greeter.[/QUOTE]I agree on all counts. If the $ sounds unreasonable and that sense of being just reeled in via M&G, I'm out.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/62933b03-b0e7-4426-9394-fc3b5a286aac[/URL]
This one I have been in touch with for months through SA messaging. We started using text four weeks ago (I use my hobby phone) and talked about meeting for wine on Wednesday. Then she asked how am I going to compensate her for the meet. I told her that I usually don't pay anyone ever just to chat in person. She then said, "Forget it then. " LOL.
Where could I read about tips on sugardaddying? Are there any forums that are made for newbies?
[QUOTE=JoeJoesph;4176169]Where could I read about tips on sugardaddying? Are there any forums that are made for newbies?[/QUOTE]Paul in Columbus, Ohio. I've had good success, 614-622-0133, text of you have questions.
[QUOTE=JoeJoesph;4176169]Where could I read about tips on sugardaddying? Are there any forums that are made for newbies?[/QUOTE]Try Richmond VA site wealth of info I need help on a GFE S A woman from san Diego as I am visiting next week I only am here for 2 days so I have to be right on the money for performance Thanks CM.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/12c4a02b-d49c-4504-b828-589fe02998da[/URL]
Been messaging this one and then we took it to text. Wants $300 PPM. I had countered with $200 but haven't heard back.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/498e17f2-4898-4d48-a2aa-7691a65d533e[/URL]
This one wanted $400 PPM. I talked her down to $200 but haven't been able to meet up yet. She tried telling me that guys were paying her $250 for HJ, $300 for BJ and $400 for sex LOL. My initial offer was $1. 5 and she said she would give me a HJ for that. LOL I'm not paying $1.5 for something I can do myself. Don't give in to these delusional girls fellas. There are plenty girls out there that'll accept your offers.
[QUOTE=Snwbdr;4176604][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/12c4a02b-d49c-4504-b828-589fe02998da[/URL]
Been messaging this one and then we took it to text. Wants $300 PPM. I had countered with $200 but haven't heard back.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/498e17f2-4898-4d48-a2aa-7691a65d533e[/URL]
This one wanted $400 PPM. I talked her down to $200 but haven't been able to meet up yet. She tried telling me that guys were paying her $250 for HJ, $300 for BJ and $400 for sex LOL. My initial offer was $1. 5 and she said she would give me a HJ for that. LOL I'm not paying $1.5 for something I can do myself. Don't give in to these delusional girls fellas. There are plenty girls out there that'll accept your offers.[/QUOTE]Just my view, but IDK that I would call a girl who wants 300 golden pussy syndrome. The ultimate $ is a function of both what you can negotiate and what you bring to the table, and what kind of experience you'd like. You may be a 30 YO Brad Pitt look-alike, and then you'll get a girl for less. I recommend always negotiating face to face, you're sure to get her top price if you do it electronically.
[QUOTE=JoeJoesph;4176169]Where could I read about tips on sugardaddying? Are there any forums that are made for newbies?[/QUOTE]Join the site and get on their email list. I get about four or five emails a week with stories and pretty good advice. Granted, they make it sound easier than it probably is, but the real letters are pretty good.
C3.
[QUOTE=JoeJoesph;4176169]Where could I read about tips on sugardaddying? Are there any forums that are made for newbies?[/QUOTE]Go to the RIchmond, VA page, and there is both an active forum and an archive of all the key past posts.
[QUOTE=Waxxon;4162565]Sorry, my mistake.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c244717b-b498-453f-87c2-d1f17c1d1bea[/URL][/QUOTE]This chick reached out to me too. Wants to hangout, but doesn't have a car. So I got to pick her up and head out to drink etc. Apparently nothing else.
[QUOTE=SdWalkerSam;4177820]This chick reached out to me too. Wants to hangout, but doesn't have a car. So I got to pick her up and head out to drink etc. Apparently nothing else.[/QUOTE]You can send an uber for her. You could also just offer to pay for her uber.
I am visiting San Diego next week for two days and need recommendations for a ' SURE THING" GFE no drama non curvy Sugar Baby.
PM is fine Thanks CM.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;4178781]You can send an uber for her. You could also just offer to pay for her uber.[/QUOTE]Yeah, she flaked anyway.
Every so often someone makes a reference to an SB having "daddy issues", or "serious daddy issues". Can anyone give examples?
I met one SB who wanted to call me daddy, but that was about it. So, I don't think there is really that much of this out there?
[QUOTE=PussyPumper;4181865]Every so often someone makes a reference to an SB having "daddy issues", or "serious daddy issues". Can anyone give examples?
I met one SB who wanted to call me daddy, but that was about it. So, I don't think there is really that much of this out there?[/QUOTE]You have lead a major sheltered life. Try Googling Daddy Issues. I did and here is a paragraph I found that tells it like it is.
Daddy issues in a woman can be a man's best friend. And also the worst. On the one hand, meeting a girl with a fucked up relationship with her father can mean a modest, docile dynamo-in-the-sack who'll come over to your house on short notice to have rough sex and bake cookies for you afterward. On the other hand, it can signal that you're about to embark on a clusterfuck rollercoaster ride with a head case—that'll likely end with the cops coming to your house, you having to repaint your car, or having to call Verizon Wireless to block a number from reaching your "handset. ".