That's all you can do is report
[QUOTE=JaxTantricMan;2611047]P.S., now I've had my morning Joe I understand your question better. Guaranteed vacations have occurred associated with that location, which doesn't mean everyone, just some. Do you personally know everything that has occurred there or is connected to that location? Hey, it's your life, money and reputation, so if hardcore drugs is your scene, then feel free to hang out there all you want. It's real simple, I report and post what I see fit to and you are free to do the same.[/QUOTE]And leave the rest up to those who read to decide.
The Preacher is going on a sabatical
Heading up to the NC mountains for a week on Sat. So if my comms go dark on here, don't worry. I have not been sent on vacation by Uncle. .
That's No Where Near Enough
[QUOTE=Admin2;2614152]You guys need to get a subscription like I have.[/QUOTE]Heck A2, that's no where near enough for you just for ALL the personal traffic from Providers!!
I'm thinking you need your own private server. ;o).
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Cosplay is an expensive endeavor for a provider that doesn't have the wardrobe
You could try an ISO post on TER to find ladies that already offer those dreams. I'm sure a local lady that's willing to participate would be more receptive if you bring the costume. I didn't see a mention of Princess Leah. Isn't that #1 on every guy's list? LOL.
[QUOTE=ThePreacher;2621897]I wonder why some providers don't specialize in cosplay or costumed role play? As a nerd myself, I would find it pretty fucking hot if a provider literally gave me a comic book dream. (I. E. She was dressed up as Power Girl, Wonder Woman, Harley Quinn or Rogue from X-Men). Seems like a niche just waiting to be filled by an adventurous provider.[/QUOTE]
I suck at improvisational role play
I've worn costumes for work in theme parks. It was easy to get in character when you have a company and coworkers feeding you lines and ideas to bring it to life. I'm not that quick if I'm not rehearsed and I think most guys would like to interact with the character spontaneously.
I think that I Dream of Jeannie sounds like a fun role for a pleaser. "Yes, master. ".
[QUOTE=OldSchool;2622281]Personally, I have always had a thing for I Dream of Jeannie and Wonder Woman Princess Leia outfit looks hot may have to consider. Besides being a Private Assistant, do you have any other personalities?
OS.[/QUOTE]
While I do agree that clients should respect the way you do biz
[QUOTE=PristineChase;2622292]I just wanted to take a minute to vent. There is no place in the Carolina area I can post this so here goes. (I hope the Carolina hobbyists sees this as well). So as of lately, I have seen a few reviews on this board complaining that my attitude sucks. Seeing me is like walking thru a "minefield", or I've become less accommodating. Let me start by saying this. Yes! My phone demeanor is not the best. Put yourself in my shoes and continuously answer the phone for guys who #1. Don't read your ad that you have taken the time to create and try to be detailed to avoid wasting time or surprises on eithers behalf, then call asking incriminating questions, that have already been addressed in ads and website. #2. Want to negotiate your donations when your ad clearly states non-negotiable, then call back and cuss you out and call you stuck up because you won't bend to their will. #3. Get off on holding 20 min conversations that lead nowhere or (and this happens ALOT) Guys who call just to listen to you talk while they jack off. Then you have the regulars, who feel like since they have seen you a number of times, they're supposed to get special treatment / services and the protocols no longer apply to them. I experience this all day everyday, even when I'm not posted. You men have no idea! How many asshole calls, I have to tolerate! Would you seriously be in a good chipper mood, after getting 10 pointless calls to every 1-2 serious calls?? Just how some schools have "take your kid to work day". We need to have "Take your client to work day". Then maybe you guys can catch a glimpse of how much bullshit I go through on the daily.
As far as dealing with my regulars (and this is directed to my carolina suitors and the comments posted) - When we first started to see each other, you treated me accordingly! Showed up on time with correct donations. Had a good time and so on. Then you got to the point where you started to get too comfortable and fall out of the client zone. You started treating me like a "side-chic", showing up hella late (or not at all) to your appointments. Asking for discounts or services that I either don't provide or wasn't included in your donations and so forth. If we have met before, then obviously you are fully aware of my donations and where to locate them, so why the need to discuss them?? It doesn't matter if we have met a thousand times, by then you should know my donations. Just like I got busted in Nashville and was offered a deal to post my ads and help them bust clients, They can turn the tables and offer you the same deal to set up some ladies. THIS is what caused my attitude to sour with you. If you feel that you don't need to respect and uphold the business relationship on your end, then why should I?? I have regulars I have been seeing for 6-7+ years and it's because they don't cross the line with me. They respect that this is a business and treat it as such. They don't feel as though they have special entitlements because they've been seeing me for so long. The 2 days I have been here in Jacksonville, I have had 4 REGULARS call and make dates and NEVER show up, but call back hours later or the next day trying to make appointments like nothing ever happened,. No apologies for wasting my time or nothing! And Yes! I say wasting my time because unlike most providers I work by appointments. I don't over book, I take the time to shower before every date, freshen my face up and fix my hair. Do you really expect me to be cheerleader hype after doing this damn near 7+ times a day and in the process missing out on possibly serious suitors / money. At that point, I'm pretty pissed and discouraged!!
BSecret55 - I still have those emails and you did not question me about the donation differences. What really happened was you GOOGLED me and found the links to my new website as well as the link to my old website. You decided to check out my old website and compare the two and when discovering the difference, you tried to schedule a date using the donations from my old site instead of the NEW site. The same NEW website you booked me through for our first date. When I brought to your attention that those donations were no longer valid, THAT'S when you pointed out that you had found another website and wanted those donations. When I told you that I no longer use that website, you accused me of trying to up-sell when you knew damn well which website to use and what my current donations were.
HobbyNewbie803 - Yes our date did suck. It sucked balls!! I'm not okay with being asked to do what's not included in your donations, plain and simple! If you want a BBBJ, Pay for the PSE date. If you want to do greek, pay for a fetish date!! Simple as that. It kills my mood / vibe to have someone come in my room with donations for a basic FS date, but keeps asking for GFE / PSE / Fetish intimacy. ?! I'm sure you're familiar with the saying " You get what you pay for". You paid for a FS date so that's what you got. It could've been something to remember but you messed it up by trying to get me to do more than what you compensated me for.
I have no desire to carry-on or argue with anyone, Just wanted to offer some insight as to why I am the way I am and offer the FULL story behind these comments. And to the few who have told me, this occupation isn't for me. No, I'm just not for you. I'm getting my coins in order to exit the business anyway. I'm 30 with 2 kids, It's time I settle down and find me a mister (LOL![/QUOTE]
I also believe that no matter how much of an azz-hole others are being towards you, when you are dealing with a new client who had nothing to do with the negative interaction you had with a previous client, that client should not have to feel the wrath of what transpired between you and previous client. As I pointed out on BP thread about double booking and such, if a provider had an issue with people 'no showing' then have your issue with that client; not the new one (or regular one, for that matter). Most clients, when they encounter a provider for the first time, if she comes off with a negative attitude, for whatever reason, will likely decide not to see that provider.
As I mentioned on the other thread, if your boss and his wife had an argument and he came to work to take it out on you or his other employees, you, myself, or anyone else wouldn't appreciate that kind of treatment. When I'm at work, no matter how I'm treated by other clients, I have to put on the happy face, not only when dealing with the azz-hole but when I encounter other clients as well. The other client had nothing to do with the azz-hole I dealt with earlier. It's just good biz etiquette to deal with everyone with respect and professionalism. Now for those who try to disrespect you, there is always a way to deal with them like don't see their azzes again; simple as that!
I respect the fact that you have your rules; it's your biz and that's fine. Most of us know if a guy is going to request greek, that is extra money; hands down! Or any other fetish or PSE, for that matter. Those points, I nor anyone else, should argue with, however, if a client no shows, shows up too late (and never updated you on their status), etc. , then deal with said client accordingly but when you deal with a client as a new or regular customer, as long as he is being respectful, he should expect the same. It is just good biz. Clients and providers, alike, must deal with a lot of shenanigans from either side but we can't treat others badly because of the few bad apples. It's about as bad as these providers who won't see certain clients because of a few idiots and everyone else has to suffer because of it. Why not change your biz tactics like only seeing any client over a certain age, like 40 but to demonize everyone else is not fair.
In other words, AVOID the defense mechanism commonly referred to as "Displacement." No one else should have to feel the wrath because of what someone else has done.
Displacement
Displacement is the redirecting of thoughts feelings and impulses directed at one person or object, but taken out upon another person or object. People often use displacement when they cannot express their feelings in a safe manner to the person they are directed at. The classic example is the man who gets angry at his boss, but cant express his anger to his boss for fear of being fired. He instead comes home and kicks the dog or starts an argument with his wife. The man is redirecting his anger from his boss to his dog or wife. Naturally, this is a pretty ineffective defense mechanism, because while the anger finds a route for expression, its misapplication to other harmless people or objects will cause additional problems for most people.
Speaking of a professional like Rae Monroe
Look at her cancellation policy:
Cancellation Policy *.
All rendezvous cancelled with less than 24 hrs notice must pay 25% of the intended donation. I do take credit cards and it is discretely billed.
Rendezvous cancelled with less than 4 hrs notice must pay 100% of the intended donation.
Payment must be within 48 hrs of the terminated date.
By contacting me, you agree to not only respect my time & business, but adhere to my cancellation policy.
Now this is a true professional! This is what other girls should adopt or something similar. This will either cut down on these cancellations or clients can expect not to see the provider ever again if they decide not to adhere to these policies!
Here is another excerpt from Rae Monroe's website
Like I said, a true professional:
Rae:
Hello lover, and thank you for reading. To begin, my donations are non-negotiable. If you cannot afford to see me, based on my listed donations, please move on. I do not offer "grandfathered" donations so please don't ask.
To avoid having to ask or awkwardness please double check my donations before we meet.
I ask that you leave my gift in the bathroom or in the area I am entertaining you within ten minutes of the start of our rendezvous.
I thoroughly enjoy getting started the minute you walk into the door, but please tear yourself away for a few moments to wash your hands. If you're going to be touching me (anywhere) you need to wash up and perhaps use the mouthwash provided.
I will always have toiletries and fresh towels available for you if you're unable to freshen up before you come see me. Freshly showered skin is amazing and will make both of us more comfortable.
Um, How Exactly Does She Collect?
[QUOTE=YoungRestless;2622746]Look at her cancellation policy:
Cancellation Policy *.
All rendezvous cancelled with less than 24 hrs notice must pay 25% of the intended donation. I do take credit cards and it is discretely billed.
Rendezvous cancelled with less than 4 hrs notice must pay 100% of the intended donation.
Payment must be within 48 hrs of the terminated date.
By contacting me, you agree to not only respect my time & business, but adhere to my cancellation policy.
Now this is a true professional! This is what other girls should adopt or something similar. This will either cut down on these cancellations or clients can expect not to see the provider ever again if they decide not to adhere to these policies![/QUOTE]If you cancel on her? Who would be foolish enough to provide her with cc information? Nice try on her part, but there is no way she can collect.
I actually posted that for
[QUOTE=PristineChase;2623044]Have you visited my website?? It says the same thing. ?! [URL]http://yournewatf.com/pageid-444033[/URL] Navigate the other pages. Everything you copied and pasted is stated on my website. I've doing / saying this for years. I don't mention a cancellation policy because I really don't care to see a no-show after my time has been wasted. How so many guys post here about being stood up and given bs excuses, I feel the same way. If I do see a no-show, when they contact me to schedule again I require them to pay the TOTAL amount of the date they missed and the donation for the date they are currently requesting (If the date wasn't cancelled in a timely manner. Preferably at least 20 min before your scheduled appointment). Notice you have NEVER read about me skipping out on a date, but you have read that it is hard to catch me. I offer the same amenities and require my suitors to wash their hands and gargle mouthwash before beginning and have gotten complaints because of that simple request! So what makes her wishes / demands more receptive or understanding than mines?[/QUOTE]Providers in general; not really specifically you. My whole point was that when people act like asses, don't take out your frustrations on other clients. Deal directly with the offender was my point and yes charging your additional fees for offenders is perfectly acceptable. It's yur biz.
I'm just thinking, not sure
[QUOTE=GufyFosho;2623048]If you cancel on her? Who would be foolish enough to provide her with cc information? Nice try on her part, but there is no way she can collect.[/QUOTE]But she could try to collect in person if you try to see her another time. So for example if you didn't cancel timely, you owe whatever percentage she has outlined. So once you are there at appointment, you will be paying her regular rate plus whatever the percentage cancellation fee is and if you don't, she will likely terminate the session immediately. Another method could be where you buy a green dot card which doesn't, I don't think, reveal any personal information. At any rate, she's a clever girl. I'm sure she has it figured out. Besides this, most high end providers probably already have personal information on well to do clients anyway.
Please do not assume you know anything about me or MY business.
[QUOTE=GufyFosho;2623048]If you cancel on her? Who would be foolish enough to provide her with cc information? Nice try on her part, but there is no way she can collect.[/QUOTE]It's nice to see that a client thinks he knows my business.
Newsflash: you don't.
I can and do collect on 90% of my cancelled appointments and those who do not adhere to my policy are given plenty of warning that they will be publicly blacklisted.
When prospective clients contact me they are repeatedly asked and must agree to my cancellation policy before booking. It's that simple.
On another note, please refrain from comparing one provider's policies and practices to another's. This is an intimate business and every service provider is entitled to run her business how she sees fit and that is nobody's business but hers alone.
You don't like it? See someone else. It really is that damn simple.
